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It sucks when girls ignore what the large majority of their gender does and tries to convince guys that their small exception of girl peers beliefs is what really matters lol. Like, okay are you going to hook this guy up with your exceptional friends? 😂
/r/seduction13/11/25 12:14 AM
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ITs ingrained in women’s nature. You can look it up and read on it. And youre right, it shouldn’t make sense but when you understand the biological factors, then it does.
/r/seduction13/11/25 12:12 AM
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If you take her out for a coffee first date and she gets REEEALLY upset thats one sign. I mean but some girls like a nice meal and not coffee so its still up for testing. If you see all she talks about is money or materials. If she makes everything feel transactional. Deep down, you kindve know. You just need to know how to walk away.
/r/seduction12/11/25 11:33 PM
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Bro dont fall for that. Ive always been a guy who had only really 1 or 2 fwb and the rest were gfs. Girls are likely ALWAYS going to trump your body count. Dont try to shoot for numbers, shoot for quality. Girls could sleep with a bum or troll of a guy or a chad but it takes absolutely no real skill other than being where the guy who fucked them was. Have your roster of women be quality ones that will contribute to your self-worth. Its not worth dealing with “as many women as possible” when you …
/r/seduction11/11/25 12:06 PM
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You dont
/r/seduction11/11/25 12:01 PM
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I was reading the other comments and wanted to jump in. In a way, you were bothered because of sense of “entitlement”. Hurt ego and leaving without saying good bye when she was a female friend? Nah homie. I get youre pride was hurt but DEFINITELY dont ever do your pride that dirty. Especially if you ever plan to deal with that chick again, you never show youre bothered. Also, dont ever do the tit for tat, trying to steal her from another guy. You shouldve sought out other chicks bro. But lets sa…
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:02 AM
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You need to up your wardrobe and banter. Its best to have a bio that presents your out to hang and meet people. Then chat and find peoples interests. Ask them if they could put you on to any spots Also have a spot in mind you say “Ive been waiting for the right company to go to xyz” If you have KBBQ most girls havent went and its cheap comparatively
/r/seduction22/10/25 05:02 AM
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Sometimes theyre bots You might have said something off putting Gotta give more context tho
/r/seduction22/10/25 03:03 AM
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I have a gf that pays towards me and I pay towards her. There out there, but its easier to find them when youre older. Im late 20s👍🏾
/r/seduction17/10/25 09:48 AM
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Live life, get into as much different things possible to build character and find what you’re natural at. Either intellectual conversation or funny conversation. Or passionate, just fill your life with things and become comfortable and practice talking to everyone and more often. Then you can shift into the sexual building which can come pretty easy if they already find you interesting and hopefully good looking.
/r/seduction13/10/25 01:52 PM
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Is this in person or dating apps?
/r/seduction13/10/25 01:42 PM
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Dayum didn’t know this was a thing for guys. Just act exactly the same way you would with a lil buzz and get after it
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:56 PM
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So, its like this, women swear they want a guy thats 6 ft but I think most of them are unaware that the 5’10 is a decent height compared to their own. Tall might be relative but if a girl sees a guy in person they have to look up at, they assume about 6ft. Especially if she thinks hes attractive. All im saying is, you should know girls minds have constant factors that rip, run and flip around in their heads. And v shape and booty meat is not about to have them chasing you down solely lmao. But a…
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:50 PM
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In the US, height is a big factor and usually it is worldwide especially with people in their 20s. But the point I was making for guys is, as they know, its always going to be more than just “build your body this way”. I was a personal trainer and its very few that can achieve the v shape. if its not in your body type, its not happening. So I dont condone pushing that narrative. But I genuinely dont condone pushing the “workout for women” narrative. Because most guys arent close to 6ft so they a…
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:17 PM
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Beyond what? All you probably have is a magic ball and no balls. Whats your advice sir?
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:58 PM
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Ok that explains things. Hes 5’11 and shoes makes him around 6ft.
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:56 PM
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How tall is your friend? Because more than anything, this is what trumps it for women.
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:38 PM
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I meaaaaaaan 😂
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:37 PM
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This doesn’t apply to me. I have a v shape and I also have always had to put the work in. Every guy knows he needs to get in the gym. Youre focusing on glutes and from your own perspective, which you have many blinders you are unaware of because you cant see the forest through the trees. You can tell your buddy how to get YOU because you already are into him. But if he were a rando and had the physical features you described, it wouldn’t have the same effect on you because the way your feeling h…
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:47 AM
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They all find different stuff attractive. The key will always be look whatever makes you feel the most confident in your body. Dont workout to get women. It can help but ive seen skinny guys fair better in getting women. She only thinks so highly of this guy (who he even admitted doesnt get many matches) because she knows him personally…
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:49 AM
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Have you seen guys do squats? Have you seen guys do deadlifts? Have you seen guys do any hip hinge movement or heavy farmers walks or carries? All of that trains glutes…….. I have big glutes so I know what im talking about.
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:46 AM
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The rule is dont take advice from girls on getting girls And it reigns true over and over 😂
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:44 AM
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Bro, please dont ever listen to women about how to get women. I had a girl once tell me to “drive to this girls school (she was a senior(18F), I(19F) graduated the prior year) and surprise her with flowers. She was already showing signs of feeling me. But was The girl was ridiculous and even though we both straight up agreed to be fwb and she knew I didnt want a relationship but she still asked questions like “What if I catch feelings?” I said well im not really ready for a relationship, she sai…
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:44 PM
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Its not manipulating someone’s emotions. Its literally seducing. Women dont want to sit there and just be asked “ypu wanna f” Very rarely do they. They enjoy a “song and dance”. Quit projecting your trauma on everyone. Go to a womens subreddit and tell them to all “Only ever want sex if directly asked”. They would not even do it even if they agreed because thats not what women like. They want someone to charm them.
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:32 PM
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The guy never said lie per se, you just dont go out the gate saying “hey im trying to fuck”. Women’s direct is different from guy’s direct. Saying”i wanna fuck” is being blunt. Saying “looking to see what happens” then when the topic of sex or relationship comes up we say “ we’re just looking for fun and see where it goes. Not interested in relationship” this is “successful direct”. Women dont like direct unless theyre already actively in that mode. Which usually women want to be put in that mod…
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:38 PM
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Lmaooo “thats why youre here trying to figure out how to get laid” B word WHY ARE YOU HERE 😂😂😂. I came to answer questions.
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:09 PM
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Oh me personally, I have no problems. Im very honest. But what I want aligns with “escalating”. I stop where they stop. And I only start with a little flirting and touching if I see they like it. But every girl ive planed to have sex, I let them know “I have sex.” With the tone of, this is not one of those wait six months fellas youve come across. Im in a very happy relationship btw.
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:08 PM
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She is why you cant ask women for dating advice on women 😂😂
/r/seduction05/10/25 07:51 PM
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Women honestly dont like the illusion ruined. They want an act but I think it gets to a point where you dont compleeetley lie. Its honestly rare girls are ahead of what they actually want. You can only be upset they arent more straightforward
/r/seduction05/10/25 07:50 PM
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Everyone said some good stuff here. Id add dont put any specific preference. Just kindve give the vibe your down to meet people and vibe. Have a simple but interesting bio. Honestly, if you have nice assets and features the ladies like, display a chill but still interesting personality on your bio. Leave whether or not you smoke out Leave you drink “occasionally”. I think you might want to leave the preference out to “looking for-“ Just to broaden options and work on game. I was actually on thei…
/r/seduction05/10/25 07:48 PM
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Every apps experience will also depend on where you live.
/r/seduction04/10/25 11:36 AM
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Youre asking me “how to do so but they are suggesting you just text”? PM me cause my advice does not need any distractions lol. Let me know when you do
/r/seduction30/09/25 11:31 PM
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It’s helpful to always video call if you can
/r/seduction30/09/25 07:46 AM
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No, it took me til 18 and asking a girl to prom to get a gf then getting a kiss.
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:42 PM
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All these people liked your comment but lmao thats a red flag you couldnt see a person every day and enjoy it
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:35 AM
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No dude If she’s intentionally looking for his stuff, it coooild be a red flag. Not necessarily that she isnt over him, but not over the past. I had a ex who alllll of her past situations blinded her to ours and she definitely did everything she hated they did to her, to me. Just keep your eyes open. It can be normal since its 3 months for her to be still checking in because people can be vain and nosey especially girls. Just DONT let her stress you out…but that goes for anything. If you ever fe…
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:34 AM
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This is literally me rn All these possibilities just opened up, my small set of friends are becoming more mature and stable and always have been fun, i have a girl who i can be honest affectionate and kiss on but just hang out mainly and im about to have a chick who wants just sex and isnt all possessive. My creativity is at its peak, i have time for hobbies, im back to wanting to workout. ALL WHILE SINGLE, FREE AND ABOUT TO START A NEW JOB SO LOADS MORE MONEY AND ME TIME. I was damn near a wrec…
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:15 PM
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BRO I NEEEEVER LIKED THEM I just went through with it 20-22 thinking id at LEAST find ONE i could hang with and have sex with for a bit It gets veeeery ridiculous early on, feeling like youre “proving” yourself. I literally banned myself from them. I literally go around now after being out of long term relationships seeing women EYE FUCKING ME lol. Women I wouldnt have thought wouldve. Also women like meatier guys dont be fooled i hear it alll the time
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:26 AM
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Idg my first gf til 18 Imma late bloomer Trust me, its worth it. Take time to understand yourself now so you dont end up like all those people who are running around oblivious in life Im serious dude
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:06 AM
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Lol this just posted https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/s74lbb/height_doesnt_matter_as_much_as_some_of_you_think/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:03 AM
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In all honesty You dont want girls who follow sheep mentality Because some of them would like a guy youre height But if its ALLLL of them, the rest are just following the crowd
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:02 AM
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Imma tell you wyd, you feel all the Michael jordan “And I took it personally “ And you grind hard into a superstar And make ALL THOSE HOES regret
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:01 AM
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Dress real good, smell real good, go out ALOT Eventually one will Or theyll give you the “YOU COULD FUCK ME IF YOU WANTED TO” eyes
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:50 AM
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That honestly isnt good practice for someone you’d actually like Youd treat them differently subconsciously
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:46 AM
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The real truth is Get out more and look for girls giving you fuck me eyes Approach and follow your own flow Let loose and just say the least amount possible Find girls you actually flow with Dont waste time on those who force u to go against the current
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:14 PM
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Hes right Its hard to admit we put too much thought into this stuff and girls love guys who give off an authentic idgaf vibe. I recently had a convo with a chick on reddit that i will link so you can see https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/s2n90g/im_uncertain_about_my_feelings_help/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:22 PM
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Yeah that was a very cringey convo but she sounds like she has the brain of a pre teen too so its a match made in heaven 😂
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:20 PM
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Its more about it being easier and more flexible lol Just hold down your fort and kick greedy bitches out
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:50 AM
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…wtf Wtf
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:49 AM
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What career Im 24 and sooo ready
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:47 AM
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I want to make sure since you said guys your age arent into you to say, many men your age are very shy or insecure about cold approaches. Im sure if you show a bit of interest you will find someone. As for older guys, they can be the same but don’t expect because he doesn’t say he is married or has a wedding ring on, that youll know. These guys have yeaaars of swindling exp if they are the player type. Dont let ANY guy ANY age use you up. Its ok to have sex but dont get your feelings involved WH…
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:08 AM
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Youre in for a woooorld of hurt. Do NOT get dragged into some guy who is married (because you will have those) and do not plan to actually have him be considerate to you. I feel you have a very skewed view of this and this is your virginity. This is something people cant help but look back on and you dont want those problems. If you just like older men, go right ahead they are READY. Just dont expext any reaaal anything. They really just want to sex you. And you will be one of many girls they fi…
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:30 AM
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Ok can I say something You think you are old enough But youre not old enough to know much rn 40s DOES NOT mean experience. Theyre are many men who have been virgins for very long or never learned how to really have good sex (why do you think theyre are so many women unhappy with sex in marriages ) What you NEED is someone who understands you are a virgin and can take time with that. You dont have to go muuuch older. 20s is fine but its still a matter of finding someone who knows how to give plea…
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:25 AM
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Im gonna tell you what to do fr fr Because it seems like youre vague Say, “I have been wanting to go out and wanted some company. Are you down?” If she says no Walk fr and fine someone else
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:06 AM
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You dragged on kindve long pretty much saying the same thing buuuut Guys NEED TO HEAR THIS. Sadly im in a headspace where ik I need to be mainly focused on me like before but my life took so many brutal hurts and also now im single after a stressful relationship, Im just trying to regain clarity. But I always knew what you speak, is facts.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:48 AM
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The girls who are turned off are definitely reading these comments rn..SHOW YOURSELF AND EXPLAIN 😂
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:08 AM
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It honestly depends on the girl But seriously its a red flag and unhealthy if she isn’t comfortable with you having emotions Dont fall for that bs Ive had a girlfriend and we cried for each other quite a bit
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:06 AM
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Bro these dudes 😂
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:56 AM
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