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You need a therapist. You have self-esteem issues that can't be resolved over reddit. Looked over your recent post history, it's just you whining and talking about how you can't succeed because of a bunch of reasons. You either move past that and build a better life or you stay on the path of being miserable and failing. Up to you. I honestly don't care because I'm not you, but it might be important to you. Whatever.
/r/seduction15/04/19 05:58 PM
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Get a therapist.
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:20 PM
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I found anti-depressants (SSRI's) didn't hurt my sex drive or erections, but made me last for a very long time. The ultimate early-ejaculation treatment plan.
/r/seduction15/04/19 02:52 PM
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/r/seduction15/04/19 02:48 PM
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You are probably not escalating enough, as the guy below said. If she's bringing wine to your house and has already sucked your dick, she wants to fuck you. 99% certain. You probably didn't make it happen and got stuck in some sort of romance mode, where you tried to wine and dine her instead of moving to have sex with her. This explains why she's cooled on you, you just aren't having sex with her. She was in a state where she wanted it, came over to your house with wine, and you were so focused…
/r/seduction15/04/19 12:47 PM
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That's why you need the social skills and game side of things. Work on your social skills. Join a club or two, go out 3-4 nights a week to some sort of mixed group thing (can be a martial arts club, a sports team, art class, improv class, whatever). Once you can do that consistently and easy its time to learn actual game, so read the mystery method.
/r/seduction15/04/19 12:41 PM
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It's impossible to do all these thing and be a "1-2 out of ten in looks" You need a therapist. You have self-esteem issues that can't be resolved over reddit.
/r/seduction15/04/19 12:39 PM
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To the guys whining about how this is all about looks, here are some things you can do to vastly improve your looks: 1) Get yourself in good shape. Lose weight if you need to, then add muscle. You don't need to look like a bodybuilder or have an extreme six pack (most women don't prefer those builds), but just be generally low fat with higher muscle. Go to /r/fitness for help, there are tons of guides. 2) Learn to groom yourself. Figure out if you can/should have a beard or not. Shave every day,…
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:23 PM
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Some points 1) Don't take advice from friends or women. They don't know what they're doing, and women in particular give horrible advice - they have no idea how to date women. 2) When dealing with relationships, at a certain point you do have to put aside the games. For a casual relationship, it's fine, but for a real relationship, you don't want to be faking it because a) she'll find out eventually and b) you want to be desired for who you are. That said, small things like learning not to be su…
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:05 PM
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I texted something about Coachella this evening at about 9:15 CT and haven’t heard back. YIKES. Gotta agree with xen911, she basically said "I'll contact you if I care to" and you sent another text. Not trying to shame you but that's something to learn from.
/r/seduction14/04/19 02:58 PM
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Force yourself to do things for 6 months or so and you might find them interesting. Not everything is "I really want to do this!" at the start, in fact for a lot of things people are passionate about, if you asked them you might find that they were actually uninterested when they started but were forced to do it for some reason. I suggest committing to something for 6 months, taking an active role in it, etc. Going to an art show, for example, is going to be boring because you don't know or care…
/r/seduction13/04/19 02:16 PM
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Even if some men enjoy being submissive in the dynamic, that doesn't mean all do, and that also doesn't mean that what turns them on in the bedroom is how they are on a day to day basis. It's an inherently submissive dynamic, which is my point. All men are submissive when they act as a cuckold. And yes, I agree they can be completely dominant outside of that situation, but the situation itself is still incredibly submissive. What I wanted to say, and my only point here, is that cuckolds are subm…
/r/seduction13/04/19 12:38 PM
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3 flakes in a row? I know conventional PUA wisdom is to pretend it's no big deal and that you had a great time doing other stuff, but at this point you gotta stand up for yourself. Sounds like you did the right thing. edit: This is your crush, ouch. Time to move on, sorry man. There's a slim chance she is interested and is just super busy, given that she's constantly rescheduling the date, but at 3 times you were right to say "no more planning ahead with you". It's out of your control how she ac…
/r/seduction13/04/19 01:02 AM
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Given that the youtube video was posted 3 days ago and has less than 100 views, you probably know the person who is dancing. You posted it with the intention of embarrassing them. It also has zero value for seduction.
/r/seduction13/04/19 01:00 AM
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This seems like a bullying post and has no value for seduction. edit: OP is spamming about 20 subreddits with the same video.
/r/seduction12/04/19 11:35 PM
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edit: Removed some snark, wrote a real reply. I agree with most everything you wrote except for the non-submissive element of being a cuckold. Deriving pleasure from anther man taking and fucking your woman (however you want to define "your") is the ultimate act of submissiveness to another man. It is beyond everything else. The only thing greater might be for the other guy to take you against your will. I agree with the rest, and would never want to be in a cuckold situation (unless I'm the oth…
/r/seduction12/04/19 11:20 PM
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Oh yeah, I read about that in his book. I thought he did it in his apartment though.
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:15 PM
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Source? Never heard of this one.
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:14 PM
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Why is this getting upvoted? This is /r/seduction, wanting to have sex with women is the primary reason that this sub exists. Working to get over your desire for sex is pretty much the opposite goal of this subreddit. Try /r/asexual.
/r/seduction05/04/19 05:11 AM
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Ask them if they want grandchildren or not. Tell them that if you don't develop your skills with women, you'll never be able to get married to a quality woman and give them the grandchildren they want. Seriously though, just do it privately and move out. When you get to the point where you are going to have sex, tell the girl you live with your parents (understandable at your age) and ask to go to her place. Tell her your parents are really judgemental and controlling. Most women will understand…
/r/seduction05/04/19 05:08 AM
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I think Tyler is really good at reading social situations and understanding the social dynamics (no pun intended). He's able to control guys not through intimidating them but through controlling the situation so that if the guy got violent, he'd look like an idiot in front of his friends and most importantly the girls. He's also smart enough to know when a guy is not going to care at all either. In an old in-field video of him he's at a private house party, talking to a girl in a side room, and …
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:08 PM
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They get into altercations and kicked out of clubs all the time. Source? But yes I agree with avoiding altercations like this. A big part of game is learning the dynamics of the group (who is single, who is not), and then getting a basic level of approval from the group. In other words, you don't just wander over to a group of 4 girls and 4 guys and start talking to the most attractive woman. You open the entire group, talk with the guys for a minute or two, ask them how they all know each other…
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:02 PM
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The flip side is that the men largely view the women as "look good for me." Men want looks in women. Women want confidence, status and entertainment in men. The women are therefore putting in their side of the conversation in just looking good. That's their part of the deal, at least if they just want casual sex.
/r/seduction03/04/19 04:24 PM
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Could be anything. Could be how she talks to everyone. Could be she wants to emphasize that you are only friends. Could be her flirting with you because she's into you. Could be she reads fantasy novels and her favorite protagonist from some medieval fantasy series greets everyone with "hi friend!". Who knows. In other words, forget about it as you can't possibly decipher any meaning from it reliably.
/r/seduction29/03/19 10:55 PM
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She got on top of me and we continued until I started to lift her shirt. she stopped, obviously embarrassed, and told me she was nervous and scared and that she “didn’t feel cute.” I think you misread her. She said she didn't feel cute, i.e. she thought you wouldn't be attracted to her naked body. You responded by saying you wouldn't want her to do anything you would be uncomfortable with. She wanted to be reassured that you'd find her attractive, which you didn't do.
/r/seduction29/03/19 07:04 PM
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Get a psychologist and work through your issues. You're clearly very angry at women and simultaneously desperate for their approval, resulting in this weird post. Here's how a healthy person would phrase this: "Hey guys, I went on a date with a girl and she seems to not really care about my texts and takes a long time to respond. What is going on, and how can I improve myself (and my game) so that I don't have to deal with this in the future? What did I do wrong?"
/r/seduction20/03/19 08:24 PM
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FYI for people reading this, OP has stated that she's gay (and therefore is trying to date women). That's going to affect everyone's answers.
/r/seduction20/03/19 08:20 PM
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Get over it. You messaged her, she wasn't interested (which is completely acceptable), move on. Rejection happens.
/r/seduction19/03/19 06:02 PM
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Develop your social skills in the male dominated environment. Social skills are social skills. Learning to be assertive (not a pushover), authentic (not faking who you are), and emotionally aware can be practiced in male-only environments. These skills will help you succeed in mixed groups, in business, with family, etc. Social skills like this are universally important. Work on the man-to-woman specific stuff when you are with women. But that's only a small part of your overall social skills. H…
/r/seduction19/03/19 05:57 PM
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I'm not awkward with women and I don't need any dumb "techniques" like you're suggesting, this is completely a philosophical difference in opinion. I wasn't speaking about you in particular, but rather with regards to learning pickup (or success with women) in general, with the Models framework vs traditional pickup teaching. You seem pretty set in your ways and uninterested in what I'm saying so I'll let you go here, but I'll leave you with a closing idea: if you find yourself not making as goo…
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:59 PM
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You may be showing interest in non verbal ways. This makes things really creepy, as you're indicating interest by saying peeking at them quickly and looking away, but also not talking to them. It's just weird and creepy.
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:32 PM
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I mean that's just not true though, he's fucked 100's of girls (at least he says he does, I don't think he lies) and he has indeed been a dating coach for a while. He doesn't have any credibility within the pickup scene with people who teach and go out. Nobody is teaching his stuff in boot camps, nobody is mass trying it out. Most people who try his stuff talk about how great they feel, but not about results. I like some of his stuff, but it's more theorycrafting than anything else - it's not be…
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:21 PM
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Models is written by a guy who doesn't have much experience himself and never taught anybody else. It's not a proven to work system. It's what people want pick-up to be, rather than what actually works. People read it because it makes them feel good. It's a lot better than nothing, but it's also not great. You're right in that this story is an entire contradiction of Models, where Mark Manson makes it clear that he thinks pickup strategies don't work. In the Models world, this pickup technique o…
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:29 PM
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