TopFourDefenseman Archive

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1	Q4All: At what age do women meet/start dating their future husband nowadays, in your general estimation? The average man and woman is generally figuring out the person they are going to be from age 18-24. From 22-24 they're likely to have started heading in a specific direction. From here is where an important distinction comes into play: 1) High population density urbanites. 2) Everyone else. If you live in the city, you will find more options for partners and life experiences. Therefore, city slickers tend to settle down when they feel they've "lived" enough to settle down. For the rest of the co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/17 04:20 AM
1	Personal accounts of Chad-pass? (cause look, rimming is not that pleasant for anyone, tbh). Some people find it pleasant...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/17 04:11 AM
1	Issues with TRP The distinction between the two lies in the psychology motivating the hypergamy. In RP, men are capable of hypergamous actions, but have the ability to consider the rationality of it and make intentional hypergamous decisions. Women, to RP, are biologically programmed to be hypergamous and retroactively apply (in RP ideology) flawed logic to justify any hypergamous act after committing it (called "Hamstering"). Men aren't hypergamous because they can choose not to be. Women are hypergamous becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/17 04:03 AM
3	Any way you would take back your wife who had an affair? Marriage is an agreement to be loyal. That's why a husband expects loyalty.	/r/askMRP	22/01/17 08:36 PM
4	Mental Self Sufficiency For some it can be a tool used for limited purposes, but for most it's an endless distraction factory. I started practicing "mental modeling" every morning to draft a script of how my day should go. I plan my work, consider the challenges, then see that I carry it out. I plan it to exclude idleness where phone distractions fill the gap. It makes you mindful of the smartphone distractions when they sneak in because dicking around isn't in the fucking script. I still make good use of my phone. I t…	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/01/17 07:08 PM
3	Because why can't we be the ones to laugh at subreddit drama too? Deadbedrooms and TBP get into a spat. To TBP, the red pill has not been tested and found lacking, but rather tested and found difficult and thus quickly abandoned. These men want to be reassured that "true love" will not only ignore their many faults and laziness, but rather see them as gifts to be valued. Lifting is hard. Gaming your girl is hard. Discipline is hard. Establishing a social life is hard. Proper dieting is hard. But spending all their free time playing video games "develops multitasking skills." Watching Netflix all n…	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/01/17 06:24 PM
3	Pornography use and "addiction" (x-post from TRP) Honestly? Nothing sends a man down the blue pill, beta bitch path quite like porn does. Why lift, wake up early, gain culture, and improve your game when your wife won't fuck you until you're already fit? Why care then if this porn actress is giving it to me when I want it? No.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/16 08:18 PM
2	STFU and you Was in the same boat, what helps is knowing that the world doesn't give a fuck about you. No one sees you do that and feels they owe you the same courtesy. No one is considering your wants or needs, why would they? Life kept shitting on me for years while I kicked rocks and took it with a full nice guy martyr complex. It took piecing things together. Realities like how my wife doesn't really love me or want to fuck me and my inept bosses habitually abusing my kindness and skill to crush me down …	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/12/16 11:22 PM
2	Husband's Work Drama Just off apparently.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/12/16 11:01 PM