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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Custody What exactly does you order say about it? If the order says you get the 5th weekend and it counts Friday then normally the day is yours.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/26 10:21 PM
2	Wife left w/kids (separation?) If her mother lives further away, you have 6 months until the new location is consider residency and you become an every other weekend parent if the distance is too great.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/26 03:02 AM
4	Don't know what to do Just because she doesn’t want to be with you doesn’t mean she is not going to want to be with someone else someday. That would be even more difficult when she’s bringing another man to the house or get serious and then you have to face all the stuff you’re avoiding now. Running from a storm while it’s coming towards means you will have to suffer longer but running towards the storm means suffering will be not as dragged out and the storm will pass.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/26 09:41 AM
2	How to deal with the tension and anxiety of an upcoming divorce? I would say first don’t go straight negative because that’s going to put you in the wrong headspace. Figure out your support network and know what you realistically can do with the kids as far as custody. Most states Lena heavy towards 50/50 especially after a divorce. Protect yourself don’t yell or raise your vice at her just to avoid the protective or restraining order tactic. You will have to be strong for the kids, maybe therapy and I would recommend taking a coparenting course to get that o…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/26 01:24 PM
5	What if something happens to me when my kid is with me? I’ve had this fear with my two kids and so I’ve been precautions in place like my mother has a key to my place and knows if she doesn’t hear from me every so often and I didn’t tell her otherwise then something may be off. Also, got my parenting schedule where if I don’t show up for an exchange I’m sure my ex will call the cops thinking she can get me in trouble. It’s about setting up plans and also now thinking about the worse. For example, I don’t know why I have a fear of slipping getting out…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/26 05:34 AM
2	First parenting discussion after separation turned into a mess. Need honest advice Just wanted to add anything you agree to or get puts in the order may not be so easy to change later without a significant change in circumstance for the kids. If there’s no real reason for you not to have overnights I wouldn’t agree to that. At some point they will have to adjust but if you try later then she can use the argument of the kids are doing fine without overnight or status quo. Address things like split medical cost, rotating holidays, summer time and schedule, and access to school a…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/26 04:06 PM

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