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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Height for a guy actually matters? Yeah most young women care .	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 08:47 AM
–	Why are men with money seen as very attractive for women? Financially stable people are attractive, whether they’re men or women. They usually have less financial stress and drama, they often take better care of themselves because money gives them more opportunities, and they simply have more options in life. Why wouldn’t that be attractive? For a woman who wants children, having a financially stable partner can also mean more security and less stress about balancing motherhood with a full-time career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 12:45 AM
–	Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms? Men’s public restrooms are dirty as fuck. Stop lying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 07:14 AM
–	How should a female navigate a situation where the man is smaller than average Welcome to the real world. There are plenty of women who are into big dicks, just like there are plenty of men who are into big boobs and butts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 04:46 PM
4	Sex isn’t special. Men definitely tend to want sex more than women. Experience doesn’t necessarily change that. You can find plenty of men in their 60s with decades of experience who are still actively chasing sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 08:41 PM
16	Do women value past investment into a relationship? And do they feel relationship nostalgia? Park walks are dates too, and they can be special. I never said it has to be expensive restaurants or luxury vacations. You're just assuming women are that materialistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 02:13 PM
29	Do women value past investment into a relationship? And do they feel relationship nostalgia? It’s not about a dopamine boost. It’s about showing your partner that you still care and want to make them happy. Plan dates, go out together, take vacations, or set aside special days for each other. It all comes down to one thing: showing that you care and are willing to put effort into the relationship. It’s not just a man’s job. It’s both partners’ responsibility!! It’s a team work. If you stop putting effort into your relationship, the romance will eventually disappear and you will be more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 02:08 PM
1	Are men who gossip or make fun of others generally considered attractive to women? Hell no . At least not for me .	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 01:55 PM
7	A lot of the things that red pillers attribute to "female nature" are just them not respecting average numales enough It highly depends on how you were raised and is closely connected to childhood as well. I was raised in a very strict, toxic household, and I tend to over apologize and over explain everything to the point that it becomes annoying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/26 02:05 AM
8	Have you ever asked yourself why the patriarchy and hypergamy exists and why were they created? It’s AI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/26 01:50 AM
–	They Know What to Say and Who to Say it To. It Depends on Where You Are on Their Value Hierarchy. Selective Preaching, Pandering and None at all. This. I don’t understand what’s going on with these men in this sub assuming they know women’s experiences with dating better than women themselves, tf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 06:21 PM
-1	What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender? Why are pissed ? Are you a douchebag ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 11:57 AM
59	It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them. Men don’t have to prove they’re good, but women don’t have to be friendly to strange men either. Women aren’t responsible for taking risks with men they know nothing about just so good men don’t feel socially rejected. Trust is earned, not owed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 06:59 PM
60	What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender? Women should stop settling for douchebags when the red flags were obvious from the start and then complain about being in a toxic relationship. Most women leave relationships far too late.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 05:32 PM
–	Reddit lacks nuance when it comes to casual sex Totally agree !	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 06:06 AM
–	Men like different types, Woman like different flavors. That’s nonsense, and you know it. Women date and marry all kinds of men. And please don’t start with the “they’re not really into their spouse” argument. At some point, you have to accept reality instead of inventing excuses every time you see evidence that contradicts your view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 08:18 PM
9	If women say they want emotional honesty and vulnerability in men, why do so many still lose attraction the moment a man actually stops pretending to be emotionally invincible ? If your partner lost attraction to you simply because you showed normal human emotions, then you chose a terrible person to date. That reflects their character, not the character of an entire gender. One person’s behavior is not evidence of how all men or all women think or feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 10:41 PM
25	Women who call themselves "baddie" are just as cringe, if not more cringe, than men who call themselves "alpha". Calling yourself an alpha is just as cringe as calling yourself a baddie. The alpha male concept is based on a debunked wolf study that even the original researcher later rejected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 09:22 AM
21	Women have ruined cold approaching You don’t understand what a cold approach is. By definition, it’s approaching a complete stranger. Your coworkers, friends, or classmates aren’t strangers, so they don’t fall under cold approaches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 02:11 PM
–	What is your take on most “cute, but not necessarily hot, looking nerdy skinny guys” have standards that are too high for women’s physical appearance? I don’t really understand your question or what point you’re trying to discuss. Everyone has different preferences and standards. There’s no universal definition of what’s “average” or “attractive” because those things are mostly subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/26 08:29 PM
2	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool No, insecure people usually don’t approach others in the first place because they already expect rejection before anything even happens. Someone who approaches people usually has enough confidence to take that step, which is something a lot of people nowadays hesitate to do. Not accepting rejection isn’t insecurity. If anything, it’s closer to narcissism or entitlement, because it comes from believing you shouldn’t be rejected at all. That’s the complete opposite of insecurity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 09:54 PM
13	Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit? Hate group ? Feminism is the reason women in many parts of the world can vote, own property, divorce abusive husbands, access education, report marital rape, open bank accounts, work without needing male permission, and exist as legal adults instead of dependents. Y’all acting like the movement is secretly evil because you dislike women Men didn’t give a flying shit when women were openly oppressed for decades, and women are still oppressed in many parts of the world today and guess what? Men ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 11:06 AM
17	Women, that defend feminists as not hateful/misandrist/biassed, have you asked them any questions on reddit? Men should stop crying about feminism. It’s honestly pathetic. A lot of you only start giving a fuck about your delusional men’s rights when it’s time to attack feminists or be misogynistic, not because you genuinely care about men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 11:01 AM
–	What would happen if all men were socially inept when it comes to interacting with women? We would do nothing because it’s not our problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 09:30 AM
5	The bare minimum is fine. Women just romanticize codependency and anxious attachment People who are happy with minimal affection or emotional involvement should date people who are similar to them. I’m not going to give a lot in a relationship to someone who doesn’t give the same energy back. And I’m not saying they’re wrong for being that way or demanding that they change outside of their comfort zone, it just means we’re incompatible and the relationship won’t work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 11:25 PM
6	The bare minimum is fine. Women just romanticize codependency and anxious attachment The bare minimum is fine if both people are genuinely happy with that dynamic and are giving the same level of effort. But telling someone who’s giving their best in a relationship that they should just accept the bare minimum in return? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 11:20 PM
4	The bare minimum is fine. Women just romanticize codependency and anxious attachment You’re missing the point. Men and women often experience and express emotional connection differently, and pretending those differences don’t exist helps no one. A lot of women naturally value reassurance, emotional closeness, affection, and consistent care in relationships. We tend to build connections through communication, emotional support, and mutual vulnerability even our friendships often revolve around that. Just compare the average female friendship dynamic to the average male friendshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 10:51 PM
–	Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claim We don’t give a fuck about rejection. Just stop calling dating “easy” for women and stop attacking women for getting rejected. There are countless comments from men being unnecessarily rude to OP while completely ignoring the entire point of the post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 06:23 PM
–	Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claim Oh really? A lot of men on here have such a uniquely passive aggressive and emotionally immature attitude, and that post proved it. They don’t even apply their own logic and standards to themselves. When a man gets rejected, suddenly it’s “it happens” and “nothing is wrong with you,” but when a woman gets rejected it’s “you must be a 4/10 aiming for a supermodel.” Stupid ass double standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 06:19 PM
–	Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claim No, men have double standards and a list of excuses for why their OWN logic suddenly shouldn’t apply to them. Fucking hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 06:11 PM
–	Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claim I’ve never been rejected by any man I approached, so cry harder. You create logic you can’t even handle when it’s applied back to you. If you’re saying that every woman who gets rejected is aiming above her league, then you also have to accept that men get rejected because they’re ugly and broke and women above their league don’t want them. Isn’t that your logic? According to you, nobody gets rejected when they approach someone “on their level.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 06:02 PM
–	Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claim According to your logic and standards, men who are constantly crying about being rejected are 2/10 on a good day. I guess ugly broke men should stop approaching women above their league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 05:54 PM
–	Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claim No, ugly broke ass men aim for women above their league, that’s why they’re getting rejected. Stop being delusional with the double standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 05:51 PM
–	Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claim Men on here are just looking for any chance to be misogynistic and tear women down. They never hold themselves to the same standards they project onto women. By their own logic, many of them are ugly and broke, which is probably why they get rejected by women , but of course they never call themselves out. Somehow it’s always women’s fault, whether women are being approached or doing the approaching themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 05:43 PM
–	Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claim Men on here call every woman “ugly” or say she’s “aiming above her league” the second a guy rejects her, yet those same men cry nonstop about how dating is supposedly so easy for women. If you’re that comfortable calling women ugly, delusional, or “above their league,” then spare everyone the constant complaints about dating. By your own logic, plenty of you are ugly, broke, and aiming far above your own level too	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 05:33 PM
7	If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating advice A few months ago .	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 01:03 PM
25	If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating advice I said it once and I’ll say it again: dating advice is useless unless you lack common sense and don’t know shit about dating. People have been repeating the same tips for decades: hit the gym, make some money, get your own place, dress well, be social, and have hobbies, etc., etc… yeah, duh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 12:49 PM
6	Basing off the 80/20 theory- for those of you in the 80% would you rather not have sex or be alone? FWBs are basically lovers who don’t want commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 06:49 PM
7	Basing off the 80/20 theory- for those of you in the 80% would you rather not have sex or be alone? Because sex is important ?! The only real difference between a friendship and a romantic relationship is sexual/physical attraction. People don’t get into relationships with someone they don’t sexually desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 06:29 PM
15	Basing off the 80/20 theory- for those of you in the 80% would you rather not have sex or be alone? If you don’t want intimacy, why not be with someone who feels the same way? There’s nothing healthy about a romantic relationship where one person constantly has to suppress their needs. Yes, sex is important and a huge deal for a lot of people. I’m a woman and I’d rather be alone than live with a man who doesn’t desire me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 04:35 PM
7	Does your husband get any special treatment (sexually) that your exes didn't have access to? Or do they all get treated equally? You clearly don’t get the point. That hole was made for shitting, so having an object there is obviously going to feel like shitting. No amount of prep is going to completely change that feeling. (The pain can be reduced, but I’m talking about the feeling itself ) If you don’t enjoy it, then you just don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 04:16 PM
11	Does your husband get any special treatment (sexually) that your exes didn't have access to? Or do they all get treated equally? There is no right way to do it. That hole was made for shitting .	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 03:53 PM
14	Does your husband get any special treatment (sexually) that your exes didn't have access to? Or do they all get treated equally? Fr I don’t understand the hype	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 03:27 PM
3	If the orgasm gap wasn’t a thing and you orgasmed every single time you slept with someone, would you increase your casual encounters more? No, I don’t do casual and I wouldn’t change my mind if the orgasm gap wasn’t a thing .	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 08:30 AM
18	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. I don’t think this man will ever get to the having kids stage anyway, not with that attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 07:02 AM
27	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. No one is forcing you to pay for anything 😂 All y’all do in this sub is complain and complain about things that are completely optional. Women are ALLOWED to have standards, and you have the right to accept them or move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 06:56 AM
–	What is the biological reason why women are visually aroused by women's bodies and lesbian sex? My god how many times this topic is going to be posted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 03:04 PM
14	Mens' sense of security with a woman does not come from the relationship These posts are getting ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/26 09:05 PM
1	When will people admit that masturbating to lesbian porn as a woman is extremely gay? Not really. Wanting someone only for their body usually doesn’t work long term, and that’s exactly why so many relationships fall apart after major life changes like pregnancy. You can literally find countless men online complaining about losing attraction to their wives after they become mothers. At the same time, there are also many good examples of men who still deeply appreciate and love their partners through all those changes because they love them as people, not just for their appearance.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 02:43 PM
2	When will people admit that masturbating to lesbian porn as a woman is extremely gay? I think you’re projecting male patterns of attraction onto women and assuming desire has to look the same in both sexes to be genuine. Women often experience attraction in a more emotional and contextual way, but that doesn’t mean they don’t genuinely desire men sexually or as a partner. Caring about connection, chemistry, or how someone makes them feel is part of attraction for many women, not proof that it’s transactional. And porn preferences are honestly a terrible metric for understanding r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 02:10 PM
1	When will people admit that masturbating to lesbian porn as a woman is extremely gay? I care about being desirable to the man I’m interested in. I don’t care if other men watch gay porn or think men are attractive that’s my point. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with discussing your feelings and opinions with your partner or someone you’re seeing. That can be a personal boundary for you, but you can’t control what other people do and you shouldn’t care about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 09:12 AM
–	I love a good hipster (just never agree) This is hilarious	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 10:30 PM
16	The women saying “Youre alone because your personality is terrible” are NOT the women actively dating terrible men. Dating apps do not magically fix things if you live in a small town where your options are limited and most people are not interested in long-distance relationships. And moving is a privilege that is not easy for a lot of younger people in this economy. Social skills also take time to develop. A lot of people become more socially confident and experienced as they get older. I’m not generalizing here, but as someone who spent years single, it actually made me more understanding of people and the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 05:32 PM
56	The women saying “Youre alone because your personality is terrible” are NOT the women actively dating terrible men. Yes, but I also wouldn’t assume people struggling to find a relationship automatically have a terrible personality either. Dating success is influenced by a lot of things besides morality or looks: timing, social skills, confidence, luck, where someone lives, their environment, and even how often they put themselves out there. Some awful people find relationships easily, and some genuinely good people stay single for years. Being partnered is not proof of good character, and being single is not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 05:00 PM
12	When will people admit that masturbating to lesbian porn as a woman is extremely gay? Why do you care so much? Lol. I really don’t care what random men watch or say. If you think men are hotter than women, then cool I don’t give a shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 11:31 AM
3	Do you fall in quickly or slowly? For me, it’s slow as fuck. I really have to know a guy well before I’m actually attracted to him or even consider approaching him. I can appreciate a good looking guy, but looks alone don’t do it for me. Charisma and character are a must.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 11:04 AM
–	Girls a question for you.. I like fit men, and I don’t mean a 10/10 muscular body, just someone who takes care of himself. Not too skinny, not too overweight, good hygiene, and a well groomed beard and hair. Other than that, I honestly don’t care much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 10:53 AM
–	Why can't women just tell men when they're unattractive? In what context exactly? If a man asked me for complete honesty, then I would tell him what I think about his looks, but randomly? Hell no. Why would I tell anyone I don’t find them attractive or that they’re ugly? I treat people the way I want to be treated, plain and simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 07:55 PM
8	If there was a button flipping the dating dynamics for Men and Woman would you press it? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 07:35 PM
2	Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours? Yes, it’s better, but personally I don’t mind either as long as the approach is respectful and genuine. I hate dating apps, so I usually meet men through shared hobbies, activities, or events I attend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 12:40 PM
–	Is it true that you find most men your age ugly? Most people are average and that’s fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/26 12:46 AM
–	What do you believe is the effort you make in your relationship(s). What value do you think you add to the man in your life? Is it comparable to what your spouse brings to the relationship? I provide emotional support and put real effort into communicating and making sure we’re both happy. I’m loyal, understanding, and easy to be with. I actually apologize when I’m wrong (believe it or not, it’s rare). I love traveling and I’m familiar with different cultures, so I’m definitely not boring. I’m fully independent, and I expect the same energy in return.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 07:34 PM
4	If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it. You shouldn’t sacrifice anything for casual, meaningless sex that will leave you feeling empty the next day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 03:17 PM
6	I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pill I honestly don’t think dating advice does much either way. There are just too many variables. People figure out what works for them through experience, and that’s also how they get to know themselves better. I don’t mind people sharing their experiences, but what works for you won’t always work for someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 05:26 PM
2	It’s not possible to use a woman for sex It’s possible to use both women and men for sex. Lying, leading someone on, or manipulating them just to sleep with them isn’t dating, it’s just using them. It shows a lack of respect and honesty. Believe it or not, people still lie about their intentions, their feelings, and how they perceive you just because they’re horny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 02:32 PM
1	People shouldn't pity men for their unrealistic expectations Social media creates and reinforces unrealistic expectations for both men and women in dating, distorting how people view interactions and attraction. As a society, we need to spend less time online and more time engaging with people in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 12:57 PM