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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Intense trust issues, should I cut it off? If she likes male attention and can't conrol herself its a matter of time until you get hurt. If you want to continue seeing her don't get emotionally attached. Never date over multiple days or you will get attached and it will take weeks to get unattached. I would suggest invest your energy in other women. By the way: In my opinion it's good you think about this. You got hurt in the past, ok. But your mind tells you something is off. And I agree, I would feel the same. So be proud you can sense…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 10:00 PM
13	She Asked for a "Pause" After 3 Dates and a Great Vibe—Now I’m Stuck Thinking About Her. Am I Overthinking This? Yes, overthinking She doesn't want to date you anymore, right?	/r/seduction	31/05/25 02:22 PM
-1	[M33] Hypothetically, does friendzoning a girl after making out or more work? Huh, did you check the subreddit you are posting in? Go sleep with her	/r/seduction	20/05/25 10:15 AM
6	Guys did I ignore red flags? I disagree, politely. OP the Girl was full of red flags and was a stress factor to your life. There are much better girls out there.	/r/seduction	13/05/25 02:25 PM
4	Is casual dating still a socially acceptable pastime for older guys in the States? Is it socially acceptable to post on reddit? Is it socially acceptable to play videogames? Is it socially acceptable to be a marvel fan? Is it socially acceptable.... Who should care besides you. Act according to your desires Go out and you tell us if it's socially acceptable	/r/seduction	09/05/25 10:43 AM
10	How to overcome feeling you're too good for approaching? It's just how approach anxiety manifests in you. You should realize you have AA and you feeling superior is just your easy way out.	/r/seduction	02/03/25 10:17 PM
66	I’m a dumbass and somehow fell for this girl on the first date Be happy it happend. I met so many women in the past year and none of them triggered me like the one did for you. So what is the result for you? What is the take away? There are women you really like. You will find them and with strong game you will keep them. Date sounded good but I also would avoid long distance. So I can understand her. Stay strong	/r/seduction	25/12/24 12:44 AM
5	Approached the gym employee I don't understand what is wrong with these people. Good job with the approach. If your approach was nice and charming then it probably even made her happy and desired. The people in the comments sometimes just assumes the worst possible scenario	/r/seduction	27/08/24 01:31 PM
28	I 26M is in a FWB relationship with my colleague 25F. Now she wants to distance. What to do? Sorry but what the fuck	/r/seduction	01/06/24 06:16 PM
3	I had a unexpeted hook up and I feel bad about it Should I feel bad for myself? Well first of all you should realize some things She matched you on hinge because she thought you are hot She wanted to meet you before she left town to sleep with you. She made the plan before you even had it in mind She met you in person and thought you are hot You did well, you had nice chemistry and you slept with eachother If I see it like this, she liked you, you liked her back. I would see this as a big ego boost and success. Reading your post I think she gam…	/r/seduction	22/04/24 02:02 PM
21	I forgot how to escalate or be touching during dates I actually have the same. I think the best advice is: break touch barrier early (hug her when greeting) and eastablish being a 'touchy guy'. I mean you can pratice every day with your male friends, coworkers, etc. Of course don't be creepy about it, it's obvious. But that's what kino is about: know when to touch and when to not touch. It's one of the skills you can pratice in any social interaction. You will improve fast. I also got better	/r/seduction	21/04/24 02:45 PM
1	Be normal. I love this post. You sound like what this sub used to be.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 03:37 PM
3	Are we overthinking? Will you die of you do it or will you learn from it ? If you learn then why not just do it? So yes you are overthiking. The longer you think about an approach the less likely you are going to do it. AA grows over time. But you already know that answer. Why do you make a thread like this instead of approaching, failing and growing ? What is your excuse	/r/seduction	21/11/20 12:48 AM
81	When dating never focus on other girls rip this sub	/r/seduction	25/10/20 11:40 AM
1	Girl is losing interest... due to the fact that I generally have nothing to say do something you can tell her about	/r/seduction	31/01/18 07:16 PM
1	Virtual Relationship vs Real Life. Did I make mistakes? Is it over? Should I dry my eyes m8? Hi my dude, I'm slightly older than you but experienced with women. Had my ups and downs and practiced seduction for many years. I'm just stating my opinions here. And I'll be straight forward. I'm a virgin. Yes, I used the dreaded term already as if it is a defining feature like the colour of my hair. You know what my opinion is on this without me needing to say it. Just don't care about it too much my dude. So what you're 23 and didn't stick your penis into a vagina. No big deal. At least you'…	/r/seduction	25/01/18 06:35 PM
8	How do I improve my conversational skills? Hey I hope I understood you correctly. You're asking why practicing, i.e. making tons of approaches / having lots of conversation makes you better? The answer is: it doesn't It's only one step of 4. Only if you combine all 4 you will get improvement as a result. To get slightly technical you need the following aspects: A goal - Imagine how the perfect you would look like. You want to be able to talk forever, be more sexual, be more funny? etc. Imagine yourself in the situation where you think "t…	/r/seduction	01/07/17 12:16 PM
1	Form check idea You mean something like a Field Report?	/r/seduction	22/02/16 09:42 PM
1	FR: Small victory with things I learned Hey dude, nice FR. Congrats on your success. I really like your "todo-list" I can tell you put a lot of tought into the whole action. Keep it up. I have to disagree with your "less explanation" point, though. I think explaining is the best way to do it. Whenever I get a number I explain why I get the number. I always state my intent when I get a number. In your case, well, looking for "friends" is not the worst thing you could've said but there's many better things to say :).	/r/seduction	22/02/16 09:40 PM
2	How often should one nightgame? I recommend seven doses of nightgame and three doses of daygame a week to keep up the feeling of state. Jokes aside, I think you're the only one who can answer this question. It really depends on your spending and where you live. I am from a country where you can easily go out twice a week and only spend 15€ if you don't buy drinks in the club. If you can't afford going out you either daygame more or get another job. Protip#1: Don't buy drinks for girls. Protip#2: Don't get wasted in the club. I…	/r/seduction	03/02/16 11:51 AM