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Don't waste your time or her time. Only go on dates you're actually interested in.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:39 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:23 PM
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I think you're making the common mistake of assuming 'attractiveness' is an unalterable physical quality. There are many things a man can do to become more attractive, that also directly benefit their lives in non-sexual ways. Work to build an attractive life. Cultivate friendships and community. Pursue hobbies and a career you are passionately interested in. Practice empathy, compassion, and generosity. Set and live up to the standards for yourself. Know and communicate your own boundaries. Do …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:44 PM
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I'm sure there is a lot of variation to these answers so I'll just answer for myself. ​ How important are sexual compatibility, and "good bedroom skills" relative to other qualities (looks, personality, family background, finances, future plans, etc) in a potential long term partner? Compatibility is the key word here. What make great sex great arises from the connection between me and my partner and not from any particular manual maneuver. Don't try to learn sex skills from pornography. Those a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:30 PM
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Don't move in with him unless you're married. I am a man, I have had girlfriends who I asked to move in with me for financial reasons who I wasn't sure if I wanted to spend my life with. I feel bad for wasting her time, but her time is wasted. A man who wants to marry you knows that he loves you for you and not just your looks. A boyfriend might still be trying to figure out if he likes you enough to commit, but if you live together then it's way harder for you to find someone who does like you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:10 PM
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I am currently engaged to a woman who is way out of my league. Sometimes I don't know why she's with me. But here are some thoughts: I have been consistently shown myself to be attracted to her. Our social circles intersected enough that I hit on her consistently for ~15 years, starting when we were in different high schools, then different colleges, then lived in different states. But they didn't intersect enough that I saw her enough for it to seem obsessive (even though it kinda was, lol). Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:04 PM
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