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| 6 | First time trying to socialize in Miami (volleyball meetup to nightlife) and I accidentally burned $2400 at a strip club. Lessons learned.Well at least you learned your lesson. Have fun with real people in real life. | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Job Hunting Has Made It Very Difficult to DateYou sound far more stressed than you need to be. Are you working out regularly? Can you get any shitty job, not the one you actually want, to get your kind off it? There should always be some minimum wage junk job to at least get out of the house talking to people | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 01:44 PM |
| 66 | First time trying to socialize in Miami (volleyball meetup to nightlife) and I accidentally burned $2400 at a strip club. Lessons learned.How does that even happen man? Isnt there a point where you're getting hundreds out of your wallet and thinking maybe I just need to walk out of the club instead? I did get a bit fleeced by a gold digger I'll admit... a 45yo vietnamese/French milf with the greatest body ive ever seen / She pretty much told me "I need a man to show he can support me" but I didn't realise that was going to mean $90 lunches (and more) with just enough play to make me keep spending. The sad part is once I got her in… | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 01:39 PM |
| 1 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?China, people will literally run up to take selfies with you or start videoing you. Girls will giggle and whisper. Lots of them are very health conscious and like hiking etc too. Worth a trip there. Not sure how much the plane ticket costs for you. But hotels are $30 and food is $4 so really its probably cheaper to be on holiday there than it is to live at home. Thailand also to a lesser extent, but they are more about money. Not saying you should start shopping for asian brides but if you want … | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 01:39 AM |
| 1 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?Definitely nowhere near over at 40 either, I was on a date with a 28yo last night who I'll be seeing again. | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?Make sure you are relaxed/smiling and making some eye contact too (but also not locking on staring at them without breaking it). One of my problems is I look very serious, almost angry, by default even though I'm not. Women can detect the tiniest things like that which we don't even think of or notice. That's why you can probably talk to most guys fine and women seem like a brick wall. You have to feel warm, open, inquisitive, something like that. Not stern, focussed on an outcome, or looking at… | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?Just saw, yeah you are good looking and dress well. I'd naturally assume you had about 4 girlfriends at any given time. So you arent a fat neckbeard or anything like that, which means it's entirely something else. Try approaching with a statement instead of just hi. One line i used once that got a girl talking was "i really like that crazy jumper (sweater)! Did you make it?" and that got her talking about the random multi colour wool jumper she was wearing. Then you can switch to "what are you u… | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 09:20 PM |
| 0 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?Something is off about your vibe then. Are you looking very serious? Do you think you're ugly or off-putting in some way? Stiff body language? Overweight? Very skinny? Short? Bad clothing or not clean? Do you make a lot of eye contact or none? Do you speak very quietly so they maybe dont hear you? Not all of these are a deal killer but normally even ugly guys get the occasional girl who likes how they look, so its got to be something else that is off-putting. As others have said you really need … | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 08:51 PM |
| 2 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?Your age isnt a limitation if that helps. Im nearly 40 and can get dates with 30 year olds. You must have some idea what is wrong. Do you try to approach? Tell a standard approach conversation here. | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 01:00 PM |
| 3 | How do you not get discouraged in this scenarioSounds silly, but a criteria of girls I talk to is "ones that like me". If they definitely don't, why waste energy on them? | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 12:20 PM |
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