TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Top_Entertainment979 Archive

View 0 posts and 194 comments by Top_Entertainment979 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
–

Why do women here try to "uplift" by trying to gaslight them into believing they're not seeing what they're seeing? I'm not short nor am I sensitive to women talking about how important height is to them, but it's absolutely everywhere. It's most definitely not just in RP content.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:48 PM
–

Good point. Now that you mention it, I do often disagree with people on this site when it comes to finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:22 PM
–

The diamond ring discussion below is one of the best indicators that the women here are not normal. Half don't want a diamond or even a ring at all? That's definitely not representative of the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:12 PM
–

Nope. I would suddenly become very environmentally conscious and start biking/walking to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:50 PM
–

Even women who are saying it the first way usually think it's a compliment. They think you should feel honored that she wanted to be with you enough to compromise on physical attraction. This is why many women say things like "looks matter less" and "priorities change" when they're getting older and looking to settle down. They even say it to reassure men struggling in their 20s that they'll "get their chance someday." Most women will trade a great sex life for a mediocre sex life within a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:15 PM
–

It is indeed probably fake, but women really do think what she said is a compliment. It's been discussed ad nauseam.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:20 PM
–

It's just genetics. I have full coverage, but it's not as thick as I'd like to to be. If I try to grow it out is just looks scraggly. Real men have a good jaw and are clean shaven anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:35 PM
–

Graduated college I'll nitpick this one: Why does this matter? What if he never finished college but he's still successful professionally (in a white collar capacity)? What if he graduated with some bullshit degree and can't get anything much better than waiting tables for a job? I'm guessing your standard in this regard (and others) isn't as simple as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:22 PM
–

No shit. Those are the only women desperate enough to go to an event like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:07 PM
–

Based on the lists of standards I've seen women come up with, they're all settling. The perfect guy they come up with their heads doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:06 PM
–

Yes the relationship will be just terrible if he has average sized hands instead of large hands
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:46 PM
–

You can get a DUI on anything with wheels in the US too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:42 PM
–

That's a lot of work and is less fun though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:44 PM
–

I'm intrigued by the idea of sunning my balls. It's supposed to have a bunch of benefits and it sounds pleasant. I just don't really have a place to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:31 PM
–

Fuck that's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:51 PM
–

Nah, they still will lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:45 PM
–

Q4A: Do you think the ugly people that end up coupled are happy together?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:57 PM
3

I decide whether I commit to a job I'm offered. Does that make me any less of an employee?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:56 PM
4

I've been in relationships that were a net negative. Like yeah there were some benefits of being in the relationship, but overall I came out of the relationship in worse shape than than I was when I went into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:54 PM
7

Men who are actually average probably don't even exist to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:33 AM
7

A woman needs to want the man first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:31 AM
–

What do you mean by what they read and watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:39 AM
–

I don't think it's ED problems. It's more various sources are convincing men they need to have a concrete hard dick at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:28 AM
–

I'm allergic to nuance, but you think I was literally calling your friends morons? It was just a figure of speech. You know what, if you are as you say you are, you sound pretty cool. I think preselection matters to most women, but good for you for not really giving a fuck what other people think. I can't really argue you're not how you are now can I?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:00 AM
–

Lmao, great point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:20 AM
–

That's kind of a mealy mouthed answer, isn't it? Sure, if you think he's perfect to the point where you start to think your friends are morons, you'll continue to date him. It does reflect well on him if your friends like him, though, does it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:17 AM
–

I can't speak to how other men feel. It seems to me a lot of men are starving for any sort of positive feedback, but Idk. I'll also be the first to tell you that I'm not normal in a lot of respects.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:12 AM
–

Well it's hard to argue with that. My experience tells me the approval of her friends matters. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:55 AM
–

Hmmm, that's interesting. My 10th grade english teacher brought in a friend who was an aspiring actor to talk to the class. He said Springer was completely scripted and fake. I always took that at face value. Maybe or maybe not my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:54 AM
–

Would you choose a guy none of your friends like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:46 AM
–

You think Jerry Springer is real? Everyone on that show was an aspiring actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:40 AM
–

The only way this happens is if her SMV/RMV is even lower than his AND she's desperate to be in a relationship regardless of the quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:38 AM
–

Nah, not really. If someone compliments something about me that I already believe to be a positive quality, my internal reaction is basically "yeah, no shit." If someone compliments something about me that I feel is lacking, I feel like you're shining me on for some reason. Basically, I feel like I'm faking appreciation either way, and I don't think I'm a great actor. I feel bad about that. Same goes for gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:22 AM
–

🎣 Somebody's looking for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:42 AM
–

I'm glad he loved it, but I'm talking about me, lol. It wouldn't matter what it said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:39 AM
–

Glad I'm not him because I guarantee my reaction to that card would be underwhelming
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:01 AM
–

Do you always reply to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:49 AM
–

Most politicians are sociopaths, especially the high level ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:23 PM
–

Why is there this sentiment that men have any control over other* men's behavior? Men who aren't slaves to their dicks are a minority. No matter what we say, they wouldn't listen to us. I know this because men do embarrassing shit all the time just for a crumb of female attention. They don't care. They can't see the forest for the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:19 PM
–

Obama wasn't choosing a wife solely based on looks and personality. Even back then it's highly likely he was considering women based on whether they'd make him more favorable to voters. Michelle was a great choice in that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:55 PM
–

I've only seen three guys post pictures of themselves, so men win by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:22 PM
–

I'm not any more into fat women as the next guy, but holy shit is this chick annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:52 PM
–

Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:44 PM
–

His parents are pieces of shit for that one. If he's happy I can't imagine why they'd try to make him insecure about something. If he doesn't care about being attractive that's his prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:28 PM
–

The anonymous internet commenters are lying, but the anonymous self-reporting study participants aren't. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:14 PM
–

Never felt that way in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:53 PM
–

They're not going to listen to you. The only man who'd form a relationship with a woman like that has no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:41 PM
–

Promiscuity being a sign of trauma/mental illness is precisely why I'd like to avoid women with high n-counts (over 15 let's say). I have sympathy for them, but I burned my Captain Save-A-Ho cape a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:34 PM
–

I don't care if I can truly know. An educated guess is enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:46 PM
–

Someone needs to start telling women there's such a thing as too much perfume just like there's such a thing as too much cologne. If all I can smell is you from 5 feet away, it's too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:16 PM
–

And yet in that thread last night there were multiple women arguing that "dozens" is not outside the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:09 PM
–

Because YOU said it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:55 AM
–

The first sentence certainly doesn’t imply that an exciting sex life is only to be had after settling down. Again, you're the one who implied settling down was boring. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:44 AM
–

What about if a man has a rocky relationship with one of his parents? How about if he's a child of divorced parents? I've seen many women cite those things as deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:15 AM
–

The first sentence on it's own doesn't really say anything besides the fact that one can mature past being young, dumb, and full of cum. When paired with the context of second sentence, it absolutely says that being "young, dumb, and full of cum" means having an adventurous and exciting sex life. To her an adventurous and exciting sex life means having multiple partners. To her, maturing means prioritizing things other than an adventurous and exciting sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:45 AM
–

If you asked you about you standards, none of them involve a man's past?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:20 AM
–

Being young, dumb, and full of cum doesn't mean that person is incapable of growing, maturing, and having different priorities as they age. I'd much rather he have a past in which he had a sexually adventurous youth and then settle down, dreaming about an exciting sexual past he 'could have had', The implication of these two sentences is that an adventurous and exciting sex life is only to be had before you settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:58 AM
–

The implication of your original comment is that having frequent new sex partners is adventurous and exciting while settling down into a long term monogamous relationship is the opposite. You realized you acknowledged the guy you have to settle for is boring to you sexually and then tried to walk it back when I called it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:39 AM
–

Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:16 AM
–

Lmao at "dozens" being scandalous, how fucking sheltered are you? Most women here argue the average for both men and women is well under 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:15 AM
–

Thinking settling down means a sexually boring future says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:11 AM
–

There are more desperate men out there than ever. Do you honestly think they struggle to find some beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:06 AM
–

Meh, I'll take a woman with a uglier face over a fat woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:35 AM
3

It isn't just Stacy. It's all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:07 AM
–

According to the CDC, the average American woman over the age of 20 is 63.5 inches tall and weighs 170.8 pounds Fuck that's depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:00 AM
3

I don't believe in leagues. Found your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:25 AM
7

Absolutely. Even just compliments from ugly women make me want to slit my wrists. I definitely don't remember basically all of them fondly even though I wasn't attracted to those women. All you women on here do is project.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:10 AM
–

I actually think it's a lot of the same people under new names having the same circular arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:53 PM
–

If she treats me well I don't really care. If she just doesn't like strange men that only stands to benefit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:48 PM
–

The hard truth he needs to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:45 PM
–

I think you'd be well served to actually count for a day or two just to see where you're at. Maybe you are just an easy gainer, just like there are hard gainers, but I think it'd be worth the effort to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:41 PM
–

Challenge him to a duel for it using my dad's vintage Colt pistols.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:21 PM
–

Have you calculated your total daily energy expenditure and do you count calories? By counting calories I mean getting out the kitchen scale and weighing portions. When/if you did, did you overestimate your activity level? I try to underestimate and adjust my calorie intake based on what the scale tells me after a couple weeks. To gain 9 actual pounds in a month you'd need to be consuming 1,050 excess calories a day. Even if half of that 9 lbs could be chalked up to natural fluctuation, that's s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:12 PM
–

Eh, I attend mixed gender social events regularly and I haven't met 10 single women that I find attractive in the last year that way. I think you overstate how much I have in common with a friend/sister/cousin of my friend or his wife/gf. I'm not advocating putting all your eggs in either basket. I've never really cold approached a woman nor do I have any interest in trying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:13 PM
–

Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:02 PM
–

I wouldn't call it anger, but I do have contempt for people whine at others about the consequences of their own bad choices like this lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:01 PM
–

The guys cold approaching aren't approaching just one woman, they're approaching women constantly. Unless you have an abnormally large social circle, the people trying to date exclusively through common friends are the ones hinging everything on a small number of potential interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:15 PM
–

Should yes. I do wonder if it's the norm, though. I'd bet if the guy is the one who ended things his chances of getting the ring back are lower than if she ended things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:54 PM
–

That's strange
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:34 PM
–

Did he also share drugs with them? That helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:19 PM
–

Isn't it just plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:58 PM
–

I just broke my 13 so I went out and bought a 15. I promise you really wouldn't notice the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:55 PM
–

You've got your thinking backwards in regards to height and dick size. Also men need to stop lying about their height and accept their fate. They're making us honest men look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:50 PM
–

What is a man's duty, as far as your concerned?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:22 AM
–

The guys worried about being settled for need to wake up and realize they aren't her first choice. You know this based on your life experience thus far. Either accept being settled for, or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:20 AM
–

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:18 AM
–

I decided this when it became public knowledge he was texting buddies with a 14-year old. An unrelated adult male doing that never has good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:16 AM
–

TheUrbanSupremacist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:25 PM
–

serial-monogamists We're supposed to feel bad for women who branch swing now? I thought we all agreed cheating was wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:16 PM
1

What year did you meet your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:01 PM
–

Why does this look like a mugshot?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:22 PM
–

There are also the women who have casual sex but make the relationship guy wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:27 PM
-1

You're welcome to commission a study on it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:14 PM
-5

I agree with the first part, Idk about the second part. Certainly not every man is like that, but they're certainly common enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:58 PM
–

How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:36 PM
13

Outside of subreddits like this I never see straight men talk about having no standards and being willing to fuck anyone. You've never heard of a friend having sex with a woman he'd rather you not know about or that he's not proud of? Never heard the term "slump buster?" There are plenty of guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:18 PM
–

Or maybe it does have something to do with me. Why take the chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:14 PM
–

Anyone who gives more to someone than they get back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:04 AM
–

No, you incorrectly inferred that. I didn't say anything about high n-counts one way or the other. I was just pointing out that I don't need someone to tell me about their sexual history in plain English to make an educated guess about it based on other things they will tell me about their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:32 PM
–

I care about what women have to say sometimes, I just don't care to hear her life story. Nothing about it was relevant to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:12 PM
–

I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:55 PM
–

not to mention backpacking in Europe by myself. You've already told me all I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:37 PM
–

Negative
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:45 PM
–

Probably true here, but feminism has a lot of loud female supremacist voices within it which is probably what a lot of men react negatively to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:23 PM
–

I think you're being intentionally obtuse here, and I'm not gonna give into it further.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:21 PM
–

He's calling them his friends so obviously he must not feel like they're losers even if you do. People generally want the respect of their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:08 PM
–

No one respects the guy who tries to wife the town bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:00 PM
–

It's almost shocking how little self-respect men have and how much they'll put up with just keep some psychotic bitch in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:47 PM
7

I won't argue with your personal experiences even though it does contradict my own. I do want to say I find it disgusting that every time I interact with a girlfriend's friends, they know way more details about me than they have any business knowing. How you all normalized that bullshit is beyond me, especially with how much you'd lose your shit if that was flipped on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:34 AM
3

Ok. Have a nice night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:49 AM
9

It's what the thread is about. If women aren't all competing for the same guys, you shouldn't have to worry much about 'having to wait in line.'
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:45 AM
13

This is you confirming the 80/20 rule then, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:36 AM
13

Do you think men typically discuss the internal dynamics of their relationships together like women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:25 AM
6

I don't think anyone really argues with the fact that men outside the top 20% get into relationships. There simply aren't enough of those men to go around. That doesn't mean the women who can't get a top 20% man are happy about having to settle and don't treat the men they settle for accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:21 AM
10

Dating apps in general do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:04 AM
16

How is it bullshit? edit: He replied and then blocked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:35 AM
5

Many women feel entitled to the benefits of feminism and traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:36 PM
2

Do you believe chores should be distributed evenly, or based on income?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:33 PM
–

The most interesting part of this, and reading posts by cheaters in general, is how they claim to love their partner despite being duplicitous pieces of shit. This is what I think of when women wax poetic about how much they supposedly love their partners who could not be described as conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:50 PM
4

Neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:41 PM
1

Hating a quality about women doesn't mean I hate women. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:40 PM
1

If automation wipes out ~30% of jobs we're all gonna have a lot bigger problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:15 PM
3

Sitting at a desk for 8 hours doing boring and repetitive tasks is precisely what the public school system is training you to do. Those are the jobs most people will end up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:48 PM
–

Sounds like this is the first nice thing she's said to him in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:21 PM
1

Eh, then so what
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:06 PM
–

Tastes like an unflavored protein shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:31 PM
1

Apologies, I see now how my original comment would be confusing. I'm the guy who used to end up in unhappy relationships with those women. I'm not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:41 PM
–

People have to do something to make me enjoy or want their company. Being a stranger who exists isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:39 PM
7

So, reviews on dating apps might be helpful. Maybe not like, entire written reviews but a little snapshot. Choosing some qualities from a premade list of what this person was good at. Things like on time, good conversation, polite, had fun. That might be a little too on the nose for treating people like products, though. It'd ultimately be useless because people would get a lot of bad reviews just because they got rejected/didn't get what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:14 PM
2

You're absolutely right. I think it's all about how easy or hard she thinks you will be to replace. Average guy? By nature they're a dime a dozen. Tall hot guy? Rare, might not be so easy to lock down another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:19 PM
0

The concept of I will stay with a person that I am not sexually compatible with because they only have x type of sex is stupid. It doesn't seem stupid when your options are accept the sexual incompatibility, breakup and have no sex at all for god knows how long, or try to get her to come around (this is a fools errand). You're not wrong, it's just an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:14 PM
–

No, women absolutely should not settle. An unhappy relationship is worse than no relationship. The guys who have never been in one just don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:58 PM
0

That's beside the point. If we agree there aren't many left, which philosophy that doesn't work are you spending your time arguing against?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:53 PM
–

It's the men you don't want a relationship with's fault that you don't want a relationship with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:51 PM
–

Women tell men to lower their standards or stop bitching all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:47 PM
–

If you just wanted to be in just any relationship, that wouldn't be that difficult to find, would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:43 PM
–

This is a popular deflection from the fact that women who find it hard to find a relationship are choosing that hardship. It's not foisted upon you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:40 PM
2

Most people here aren't red pill anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:23 PM
1

What comes next? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:42 AM
1

I feel like you're trying to be rhetorical here, but it's not really landing with me, sorry. You're gonna have to spoon feed it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:34 AM
1

You're right, I'm probably just projecting. I come back here when I'm miserable. A lot of people here are bitter in miserable, but some probably aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:02 AM
-1

Pink pill is misandrist. You identified as such. I've been here less than a week, I don't really know anything about you beyond that and our interaction the other day. Okay, on second thought, I really don't care about your opinions on biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:25 AM
0

That's why I'm so hard on you. lol What do you think you're encouraging with that behavior? The truth is I align with the idea that there are biological influences that are a reality which shouldn't be ignored. Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:11 AM
-1

Why'd you change flairs? Did you find openly hating men to be a dead giveaway?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:58 AM
-1

Not really. Many women feel insecure, lonely, or lazy and enter relationships that they're ultimately unhappy in. I'm living proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:34 AM
0

I don't really understand why anyone who genuinely happy with their outcome in dating would be here. I'm skeptical of anyone here who claims to be happy in their relationship. I'm especially skeptical of her given how she comes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:30 AM
–

Again, both naturally ugly and naturally attractive women put more effort into their appearance than the average man and the average man would absolutely do better if he put as much effort into his appearance as the average woman does. If you are unwilling to put effort into your physical attractiveness to the same level, then that’s your personal choice and that’s fine, but you can’t be surprised when people don’t find you attractive. I dress well enough that I regularly get compliments for it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:34 PM
–

The average man does not possess the genetic gifts to be considered physically desirable by women. No amount of "trying" short of plastic surgery will change this. The only reason the average woman in the US is considered desirable is because men on average have a much wider range of what they're attracted to and lower standards. When I see an ugly or fat woman who takes good care of herself, I respect that she at least tries. It does not make me attracted to her, though. I'm much more likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:26 PM
–

Lust is defined a "very strong sexual desire." Saying one can have a little bit of a very strong sexual desire is an oxymoron. The grey area you're looking for is between lust and revulsion. Men have sex with women they're not particularly attracted to just to get their rocks off. Women have sex with men they're neither lustful for nor repulsed by to secure a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:02 PM
–

You are saying there more men in relationships than men who inspire lust from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:27 PM
–

Women don't find average men physically desirable. You can put a wig, lipstick and a dress on a pig, but it's still gonna be a pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:25 PM
–

Your comment implies lust is either felt or it isn't, and that men who not elicit lust from women can't still get investment from them. I'm aware not everything is binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:06 PM
–

My mistake. I thought you were implying a physically undesirable person could become sexy just by learning to act in a sexy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:52 PM
0

Many states do not have a specific brandishing law, but pulling or flashing a gun just to threaten someone is a punishable offense under other statutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:34 PM
–

Why would anyone want a relationship where there's no lust? That means either there's no sex or just duty sex. Women complain time and time again about feeling like masturbatory devices, but what is sex with no lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:20 PM
–

The majority of men have no idea how to be sexy and then act shocked women don’t desire them. Women don't give men who aren't already sexy the opportunity to be seductive. Women actively avoid situations where they might encounter men who might try this. It does not appeal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:13 PM
4

Resenting the fact that women don't find you attractive doesn't mean you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:00 PM
-1

Brandishing is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:56 PM
1

This idea of men not wanting to "raise another man's kids" is so gross. Love and family isn't about biology. I personally believe raising and supporting another man's offspring is a form of cuckoldry, but I can give a practical reason not to do it: If you grow to love that child like they're your own, but down the line you break up with their parent, you will lose the child too. You have no legal right to be in their lives like you would if you were a biological parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:12 AM
–

I think a lot of that is just bitter women lashing out because they know dick size is a source of insecurity for most men. I'm not saying women don't care about dick size, because they do, but it's not that high on most women's priority list and if you're average or above you're probably fine. Men should be far more insecure about their face, hair, height, frame, and body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:07 PM
–

They're probably at least half-way feral.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:23 PM
–

That's some projection by those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:20 PM
–

Did this really happen or are you making it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:04 PM
–

I would think so, but the amount of women who complain about dating and fucking dudes who didn't wash their ass makes me question it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:37 PM
1

The something else is that I'm not that good looking lol. It's not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:13 PM
1

Here's how I think about it: 41% of first marriages end in divorce. Can we assume the remaining marriages are all happy? Nope. Are enough of them unhappy to reach greater than 50%? I'd bet on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:29 AM
1

Haha, I tried to tell ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:17 AM
3

No, I really can't. I pretty successfully avoided all content like this for the last 2+ years, but what women say online really tracks with how I've been treated most of the time. Before, I thought I just had bad luck. Now I know they feel contempt towards me because they feel they're lowering themselves by dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:04 AM
1

Yeah, maybe. I've felt smothered because of it, but thinking about doing better is antithetical to the way I think. Do you think this imbalance is avoidable? If so, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:44 AM
2

Nah, she just has time to reflect on how she probably could do better because this loser worships the ground she walks on and she feels kinda meh towards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:14 AM
4

Yes, I can tell from personal experience that the lifting of the veil will kill any optimism and love you had for men. I'd had some pretty terrible experiences, but I still had a lot of hope I'd find my person one day until I started reading what women say about men online. And for me, there's no going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:02 AM
–

I appreciate you and your comments here. You handled this discussion much better than I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:56 PM
–

How often do you go around gassing up men who've done nothing for you? I'm gonna put my money on never since you openly identify yourself as subscribing to a misandrist ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:43 PM
–

Respect and appreciation aren't the same thing. I never said women don't deserve a basic level of respect. Everyone does. Why is not praising women equivalent to "fuck em?" It's more just ambivalence to most women. I appreciate women who do things for me. I'm not here to make women who've done nothing for me personally feel better about themselves. Women aren't doing so for me, nor do I expect them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:29 PM
–

You're not really holding them accountable for their actions if they don't know what they're being held accountable for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:41 PM
–

If a woman laments about how little women are appreciated for things that we are expected to do, assume she is being genuine about her experience and try to sympathize. Doing what's expected of you (whatever the hell you mean by that) is the bare minimum. No one's throwing a parade for men who do the bare minimum, either, so why should we appreciate women for doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:23 PM
–

If a woman uses a guy for his money or treats random men badly even when they did nothing wrong, I and other women who aren’t similarly shitty women would hold her accountable. I have never seen this, so shitty women must be the majority. What I have seen a lot is women defend and even encourage other women when they're being shitty because "she's a woman and he's a man so he must've done something to provoke her." For example, when women cheat, according to women it's always the boyfriend/husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:06 PM
1

Oh, thanks. The more you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:59 PM
0

I started dressing well in my mid-late 20s after not really giving a shit to that point. I regularly get compliments on what I wear, and the (limited but never non-existent) attention I got from women stayed pretty much the same. It's not nearly the difference maker women on here always make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:46 PM
-1

Maybe not in the us Yeah, this is the problem. In the US the cute woman you described is highly sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:37 PM
0

I could be misinformed, but if a man is not married, the mother is going to find out you have suspicions when you don't sign the birth certificate. If you are married, you're automatically assumed to be the father and will be on the hook for child support regardless of whether you share DNA with that child or not. I'm talking about the US. YMMV in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:09 PM
2

You're either being insincere or you've never visited any female centric subreddit. Women are just as vicious in expressing their anger, bitterness, and hatred of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:02 PM
0

I wonder if people who are happy and satisfied are the minority or the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:54 PM
1

My friends would describe their partners as attractive and hot Would they? Have you actually heard them say that? I'm not hot and no girl I've ever been with would have described me as such. I also see a lot of women online describe guys they were or are in relationships with as only somewhat attractive or even downright ugly. Seems to me women often end up with partners they don't find hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:54 PM
4

It was the opposite for me. When I became unafraid of them leaving, they left.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:43 PM
2

You're right, on Tinder (I doubt it's much different anywhere else) the average woman swipes right 7% of the time. It's in the "how you measure up to others" part of the report.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:29 PM
–

Well that and to slander men they've never met of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:59 PM
0

Most couples meet online, so no, definitely not the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:17 PM
2

No, it's the same 20%, it's just that not every woman finds every top 20% man attractive. Most individual women will tell you they only find about 1% of men they encounter attractive. Individual women who've posted their data from dating apps usually swiped right on less than 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:35 AM
1

If your only goal is to get laid, sure. We're talking about relationships here. People who are single in their late 30s are single for good reason and are the absolute bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:13 AM
1

They're the same thing as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:29 AM
2

I think those guys want a definitive answer as to whether or not they're hopeless. Unfortunately for them, they're not gonna get that answer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:10 AM
1

Can they? I know an awful lot of guys who are their wife's bitch. I've even been through that myself. I knew I couldn't do better than her, even years later I still haven't, but eventually I started telling her no and a few months later she left me for another guy. How many guys are willing to risk dying alone to maintain their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:48 AM
1

Why would you assume men's standards being too high is what's preventing them from finding relationships? Numerous polls say far more women than men are single and not looking. Women can't stop talking on social media about how men ain't shit and about how happy they are alone. Many of the large investment banks predict more and more women will remain single longer and longer going forward and are betting unfathomably large sums of money on it. It's far more reasonable to believe it's women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:03 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter