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Are you trying to argue that she's average?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:03 AM
1

Everything. I can always make more money, but I can't buy myself more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:30 AM
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I'd give up orgasms easily. Good sleep can carry you through a whole day while the best orgasm only lasts seconds. Plus not being able to orgasm doens't mean you can't function enough to please others, and that's at least half half the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:24 AM
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Thanks I think
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:19 AM
1

It's a little of both if I'm being honest. The latter of which I blame on the beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:59 AM
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Isn't that what we're all here for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:42 AM
1

What weight do you give to what people say on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:21 AM
1

Ignorance isn't really bliss for me. I just feel stupid about the times I was ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:10 AM
1

Women are the ones complaining about men's standards supposedly being too high, and the majority of women value being relationship material over just being fuckable, ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:06 AM
1

If you can't get what you want and don't adjust accordingly, you prefer holding out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:56 AM
1

You're right, I made the assumption you valued relationships more than just being fuckable and started to argue based on that. My bad. I got ahead of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:55 AM
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That doesn't matter at all. I can't "afford" what I want, but I'm okay being alone. That's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:45 AM
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Some dudes for sure will fuck anything, but that doesn't mean their standards for a relationship are high. There are plenty of dudes in relationships with women I wouldn't fuck with my worst enemy's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:41 AM
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Ignoring all else, having higher standards than you can afford doesn't mean you have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:38 AM
1

There's no men in between?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:37 AM
1

No, I was just mocking you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:01 AM
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Since it seems to be a theme lately: Q4W: Do you actually believe the men here have high standards when it comes to looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:59 AM
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Did you make the post expecting people not to react to it? That seems foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:55 AM
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It's just a preference sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:44 AM
3

Stay outside and inform my friend that he's married to a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:34 AM
1

Mushrooms are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:11 AM
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It's gotta be the true crime one. Mycologist is so niche I don't even know what it is, and being a piano teacher is believable enough. You're one of the 5 women on earth who isn't into true crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:02 AM
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I agree with the logic, and you're probably right, but at the end of the day thinking you have control over how someone else is going to act is hubris imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:55 AM
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I think that's a catch-22 because it's just as likely if he told her no more often she'd say he neglects her and doesn't care about her wants and needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:42 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:55 AM
1

You greatly overestimate the impact your words have on my emotional state
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:43 AM
1

This is why you men should never let the opinion of women bother them because there are damaged ones like this out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:34 AM
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It's a combined bachelor and hens night so it's gonna be half women. The women are asking us to like dress according to themes. Eeeeewwwwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:45 PM
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Some dude said it once (probably just meaning she's not his type) and now it's what we all think
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:39 PM
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Add her on IG and slide in DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:00 PM
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If you won't just eat blatant disrespect to your face you're just insecure bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:44 PM
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Why do women here try to "uplift" by trying to gaslight them into believing they're not seeing what they're seeing? I'm not short nor am I sensitive to women talking about how important height is to them, but it's absolutely everywhere. It's most definitely not just in RP content.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:48 PM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:19 AM
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Women can settle at any age for any number of reasons. For example, she's settling because she feels pressure to date within her race by her family. Thinking you can only be bux'd because she's been ran through by hotter dudes is just jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:18 AM
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Just because a woman chooses a man, it doesn't mean she actually likes him all that much. You're being awful polite here, so I'm not gonna press.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:06 AM
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Being "chosen" by a woman doesn't mean shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:54 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:50 AM
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The reason you're settling is inconsequential to me. If you had your way, you probably wouldn't be dating your bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:45 AM
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So the guy you really want can't be brought home to mom and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:32 AM
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Why the hell would you try to set him up with someone else when you liked him the whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:29 AM
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Depends on who's saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:22 AM
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My problem was I kept trying, hoping for a relationship where I wasn't being used. Took me a while to get the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:12 AM
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I'm not fat and I'm childless. Why am I obligated to seek out women who fat and/or have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:28 AM
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Women take it personally too. I've have women completely lose their shit because someone as unattractive as I am would have the gall to turn them down. And no, I don't enjoy it. I'm glad I don't have to do it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:25 AM
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If you're actively going to perpetuate toxic behavior, you have no right to criticize men who make fun of fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:22 AM
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Most
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:00 AM
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I don't believe you can purposely change your personality. Not really. It may change naturally, and you can pretend, but you can't wake up one day and decide to be someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:57 PM
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Oh, and I wasn't personally offended by what you said. I just wanted to remind you that you have no room to talk about anyone else's appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:54 PM
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You should be able to have intense feelings for someone and being able to control your urge to smother them would be growth. A lack of intense feels is just a lack of intense feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:44 PM
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Creepy old men don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:38 PM
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What do you care? Even post wall ugly men don't want anything to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:30 PM
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Yeah, that sounds lonely too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:44 PM
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Attention
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:17 PM
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Miss me with that shit then. She needs to go back to her place when he's not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:05 PM
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It's all the downsides of being in a relationship with none of the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:05 PM
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No relationship at all is better than a beta bux situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:01 PM
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Is she paying rent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:00 PM
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Who am I lying for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:11 PM
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Needing to be cool on social media is very unattractive to me. The only girl I thought about proposing to wouldn't have agreed because I didn't have the money at the time to buy a proper ring. I think on some level the ring supposed to be indicative of how financially stable/able to to providie you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:09 PM
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I mean it is, but I get it. I like nice shiny things (watches in particular) too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:00 PM
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Speak or yourself bud
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:58 PM
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It's not their fault women are all chasing the same men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:57 PM
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Gotcha. I appreciate that!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:53 PM
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Yeah, I think those women are just trying to flex on their friends. I'd probably reexamine the whole relationship if that's the type of person she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:51 PM
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What's +lh? I wasn't trying to call you all gremlins. I think reddit just attracts a certain crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:44 PM
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Lab grown is still a diamond lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:39 PM
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Yeah, I don't know a single woman who is engaged or married that isn't sporting a diamond
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:37 PM
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Good point. Now that you mention it, I do often disagree with people on this site when it comes to finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:22 PM
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The diamond ring discussion below is one of the best indicators that the women here are not normal. Half don't want a diamond or even a ring at all? That's definitely not representative of the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:12 PM
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Nope. I would suddenly become very environmentally conscious and start biking/walking to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:50 PM
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Even women who are saying it the first way usually think it's a compliment. They think you should feel honored that she wanted to be with you enough to compromise on physical attraction. This is why many women say things like "looks matter less" and "priorities change" when they're getting older and looking to settle down. They even say it to reassure men struggling in their 20s that they'll "get their chance someday." Most women will trade a great sex life for a mediocre sex life within a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:15 PM
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It is indeed probably fake, but women really do think what she said is a compliment. It's been discussed ad nauseam.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:20 PM
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Keep in mind that the average woman in America/the west is dumpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:48 AM
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Australians are better looking than average around the world, and even among the anglosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:40 AM
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He's 36 and not fat with a full head of hair. In America that automatically makes him above average. Plus she's probably busted as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:10 AM
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I meant that you believe their description of a guy as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:05 AM
1

You really believe their bullshit, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:02 AM
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Any woman who responds to this is just gonna tell you it's not the same men and every woman has different tastes and blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:00 AM
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If it bothers you that much, why not get involved in crime yourself? You get women, and on top of that it's very lucrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:48 AM
1

Oh, carry on then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:15 AM
2

Repectfully, maybe women do have a point when they say dudes don't try that hard to look good and then complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:36 AM
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They want to talk to you. You might end up making them uncomfortable, but that's not a crime, it's just the way things go sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:29 AM
2

Based on what I've seen people here kinda run the gamut except there aren't really any truly beautiful people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:24 AM
2

Chad and Stacy are 8 and above. Pretty privilege starts at 6 and above. As a 6 you'll get some pretty privilege benefits at least occasionally (this is more true for women than men). The more attractive you are, the more benefits and how often you receive them increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:07 AM
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What are you scared of?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:00 AM
5

Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:40 AM
3

No, but based on how they tried to fix their mistake, I bet you're gonna have a bitch of a time getting anything of value out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:23 AM
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It's because men and women both don't care about men. A lot of us don't even value our own lives all that much given reckless a lot of us are. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:17 AM
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Because one disgusts me and the other doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:24 PM
2

Just be handsome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:27 PM
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You're one of us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:03 PM
1

Approximately how many times have you enthusiastically raised your hand to remind the teacher to collect the homework when she forgot?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:25 PM
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It's just genetics. I have full coverage, but it's not as thick as I'd like to to be. If I try to grow it out is just looks scraggly. Real men have a good jaw and are clean shaven anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:35 PM
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Now that's what I'd call shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:57 PM
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You're telling me if you met a guy was capable of having interesting conversations with you, you'd reject him simply because he doesn't have a degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:33 PM
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Graduated college I'll nitpick this one: Why does this matter? What if he never finished college but he's still successful professionally (in a white collar capacity)? What if he graduated with some bullshit degree and can't get anything much better than waiting tables for a job? I'm guessing your standard in this regard (and others) isn't as simple as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:22 PM
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No shit. Those are the only women desperate enough to go to an event like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:07 PM
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Based on the lists of standards I've seen women come up with, they're all settling. The perfect guy they come up with their heads doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:06 PM
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Yes the relationship will be just terrible if he has average sized hands instead of large hands
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:46 PM
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You can get a DUI on anything with wheels in the US too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:42 PM
2

Poodle hairstyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:08 PM
1

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:07 PM
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That's been mostly my experience as well. Someone posted a thread from another subreddit further down about and there are tons of short guys saying women openly rejected them because of their height. That's not to say they weren't rejected for their height, I just don't think women are actually telling them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:36 PM
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Q4M: When you get rejected, do women usually give you a specific reason? Yes or no will suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:02 PM
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The closest I've seen a short guy with a girl the same height.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:31 PM
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I take it a step further by not wanting to pass on my own genetics for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:28 PM
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Idk, I see it expressed a lot. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:57 AM
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Just hitting every bl*ck pill note tonight, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:51 AM
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Women really don't understand how insulting and demoralizing "eventually we mature and realize looks aren't everything." Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:44 AM
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Checks OP's username Ah, it's one of those threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:23 AM
1

How hot was this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:49 AM
3

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:42 AM
2

What about the sight of naked men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:42 AM
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You aren't an option at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:24 AM
1

Probably a blessing in disguise. It's not like this place is a productive use of anyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:19 AM
1

I was born the villain
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:00 AM
1

Fuck, it sucks you're gonna have to cut back on that other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:57 AM
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I love seeing the crypto bros have a bad day because they cannot shut the fuck up on the good days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:26 AM
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Where's your data on that? The only things I can find show a decline since 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:22 AM
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That's a lot of work and is less fun though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:44 PM
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I'm intrigued by the idea of sunning my balls. It's supposed to have a bunch of benefits and it sounds pleasant. I just don't really have a place to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:31 PM
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Fuck that's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:51 PM
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Nah, they still will lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:45 PM
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Q4A: Do you think the ugly people that end up coupled are happy together?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:57 PM
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Huh. Either way I think most women still want to get married. She sounds like a kook.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:26 PM
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What the hell kind of convention is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:15 PM
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Cute not hot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:14 PM
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Yeah, they'll take your money. You can also learn how to do yourself on youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:11 PM
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By having them tailored lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:04 PM
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I decide whether I commit to a job I'm offered. Does that make me any less of an employee?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:56 PM
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I've been in relationships that were a net negative. Like yeah there were some benefits of being in the relationship, but overall I came out of the relationship in worse shape than than I was when I went into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:54 PM
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Men who are actually average probably don't even exist to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:33 AM
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A woman needs to want the man first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:31 AM
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Solidly in the 90th percentile according to the western average and still not big enough for the size queens lol. https://i.imgur.com/c1hU1Rj.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:18 AM
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I could ultimately afford the worst case scenario though. The silver lining is I chose the least risky and enjoyable option possible, which isn't a silver lining for me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:58 AM
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It might as well be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:49 AM
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Thanks man, you're such a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:43 AM
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Nah. It's something very rare that I wanted to buy that came up for sale, but it'd be financially reckless if I bought it before I sold some other stuff. The thing I wanted appears to have sold, and it's unlikely anything similar will come up for sale any time soon. Sorry for being vague, but I'm hold out a little hope it didn't sell and the seller will re-list it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:41 AM
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Basically I'm a pussy and I'm gonna kick myself for it for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:33 AM
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Bad timing just fucked me out of something I really wanted. And miss me with that "everything happens for a reason" bullshit. There's no guarantee an equal or greater opportunity will come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:16 AM
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What do you mean by what they read and watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:39 AM
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I don't think it's ED problems. It's more various sources are convincing men they need to have a concrete hard dick at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:28 AM
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I'm allergic to nuance, but you think I was literally calling your friends morons? It was just a figure of speech. You know what, if you are as you say you are, you sound pretty cool. I think preselection matters to most women, but good for you for not really giving a fuck what other people think. I can't really argue you're not how you are now can I?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:00 AM
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Lmao, great point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:20 AM
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That's kind of a mealy mouthed answer, isn't it? Sure, if you think he's perfect to the point where you start to think your friends are morons, you'll continue to date him. It does reflect well on him if your friends like him, though, does it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:17 AM
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I can't speak to how other men feel. It seems to me a lot of men are starving for any sort of positive feedback, but Idk. I'll also be the first to tell you that I'm not normal in a lot of respects.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:12 AM
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Well it's hard to argue with that. My experience tells me the approval of her friends matters. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:55 AM
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Hmmm, that's interesting. My 10th grade english teacher brought in a friend who was an aspiring actor to talk to the class. He said Springer was completely scripted and fake. I always took that at face value. Maybe or maybe not my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:54 AM
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Would you choose a guy none of your friends like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:46 AM
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You think Jerry Springer is real? Everyone on that show was an aspiring actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:40 AM
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The only way this happens is if her SMV/RMV is even lower than his AND she's desperate to be in a relationship regardless of the quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:38 AM
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Nah, not really. If someone compliments something about me that I already believe to be a positive quality, my internal reaction is basically "yeah, no shit." If someone compliments something about me that I feel is lacking, I feel like you're shining me on for some reason. Basically, I feel like I'm faking appreciation either way, and I don't think I'm a great actor. I feel bad about that. Same goes for gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:22 AM
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🎣 Somebody's looking for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:42 AM
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I'm glad he loved it, but I'm talking about me, lol. It wouldn't matter what it said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:39 AM
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Glad I'm not him because I guarantee my reaction to that card would be underwhelming
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:01 AM
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Do you always reply to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:49 AM
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It's exactly who you'd expect it to be every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:43 AM
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Most politicians are sociopaths, especially the high level ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:23 PM
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Why is there this sentiment that men have any control over other* men's behavior? Men who aren't slaves to their dicks are a minority. No matter what we say, they wouldn't listen to us. I know this because men do embarrassing shit all the time just for a crumb of female attention. They don't care. They can't see the forest for the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:19 PM
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Obama wasn't choosing a wife solely based on looks and personality. Even back then it's highly likely he was considering women based on whether they'd make him more favorable to voters. Michelle was a great choice in that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:55 PM
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I've only seen three guys post pictures of themselves, so men win by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:22 PM
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I'm not any more into fat women as the next guy, but holy shit is this chick annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:52 PM
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Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:44 PM
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His parents are pieces of shit for that one. If he's happy I can't imagine why they'd try to make him insecure about something. If he doesn't care about being attractive that's his prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:28 PM
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Then maybe it'd be fine. I'd probably just get sad I don't already have a gf who wants to do that for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:20 PM
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That's not true, most doctors do care about their patients.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:03 PM
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What are your problems? Have you spoken with a professional about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:38 PM
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Why do you want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:20 PM
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I was the opposite in my financially irresponsible days. If I just keep swiping my card without looking at my account balance, am I really spending money?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:08 PM
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Do you know what his reasoning was for that? Cheating is bad enough on it's own, but getting knocked by another guy while doing it? That's pretty much the only way it could hurt worse imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:05 PM
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They're only free sometimes?! So not only would I be eating food made by someone who sucks at cooking, but I also have to pay for the pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:30 PM
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Love that for her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:12 AM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:46 AM
1

6/10 or worse dudes are a dime as dozen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:41 AM
4

I miss that goofy broad already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:32 AM
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It's more the devil you know is hotter than the devil you don't. No woman is putting up with that shit from a guy who isn't hot and thus hard to replace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:29 AM
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Is it the one with the one with made by the girl who changes the picture every few months to a new one of her crying? It's got a lot of Elliott Smith.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:38 AM
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If he actually had good ideas, that would be very foolish on his part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:34 AM
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If you're under 6ft you're automatically assumed to be a beta, but apparently this women thinks he gives off alpha energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:33 AM
2

Do less
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:34 AM
5

Toxic as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:04 AM
1

How many channels can she pick up with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:25 AM
3

Even ugly women don't worship average men like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:07 AM
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Can you imagine how ugly she is and/or how handsome he is to get with that shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:15 AM
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She's looking for a fight. Also, sex right after eating taco bell? 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:51 PM
1

I gave unserious advice to an unserious person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:47 PM
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I don't eat mashed potatoes because it has the consistency of baby food and eating baby food would make me look weak.. Real men need to chew their food.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:39 PM
1

Support tax credits for sugar daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:37 PM
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No, I'd call myself an introvert. I can be sociable but I find socializing with new people tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:22 PM
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You're probably more attractive than you think you are then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:43 PM
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I wouldn't say that. I've had dozens of women make no secret of their interest in dating me over the years. They were all fat (I am not), or were absolutely covered in red flags and weren't taken seriously by most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:43 PM
2

What did the women who confessed to you look like? Did they have glaring personality flaws?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:34 PM
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It's funny how men around here all whine about women having overinflated egos but then turn around and act like simps every time they see an average looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:27 PM
1

Also banned for overrating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:10 PM
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Banned for overrating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:09 PM
2

I wish a healthy BMI (s/o AutomaticMeaning) woman would let me eat her ass in the context of a happy and healthy relationship. Unfortunately that's not in the cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:44 PM
5

The flesh of my enemies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:31 PM
3

Only five spaces checked. No bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:48 PM
3

Is there a male version of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:24 PM
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The anonymous internet commenters are lying, but the anonymous self-reporting study participants aren't. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:14 PM
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Never felt that way in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:53 PM
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They're not going to listen to you. The only man who'd form a relationship with a woman like that has no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:41 PM
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Promiscuity being a sign of trauma/mental illness is precisely why I'd like to avoid women with high n-counts (over 15 let's say). I have sympathy for them, but I burned my Captain Save-A-Ho cape a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:34 PM
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Might want to get whatever you're trying to hide under all that perfume taken care of by a professional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:26 PM
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I don't care if I can truly know. An educated guess is enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:46 PM
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Someone needs to start telling women there's such a thing as too much perfume just like there's such a thing as too much cologne. If all I can smell is you from 5 feet away, it's too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:16 PM
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Not true! All men can be useful as a cannon fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:12 PM
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And yet in that thread last night there were multiple women arguing that "dozens" is not outside the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:09 PM
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I've made my argument. You're the one evading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:11 AM
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Because YOU said it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:55 AM
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Where are you getting this “to me” from? You're not the person I original replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:45 AM
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The first sentence certainly doesn’t imply that an exciting sex life is only to be had after settling down. Again, you're the one who implied settling down was boring. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:44 AM
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Nah, he always would've been killing it. It's just a TV show.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:18 AM
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What about if a man has a rocky relationship with one of his parents? How about if he's a child of divorced parents? I've seen many women cite those things as deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:15 AM
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The first sentence on it's own doesn't really say anything besides the fact that one can mature past being young, dumb, and full of cum. When paired with the context of second sentence, it absolutely says that being "young, dumb, and full of cum" means having an adventurous and exciting sex life. To her an adventurous and exciting sex life means having multiple partners. To her, maturing means prioritizing things other than an adventurous and exciting sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:45 AM
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Men shouldn't develop crushes regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:49 AM
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You need all 3 dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:22 AM
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If you asked you about you standards, none of them involve a man's past?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:20 AM
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Being young, dumb, and full of cum doesn't mean that person is incapable of growing, maturing, and having different priorities as they age. I'd much rather he have a past in which he had a sexually adventurous youth and then settle down, dreaming about an exciting sexual past he 'could have had', The implication of these two sentences is that an adventurous and exciting sex life is only to be had before you settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:58 AM
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The implication of your original comment is that having frequent new sex partners is adventurous and exciting while settling down into a long term monogamous relationship is the opposite. You realized you acknowledged the guy you have to settle for is boring to you sexually and then tried to walk it back when I called it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:39 AM
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Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:16 AM
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Lmao at "dozens" being scandalous, how fucking sheltered are you? Most women here argue the average for both men and women is well under 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:15 AM
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Thinking settling down means a sexually boring future says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:11 AM
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What aren't you doing that you'd like to be? Do it and that shit will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:57 AM
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It's been pretty even across the board for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:53 AM
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I wouldn't date anyone, but there's nothing wrong with dating a sex worker. Her past has nothing to do with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:42 AM
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I just want her to be happy. As I do all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:39 AM
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You have completely control over whether you end up in the stereoptypical friendzone friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:35 AM
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I'm just trying to help my fellow human being
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:33 AM
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God left this place a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:26 AM
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Lmao, like they don't start out corrupt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:25 AM
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There are more desperate men out there than ever. Do you honestly think they struggle to find some beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:06 AM
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How do you know if you haven't tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:59 AM
2

Oh. Have you tried landing a sugar daddy who will pay to fix your teeth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:56 AM
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You being a minor actually makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:53 AM
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omg, why did I search it. I didn't even know the answer but 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:47 AM
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Leave on the spot. I would expect nothing less from a woman who felt the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:44 AM
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Unironically true. Nobody has a dick that big.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:43 AM
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You know how dudes be simpin around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:40 AM
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Obviously it's negative lol. You said it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:36 AM
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Meh, I'll take a woman with a uglier face over a fat woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:35 AM
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It isn't just Stacy. It's all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:07 AM
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According to the CDC, the average American woman over the age of 20 is 63.5 inches tall and weighs 170.8 pounds Fuck that's depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:00 AM
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Fuck the Packers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:57 AM
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FTP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:56 AM
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Or, described more succinctly: "I'm a huge pain in the ass."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:55 AM
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My guess is she's DTF but doesn't want anyone she knows irl to think she's on the apps looking to get stretched out (and potentially knocked up again).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:34 AM
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I don't believe in leagues. Found your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:25 AM
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Absolutely. Even just compliments from ugly women make me want to slit my wrists. I definitely don't remember basically all of them fondly even though I wasn't attracted to those women. All you women on here do is project.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:10 AM
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Being The Noviop sounds like a blast
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:40 PM
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Even though he's good looking I still think most women would look at him sideways if he showed up their pilates class.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:37 PM
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You're automatically weird as a dude if you go to a pilates class.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:31 PM
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I actually think it's a lot of the same people under new names having the same circular arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:53 PM
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If she treats me well I don't really care. If she just doesn't like strange men that only stands to benefit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:48 PM
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The hard truth he needs to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:45 PM
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I think you'd be well served to actually count for a day or two just to see where you're at. Maybe you are just an easy gainer, just like there are hard gainers, but I think it'd be worth the effort to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:41 PM
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Challenge him to a duel for it using my dad's vintage Colt pistols.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:21 PM
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Have you calculated your total daily energy expenditure and do you count calories? By counting calories I mean getting out the kitchen scale and weighing portions. When/if you did, did you overestimate your activity level? I try to underestimate and adjust my calorie intake based on what the scale tells me after a couple weeks. To gain 9 actual pounds in a month you'd need to be consuming 1,050 excess calories a day. Even if half of that 9 lbs could be chalked up to natural fluctuation, that's s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:12 PM
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Eh, I attend mixed gender social events regularly and I haven't met 10 single women that I find attractive in the last year that way. I think you overstate how much I have in common with a friend/sister/cousin of my friend or his wife/gf. I'm not advocating putting all your eggs in either basket. I've never really cold approached a woman nor do I have any interest in trying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:13 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:02 PM
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I wouldn't call it anger, but I do have contempt for people whine at others about the consequences of their own bad choices like this lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:01 PM
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The guys cold approaching aren't approaching just one woman, they're approaching women constantly. Unless you have an abnormally large social circle, the people trying to date exclusively through common friends are the ones hinging everything on a small number of potential interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:15 PM
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Should yes. I do wonder if it's the norm, though. I'd bet if the guy is the one who ended things his chances of getting the ring back are lower than if she ended things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:54 PM
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That's strange
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:34 PM
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You've never heard "believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see?" That doesn't mean you should openly voice your disbelief, but you are certainly entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:27 PM
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Did he also share drugs with them? That helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:19 PM
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Isn't it just plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:58 PM
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I just broke my 13 so I went out and bought a 15. I promise you really wouldn't notice the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:55 PM
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You've got your thinking backwards in regards to height and dick size. Also men need to stop lying about their height and accept their fate. They're making us honest men look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:50 PM
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He's been rumored to be gay for a long time, and I find that at least somewhat credible given what we know now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:51 AM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:28 AM
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What is a man's duty, as far as your concerned?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:22 AM
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The guys worried about being settled for need to wake up and realize they aren't her first choice. You know this based on your life experience thus far. Either accept being settled for, or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:20 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:18 AM
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I decided this when it became public knowledge he was texting buddies with a 14-year old. An unrelated adult male doing that never has good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:16 AM
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TheUrbanSupremacist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:25 PM
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serial-monogamists We're supposed to feel bad for women who branch swing now? I thought we all agreed cheating was wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:16 PM
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What year did you meet your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:01 PM
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Why does this look like a mugshot?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:22 PM
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I mean yeah, we don't know which candidate will win. The elites win either way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:34 PM
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Even if he doesn't have PTSD I'm not saying shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:55 PM
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I 'messed around' with two with girls my own age in kindergarten and second grade. The first was mutual and fairly innocent. The second one is really sad looking back. That girl knew way too much about sex for a kid that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:48 PM
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I've never really believed people are loyal with their eyes. Always seemed like a claim jealous people make to try to seize the moral high ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:42 PM
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Comments say it's a filter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:06 PM
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There's a lower ceiling though. Like, Little Rock's hottest person is probably like an LA 7 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:47 PM
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Those are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:35 PM
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I've heard your name mentioned but I haven't seen one of your posts yet. Interesting schtick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:33 PM
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There are also the women who have casual sex but make the relationship guy wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:27 PM
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I don't like the loss of confidence I have associated with being out of shape. I like that it's clear just by looking at me that I have respect for myself. That's how I push myself to lift weights even though I don't enjoy it at all. I actually like doing cardio because I feel really good mentally afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:19 PM
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You're welcome to commission a study on it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:14 PM
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I agree with the first part, Idk about the second part. Certainly not every man is like that, but they're certainly common enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:58 PM
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Which you have to pay for
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:56 PM
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And I'm guess the just sex men just happen to be better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:55 PM
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It's pretty sad you have to bribe your wife so you can get 3 hours to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:44 PM
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Men are out here paying for chicks to get their nails done now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:36 PM
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Can't offer the salary to match the desired candidate huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:29 PM
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Why isn't the standard the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:21 PM
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I've noticed a pattern with women who have a history of self harm and an addiction to getting tattoos. Like my ex would blow off a car payment and shit to get them. I'm guessing they get a similar rush from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:16 PM
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Barista at the coffee shop complimented my eyes the other day. I'm pretty ambivalent to it. It's usually not an IOI, and it's not like they're complimenting something I worked for, so it's kind of useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:58 PM
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I'm curious, does she have a history of self harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:45 PM
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How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:36 PM
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Outside of subreddits like this I never see straight men talk about having no standards and being willing to fuck anyone. You've never heard of a friend having sex with a woman he'd rather you not know about or that he's not proud of? Never heard the term "slump buster?" There are plenty of guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:18 PM
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Or maybe it does have something to do with me. Why take the chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:14 PM
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I'm not intimidated. I'm not terribly impressed by corporate ladder climbers, though. I don't care if they're men or women. Those types of jobs are a means to an end to me, not something I have any passion for, and I think people who are boring. I definitely don't think they're "badass." A woman with a high level of education in art or history or something like that would probably be very interesting to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:39 AM
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32 inch inseam puts you at what, 71-72 inches tall? Being that tall with a 26 inch waist is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:59 AM
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I meant for me. And that's not me feeling sorry for myself or dragging myself. That's a pretty universally desirable woman who can pick pretty much any guy she wants, and she ain't picking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:37 AM
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Looks: Anything between 15-30% bodyfat according to this chart. I don't really have a racial or hair color preference other than gingers ain't it for me. Personality: Smart, has interesting things to talk about. Honest and loyal. Open-minded, but not so much she's a pushover. Good sense of humor, likes to tease and be teased. Affectionate and caring. Likes plenty of nights where we just cook together/for each other and watch a movie or play board games or something. Also sometimes likes to go ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:11 AM
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Anyone who gives more to someone than they get back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:04 AM
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I'm a dipshit. I thought you were taking some kind of therapy class, not that you were in therapy. I forgot they give out homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:39 AM
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How many men do you think give a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:31 AM
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I found a lot of those type of assignments to be more exercises in creative writing than anything. "Based on a true story" if you will. They don't really care if the traumas are real, they just care that you can correctly identify them well enough to make them up if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:17 AM
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Clearly it is, because you're clearly taking a comment that wasn't personal, personal. You're so blinded by rage you can't even calm down enough to read what I wrote. Have a nice night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:59 PM
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No, you incorrectly inferred that. I didn't say anything about high n-counts one way or the other. I was just pointing out that I don't need someone to tell me about their sexual history in plain English to make an educated guess about it based on other things they will tell me about their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:32 PM
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I care about what women have to say sometimes, I just don't care to hear her life story. Nothing about it was relevant to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:12 PM
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I love this bit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:04 PM
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I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:55 PM
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Yeah, but at least women usually try to shield their romantic partners from their gross shit as best they can. Or at least I feel like the women I've dated have. Idk you can say the same for dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:43 PM
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not to mention backpacking in Europe by myself. You've already told me all I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:37 PM
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China bans Facebook and Google because they want to control what information their population is exposed to. That's counter to our ideals in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:05 PM
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French people? Nice? Not likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:47 PM
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The small percentage of guys they're all trying to date have an abundance of options and treat them the way they treat most men. Many are incredibly full of themselves and are shocked to find out they're actually not all that impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:45 PM
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If it's a case big enough to make a company as large as the Match group collapse as you say, it could take years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:36 PM
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Anyone who cares deeply about politics and is also not making money off of it is a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:04 PM
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Can't disagree with you here. If he'd been in more than one relationship, he'd know it was over a long time ago. No amount of effort will make someone like/love you once they've decided they don't. Most of the time it just makes you look and feel like pathetic doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:53 PM
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Negative
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:45 PM
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Probably true here, but feminism has a lot of loud female supremacist voices within it which is probably what a lot of men react negatively to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:23 PM
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I think you're being intentionally obtuse here, and I'm not gonna give into it further.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:21 PM
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He's calling them his friends so obviously he must not feel like they're losers even if you do. People generally want the respect of their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:08 PM
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No one respects the guy who tries to wife the town bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:00 PM
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It's almost shocking how little self-respect men have and how much they'll put up with just keep some psychotic bitch in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:47 PM
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Never seen a skinny fat white guy with his shirt off at the beach?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:19 AM
1

At 25 bmi I look like a bag of milk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:09 AM
2

There are many people who would vote for anyone over Trump at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:01 AM
7

I won't argue with your personal experiences even though it does contradict my own. I do want to say I find it disgusting that every time I interact with a girlfriend's friends, they know way more details about me than they have any business knowing. How you all normalized that bullshit is beyond me, especially with how much you'd lose your shit if that was flipped on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:34 AM
3

Ok. Have a nice night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:49 AM
9

It's what the thread is about. If women aren't all competing for the same guys, you shouldn't have to worry much about 'having to wait in line.'
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:45 AM
13

This is you confirming the 80/20 rule then, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:36 AM
13

Do you think men typically discuss the internal dynamics of their relationships together like women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:25 AM
6

I don't think anyone really argues with the fact that men outside the top 20% get into relationships. There simply aren't enough of those men to go around. That doesn't mean the women who can't get a top 20% man are happy about having to settle and don't treat the men they settle for accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:21 AM
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Dating apps in general do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:04 AM
16

How is it bullshit? edit: He replied and then blocked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:35 AM
1

Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:30 AM
3

Crying over having to cook. Sounds about right for the average modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:40 AM
2

Even when you only have one option you don't have to settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:04 PM
5

Many women feel entitled to the benefits of feminism and traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:36 PM
2

Do you believe chores should be distributed evenly, or based on income?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:33 PM
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The most interesting part of this, and reading posts by cheaters in general, is how they claim to love their partner despite being duplicitous pieces of shit. This is what I think of when women wax poetic about how much they supposedly love their partners who could not be described as conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:50 PM
4

Neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:41 PM
1

Hating a quality about women doesn't mean I hate women. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:40 PM
1

If automation wipes out ~30% of jobs we're all gonna have a lot bigger problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:15 PM
3

Sitting at a desk for 8 hours doing boring and repetitive tasks is precisely what the public school system is training you to do. Those are the jobs most people will end up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:48 PM
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Sounds like this is the first nice thing she's said to him in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:21 PM
1

Thanks doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:09 PM
1

Eh, then so what
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:06 PM
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Tastes like an unflavored protein shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:31 PM
1

They are two separate kinds of loneliness. Every time this topic comes up I become more and more convinced that women are just fundamentally incapable of understanding male friendships because they're so different from female friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:10 PM
1

We both know men who describe themselves as being lonely are doing so because they lack a romantic partner, not because they lack male friends. One is not a substitute for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:57 PM
1

Apologies, I see now how my original comment would be confusing. I'm the guy who used to end up in unhappy relationships with those women. I'm not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:41 PM
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People have to do something to make me enjoy or want their company. Being a stranger who exists isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:39 PM
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So, reviews on dating apps might be helpful. Maybe not like, entire written reviews but a little snapshot. Choosing some qualities from a premade list of what this person was good at. Things like on time, good conversation, polite, had fun. That might be a little too on the nose for treating people like products, though. It'd ultimately be useless because people would get a lot of bad reviews just because they got rejected/didn't get what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:14 PM
2

It's a humiliation ritual some women ask the men they're dating to perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:43 PM
1

I had an ex who liked and bragged about her blowjob skills prior to us having any sexual contact. I wasn't worthy of ever getting head though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:21 PM
2

You're absolutely right. I think it's all about how easy or hard she thinks you will be to replace. Average guy? By nature they're a dime a dozen. Tall hot guy? Rare, might not be so easy to lock down another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:19 PM
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The concept of I will stay with a person that I am not sexually compatible with because they only have x type of sex is stupid. It doesn't seem stupid when your options are accept the sexual incompatibility, breakup and have no sex at all for god knows how long, or try to get her to come around (this is a fools errand). You're not wrong, it's just an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:14 PM
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No, women absolutely should not settle. An unhappy relationship is worse than no relationship. The guys who have never been in one just don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:58 PM
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That's beside the point. If we agree there aren't many left, which philosophy that doesn't work are you spending your time arguing against?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:53 PM
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It's the men you don't want a relationship with's fault that you don't want a relationship with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:51 PM
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Women tell men to lower their standards or stop bitching all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:47 PM
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If you just wanted to be in just any relationship, that wouldn't be that difficult to find, would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:43 PM
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This is a popular deflection from the fact that women who find it hard to find a relationship are choosing that hardship. It's not foisted upon you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:40 PM
2

Most people here aren't red pill anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:23 PM
1

I usually do speak for myself. That's what I've observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:43 AM
1

What comes next? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:42 AM
1

👊🏻 We're all gonna make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:37 AM
1

I feel like you're trying to be rhetorical here, but it's not really landing with me, sorry. You're gonna have to spoon feed it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:34 AM
1

I'm genuinely curious how many women actually employ this vetting strategy though? Idk, but it happens. I was made to wait 2 months by a woman who had had a lot of casual sex. She claimed all kinds of baggage made her afraid of physical intimacy and that she needed "time" to make sure I was going to stick around. In the back of my head I kinda knew I was getting played, even all but broke up with her one night over it, but I didn't have many options and she literally got on her knees crying and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:31 AM
1

You're right, I'm probably just projecting. I come back here when I'm miserable. A lot of people here are bitter in miserable, but some probably aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:02 AM
1

I stuck many a TP or wet wipe wrapped finger up my asshole over the years to make sure it's clean. You don't want to try to compete with me on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:48 AM
1

I guess anything's possible, but I'd bet on no unless they were both very young. Multiple Stacys or Stacy-lites throw themselves at Chad before Becky can't muster the courage to get a voice-cracked word out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:42 AM
2

I'm very concerned with having a spotless asshole and I assure you a bidet is the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:34 AM
1

Do you think Chads can end up with mediocre women because they don't know they're Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:32 AM
2

What makes you so much better? Are you in the process of doing anything that will benefit large amounts of other people or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:27 AM
1

In that case I'm not he'd be that bothered. Maybe if he had low self-esteem he'd figure he could do better, but I'm getting the vibe he wasn't really Chad in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:23 AM
4

Imagine not having a bidet in the current year.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:20 AM
1

It's not. If most men aren't interested in making new friends past a certain age, it's not really about how hard the men who do want to make friends are trying. The unfortunate reality is they're fighting a losing battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:16 AM
1

So she spoke about him positively?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:02 AM
1

That's kinda my whole point. Men don't value or seek friendships with men they haven't formed a strong bond with, and that bond is only formed only under specific circumstances. Women call women they've barely said 3 words to friends. It's harder and maybe even impossible past a certain to form more than superficial friendship after a certain age as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:57 AM
1

Qrd?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:33 AM
2

It's not really an effort issue. Men are just different. Just last week I chopped it up with another guy for half an hour. We shared a hobby and had a great conversation about it. We introduced ourselves by name at the beginning of the conversation, but when we parted ways, he reintroduced himself clearly having forgotten my name. Honestly, I didn't really remember his either. That's the norm among men. We only really bond over shared struggle and/or suffering. Women make friends much more easil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:22 AM
2

She does seem nice, but that doesn't mean she isn't also seeking attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:01 AM
1

Attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:58 AM
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I think they have to make significantly less effort than men do. Women have a much lower bar of what they'd describe as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:57 AM
2

Looksmatch doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:47 AM
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I think you're trying to pretend like men and women have the same struggles, and they really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:44 AM
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You can feel however you want. Like I said, it's basically all perception. Women definitely have an easier time getting people to care about their feelings of loneliness than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:41 AM
1

Whatever you say boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:39 AM
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What women consider loneliness and what men consider loneliness is laughably different. I could go years without any meaningful interaction with another human being if I wanted. I could say I'm lonely and people would blame me. If a woman says she's lonely people RUN to make her not feel lonely. They don't care about anything else about her, they just don't want her to feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:37 AM
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I'm sure there are women who have don't have anyone who care about them. The same is true for attractive men. It is very rare for attractive people not to have people who care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:31 AM
5

Dawg, you posted earlier questioning why men are so nice to you here. You know what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:27 AM
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Pink pill is misandrist. You identified as such. I've been here less than a week, I don't really know anything about you beyond that and our interaction the other day. Okay, on second thought, I really don't care about your opinions on biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:25 AM
2

I calls em as I sees em. How else would you attain the status of "PPD princess?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:21 AM
1

I'm gonna be honest, I'm not gonna read all this. You're only interested in having some kind of pointless 1:1 pissing contest and I'm trying to have a discussion. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:14 AM
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That's why I'm so hard on you. lol What do you think you're encouraging with that behavior? The truth is I align with the idea that there are biological influences that are a reality which shouldn't be ignored. Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:11 AM
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🎣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:08 AM
1

The ultimate signal you've gotten under a woman's skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:06 AM
2

even though I don't want to date, I still love talking about it and trying to understand people 👍 I don't believe you. "👍🏻"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:01 AM
-1

Why'd you change flairs? Did you find openly hating men to be a dead giveaway?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:58 AM
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You hate the other general claim to be content alone (misandrist mgtow), so why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:54 AM
1

Okay, sure, if you want to be pedantic about it, clinical depression exists. There are people who feel lonely despite having tons of people in their lives along with every other advantage. Fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:37 AM
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Not really. Many women feel insecure, lonely, or lazy and enter relationships that they're ultimately unhappy in. I'm living proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:34 AM
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I don't really understand why anyone who genuinely happy with their outcome in dating would be here. I'm skeptical of anyone here who claims to be happy in their relationship. I'm especially skeptical of her given how she comes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:30 AM
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You won't be. People are drawn to pretty people, whether it's for sexual purposes or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:14 AM
2

The only time I wear unflattering clothes is when I'm doing something where they're going to get trashed. Most of the stuff I wear highlights the attractive features I do have (wide shoulders/small waist, arms, legs). I don't like oils. I moisturize, and my skin is soft, but I don't like feeling greasy. If you think that or my lack in variety of underwear (a couple dozen pairs of boxer briefs) is what's making or breaking me I'd just have to laugh at you. Most women don't even get close enough t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:12 AM
8

She made enough friends in a year to be worried about the capacity of her apartment for a birthday party. I doubt they're all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:42 AM
1

It feels different when you're in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:39 AM
2

Nicer/more expensive places usually have more attractive clientele, so I hope you're not pinching pennies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:33 AM
2

Is there a recent census?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:11 AM
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Evil because they can't get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:26 AM
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Again, both naturally ugly and naturally attractive women put more effort into their appearance than the average man and the average man would absolutely do better if he put as much effort into his appearance as the average woman does. If you are unwilling to put effort into your physical attractiveness to the same level, then that’s your personal choice and that’s fine, but you can’t be surprised when people don’t find you attractive. I dress well enough that I regularly get compliments for it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:34 PM
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The average man does not possess the genetic gifts to be considered physically desirable by women. No amount of "trying" short of plastic surgery will change this. The only reason the average woman in the US is considered desirable is because men on average have a much wider range of what they're attracted to and lower standards. When I see an ugly or fat woman who takes good care of herself, I respect that she at least tries. It does not make me attracted to her, though. I'm much more likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:26 PM
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Lust is defined a "very strong sexual desire." Saying one can have a little bit of a very strong sexual desire is an oxymoron. The grey area you're looking for is between lust and revulsion. Men have sex with women they're not particularly attracted to just to get their rocks off. Women have sex with men they're neither lustful for nor repulsed by to secure a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:02 PM
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I didn't say perfect, I said special. There's a difference. Odds are you probably are good enough for somebody. You say live in a rural area, which can be isolating pretty easily. I'm sure someone has told you this, but you do gotta get out there in some fashion to meet anyone who might settle for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:48 PM
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The bar is LITERALLY on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:41 PM
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Idk how you can spend any length of time here and still believe in the idea that everyone has a person out there for them. Even a lot of people who pair up don't end up with something they find all that special, they were just good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:39 PM
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You are saying there more men in relationships than men who inspire lust from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:27 PM
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Women don't find average men physically desirable. You can put a wig, lipstick and a dress on a pig, but it's still gonna be a pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:25 PM
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Your comment implies lust is either felt or it isn't, and that men who not elicit lust from women can't still get investment from them. I'm aware not everything is binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:06 PM
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Senseable inhabitions intigrate He might want to get to the point where he fully grasps his native English before he tries to learn another language.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:59 PM
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My mistake. I thought you were implying a physically undesirable person could become sexy just by learning to act in a sexy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:52 PM
0

Many states do not have a specific brandishing law, but pulling or flashing a gun just to threaten someone is a punishable offense under other statutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:34 PM
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This would actually be great advice for a lot of Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:24 PM
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Why would anyone want a relationship where there's no lust? That means either there's no sex or just duty sex. Women complain time and time again about feeling like masturbatory devices, but what is sex with no lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:20 PM
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The majority of men have no idea how to be sexy and then act shocked women don’t desire them. Women don't give men who aren't already sexy the opportunity to be seductive. Women actively avoid situations where they might encounter men who might try this. It does not appeal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:13 PM
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Resenting the fact that women don't find you attractive doesn't mean you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:00 PM
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I don't think it's wise to go around provoking strangers. Maybe that makes me a bitch, but you never know what kind of psycho you're gonna run into. There's no shortage of people willing to throw their whole life away just because they don't want to feel like they got punked. I think most women would have the reaction she did. It's a primal thing. What's maybe the one thing basically all women can agree they want to feel with their partner? Safe and protected. This is evidence he either isn't wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:12 PM
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Brandishing is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:56 PM
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I'm average and all but one woman I've been in a relationship with had some degree of a casual sex history. From one who who slept with dozens of men to just a handful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:21 PM
2

I wonder what the motivation is for women like this to post threads like that. Women usually say they don't really get validation from men they think are ugly, and let's be honest, the average redditor is nothing to write home about. They also must know they're not ugly. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:50 AM
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Nevertheless they still got the girl. Getting the girl doesn't mean anything. Most guys can get a woman to settle for them eventually. Most of these women have little to no affection for these men and the men are expected to basically worship her anyways. If they buck this at all, she leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:55 AM
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This idea of men not wanting to "raise another man's kids" is so gross. Love and family isn't about biology. I personally believe raising and supporting another man's offspring is a form of cuckoldry, but I can give a practical reason not to do it: If you grow to love that child like they're your own, but down the line you break up with their parent, you will lose the child too. You have no legal right to be in their lives like you would if you were a biological parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:12 AM
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I understand sex tourists. I do not understand the men who bring one of those girls home with them. If women don't like you at home, foreign women won't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:16 PM
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I think a lot of that is just bitter women lashing out because they know dick size is a source of insecurity for most men. I'm not saying women don't care about dick size, because they do, but it's not that high on most women's priority list and if you're average or above you're probably fine. Men should be far more insecure about their face, hair, height, frame, and body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:07 PM
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They're probably at least half-way feral.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:23 PM
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That's some projection by those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:20 PM
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Did this really happen or are you making it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:04 PM
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I would think so, but the amount of women who complain about dating and fucking dudes who didn't wash their ass makes me question it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:37 PM
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The funny thing is I think a lot of women already do. If you can't find a woman to at least settle for you as a guy, that's rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:27 PM
2

So you want a guy to come along and pay your bills, but what do they get out of it? You sound very cold so it's not gonna be companionship and warmth, you don't like fun, and you don't like sex. I'm not trying to insult you here, I'm just not sure why even a guy who was desperate would go for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:21 PM
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Most guys are not getting attention like with any sort of frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:49 PM
2

if anything the average guy would discover he is no ones type. Couldn't agree more. More men need to discover other interests and put dating aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:42 PM
2

Yes, the ROI of effort for most men in the SMP and RMP is quite poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:21 PM
1

The something else is that I'm not that good looking lol. It's not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:13 PM
1

My point is, who cares what they think about the compliment. Say what you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:29 AM
2

Why wouldn't you compliment another man's tattoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:16 AM
1

You don't know anything about me or what I've been through.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:59 AM
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My business is sales. I can't tell you how many times I've had someone seem like a sale in the room only for them walk out and the door and never hear from them again. If you don't close them on the spot, don't get your hopes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:56 AM
7

What on earth am I reading? Someone babbling incoherently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:44 AM
1

Sarcasm or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:41 AM
1

How are you gonna tell me about my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:36 AM
1

And so was I was I.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:26 AM
2

Hey, after you're done with school, you've only got 30+ years of work to look forward to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:01 AM
3

Lol, no. The approval of women or lack thereof is absolutely not a reason to kill yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:56 AM
2

OLD isn't a good option by any means, but it is your best option these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:51 AM
1

The OP wasn't even talking about the whole combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:42 AM
6

If they have to jump through hoops to get laid, they're still losers of the sexual market places. At the end of the day, women don't fuck them for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:30 AM
1

the unbalanced relationship is also causing more single ppl. How do you figure? People settle for unbalanced relationships out of desperation, not because they just didn't wait long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:26 AM
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You said I missed the ones that are really questionable and I'm telling you I didn't. I don't really give a fuck what you think you're discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:22 AM
1

That wouldn't really lead to more balanced relationships. It just leads to more people staying single. I'm fine with that personally, but I don't think most people are cool with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:14 AM
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Uh, no, I didn't. I just focused in on the ones that are non-negotiable for me personally. A good BJ is not high on my priority list, I don't need someone to cook clean, or do my laundry for me, and I don't want side chicks. I'd definitely prefer she have no/few guy friends, but it's not an automatic deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:07 AM
2

So every other quality is realistic? I never thought my standards were all that high, but shit, they truly are in the gutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:58 AM
1

How would you go about that? How you make someone feel something they don't feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:50 AM
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is 100 percent faithful to you/no drama. I guess a woman who doesn't cheat on me and pick random stupid fights is too much to ask. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:40 AM
1

I think that's pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:30 AM
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Here's how I think about it: 41% of first marriages end in divorce. Can we assume the remaining marriages are all happy? Nope. Are enough of them unhappy to reach greater than 50%? I'd bet on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:29 AM
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Haha, I tried to tell ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:17 AM
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No, I really can't. I pretty successfully avoided all content like this for the last 2+ years, but what women say online really tracks with how I've been treated most of the time. Before, I thought I just had bad luck. Now I know they feel contempt towards me because they feel they're lowering themselves by dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:04 AM
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Yeah, maybe. I've felt smothered because of it, but thinking about doing better is antithetical to the way I think. Do you think this imbalance is avoidable? If so, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:44 AM
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Nah, she just has time to reflect on how she probably could do better because this loser worships the ground she walks on and she feels kinda meh towards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:14 AM
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Yes, I can tell from personal experience that the lifting of the veil will kill any optimism and love you had for men. I'd had some pretty terrible experiences, but I still had a lot of hope I'd find my person one day until I started reading what women say about men online. And for me, there's no going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:02 AM
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I appreciate you and your comments here. You handled this discussion much better than I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:56 PM
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How often do you go around gassing up men who've done nothing for you? I'm gonna put my money on never since you openly identify yourself as subscribing to a misandrist ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:43 PM
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Respect and appreciation aren't the same thing. I never said women don't deserve a basic level of respect. Everyone does. Why is not praising women equivalent to "fuck em?" It's more just ambivalence to most women. I appreciate women who do things for me. I'm not here to make women who've done nothing for me personally feel better about themselves. Women aren't doing so for me, nor do I expect them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:29 PM
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You're not really holding them accountable for their actions if they don't know what they're being held accountable for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:41 PM
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If a woman laments about how little women are appreciated for things that we are expected to do, assume she is being genuine about her experience and try to sympathize. Doing what's expected of you (whatever the hell you mean by that) is the bare minimum. No one's throwing a parade for men who do the bare minimum, either, so why should we appreciate women for doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:23 PM
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If a woman uses a guy for his money or treats random men badly even when they did nothing wrong, I and other women who aren’t similarly shitty women would hold her accountable. I have never seen this, so shitty women must be the majority. What I have seen a lot is women defend and even encourage other women when they're being shitty because "she's a woman and he's a man so he must've done something to provoke her." For example, when women cheat, according to women it's always the boyfriend/husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:06 PM
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Oh, thanks. The more you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:59 PM
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I started dressing well in my mid-late 20s after not really giving a shit to that point. I regularly get compliments on what I wear, and the (limited but never non-existent) attention I got from women stayed pretty much the same. It's not nearly the difference maker women on here always make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:46 PM
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Maybe not in the us Yeah, this is the problem. In the US the cute woman you described is highly sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:37 PM
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I could be misinformed, but if a man is not married, the mother is going to find out you have suspicions when you don't sign the birth certificate. If you are married, you're automatically assumed to be the father and will be on the hook for child support regardless of whether you share DNA with that child or not. I'm talking about the US. YMMV in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:09 PM
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You're either being insincere or you've never visited any female centric subreddit. Women are just as vicious in expressing their anger, bitterness, and hatred of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:02 PM
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I wonder if people who are happy and satisfied are the minority or the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:54 PM
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My friends would describe their partners as attractive and hot Would they? Have you actually heard them say that? I'm not hot and no girl I've ever been with would have described me as such. I also see a lot of women online describe guys they were or are in relationships with as only somewhat attractive or even downright ugly. Seems to me women often end up with partners they don't find hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:54 PM
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It was the opposite for me. When I became unafraid of them leaving, they left.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:43 PM
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You're right, on Tinder (I doubt it's much different anywhere else) the average woman swipes right 7% of the time. It's in the "how you measure up to others" part of the report.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:29 PM
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Well that and to slander men they've never met of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:59 PM
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Most couples meet online, so no, definitely not the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:17 PM
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No, it's the same 20%, it's just that not every woman finds every top 20% man attractive. Most individual women will tell you they only find about 1% of men they encounter attractive. Individual women who've posted their data from dating apps usually swiped right on less than 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:35 AM
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If your only goal is to get laid, sure. We're talking about relationships here. People who are single in their late 30s are single for good reason and are the absolute bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:13 AM
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Men cheat more they just do This is factually untrue. Men and women cheat at about the same rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:02 AM
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Frequency doesn't matter. Can she envision herself in a situation where she might want to wear heels? Yes? Any guy she dates needs to be noticeably taller than her in heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:49 AM
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Who argues that? Women definitely aren't being oppressed in the west nowadays though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:18 AM
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Same reason why the “genderqueer” stuff is huge in the Anglosphere and much smaller in France The opening ceremony of the olympics made this statement age worse than milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:06 AM
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Flair tracks. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:49 AM
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I prefer it my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:44 AM
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They're the same thing as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:29 AM
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I think those guys want a definitive answer as to whether or not they're hopeless. Unfortunately for them, they're not gonna get that answer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:10 AM
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Can they? I know an awful lot of guys who are their wife's bitch. I've even been through that myself. I knew I couldn't do better than her, even years later I still haven't, but eventually I started telling her no and a few months later she left me for another guy. How many guys are willing to risk dying alone to maintain their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:48 AM
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Why would you assume men's standards being too high is what's preventing them from finding relationships? Numerous polls say far more women than men are single and not looking. Women can't stop talking on social media about how men ain't shit and about how happy they are alone. Many of the large investment banks predict more and more women will remain single longer and longer going forward and are betting unfathomably large sums of money on it. It's far more reasonable to believe it's women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:03 AM
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Genuine response and so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:49 AM
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