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| 6 | Divorcing because of infidelity. But why do I forget that?This is an interesting question between the reality of the situation and what we want. I am no psychologist or psychotherapist.. but do love these conversations. I think we start to pacify and want to be gentle for the gentleness we want for ourselves .. And the hard rational boundaries become a little distant.. We are those boundaries though... You knew what happened and you knew how it was clear... Because either that we have to face being humiliated probably again for a relationship that ..we… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 10:41 AM |
| 4 | Everything collapsed at once and my wife just asked for a divorceI have not gone through anything like yours but I had communal, familial, religious pressure instead of what you're going through. You have to believe that if it's this shitty now, it can be un-shitty at another time.. My other thing is , in life what ever stage we're at we ** have** to just keep going. If someone told me that when I was going through divorce etc id have punched them, told them to f off.. etc.. It's not helpful I get it ... But it sometimes just comes down to.hope and survival. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/25 11:21 PM |
| 6 | 8 months after "the talk"Well done for all that. It all sounds well reasoned even though each step seems like a punch to the gut. We can only keep moving in this life and I hope for yourself that you find a positive/ calm/ kind space with all the efforts you have shown here. As you said... Onward! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/25 04:22 PM |
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