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| 5 | Does the pressure for marriage on early dates ever slow down?Yes absolutely. I am 37 and it's prevalent. The apps simply do not let me match with anyone who wouldn't be in this stage in their early and mid 20s. It's also the vibe I have. It's either early 30s women who want their next bf to be their husband. Sometimes it's childless divorcees who would find me a soft landing before they go on a full dick carousel. Single moms who need a bailout. But some 23 year old ? No, not really. I am almost 14 years older than someone that age and unless they reallll… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/26 12:37 AM |
| 2 | New to Dating AppsThere are different arrangement types. If you have an ongoing semi exclusive sugar relationship, an allowance is a common method. We are talking basically seeing each other 1-2x a week and perhaps even being exclusive. If you see each other infrequently, a more ...amortized allowance is common for each visit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/26 07:12 PM |
| 1 | New to Dating AppsI think we all know that all these women are just after money. Some you pay up front, some you pay in alimony. You can have a relationship with one if you really want to, but it's much easier emotionally for me to just see a few. It's compensated dating. They don't like to view it as transactional but you are just "helping them out". Personally I don't have a problem with it and it helps me punch way above my weight with young/slim/tall women that I otherwise have no shot with. You give them som… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/26 06:33 AM |
| 1 | New to Dating AppsThey are my local ones and I just rotate meeting one every 2-3 weeks. They are so flaky and chaotic being mid 20s that you have to have redundancies. They will make plans and cancel them because they had to do laundry instead or something insanely stupid or arrive 3 hours later than you planned to meet them. I only have one day to meet and as you can imagine when the day comes something always comes up with one of them, so you kind of have to have backups or that day is wasted. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/26 06:31 AM |
| 1 | New to Dating AppsThis comment is gold and deserves to sit at the top. If you are in anyway desirable women will try to lock you into the next "thing". They are all therapy speak until you say the same thing about communication and preferences. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/26 01:09 AM |
| 2 | New to Dating AppsIf you want really addicting, join a sugar daddy website. Become a sugar daddy and realize you can date women who are 10-25 years younger than you for a small amount of money rather than deal with women your age or older who are complete trainwrecks and expect that same level of financial commitment in a different form eventually. Dating apps shovel complete trainwrecks onto my plate. Seeking let's me at least find a sexy 20-25 year old. I am on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Feeld, tried BLK, tried Woo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/26 12:59 AM |
| 3 | more mad at wife's friend than i am at my wife over divorceThis is a super common dynamic. Had an ex that had a bunch of friends who were her close girlfriends who by all accounts, were mid losers. Never seen them dating anyone. Yet she confided in them about our relationship and asked for advice constantly. Would guys ask advice from their less attractive, relationship less friends? Yet women do this all the time. Of course a divorced woman is going to advocate for divorce, just like a married woman will advocate that your girlfriend get married becaus… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/26 11:18 PM |
| 9 | Have any of you just decided to accept thingsOf course she still loves you! You pay all her bills. Why do you think every society throughout history and race has used religion to subjugate women? Because otherwise they all end up in a harem. She is getting provisioning from you, got bored, has nothing stopping her (family/friends/religion/society) and is using apps like she is single. I am on a million apps like Feeld and see women like this ALL the time. They say they are in an open relationship and post a picture with their husband but t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/26 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Do you think social media has a lot of influence on my future divorce?Yeah, kind of, probably. It's not even seeing someone you know's posts. It's the reels feed. It's insidious and starts to show you more and more content you engage with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | (M44) I'm attractive enough to pull gorgeous matches but I'm too weird to keep themIt's kind of like when people have kids and date someone else with kids and all they end up is talking about their kids and not actually learning about the other person. Just because someone asks you a question doesn't mean you have to give an essay answer, you can redirect. And if you are constantly getting those questions, figure out what the tone is of your profile pictures or prompts that is inviting that and use your profile to display your individual personality, not your personal life his… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 11:08 PM |
| 2 | (M44) I'm attractive enough to pull gorgeous matches but I'm too weird to keep themA few things that popped out to me in your post is that you talking about your divorce, your myers briggs and being too open. Part of the push and pull of a date is talking about the other person's life. If you are volunteering a bunch of info, that can be viewed as a info dump, trauma dump or whatever you want to call it. Some people may smile and be polite, but they don't like that, and they will judge what you are saying too. I would be more guarded about the things you are sharing on a first… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you navigate relationships in 2026 as a middle aged man? (3x Divorced)Personally I do not have your dream of wanting to grow old with someone. I see my parents together and I love my parents but they have a life together I grew up in and would describe as a living hell. My mother browbeats my father and it has diminished his masculinity severely most of his life. She is economically dependent on him and has no other options. I view myself as very different from him but susceptible to the same traps. It is my nightmare to end up trapped under the thumb of someone w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Feel Loneliness Even with a Solid FWB?Are you exclusive? Can she or you see other people? If the answer is no, then this is a relationship that is mostly sex. Good for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Dating woman for 10 months but she maintains multiple IG accountsGive me her instagram and i'll take one for the team and seduce her. If she rebuffs me, you will know you have a keeper. If she fails, then you will know. Alternatively you can make a fake account and do the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 11:36 PM |
| 3 | 3 weeks of dating haven’t been idealBest advice right here. People (both men and women) have learned that saying "I just want casual" leads to them being treated disrespectfully (women) or ignored/chewed out (men) So both men and women have learned to say "I want something serious" as a means to widen their pool and if it starts casual or becomes casual, so be it. That is why so many of them want you to hit or let you hit and then reconsider after 1 or 2 times. Because they themselves may think they know what they want in a broade… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/26 03:05 PM |
| 9 | Wife asked for a divorce end of May, doesn’t seem to have an exit plan"But I’m not going to financially support you while you date other guys." This is the end state most women want from their husband. Be thankful you didn't get gaslit into being a stag/vixen or cuck while she goes on dating apps and acts like she never got married. She wants to live in some apartment downtown and fuck other guys. Just don't let your emotional attachment let you get roped into paying any of that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 10:34 PM |
| 4 | You know what I think? I don't think these chicks really wanted marriage and kids to begin with. They just thought they did.They just want the wedding. You can see it clear as day because they are shitty gfs to begin with and just want the facebook/instagram status change and photos. They don't want what comes after. That's why they are always the ones pushing for commitment and marriage. It's a status and rite of passage for them and entrapment for guys. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/26 06:56 PM |
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