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Yeah, most of the people I know with kids aren’t the responsible stably employed well adjusted adults that this subreddit assumes has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:16 PM
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In addition to your point expectations for raising children have grown exponentially in the last two generations. My grandfather was regularly left at home alone and walked two miles to school both ways as a 1st grader. If that happened now CPS would get involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:53 PM
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When I say expansion of women’s rights I am speaking specifically about women. Men can’t get abortions or take birth control (although they can use other types of contraceptives). My main point is the decline in the birthrate is a predicated on a ton of different social and structural factors. Obviously I don’t believe that because women’s liberation and rights is a factor in this decline we should roll them back. However we can acknowledge it’s a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:49 PM
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The birth rate decline is based on such a confluence of issues that both sides are right. The political right it is correct that the expansion of women’s rights has contributed to the birth rate decline. The political left is also right because there is not a lot of incentive or help with raising children or parental leave. The birth rate decline is happening from such a confluence of different issues that there’s no real solution. Anecdotally from my experience, living amongst many male and fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:24 AM
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Even then it doesn’t make a difference. Countries with paid parental leave for both parents still have declining birth rates. It’s a confluence of different factors and in my opinion the biggest one is that thee is simply more fun stuff to do and that having kids hinders your ability to do that stuff as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:15 AM
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Why do you think men in fraternities have such an easier time getting laid? All else being equal they just have a lot more low pressure low stakes exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:42 AM
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I think it’s funny that we’re all supposed to pretend that the women wearing what is essentially extremely tight underwear to the gym are doing so for reasons completely unrelated to attention seeking. Nothing inherently wrong for doing so but be honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:56 AM
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Living in a country with %10 obesity really skews the market for men. Most men’s biggest physical turnoff for women is obesity so less obesity really opens the market. In America if a woman is under 140 it nearly automatically puts her in the top third of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:54 PM
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lol yeah, people complain about how their husband is maliciously holding back on household chores. In reality they probably just don’t even think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:42 AM
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While the incomes of men and women are pretty similar anecdotally I’ve noticed at least in my friend/age group women are entering marriages more over leveraged and in more debt. My experiences may contrast with yours but that’s just what I’ve noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:31 PM
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As someone who works in IT, a lot of “weaponized incompetence” is just laziness and learned helplessness. If you don’t know how to do something google it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:55 PM
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Yup, thankfully I have an amazing wonderful non delusional girlfriend but her friends are insane. For example, my GF’s roommate is a 5’2 190 lbs woman working a 50 K a year job. Naturally she will only like >6 foot tall, fit, high earning men on dating apps and complains she can’t find a guy who. She complains to my GF about how she just can’t seem to find a guy like me. It takes all of my power not to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:23 PM
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Yup! I’ve noticed women who are truly into me and want me to want them all the sudden have little to no boundaries. When women aren’t that into me they have all sorts of boundaries and hoops I have to jump through.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:02 PM
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In fairness prostitution is still very illegal in most of the US. If we had a Netherlands model of prostitution I think a lot more guys would be ok with paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:47 PM
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Yup, this hits the nail on the head. I consider myself a feminist but realistically even staunchly feminist women will stick to this norm. I’ve dated a handful of women who’ve actually split 50/50 on a first date but the majority of women I’ve dated have the expectation you’ll pay at least on the first couple of dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:03 PM
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I think most men are generally pretty good people. In my opinion though attraction from women (and men too) is pretty amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:53 PM
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The truly top tier committal men are not on the market very long, the top tier non committal men always have their options open. When you go into the middle tier you also have committal and non committal men but they aren’t nearly as successful at getting into relationships or “situationships” they will go months or years between getting laid or talking to women seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:23 PM
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A little bit of all the above. Depends on the woman, and depends on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:39 PM
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Unfortunately capitalism makes hypocrites of us all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:56 PM
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That and those guys sometimes straight up lie about their intentions or they kick the can down the road saying they need more time before they can make the commitment but the magical time just never comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:07 PM
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From a Birds Eye perspective it seems obvious to us that it’s a zero sum game for those women. When they’re on the dating apps and sleeping with these guys it’s not as clear. To them it feels like they’re a lot closer to getting commitment from those guys than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:00 PM
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I have to disagree, especially early on in dating women (like men) want to date someone that impresses their friends. Anecdotally as someone who has seen this conversation happen in real time multiple times when a woman’s friends think a guy is ugly or they have some bad trait like height you’d be surprised on how easily they get dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:23 PM
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I also think a lot of women don’t really date with intentionality. They want commitment but they don’t really put up a whole lot of boundaries with guys they really want (attractive guys) in fear their boundaries will scare them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:58 PM
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Dang I guess I’m in the top 20% then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:52 PM
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I would hesitate to say “women ruined dating”. Like with the free market people make decisions that they think will be in their best interest. Women are simply doing just that. That it leads to issues like a minority of men getting a majority of women’s attention is an unintended consequence because people are making decisions independently of each other. When you go to a restaurant with tons of ok options and a few incredible options why would you pick the less optimal meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:45 PM
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Idk man just vibes ig
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:55 PM
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I’m in a relationship now, when I was single though I’d be going on a handful of first dates a month and then going on a couple more 2nd, 3rd, and 4th dates depending on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:33 PM
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I think you’re a bit off on this one. Women generally are more neurotic when it comes to household chores. Granted I think women are judged more harshly if they don’t have a clean space. I’ve lived with male and female roommates and when I lived with all guys the bathrooms would be cleaned like once a month and house would be deep cleaned bi yearly. When you live with women everything has to be cleaned much more intensely and frequently. I don’t think when I lived with guys we ever owned a mop o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:10 PM
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This is my experience also, of all the women I’ve met online have not been on there a long time. Usually under two weeks rarely over a month. They’ll go on bursts of dates then they’ll either meet a guy they like and go exclusive or burnout after 5-10 first dates. This explains why women are so flakey early on, if you’re currently or recently seeing 5-15 different guys in the past month you need to be able to drop a lot of them pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:40 PM
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It’s a lot easier to have pride when you have options other than sleeping on a park bench during a Michigan winter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:18 AM
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Honestly this is terrible of me but it depends. I dated this pilot once who made gobs of money, I knew she cheated on me, multiple times, but I didn’t want to give up on the perks that came along with dating a very high earner. Pride buys you nothing in this world, by swallowing my pride I got to experience some great experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:48 PM
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Hard disagree, contraception like plan-b is, but condoms are cheap 😂😂 hell they even give them out for free sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:46 PM
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Yeah, that’s my experience in general. I’m Catholic and I think God calls everyone to treat others with the basic respect and kindness that Christ showed to others in the gospels. Don’t expect that by doing that it will help you in dating because it won’t. Women want attractive men first and then prefer kind men after that first filter. Not that they’re wrong to do so, but it’s just disappointing to see online about how “the bar is on the floor”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:45 PM
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People like having their cake and eating it too more news to come at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:41 PM
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Honestly….. Sex and the City.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:38 PM
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I think the big disconnect is what people mean by dating advice. Really dating advice can be broken down into two categories Relationship advice and Attraction advice. When men say they want dating advice they want advice that will attract women to them. What a lot of women respond with is relationship advice. For example when a guy asks how do I get a woman to like me women often respond with be a good person, or respect her. While of course they should do those things on their own those aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:31 PM
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In those situations I usually just talk to them to see where they’re at. I dated a very devout Catholic for a few months. Sure we didn’t have sex but she was always making something for me or always wanted to spend time with me. Didn’t work out because we had irreconcilable differences but I would have waited for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:23 AM
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Yeah, there’s not a hard fast fast requirement that because she hooked up with a couple people after first meeting them means she needs to hook up just after meeting me. But if after 3 to 5 dates and we’re still not hooking up that’s is just wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:04 PM
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Love the guy, but that dude hasn’t learned shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:14 AM
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The funniest thing ever although it was a super dick move on my end was a pledge in my fraternity was taking this girl on dates treating her really nice and she wouldn’t fully commit to him and wouldn’t get sexual beyond making out because she was demisexual. He brought her to a fraternity party and I saw her on the dance floor started grinding with her asked her if she wanted to see my room and then we fucked. Dick move on me but “demisexual” my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:25 PM
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Funny enough both of the self proclaimed demisexuals I’ve met in my life also hooked up with me the same night they met me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:19 PM
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Fair, and you’re free not too. Most men around me and my own lived experience tend toward the idea of she actually wants you she’ll sleep with you early on extenuating circumstances aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:51 PM
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I think a lot of young women are people pleasers. If a guy is taking you out, texting you everyday, being respectful, being genuinely nice etcetera it’s kind of hard to flat out say no to more dates. A lot of women avoid the confrontation of saying no to men who are otherwise pretty good men just not very attractive. Because honestly men will sometimes switch up and do/say some mean things. So they’ll go on tons of dates with these nice but not super attractive guys. These guys think she’s into …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:44 PM
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Sure there could very well be a different reason women aren’t a monolith. Usually those reasons are thrown out the window when she meets a guy she actually wants. Does this happen every time? Certainly not. But I’ve seen a lot of women string guys along and put up tons of boundaries with them but then throw all the boundaries out the window when they can sleep with a guy they want. I’ve been both men and seen it first hand. It is kind of pride inducing when I hooked up with a woman who was makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:36 PM
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Yeah, I think it’s unfair to expect a woman to hookup on the first date with me even if she’s done it in the past. But if we’re getting into dates 4-5 but we’re still not having sex then it’s a huge red flag to me that she isn’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:29 PM
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At least for me I understand that a first date hookup is pretty rare and I don’t expect women to do it on a first date with me even if they’ve done it in the past. However, after a few dates (usually around 5) and we’re still not sleeping together then it’s a huge red flag that she just isn’t into me and I need to pull the plug.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:27 PM
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Every comment on this post reads like “women aren’t a monolith not every woman is like that” and sure not every woman but every guy I know and my own lived experience shows that a woman who genuinely wants you 9/10 times will hook up with you pretty early on the ones who aren’t usually won’t and will be happy to have you as an orbiter or one of her options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:22 PM
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I have yet to meet a woman who isn’t super religious or a virgin who hasn’t broken their own rules and hooked up with a guy early and made other men she wasn’t as into wait. I’m sure it’s not every woman but I think it’s pretty disingenuous to say it’s not most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:10 PM
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Again not every woman, and it’s not the only indicator although imo it’s the biggest and of course no one should be shamed or harassed for setting boundaries. But, in my experience most if not all women who wanted to be in a relationship with me usually don’t wait past the fifth hangout before sleeping with me. The ones who like the free dates and other benefits (I’m pretty wealthy and treat women I like to nice experiences) usually want to put off sex and entering a relationship. Of course ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:07 PM
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In a perfect world you would be right. In reality though if a woman is really into you it’s crazy how all that stuff will go out the window. At least anecdotally I know women who’ve I’ve hooked up an hour after meeting have strung along guys for months and put up boundaries for them and not me. On the flip side I’ve also been one of those guys and seen the same thing happen. Not every woman obviously but the amount of times I’ve seen it in my life is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:56 PM
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Yup usually I pull the plug after around date 5 if we haven’t had sex. I do make exceptions (super religious women or virgins) but generally by date five if they haven’t put out they aren’t that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:43 PM
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I’m not saying sex is the only thing that makes men happy but men generally like women who have sex with them. Anecdotally, women who actually like me and want to date me have little to no boundaries regarding sex. Women who don’t or when I’m not their first option always want to take things slow and have tons of boundaries. I’m sure it’s not like this in every situation but this is most of the lived experiences of men around me and my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:41 PM
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I mean obviously speaking in broad strokes from my experience women who are hesitant in hooking up often just aren’t that into me or I’m just not their first option. Sure there are exceptions but if we don’t hookup on the first few dates that usually means I’m getting a text saying “I don’t feel a romantic connection”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:35 PM
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Yeah, but at least in my experience most (not all) women if they want to lock down a guy want to keep him as happy as possible. Easy way to help him stay happy is to sleep with him. Again not every woman but if a woman puts up tons of boundaries regarding sex that usually signals to me she “doesn’t feel a romantic connection”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:26 PM
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Yup, of course not every time but I’ve noticed women who are really into me all the sudden don’t seem have many boundaries if any. Women who don’t seem that into me really love to take things slow and see where it goes (almost always that means “your a great guy but I don’t feel a romantic connection”)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 05:20 PM
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It’s a numbers game and there are very few conservative young women compared to conservative young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:25 PM
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Fair, I mean every standard (for the most part) I have is pretty open to changes for the right person. Also, I imagine as a fit petite woman you need the ability to be pretty strict with the filtering or else dating would be information overload.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:53 PM
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Fair, out of genuine curiosity and again not trying to be rude or anything but would you value a masters in something like communications which in my opinion is not very academically rigorous more than a bachelors in something like engineering or accounting? Again I’m just genuinely curious I pretty much have the same standards except mine is a bachelors with the exception of one woman I dated who happened to be a pilot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:02 PM
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I have to ask, not trying to say your standards are unreasonable or anything but why specifically a minimum of a Masters degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:45 PM
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I don’t think many of them lie per se but a lot of the accusations come with some sort of grey area. For example I remember my freshman year roommate in college had sex with a woman and they were, by their own admittance, both black out drunk. She cried rape like a month later and there was a whole investigation and tons of different rumors swirling on campus. He was found not guilty per the preponderance of evidence but it didn’t matter, reputation was ruined, was guilted to quit the swim team …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:55 PM
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Yup, as someone who has a ~20 person body count at 25 women are extremely judgmental about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:18 PM
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IME demisexuality doesn’t exist, the two demisexuals I met also hooked up with me on the first date. Yeah it is a small sample size but I feel like a lot of people who say they’re demisexual do so to feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:36 PM
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