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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 46 | It's over... tfg | Top_Translator_7587 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 07:00 PM |
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| 2 | STBXW (lawyer) stalling divorce. Are there any predictable loopholes for delaying pre-trial conference?My ex dragged it out. We separated. She took a loan against a 401k. So she was scorned and had deep pockets. She was angry enough not to care about the financial fallout of Hurricane Karen. Theoretically, a restraining order should have prevented that loan. Finances were supposed to more or less freeze. But no one seemed to care. In all honesty, it worked for me. No one ever asked me to pay her lawyer fees. So I got a 50% off coupon from that. So back to the question. Predictable loopholes... I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Sell the houseHonestly, it's kind of difficult to know what you're asking. If the house is community property, it's going to be resolved in one of three ways: (1) appraisal and refi buyout (2) appraisal and loan assumption buyout or (3) sold to a stranger at market value. Once you're divorced, it will be owned by one, the other, or neither with all strings resolved and cash distributed by CP rules. There's really no link to who owns the house and child support. Your youngest reaching 18 usually ends child sup… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 11:59 PM |
| 15 | The yada yada yada law of divorceI'm not sure a rug even exists. My ex rebooted. She has all new friends. New boyfriend. New car. She rarely does anything with our children. Last I knew, she and her mom are back to fighting. They had a temporary truce to gang up on me. I removed myself from that equation. So I think they turned on each other. We don't walk the same circles any more. And she can rewrite her history without any accountability. “An SEP,” he said, “is something that we can't see, or don't see, or our brain doesn't … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | My wife came home from work today and asked for a divorceToo much. You're imagining the big picture in your head. It's not going to work. It's not going to be accurate. It's going to drive you nuts. Look at the small picture. Pick maybe 2% of your worries a week, preferably the easy ones. Address those. Life normalizes. It's uncomfortable and stressful getting there. But eventually the new normal becomes comfortable and doable again. It's chicken shit to check out. It's life brother. Stick it out. This is exactly how you provide for your kids. Be ther… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | House during divorceSame situation. She moved out. I stayed in the house. Two years later, we settled the divorce. Three months later, we sold the house. No crystal ball of course. But here are the numbers I saw. I stayed and made payments. This built up an extra 30k in equity. The market went up too. I expected to get 640k for the home early into the process. We ended up getting 725k two years later. That's about 115k extra for waiting. Today, that number is very unstable. The market is all over the place. Lawyer … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 12:48 AM |
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