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Life is much better once you get rid of this surrealistic fear of dying alone. Everybody dies alone. All these people around you are not going to die at the same time as you. They will not share your thoughts or fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:30 PM
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In the lack of genders, nobody has any initiative to have children. Happening now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:17 AM
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There was a question, so there is an answer. Personally I'm good, thank you. It just happens to me to pull much younger, when keeping all the problems to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:46 PM
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I am a male myself, but still vomit violently at any thought of any male weakness. Better to suffer in silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:04 PM
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Any form of weakness is seen as a death sentence to men attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:58 PM
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How many hours, on average, do you spend every day oppressing women? Would it be possible to ramp it down a little?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:54 AM
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If it was the case, then I would need to reduce my expectations. Happily, it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:17 PM
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No. Has to be the best for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:47 PM
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With the first one I was. A few years later, with the other ones, I was obviously not. I wasn't actively looking for it, it just happened. From my own point of view, it was each time a great experience, regardless of my own virginity status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:57 AM
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Fine point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:24 AM
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You don't get it. Understandable. You call it nonsense. Understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:23 AM
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Being a millionaire is valuable and fun. Buying food and going on vacations is just a nice life when you have any income and has nothing to do with being a millionaire. Can we just agree that I happen to value it and you happen to not? It's the greatest thing you can ever get in the area of relationships. Beyond comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:16 AM
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Have you ever experienced being somebody's first? Somebody who was valuable to you and vice versa. Sailing together to the unknown, hours of intimate discussions, sharing experiences and making further plans together? Waiting together for evenings, weekends and holidays to come? Being sleepy all the day becsuse of no sleep the whole night? Because I have and it was a few of of the greatest experiences in my life. No amount of online intels will convince me otherwise. And the ones who try, are cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:04 AM
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Thread: Most men would prefer to be millionaires. Pavlovian NPC answers: Oh, no, no, no!!! We don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:30 AM
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Most men have never had this opportunity and they are the louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:15 AM
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Only if she doesn't bring comparable advantages (significantly younger, significantly more physically attractive, clean past). Then she can't ascend from fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:14 PM
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The same things: if done by women, are empowering; if done by men, are anything from immature to extremist. We already know. Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:55 PM
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The fine-tuning of details is individual. You are allowed to quit even after one day break.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:09 PM
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Monogamy is an agreement of having exactly 1 partner. Sex deprivation is having 0 partners, which makes the whole agreement void.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:09 AM
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We are not wild animals, we happen to be civilized species. That being said, rather than blindly trying things myself, I would first take a look on the most recent literature available on the topic. Most probably, I would be convinced to follow the three 6-es principle, introduce modern tools and behaviors like ghosting, bread crumbing and gaslighting. And what does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:55 PM
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Some people understand the idea of abstracton.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:30 PM
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Just because people do make bad decisions left and right (drugs, hazard, crime) doesn't mean that they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:21 PM
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Imagine if only the best 10% of employees were getting salaries. Most would quit, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:18 PM
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It's not that they should or should not be offended. It's rather that in a non-regulated dating market, the majority of men have zero reasons to enter relationships. I don't know if for good or bad, just calmly stating the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:48 PM
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If you are in the group of men which women desire, there is not much they can do for you to stay monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:27 PM
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Renegotiation is needed before any change is being done. Any change without prior renegotiation makes the whole agreement void.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:09 PM
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I think it's fair to say, that monthly average from before the marriage should not change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:45 AM
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By entering marriage you both agreed for a monogamous relationship (one regular partner). Dead bedroom is not a monogamous relationship, because zero regular partners does not equal one regular partner. She broke the agreement first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:10 AM
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...or a vicious mage casts a spell to put it in his belly, provide the necessary nutrition to let it grow and all that. It's irrelevant, my point stands. Of course it is a big thing, and respect to all mothers. But at the same time, it is something which almost EVERY pig and cow and monkey did through the centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 10:24 PM
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A man has its body too. Now imagine if a criminal came to a man and GLUED a baby's back to his back. The glue is super-strong and lasts for 9 months. Now the man has to carry the baby everywhere. It's very inconvenient, indeed. But does the man have the right to KILL the baby to defend the autonomy of his body? Certainly not. Maybe if there is a direct risk on his life. But even then some would argue if his life is worth more than baby's life. The same is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:07 PM
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It doesn't work like this. Equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:23 PM
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their own bodies? DNA test to know whose body it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:19 PM
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If women can chose to have an abortion (therefore opt out from motherhood) then men can walk away from fatherhood without consequences. Equal rights, sweetie. Good that we are finally heading this way. Paternity fraud is stripping men from their reproductive rights. It's a direct equivalent of forcing somebody to give birth to a child coming from 🍇🍇🍇🍇. Therefore a serious crime. Now you can fume.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:04 PM
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Either both genders can get away with the consequences of irresponsible sex or no one can. No matter how much will you cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:12 PM
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We've also found out, that when we no longer have to make compromises for each other, our initial goals are inherently not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:36 AM
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Just because at the moment you are living in a time/place where this crime is not punished, doesn't change the fact that it is a very serious crime. Remember that there are also places where marital grape 🍇 isn't punished at all (for good?). Women (...) can easily avoid not having abortions (...) by not fucking around 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:29 AM
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Paternity fraud is/should absolitely be a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:13 AM
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Oh, then we shouldn't put fathers in jail, for any reason, because it may make the kid sad, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:10 AM
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Root cause: people don't need each other anymore to survive, therefore they can afford to be picky. Everything else is just a more or less direct consequence of it. It's neither good or bad, it's just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:46 PM
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Nah, I'm good. I prefer fwb, not to give too much labor to the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:22 PM
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You are right about not wanting to be the "safe option". But it's not easy to find the opposite sex equivalent, because most of the ladies are desired "by default" all the time, by everyone, so it's not anything they are worrying about. Asking "is he really attracted to you" may only bring confusion, because she knows she actually is, if not by him then by someone else. The world brings this information to her every day. The better equivalent would be the opposite: "does he really like me as a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:40 AM
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I mean, do you personally know any muslim couple? Because the ones I know, are one of the most caring and loving prople over there. It may be that I'm biased, or they are not representative for the whole population, but honestly I don't think so. My experience is, that they are very confident about each other. You can talk with them about anything (planting flowers, baking cakes) and everything seems smooth and natural. Meanwhile in modern Western World, in many neutral convetrations, there is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:30 PM
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The whole point is, that in 100 years your "lol" will no longer be remembered, but people will still aim for translucent virgins in heaven. Enjoy when it lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:32 PM
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This way of being is clearly not my preferred one, but I've adapted pretty well to it. The quality of my life is much higher than I would have otherwise. The biggest casuality of this social shift is the concept of family, especialy the family with children. I accept taking some level of risk in the romantic area, but having children is way beyond the line. In long term we will be taken over by another civilisation, with stronger traditional values. It is probably already taking place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:25 PM
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In places where hypergamy is controlled by religion or tradition (like Islam), you do official relationships, like marriage. You invest in both of you, for your shared good. In places where hypergamy is unrestricted (like most of the Western World), you do casual, sometimes call it "relationship", but not invest too much in it. You invest in yourself, to stay competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:26 AM
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Over the years I've had LTRs with both virgins and non-virgins. I prefer virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:01 PM
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Young girls should be exposed to: athletes, millionaires, Nobel Prize winners, Olympic medalists and similar, as: teacher, trainer, mentor roles, to set their expectations reasonably high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:35 PM
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Do you know the fable of the eagle and the chicken? How could you even appreciate a fine steak, if the only you were given in your childhood was a fast food?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:19 PM
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She sees her 5'10, 20% body fat, 75k/year teacher every day and after years starts imagining having future children with somebody like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:18 PM
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A bare minimum for a country to ba called "civilized" is to ensure at least some positive discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:03 PM
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How can a young girl preserve any reasonable dating standards into her adult life, if she is exposed to the view of average men (such as taxi drivers, teachers, plumbers) from the youngest age? Do you know how it undermines her ambitions? Do you think it is normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:42 PM
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This myth is often propagated by gentlemen whose only information about the ladies come from the internet. Anybody who maintains any real-life interactions with the opposite gender, surely knows, how is the raging discrimination against women widely acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:19 PM
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Your inceldom is terrifying. Western world is literally a torture chamber for women. As long as any children are still being born (abusing women bodies), feminism should be prioritised.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:28 PM
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According to the latter, the former are under the influence of toxic patriarchy 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:48 PM
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We are being replaced by Islam, simply by the difference between who wants children and who doesn't. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:00 AM
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She is literally THE last person alive to win young men. Every single one of the remaining 7.999.999.999 is better. No offence, just facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:07 PM
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There was a man who said the same about the Jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:29 PM
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With the advance of modern technology, men and women no longer need each other to survive (aka no longer have to get married). What do we see now, is the dating market based entirely on the pleasure, not the necessity as before. Of course it looks different, no surprise here. Social media hasn't caused this change, it is only filling the gap on the market caused by this change. Nothing will happen, be ruined or collapse. Just some small % of men will play the field basing solely on their looks. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:12 PM
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Here is the difference between casual vs serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:21 AM
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valuable, because it contains a hypothetical portrait of a rare, "wall-endured" specimen of a human female (top left; in normal conditions invisible for general public because of hypergamy; presumably a frequent victim of traffic accidents although there is no evidence, because it remains invisible even after passing away)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:16 PM
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me neither, but an alarming rate of brothers and sisters seemingly are 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:32 PM
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I meant, what do we do with the society where nobody wants to hold hands anymore (unless it is with an absolute smokeshow)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:12 PM
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Happy to help. What do we do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:20 AM
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People are unhappy either because: - the over regulated matrimony market (religions, traditions, Talibans, etc.) restricts their access to the top epsilon % of most desirable partners, or - in an completely unregulated matrimony/dating market they find out that they don't have the access to them anyway. Men try to bribe their faith with money, women with their fart boxes. And so it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:00 AM
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but rabbi is a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:05 PM
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It all comes down to your priorities. If you are looking for an actual relationship, showing any signs of wealth will only bring you attention from people you don't really want. You have to "earn" it with your personality, charisma and looks, therefore, regardless of how much do you hate it, it doesn't really matter how much do you earn (and it doesn't help that you probably have significantly less free time than the others). If you want to "pay" your way to have a mate, then probably an hourly …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:51 PM
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Then, a hot meal every day is not a need as well, you would survive on some leftovers every other day. A place to sleep is neither, there are people who survive being homeless for years. Even if they were a need, no one is owed food or shelter. Now, there are definitely some people who would chose regular sxx over regular food or guaranteed shelter (say: couples deciding on not moving apart for work, travellers with no job but many adventures, life choices of many to become rock stars rather tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:48 AM
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Not one, but even TWO main rules of dating are agreed on by all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:10 AM
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To me this is the average man who is above the age of 30 (...) Average height or tall (...) Average body or maybe hits the gym every other day (...) To me this is an average man." To me this is the average number between 1 and 100: - 50 or higher. In each single aspect. To me this is the average number between 1 and 100! 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:36 PM
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Men and women react to male vulnerability a little different. Women usually push both hands towards their mouths trying not to throw up, but they always fail. Men try to arrest their primal urge to hit the souce of disgust, and they often accomplish it. Both groups abstain from food for a few following hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:33 PM
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With all the respect to everybody, most of them have ZERO clue, in my humble opinion. I've been considered "wealthy" basing on things objectively cheaper than the ones I was other times considered "poor". Most people have zero clue about investments, passive income, cashflow, which makes them even more confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:05 PM
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How do you know if a woman is into you, or is she only after your wealth? Wouldn't it bother you even more after your relationship progress? Get your "shitty" car, dress clean but cheap, take her on a walk and let your intelligence and charisma do the job. If she is not into you as a "poor" guy, you've just saved yourself plenty of headache. If she already likes you as a person, your style, personality, sense of humor, then she deserves to be surprised ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:42 PM
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Relax, just sensing the vibe. Good that this bullshit is not accepted here. But still quite disturbing that such an obvious joke was not recognized. Howgh!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:01 PM
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Who mansplained you that oppressors are entitled to the same right for happiness as victims? It only tells about the size - and you exactly know of what.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:28 PM
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OP was not comfortable in the first relationship, so she decided to change her target group for good. Not the dynamic which you described, if I had to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:37 AM
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Would it bother you if your partner admitted to date you as "an average girl, so he doesn't have to worry about many other guys flirting with you"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:38 AM
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We should make up our minds whether we do victim blaming or not. It can't be gender-dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:34 PM
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People verbalize their plans and desires basing on the rational mind, meanwhile their actual behaviour is greatly determined by the subconscious counterpart. It is not limited to men or women and it manifests itself in many other areas far beyond just romance and dating. Street wisdom advices to pay attention to actions instead of words and countless scientific books describe the details of the "dark side" of our minds. TL;DR People have no clue what do they want on the conscious level, but it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:41 PM
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INDIETS (involuntarily dieting people, usually for economic reasons). Sometimes they act weird, sometimes they are nervous, all of these because they are under a continuous pressure of having one of the very basic human needs unfulfilled. I can't imagine being angry at them. I think decent people don't take advantage of the misery of the others. A normal human reaction is to help those who suffer. The society will only grow, when we consider everybody in equation. The same applies to inc*ls. Why…
/r/MensRights15/05/23 11:30 AM
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