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| 1 | Too much theory, not enough practice.It really feels like I should take a break from Seddit and just go with the flow. In the long run, sticking to it might do more harm than good for me. Yes. It's called being a keyboard jockey and circle-jerking. What you are stubbled upon is one of the most important realizations in life. If you fill your brain with negative thoughts (even if they are true), then it will cause fear, uncertainty and doubt which will ultimately stop you from preforming. You need to purge your mind of these concept… | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Dear Straight Men: Age Really Does Matteryears out of college/school make a person realize what is important in life. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Dear Straight Men: Age Really Does Matterbecause at ~25 They have been out of college for 3 years and no longer feel the peer pressure of society and realize that society doesn't give a fuck about them being happy They realize life is a slow-grind and they have another 50 yrs until they die. So they prioritize how to make those years the most enjoyable which usually involves getting married to man with a good career. They have had enough experience with shitty men that they realize it will drive them crazy being with unstable people he… | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 04:21 AM |
| -3 | Dear Straight Men: Age Really Does Mattercorrect | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl says I’m cute but I’m not her typeTell her that she won't know is you are her type or not until you actually talk in real life. looks are important but if you have no chemistry, you'll stop speaking after a few weeks. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Girl says I’m cute but I’m not her typedid you speak with her? | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Balancing non-neediness with showing interest?stop driving yourself crazy by worrying about coming off needy. if you like her, ask her out. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 05:18 PM |
| 3 | One year later the loneliness creeps back inI 2nd this. Long-term relationships require the exact opposite of game. They require being real. The OP has not provided specifics so I can only speculate. I assume he is not screening properly based on personality type and/or not establishing relationship standards. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Do you ask if a woman is single? (daygame)worrying about value will drive you crazy. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you ask if a woman is single? (daygame)yes. in daygame you ask if she has a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 08:31 AM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT: Hanging out with a highly attractive girl [HB9] and her friend at a hookah barJust think about this for a second. You plan to have double standards for hot women and treat them differently for the rest of your life? You will be one way with your friends and a completely different person with hot women? That's crazy and you will only attract the wrong kind of women (backstabbing bitches) with that mentality and repeal the quality women. Focus on being a respectable male, not a sleazy pick up artist. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | [M, 21] Getting set upJust text me and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 06:51 AM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT: Hanging out with a highly attractive girl [HB9] and her friend at a hookah barshe'd say nothing and won't try and engage in conversation You should ask her if anything is wrong or why her mood changed rather than be fake and game-y. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 06:50 AM |
| 2 | FIELD REPORT: Hanging out with a highly attractive girl [HB9] and her friend at a hookah barMy mom also made a snarky remark about how I was being overly touchy, practically rubbing against her as we set up the hookah telling me to be careful doing that especially with her mom sitting 10 feet away. You should listen to your mom. Don't over-do touching or else you will come off creepy and clingy. When you were talking to this girl, was she enjoying the conversation? | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 02:57 AM |
| 1 | The "I don't want anything serious right now"I've gotten this before. It means you are coming off as boyfriend material and she isn't ready for a boyfriend, usually implies she is emotionally damaged. shit tests I want to add that shit tests aren't real. If a girl likes you, she will make it easy. and A lot of the advice in the community is almost 20 years ago from the mid 90s/early 20s. That advice was relevant from gen X women, millennial and gen Z women are a different breed. Generally more emotionally damaged and looking for fuckboys r… | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 08:32 AM |
| 3 | How to stop feeling so fucking bad about not succeeding with women?People that are damaged bring their baggage into the relationship and ultimately ruin it. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling so fucking bad about not succeeding with women?Are you happy with your life? Do you have supportive friends? Life goals besides women? Career? | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 11:50 PM |
| 0 | The hardest part of all this to me is maintaining the balance between "being a challenge" and "showing intent."He's completely wrong. You can tell he has a low self-esteem mentality because he still thinks about giving away power. The power struggle, getting control mentality is very toxic and damaging. Good relationships should be 50/50 equality. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How to best get my crush in highschool.Just ask her to coffee. If she says yes then be friends and see where it goes. if she says no then at least you tried. Don't over think this. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to turn "Just friends" into FWB?Get a hooker. 100% serious. If you don't want an LTR with this women then you'll burn the relationship once the sex ends (assuming you get sex). Good friendships are hard to find. Don't burn this bridge. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Need advice about picking up girls at 8am....?NOOO. You will get escorted by security off campus. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:15 AM |
| 2 | What’s going on?bro just ask her out. don't waste ur time sending pics. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:15 AM |
| 2 | The hardest part of all this to me is maintaining the balance between "being a challenge" and "showing intent."Drop the being a challenge part. It's stupid as fuck and only applies to insecure teenager and college women. Being a challenge isn't what gets women to like. Being interesting does. But she can't have me unless she earns it. Unless you are a 10/10 movie actor with money, looks and status don't expect women to chase you. Yes she needs to earn your respect but that means calling her out when she does BS. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:11 AM |
| 1 | What Could I have done better? I'm going to move on, gut feeling tells me this?Admitting to a girl you like them without the former almost never works out I never said not to do that stuff. I said you can also tell them you like them if the moment is right. if a girl likes you and is interested in you then she will let you build attraction. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Girl likes me, has gone on a date. Doesn't like when I touch her!If you are looking for a LTR then you want both friendship + sex. Preferably friendship before sex because that reduces buyer's remorse by building report. Friendzone occurs because you are not suitor material. Escalation doesn't cause friendzone. Weak inner-game and your overall vibe and demeanor does. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl likes me, has gone on a date. Doesn't like when I touch her!If you like her, continue to go out with her until she refuses to see you. If she is still willing to see you, that means she still likes you. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Girl likes me, has gone on a date. Doesn't like when I touch her!Go slow. You can only escalate as fast as she allows. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 01:41 AM |
| 1 | What Could I have done better? I'm going to move on, gut feeling tells me this?Telling a girl you like her is not ideal. Don't do that in the future if you can help it. It puts the female in a weird mindset and forces her into a corner having to answer a awkward statement. Next time Don't tell her, show her you like her in a romantic way. Akin to playing poker, You just gave up your hand. Theres no more mystery and excitement about your intentions, and part of attraction is the mystery of what the other person is thinking, and the excitement it builds. I don't agree this t… | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What Could I have done better? I'm going to move on, gut feeling tells me this?You don't seem to have chemistry. If you are looking for a long-term relationship then you are screening for compatibility and trying to build comfort. The standards are higher than a ONS. Expect lots of interactions to fail after a few meetings. As you get better, you'll be able to find your type easier and waste less time on bad dates. You seem to be focusing too much on building attraction. Flirting while texting. Telling interesting stories. Focus on what you think is important and finding c… | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Girls are super into me on the first date - After that, not so much...You are not their type and after the initial chemistry wares off, they realize that and deal. You are their type but you are escalating too fast so once the initial chemistry wares off, they leave You are their type but they aren't looking for anything serious, which is why it was so easy for you to have sex in the 1st place. | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Is this is a shit test or just fucked up behavior?I no longer think these are shit tests for me to pass. Although I find it flattering that she’s with another guy and still thinks of me in that moment instead of him, I think this is just fucked up behavior. Shit tests aren't real. They are one of the dumbest concepts ever. There are no tests to pass to get her to like you or inside her pants. Real-life isn't a video game. This is one of the biggest lies because it makes you think bad behavior = good behavior. Insanity. http://lifestylejourney.b… | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 07:03 PM |
| 7 | Relating this to a high schoolerLearn how to be social. Join some clubs and activities. Focus on leadership skills and making friends. I'll tell you a secret. Getting a girlfriend isn't ever the core problem, it's always a symptom of a bigger underlying issue(s). | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Shit test question/statement "you are a player, aren't you?"Did you skip the chapter on calibration? The women are straight up telling him that he is coming off like a fuckboy and they don't want to be a #. Listen. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 06:41 PM |
| -3 | Shit test question/statement "you are a player, aren't you?"Shit Tests aren't real. If girls are saying this then you are giving off a fake/insincere vibe. Act more normal and you will never get this criticism. Yes you could try to find a cocky and funny comeback and it will work on some girls but that's not addressing the root problem. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Successful people aren't Demi-Gods with insane willpower and incredible productivity skills. They are normal people who understood the importance of the small seemingly insignificant daily disciplines. They understood how these disciplines leveraged with time could make them unstoppableThis is an overcomplicated way of saying the decisions you make in your life matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Is there any way to get past "let's just be friends?"Let's just be friends means 1 of 3 things. You don't have chemistry. Lack of banter. Your humor style and her humor style are different so your jokes aren't funny and the interaction is dull. You aren't high value enough. She doesn't seem you as a potential mate. You aren't her type. (catch all category for everything not in 1 or 2) If you enjoy talking to her then keep her around as a friend. Good female friends are an asset. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 08:27 AM |
| 2 | A Nuanced Perspective of Five Years With TRPnaively trust people "all women cheat" is never trust people, not don't naively trust people. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 09:52 AM |
| 2 | A Nuanced Perspective of Five Years With TRPYou don't get it. It is not that "all women cheat", but that all women have the potential to cheat. That's called a TRUST ISSUE. all people have the ability to steal from you too Do you never do a business deal as a result? No. In reality people weigh the risks play the the expected value. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | A Nuanced Perspective of Five Years With TRPyou must concede that there are forces beyond your control as to whether you can keep a woman or not. do your best but up to a point it's out of your hands and therefore AWALT applies. Of course. I never said you can control all forces. That's part of the problem. People here are soo scared of people emotionally hurting them that they want to control their environment and never expose themselves to a upside of a great relationship because it would come with the downside of being cheated on. AWAL… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 12:03 AM |
| 5 | A Nuanced Perspective of Five Years With TRPLet me tell you a big secret. All this redpill content is from a bunch of insecure men that are desperate to get pussy. It's the blind leading the blind. The people at the bottom of the food chain looking up. Think about it. Who are the people writing the posts in the sidebar. Are they seeing reality or are they misinterpreting what they are seeing? Is there selection bias? etc. It's all true. AWALT, she'll be a slut for the right guy, she won't love you unconditionally, she's not yours it's jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 08:10 AM |
| – | I Am A FoolShe is treating him like garbage. And he is probably treating her like garbage too. You can only get into relationships with these women if your fucked up yourself. No one can save anyone. People have to save themselves. Borderline women cannot be with real "alphas" because of 2 reasons. 1 the alpha will not put up with her disrespect and bad behavior. 2 the alpha's confidence will bring out her insecurities. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 05:52 AM |
| – | I Am A FoolBad Parenting. Children (both boys and girls) need parents that are emotionally supportive. Children can't take care of themselves and so they rely on someone to take care of them. When the parents fails to be there for their kids (ex. blame the child for crying too much rather than comfort the child, not play with the child or help nurture talents, not provide guidance during stressful events like the 1st day of school and help socialize the child with other students, etc) it stops the child fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 05:30 AM |
| – | I Am A Fool"Why do you like me, I am a mess!" Here is a pro-tip for you. Girls that say self-depricaitng statements like that have low self-esteem. What do people with self-esteem issues want? She told me the guy was just a bootycall, she told me it was just sex and that she was only taking care of her needs. Validation from the opposite sex. He easily gets her pussy everytime he pleases...how? Here is the question for you. Would you be happy with empty sex with this "dream" girl of yours? Is that guy happ… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 04:55 AM |
| 0 | Please Do Not Act Like Men From Pickup Artist Youtube ChannelsIf it means getting laid and One Night Stands then they certainly do know and they have cracked the code. There are tips and actions that can improve dating but to frame it as "cracked the code" is toxic. If it means having a stable, successful family then you are correct. They don't know what they are doing. Do you remember what Mystery said in this early work? He said, "if you fail to find a mate and reproduce then your DNA will be mercilessly weeded out existence." Years of hitting on women h… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/16 05:49 AM |
| 0 | The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex.but that doesn't mean women aren't having the same amount of sex as before. No they aren't having as much sex period. Look at the white birthrates in America and Europe. They are below 2:1 aka stabilization rate. White population is creasing in these countries. (total population is increasing because of non Feminized immigrants) | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Please Do Not Act Like Men From Pickup Artist Youtube ChannelsLove this comment. The problem with the PUAs is they were losers who never learned to flirt with girls during their school years. So they wasted their 20s and 30s making up for lost ground. First they learned the stuff you say matters (outer game). Then they learned the way you act matters (inner game). But then they bought into their own marketing hype about being able to seduce any women with game and stalled at the maturity of high school freshman. Yes looks matter. Yes getting in shape matte… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Be Honest With Yourself, You're Being A Pussy: You Don't Want To Put In The Hard Work.Tyler Tyler isn't a pickup artist. He is a bullshit artist. Here is a picture of his baby mama. A Mexican 7, nothing special. Again baby mama, he isn't even married. The problem with the PUAs is they were losers who never learned to flirt with girls during their school years. So they wasted their 20s and 30s making up for lost ground. First they learned the stuff you say matters (outer game). Then they learned the way you act matters (inner game). But then they bought into their own marketing hy… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 06:42 AM |
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