TornadoSunset Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	The lies of the 90s - the "romantic" red flags Yes!!! The women who have talked about it have such sad stories, like Jameela Jamil, Mischa Barton, Taylor Swift, Zoë Kravitz...and so many more. They talk about being too weak to do anything and they look SO gaunt in their old photos.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 02:32 AM
9	The lies of the 90s - the "romantic" red flags Films and television of the 90s and 00s were often nuclear-level toxic. The men were BLATANTLY rapey, e.g. American Pie (blech), Dazed and Confused ("I get older and they stay the same age" blech), Barney Stinson from How I Met Your Mother (blech), and sex work was glamorized (e.g. Pretty Woman), women were most often reduced to one-dimensional objects for men, even in movies that supposedly had the woman as the protagonist (e.g. The Ugly Truth) and women weren't allowed to be anything but size …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 04:09 PM
29	The lies of the 90s - the "romantic" red flags Films and television of the 90s and 00s were often nuclear-level toxic. The men were BLATANTLY rapey, e.g. American Pie (blech), Dazed and Confused ("I get older and they stay the same age" blech), Barney Stinson from How I Met Your Mother (blech), and sex work was glamorized (e.g. Pretty Woman), women were most often reduced to one-dimensional objects for men, even in movies that supposedly had the woman as the protagonist (e.g. The Ugly Truth) and women weren't allowed to be anything but size …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 04:09 PM
99	Don't be with a man you cannot trust I couldn't agree more! If a woman doesn't feel like she can rely on her partner, why is he in her life?! And more responsibility (ie marriage, children) is not going to make him more reliable, it just makes her suffer the consequences of his untrustworthiness in a more significant way. If a woman cannot trust her partner, she will have to almost single-handedly raise any children she has with him, take care of any home she occupies with him, and of course -- take care of him. Scrotes are so voca…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 05:22 AM
10	A guy I met on Hinge sexually assaulted me, so I get him banned on dating apps whenever I see him 💅 Thank you for your service!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 01:59 AM
39	WHAT IN THE PICKMEISHA DID I JUST READ? 🥴 If you think that 95% of women's beauty can be removed with a wet wipe, you don't understand what women's beauty is. Women take care of themselves; they wear sunscreen and actually wash their sheets. And most importantly, the inner beauty of high-value, trustworthy, grounded, confident, accomplished, caring women SHINES THROUGH. Many men are ugly, and we are unafraid to call it like we see it. Deal with it sis.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 10:07 PM
16	A guy recently called me “cold and hard to read” .. this was after he sent me two gross, unsolicited nudes that made me want to vomit. Block and delete! Absolutely! Trust is earned. Even when the trust is there with a man, I'd probably rather talk about the sensitive things with girlfriends anyway.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 03:08 AM
95	A guy recently called me “cold and hard to read” .. this was after he sent me two gross, unsolicited nudes that made me want to vomit. Block and delete! I've often been called "hard to read" by men. I think they just mean "hard to manipulate."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 07:46 PM
9	When men tell on themselves Milo Yiannopoulos is such a gross scrote, like when he mansplains what feminism is about: "[The view] 'If women want to grow their hair and get fat they should be allowed to' ignores basic biological realities and it also ignores some of the things that are different about men and women and the different ways that men and women look for happiness." Riiiiight. Because it's a biological reality that women love fat, hairy men. /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/21 03:19 AM
60	"He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest) Posts like these fill my heart with sadness. So many women with such brilliant untapped potential, prevented from pursuing their own dreams and achieving self-actualization.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/21 07:51 PM
34	What are some ways that you typically signal to a guy that you're interested? +1 eye contact. Works wonders. A little more challenging since people are looking at their phones more often (I started post-sec in the 00s!) but still remarkably effective!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 01:24 AM
39	How do you end a date early? It depends on your reason for leaving! -If it's because you feel unsafe in any way, then leave quietly. Go "to the washroom" and don't return. -If it's because they say or do something that is gross or a dealbreaker, leave right away. Trust your instincts. (I had a date where the guy told me that "women who wear revealing clothing are asking to get raped" and I stood up and said "I would never date someone who believes this." And I left with him still sputtering about how he didn't mean it, etc.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 06:04 PM
5	This popped up in my memories. This is HV. Really encouraging to see examples of high value men. Makes me feel better about the state of the dating world!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 01:12 AM
74	A hard part of FDS for me has been seeing the LV behaviors of my male family members Holidays aren't as fun when I see that my father, brother, and brother-in-law do not help at all for the family dinner. They literally go relax in the living room while the women clean the kitchen (after making the food of course). Sigh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/21 02:10 AM