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It's advice that comes from some level of expertise or experience and rarely fits into a single sentence without lots of caveats. Furthermore it seems that dating advice (for men) that might work falls into this uncomfortable area that people don't want to say out loud. Thinking about it some more: I don't know. I know that the oft-repeated one liners don't work (eg the ones in the OP). Some of the TRP stuff might work (to make the initial connection only), but it might also be that if you need …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:09 PM
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You don't reconcile them. They're not real advice. When someone says one of those things what you should hear is "I have never had this problem so I have no idea." Or they did have this problem but it was so long ago that they forgot what it was like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:08 PM
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How many stitches does it take to get an extra 5-10 years of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:30 AM
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the frustration of one's romantic feelings going unfulfilled will likely interfere with their ability to enjoy/appreciate those benefits. Maybe if there had been no romantic interest then they wouldn't have interacted in the first place? The only thing that kept one side interested was the potential of a romantic partnership, but outside of that they don't have enough in common to keep the friendship mutually satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:51 AM
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Why is it anybody's responsibility to defend the country? Yet men get conscripted anyway. Why is it anybody's responsibility to pay taxes for all these social services? Men seem to pay a larger share while receiving fewer benefits. None of these have to happen, but without them society will be radically different. Whether it's better or not is anybody's guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:12 PM
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Some of the economic reasons have been replaced by the government. There are all these social benefits that were previously filled by family. Women seem to also benefit more from this social spending than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:09 PM
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does it ever occur to them that they just maintain a few active social spheres and hobbies - each with a core group, and a bunch of ancillary friends that come and go - and eventually they'll meet a lot of people, socialize, banter and flirt, and test the waters, and eventually one day someone they're interested in will reciprocate, and the two of them can branch off, have a good long convo in a social setting, exchange contact info, keep up the conversation, and make plans of their own. "Spend …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:41 AM
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Then maybe statistics should improve its methods instead of throwing their hands in the air. It is obvious to everyone that if 1000 women graduate from college, but only 100 men then this is not gender equal. If your statistics cannot indicate this then they are flawed statistics. If statistics in general cannot do this then we should throw it in the trash. So if you can tell me how to interpret a proportion of countries where the difference between women doing as good or better than men is and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:30 AM
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and how proportions work, a proportion is a number between 0<=p<=1. As such, if the proportion of countries where women are treated as well as men is as good if not better than men is greater than 1, there is no actual meaning to that in mathematical terms. Proportions work just fine mathematically above 1. 3/4 of a pizza and 5/4 of a pizza are both meaningful. If the issue is that you can't plot it as percentages then you can always just flip it around when they would exceed 100%: if more women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 09:16 AM
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We shouldn’t declare the sex recession over based on just a single year of data—especially a single year that relied on new survey methods—and a fairly small sub-sample of 229 respondents. From the article. The graph has a steep drop off. Mayhaps the new survey methods changed the results?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:55 PM
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At almost 40 he has no interest in someone who is still figuring life and themselves out, someone who is not yet fully fleshed out and knows exactly who they are and who still might change a lot in the coming years. This only makes sense on paper. This is something people say that makes everyone else nod in agreement but doesn't hold up to scrutiny. someone who can't relate to work trouble If you've only ever done office work then can you relate to someone doing hard physical labor? The man come…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:48 AM
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That's easy to say when you won't be forced to fight in war and get more benefits from the government. There's a reason women value status and money in men. It would be fine if government didn't favor one gender over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:52 PM
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But he should still pay taxes that seems to benefit women more than men? There's no going-the-other-way in modern society when the government forces you to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:24 AM
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Some women still want all the benefits men provide them through the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:45 AM
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or am I really hornier than most? Yes you are. Sex drive itself and attraction are two different things. I'm horny, just not TO YOU. Perhaps this takes different forms in different people? My attraction range certainly widens if I'm horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:17 PM
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You're describing the consequences of the "women are wonderful" effect. Men (and women) treat women better than men. They don't treat men worse on purpose, they just don't go out of their way to treat them well like they do with women. It's a subtle difference, but it still matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:12 PM
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Men frequently settle. It's uncommon for a man to end up with a woman that meets all their standards. Many of the men who don't settle end up alone. Most men don't have that many options to be choosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:26 AM
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People in different age categories often have nothing in common Nothing in common? Not a single thing at all? Do people outside of your age group live on another planet? Do they not go to the same gyms, do the same exercises, run on the same paths, use the same websites, listen to the same music, watch the same movies, drink the same coffee, hike on the same trails, drive the same cars?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:05 AM
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I like super skinny guys who eat a ton and don't gain weight. Just a bit of muscle and bones. That in itself is hard to find in older guys. This isn't a thing. Metabolism doesn't slow down until people are in their 60s. Staying skinny while eating a lot is always a question of the amount of exercise they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:32 AM
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Funny how the advice for men is that it's all about personality and all these other things, but when women talk about it it's categorically "I wouldn't date someone more than a few years older than me" without any nuance. I've met young and old people that I get along with. There was never anything about concrete age numbers that was the deciding factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:31 AM
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A relationship is built over time. Those initial attributes is what get things started. The quality of the relationship itself determines the longevity of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:12 AM
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And that's how we end up with: 63% of young men are single vs 34% of young women. I think you're right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:18 AM
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I'm certain it's Elon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:35 AM
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So can dick size No it can't. You might be able to reduce it with some drug cocktail but not increase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:04 AM
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What does Danny DeVito have going for him? Being rich and famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:58 AM
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You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:09 PM
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Has your friend group started the same size?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:53 PM
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Eventually they will stop asking though. Is this why (married) men end up being so lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:52 PM
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If you are looking for a relationship it makes sense to hold off sex this is true for men and women actually. Why? What do you gain by not having sex with someone that you're attracted to? Not having sex with him sends the signal that you aren't that interested. If another girl came along and had sex with him immediately then you would lose any chance of a relationship with him because the other girl showed him appreciation first. To say that a woman is being manipulative because she didn’t wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:10 PM
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The only ones that would not be willing to be in an LTR would be guys that had already decided beforehand that they don't want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:40 PM
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That's sweet. I'm glad it worked out so well for you two!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:38 PM
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And I'm not even mentioning what women have to suffer Like living longer, getting more government benefits, less likely to be a target of violence, easy dating, 4x fewer suicides etc. Truly terrible suffering. and there hasn't been a draft for ages. Tell that to the Ukrainian guys dying in a ditch while Ukrainian women are partying in western Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:39 AM
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They might have not done so, but if it happens they will have to. They have no choice in it. Just because something is rare doesn't mean you can ignore the catastrophic risk from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:21 PM
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Women aren't forced at gunpoint into conscription or war and having one child isn't enough. The replacement rate is 2.1 per woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:22 AM
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If I could choose to be a man or a woman I would pick woman 9 times out of 10. we live in a man's world I disagree. Society seems to bend over backwards to accommodate women. Every male space and hobby gets turned into being inclusive meanwhile more women's exclusive spaces are created. Women live longer, get a larger share of benefits while paying less into the system. Women have better opportunities to earn money when you're not doing that well. Less likely to be a victim of violence too. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:18 AM
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Up till the 80s women couldn’t hold a bank account in their name most places They started being able to in the 60s and in 1974 the Equal Credit Opportunity Act made it national law. On another note 61% of adults had a bank account in 2015 globally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:37 AM
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I don't see men protecting and serving more than women though. Conscription? The draft? Selective service? Miliary service? The police? Firefighters? Men pay the majority of taxes while receiving the minority of government services. then I'm going to say "women sacrifice their bodies to have children" so don't bother But they aren't. Every western country is below replacement rate in fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:19 AM
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You're in a place where a lot of men are disillusioned with women and society. They're the ones that learned to be apathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:14 AM
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are men's issues just doomed to never get attention? Yes. Humans appear to be inherently biased in favor of women. As long as there's a large group of humans the welfare of women will be placed above men's. It doesn't always manifest itself in a good way for women, but I do believe that this bias exists. can we even do anything to push back against society's apathy? This effort will be labeled as toxic/mysoginist/controlling/"icky" and whatever else. Simply being associated with it will have a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:08 AM
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The corpos might be trying to make more money but we have things like ESG that can skew leadership decisions to be more politically motivated. More investor money can be more influential than selling copies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:23 PM
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They don't all have to be attractive, but it's more and more the case that none of them are. Almost all of the recent games with attractive female characters are not made by western companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:19 PM
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She does! She can just decline sex, just like men. If she wants to be able to decline afterwards then men should have the same ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:07 PM
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Then women shouldn't get to choose to abort the child. If men can't change their mind after sex then neither should women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:04 AM
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You're arguing in bad faith. There's nothing to answer. You think women should have more rights then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:01 AM
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You make it sound like it's impossible for women to get off without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:08 PM
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Your answers in this thread completely contradict that. You genuinely believe that men should be responsible for any offspring by consenting to sex, but women should not. You're holding a (sexist) double standard. The double standard makes any arguments with you moot because you're starting from different assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:33 PM
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To ask this bluntly: do you think that the sexes should be equal under the law?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:25 PM
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if you eat 5 pizza's a day are you gonna blame pizza hut for making you fat? Isn't this exactly what the discourse is in the US that it's the fast food companies that made people fat? Maybe not the best analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:21 PM
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Women have the unilateral ability to refuse sex. Are you against abortion as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:17 PM
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It might kick in a bit later for some people or not at all. I don’t think in 2 year as I get ready to leave for college I would loose my value. Your values should arise from what you want and do, not from what you decide beforehand. If you do feel that kind of a pull then don't try to rigidly follow values you've set yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:07 AM
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Who will then be put down throughout the movie to show girlpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:33 AM
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You control working out which has a lot to do with how attractive you are to women You can't control your height or the shape of your jaw. The jawline is one of the most important factors of attractiveness in men. Losing weight can help, but there's only so much it can do if the bone structure isn't there. You can't control your dick size either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:32 AM
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Only men have the privilege of being forced to go and die in war.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:27 AM
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You're arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:14 AM
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This isn't a question of commitment. The never-married people aren't the ones doing the cheating, domestic violence etc. They're the ones women consider too worthless to date in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:55 AM
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Oh, I do meet people that I have some interests in common with, but it's only some overlaps. your ego inflates you above other people Perhaps that's true, but this doesn't seem relevant. Ego doesn't change whether the people I interact with share more or fewer interests with me. As per my earlier post, I don't have trouble with people not sharing their interests with me. This is why the argument that you need to date somebody your own age rings hollow to me. Perhaps our disagreement comes down t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:43 AM
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When these “ rich tall men” are taken they are taken. They don’t have 4 wives. This would be the case if marriage was for life. Divorce means that a man could have 4 wives. Not at the same time, but over the course of their life. In 2021 in the US 28% of 40 year old men had never been married. The same figure for women was 22%. It's not a 4-to-1 ratio, but men are trailing on this metric. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/06/28/a-record-high-share-of-40-year-olds-in-the-us-have-never-…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:34 AM
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Not always, but more than I would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:18 AM
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I think most people are attracted to those in the same intellectual sphere as them I don't understand this. I've met very few people that were in the same intellectual sphere as me. There have been some overlaps with interests, but only some. Do people actually find others who share more than just a few interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:36 PM
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She was up against countries with male leadership in globally patriarchal society. How does that change anything? We're talking about her starting the war. We can though if we look at the general behaviour of women and to our genetic ancestors (Like chimps vs bonobos). Chimps and bonobos are not our genetic ancestors. They are our genetic cousins or siblings. They are much more similar to each other than us though. I will grant you that bonobos are less violent than chimpanzees, but bonobos are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:13 AM
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That's such a convenient excuse. The queen is the authoritarian leader of the most powerful force in the kingdom. She wasn't a victim. It was her choice to fight. I'm not trying to say that women are exceptionally warmongering. We don't have enough data for that, but we can see that women aren't so different from men when it comes to conflict and competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:47 PM
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Historically queens were more likely to wage war than kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:53 AM
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Most men don't have opportunity to choose. They are going to try to make any relationship work because that's all they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:34 PM
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I go after what I want, and I express my opinions freely. This makes you an asshole in the view of others. However, I also do my best to do right by others, and to help out where I can. This makes you a nice guy in your own view. The people that see A will usually not see B. The people who see B might still see A and judge you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:16 PM
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You're completely dismissive of their issues, yet you expect understanding and compassion for yours. To many men the issues you listed don't seem like a big deal. Some men even find it desirable to be on the receiving end of catcalls. The negative attention men get belittles and threatens them. It's more likely to transform into physical violence too. Have you ever been on the street where somebody approaches you to ask for a cigarette and you know that there's a high likelihood that they will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:57 PM
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A lot of guys view it as hypocrisy when different women act different ways. Women will frequently make claims about all women though. Maybe that contributes to the misconception?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:31 PM
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Then why are men forced to sacrifice their lives? A person can be forced to become a sacrifice, but they can't expect to be rewarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:25 PM
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