| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 611 | 'Men age like fine wine' 'Women hit the wall' | DISCUSSION | Torrey_not_Kori | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 11:14 PM |
| 171 | Growth and first block/delete | MINDSET SHIFT | Torrey_not_Kori | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 04:30 PM |
| 71 | Fuck boy is broken, gotta let him go | FDS ANTHEM 🎶 | Torrey_not_Kori | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 02:13 AM |
| 67 | This is too spot on... | FDS HUMOR | Torrey_not_Kori | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else noticed the difference in how men and women ask for permission to do something? | DISCUSSION | Torrey_not_Kori | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:33 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | 'Men age like fine wine' 'Women hit the wall'Why do we use Clooney as an example? I've never thought he was hot. Then again I'm mid 20s so he's just old to me. Maybe we use one of the Marvel Chrises 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 04:51 PM |
| 91 | 'Men age like fine wine' 'Women hit the wall'That's the weirdest part. I've heard the wall was anywhere between 18 and 40. Like you reach whatever 'milestone' but then it's moved so we still feel the pressure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?Not romantic, but I met a girl who I'm friends with (4 years and counting). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | A "good wife" guide from the 1950's and men still expect it in modern time.Just gonna leave this here http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/goodwife.shtml | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | A "good wife" guide from the 1950's and men still expect it in modern time.Just gonna leave this here http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/goodwife.shtml | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | A "good wife" guide from the 1950's and men still expect it in modern time.Just gonna leave this here http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/goodwife.shtml | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Women's Body SaviorThey want us to be grateful that they found something 'worthwhile' in us, since it's such a hard task. I mean look how hard he worked. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 09:08 PM |
| 35 | Seen in a medical sub. Thankfully the replies were very supportive; I hope she will be OKShe's 17. Who knows how old he is. Also I feel like he has to know it's not actually okay, most people get that abdominal surgery is serious. It's more like he doesn't care, or cares about his dick more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 08:05 PM |
| 8 | Disgusting Vday GiftsGifts for him categories -sex -sports -tech & tech accessories -beer -bbq -tools -beards/mustache/shaving -whiskey -outdoors (camping/hiking/fishing) -guns Beer and whiskey are separate categories since beer seems to be about making it while whiskey seems to be a collectors thing? The weird (gross) thing is that if your search 'gifts for dad' it changes from 'sex' to 'I don't want my daughter(s) having sex. But otherwise it's the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 07:59 PM |
| 9 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀My little sister is 5'11 and at 113. Which is up from 97, recovering from an eating disorder. Her doctor wants her at 130. She's so thin, I've seen models who seem healthier compared to her. They legit want women with eating disorders since it signals self esteem issues. Also smaller/thinner women are easier to intimidate or straight up force with violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 07:50 PM |
| 18 | I just learned how to be mean to men (diary of a religious woman)I've found that the more conventionally attractive the girl, the more men will interpret literally anything as flirting/interest. Seriously, some man (looked to be in his 40s) was trying to hit on my little sister (20 now, 17 at the time). She could be a model, both due to bone structure and she's just so skinny. After she was dismissive and tried to ignore him for 30+ minutes, and I even told him to back off and leave her alone. She finally told him she wished he would just fucking die because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 2 | The male version of “ABCDEFU” is literally domestic violence and people are celebrating it.I thought you were talking about the cute one for a minute and was confused. I haven't even seen this version. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 175 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??Also dudes who have only had one long term girlfriend and now think every woman's body should work the same as hers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Tired seeing sports on the television at restaurants.The nail salon near me plays HGTV and Hallmark movies, but that's a place that's geared towards women. The gym I went to before the plague had a mix of news, sports, and soap operas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 09:24 PM |
| 22 | TW: sexual assault - So basically if they were the last two people on Earth, he's gonna assault her to reproduce. Most of the comments are just supporting his "point," and some are shaming the woman for not wanting to have sex with him.With humans repopulation would need like 500 to avoid inbreeding, and a few thousand to continue the upward evolution trend. It was never avout 'repopulating'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 06:05 PM |
| 3 | "Oh yeah, you want a man who brushes his teeth? I dated a guy who brushed his teeth and he kicked puppies for breakfast!"I've had guys use the mental health/ADHD excuses for bad hygiene. I have mental health issues and ADHD. I know out of sight out of mind is a problem for me. That's why my bathroom counter is cluttered and so is my shower shelf. They remind me to do all the steps. I set alarms to make sure I manage my time in the mornings and evenings. It's not that hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:10 AM |
| 5 | I'm so tired of seeing 'demisexual' tossed around like it's some sort of aberrant practice when really, it's just HEALTHY to want trust & a connection with intimate partners.Most of the ace people I've met have been on the autism spectrum or have ADHD. So I think there may be a link there. Like overstimulation would be a negative so doesn't want a physical relationship with anyone. Generally hard to connect with people since communication styles are different. Etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:57 AM |
| 15 | A litmus test for toxic masculinity: check if he gets upset and thinks you’re less if you can tell the difference between two close coloursWe think this is due to hunter gatherer days. Hunters (men) typically had better depth perception, while gatherers (women) had better color vision because it helped to identify which plants were edible vs poison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?I blocked and deleted him, plus several friends of his. I don't have a big social media following, so anytime someone new follows me I look thru their profile to see if anything reeks of him. I also moved 3 states away and he doesn't have my address. I was 19 and moved with my family, not to get away from him. It just worked out that way. The messed up thing is when this was going down I was only angry at him since he cheated (IN MY CAR). Later, after much therapy, I started realizing he was abu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 9 | Men literally believe murder is a justified response to a woman leaving. Also men still think a woman who was literally murdered by her partner was just “pulling the abuse card”Do we know what happened to the daughter? All the stuff I'm finding is just about his tiktoks and crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 5 | The gems you miss as a child...I think the legend is kinda sus too. Like Hera the goddess of marriage and family makes a man kill his wife and children? Like if she killed Hercules or his mom for Zeus being unfaithful that makes sense. Also Hercules 2nd wife supposedly killed him on accident by using centaur blood as a 'love potion'. If they're already married why does she need a love potion? Unless she meant to kill her husband or he wasn't acting right? Kinda sounds like Hercules was abusive to wife one and their kids and i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 10:15 PM |
| 44 | "Horsegirl" is a feminist issue - why girls benefit from handling horsesI saw this post on Tumblr a while back. About how cat lady isn't an insult to women. Companionship comes in many forms, so if you don't see a man around it's because she's done the math and a Hitachi and an animal who shits in a box scored higher than a man. In this case it's horses. Horses are better than men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The entire pole is a red flagHey...it might be a telemarketer. No for real, you're probably right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 07:36 AM |
| 2 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Music wise I think male country music can be included. There's a lot of get her drunk, this is how a woman should act, sexualizing, defending shitty behavior, and straight up abuse. Mainstream rap/r&b is definitely problematic but a lot of lesser known artists and female artists are great. Admittedly I listen to a lot of top 40 and tiktok popular songs tho, music helps me tune out the world so sometimes I don't even hear the lyrics. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 03:41 AM |
| 8 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡Question, what about when they give you an option. I'm chatting with a guy who asked me to dinner or 'we can also meet up for coffee in the daylight first, so you can feel safer'. I had mentioned that I'm cautious about giving out my number before meeting and getting a feel for the person, and then a few hours later he offered. Is that okay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 09:41 PM |
| 16 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡Is it bad I still think it's cool? Of course I only ever go with my nephews now so I may be biased. Still love my giant brownie with the sparklers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 09:38 PM |
| 5 | 🙄🙄 let’s idolize a couple that’s clearly miserable!!!See I did the poly thing and for the first few months it was great. I have abandonment issues and having multiple people to go to for attention was good...for a while. The deeper bond, the feeling of security, those never surfaced. So, in the end I just felt used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:11 AM |
| 8 | Channeling this energy today.I'm told to be afraid of getting older cuz sexual desirability and all that. But like...that doesn't factor in. Mostly I'm worried about getting older because that means I'm closer to death and the great unknown and all that. I am looking forward to graduating college (finally) and hopefully being financially secure in the next few years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:07 AM |
| 13 | They treat female anatomy like it’s some crazy mystery to alienate (not pun intended) womenThere's also a chance they looked it up and saw that it can vary between women and based on any birth control she might be on. Asking seems to be a safe bet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:50 PM |
| 13 | 100%We don't know a lot unfortunately. It seems that it was typically thrown for the groom to be by his military friends, since military service was mandatory for Spartan boys. There was a dinner and toasts for the groom. We think the significance was going from boy to man, ready to have a family and raise the next generation of soldiers and all. However we don't have any primary sources that address this, so there's a lot of guesswork. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 08:04 PM |
| 110 | 100%Like if both soon to be spouses have a night that's about being with your friends and doing your favorite things, as an acknowledgment that you'll be moving forward into being a unit and won't have as much time for those nights as you go on to make a life with someone, that'd be cool. But this fixation on strippers and drinking excessively to be 'free' of someone you're supposed to love? Hell nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 01:37 AM |
| 129 | 100%So the tradition behind it makes sense. It was Spartan in origin and it wasn't about a last night of freedom, it was more acknowledging the mile stone. It was a dinner with toasts. We think it was a celebration signifying another step from changing from boy to man. Ready to support a family. Then some dude in the 1890s had a party thrown for him, with an 'exotic' dancer and it became a new kind of tradition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 01:37 AM |
| 13 | Ask men who want casual sex why they don’t just hire sex workers and watch them explode. Why? They chase women who want commitment because it’s predatory!Maybe because it's an ego boost? Paying for sex means they're not desirable enough to get it for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 07:56 PM |
| 11 | This is too spot on......at least I'm bi and can stick to dating women. Fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:43 AM |
| 32 | This is too spot on...For people who can't listen it's a spoof of a woman asking if she's the asshole for calling her husband a dick after he murdered her whole family, set over some seahorse art. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Why is it the most hideous men that are Ethically Non Monogamous (ENM)?They convinced one woman to date them, it went to their head, now they think they're more attractive than they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Someone I've known since middle school just got proposed to with a Ring Pop.You said middle school and I thought the couple also knew each other since middle school and maybe it was an inside joke and then there was a real ring later. But no. Hopes dashed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Team Edward or Team Jacob: How Love Triangles Primed a Generation of Women for LVM (intro)Bella in the books doesn't have much of a personality besides loves Edward and wants to sparkle. Which I think was intended to help market to teen girls, especially middle school girls. Many of us didn't have the budget to do whatever hobby we liked and many of us were lonely in some way looking to connect but having trouble. So we retreated into books and the internet if it was available. Seeing this supposedly cultured immortal love this blank canvas we projected ourselves onto helped our self… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Just watched Black Widow.. We should make something better than the Bechdel test to rate movies.Yeah the movie itself was great. It's just knowing how her story ends in the Avengers movies that brings it down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:07 PM |
| 13 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.I like medium dicks. Too small and you can't feel it, too big and you get hit in the cervix over and over which is NOT pleasant. I told one ex that he was too big and he basically said bullshit since the vagina is meant for pushing out babies and his dick wasn't as big as a baby. 🙄 On the other hand I was honest when one ex asked how it felt and I told him I couldn't feel anything. Cuz he was like 2 inches and like dime sized around. He got so pissed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 11 | The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy)Sometimes us bi people, especially when we've just come out, feel the need to prove ourselves as being into both and don't realize how fucked up the concept of being a unicorn is. So we go along with it. I know I did at 19. Now at 25 I just feel used but can't change the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | My little “I love you” gift to myself arrived today. Years ago, I pinned this ring and when it popped up in my IG feed this fall I ordered one custom made. Loving all these ring posts.Is it Joseph Jewelry? Because I have the same one pinned. Still in school so I can't afford it yet but I'm looking forward the the day I can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Lvm would rather risk divorce than brush his teeth 👍To put this in perspective, when I'm in the pits of my depression and have trouble even getting out of bed for weeks on end...I still brush my teeth more often than this man. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 07:48 AM |
| 2 | I found this on Facebook today lolUsually when they're in like high school. Like engaged to be engaged. I had one. Didn't work out cuz he turned out to be a covert abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Women these days have it so easy!My least favorite thing is when someone refuses to do certain chores but still likes them done a particular way. Fold your own fucking shirts dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:29 AM |
| 3 | For the men that love to ask “What was she wearing” when a woman says she has been raped. Explain this!😴😴Exactly. 'What were you wearing?' The first guy who molested me was in his 20s when I was 9/10. I was wearing a boxy glitter t-shirt and ladybug and butterfly bedazzled capris and carrying my Bratz backpack. 'Well you've always been tall for a girl, maybe he thought you were older?' People mistook me for 11/12 when I was 9. I still looked very much like a kid. Also he was my mom's boyfriend's son. He knew how old I was, he was at my 10th birthday party. Thank God I'm so tall now. Being 6'4 has i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 2 | What's up with girls watching their boyfriends play video games?!?!Same, back before my ex got toxic I'd watch him play Skyrim or Assassins Creed. Although I usually also had my laptop open and running Sims so I had my own thing going on too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:38 PM |
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