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| 1 | I thought Tinder and Bumble were dating apps? Sorry I don’t want to be your free call girl.They are. And they’ll just continue to make more money as is evident by the IPO. They don’t make money by users finding a successful relationship and logging off forever. They make it from the return customers so clearly their goal isn’t for people to be truly successful on the app | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are men so fucking gross? Like do you think every woman wants to see your dick?Not only is the dick likely not appealing, this belly button above and below isn’t either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 10 | Misogyny is learned behaviorMy (ex) friend’s 5 yo son would tell me I was fat. I am literally trying to gain weight and I thought Jesus, this kid has a warped view already. My friend was completely in shape, beautiful on the outside, she had the perfect body and would constantly make comments about not eating, looking at other women at the pool and saying how they could improve their shape. I couldn’t help but think the son thought that was the norm and expected nothing less than perfection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:41 PM |
| 3 | I thought Tinder and Bumble were dating apps? Sorry I don’t want to be your free call girl.Which means, it’s all just a corp designed to profit off of people looking for a relationship. But also it means, if you get in fast (ie buying stocks), you too, can make money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | I thought Tinder and Bumble were dating apps? Sorry I don’t want to be your free call girl.Initial Public Offering which means people will be able to buy stock in the company. Which means, people expect it keep growing long term | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I thought Tinder and Bumble were dating apps? Sorry I don’t want to be your free call girl.The very first review on iOS is one that mentions how someone found true love on Tinder. It’s pure bait and switch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I thought Tinder and Bumble were dating apps? Sorry I don’t want to be your free call girl.It’s going to get worse, Bumble is going to IPO in 2021 if you can believe that 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Say it louder so the boys in the back can hear.I take care of muh kid every other weekend and Wednesdays. Why aren’t you all over me, fellow single parent??? Umm because I have my child literally everyday barring some weekends?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 3 | I’m so lucky to have my mom (FDS’er by nature). My LV husband keeps using the ‘pity poor little me’ move and this is what my mom wrote me this morning.Your mom is a literal queen!! Saving this and hoping I remember it for when my daughter inevitable needs to hear it ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:23 AM |
| 0 | Omg I’m iNvItEd to his party! This LVM always sending me the me LV ideas to “hang out”omg there is so no party | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 0 | I think I’m a LVW?Lady I’m not purposefully acting like a male. It’s called no emotional attachment. Learn it, live it, you’ll be saved. I owe no encouragement. If you think I don’t have emotion or haven’t been burned 500000 times because of my emotions as a caring woman, then you are mistaken. Do not reply to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I think I’m a LVW?So, I am acting like a male in replies which is just me being emotionally detached. Don’t leave the sub because of me but again I don’t really care how this goes. You can’t appeal to me emotionally and shouldn’t expect to ever appeal to anyone emotionally that you don’t know, trust and respect - that’s how you’ll get burned. Your responses show you are trying to and that’s why you’ve gotten beaten down so much. I mean if the divorce doesn’t matter to you then don’t do it but you can liberate you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 07:03 PM |
| 0 | I think I’m a LVW?Oh Lordy. Just move on then and divorce his ass. Liberate yourself. I am not hell bent on anything, I am just randomly replying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 06:52 PM |
| 0 | I think I’m a LVW?Woman, you’re getting upset at the wrong person. I don’t care what you do. I’ve gotten divorced and I paid all of my exes bills during it and after. Not because I have more, not because I did anything wrong but I knew how to save and wanted his ass out of my life and he needed the money and I’m not a piece of shit. I gathered proof, evidence long before I left his ass and I was adamant neither of us pay a lawyer because frankly, I didnt need one. I would have had open joint accounts in your exes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 06:35 PM |
| 0 | I think I’m a LVW?I mean, do what you want. Divorce works like the petitioner wants it to and a lawyer and you and going to court to sue someone is how you win and get money you’re entitled to. You get dirt on someone (affair, emotional distress, used your money), you get their financials and you sue the shit out of them. Not doing that properly and continuing to complain years later is victim mentality. Gl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | I think I’m a LVW?I mean Jesus, don’t give him your energy. But you’re still married and he has some kind of income to live so that’s partly yours as his WIFE. I wish you luck and I’m not trying to hurt you or be mean. You have rights, I don’t want you to be a victim in this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 12:29 AM |
| 0 | I think I’m a LVW?I’m sorry, that’s victim mentality. Your lawyer sucked. 50% of debt should have been paid or a cash settlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | I think I’m a LVW?Fuck, can we get an FDS legal team and a lawyer to respond to this? Jesus. Are you in the US? Do not pay your student loan interest if it is a federal student loan. No interest during covid. Go to your lender’s site. If it’s not federal, don’t pay. That’s a private loan, bankruptcy will cover. The whereabouts of your ex are not your issue. If you can’t afford “anymore” legal fees then what has been paid? You should stop payment on everything not federal, defer for covid, if you’re in the US, get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Why just whyLol I don’t know where it went! How old are you? My friend is in her early 20s met her boyfriend on Tinder but they just started grad school, super young. And taking things slow for the last year because their age - smart! I don’t know anyone else who has had success or that I would classify as a high quality partner from that app. Okc, hinge, and is fb dating a thing? Those are probably better so you can really put a thorough profile up and vet. It takes a long time, I guess. My ex husband, who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Why just whyI just wrote a long message! I’ll check back later to see if it posts! Gist is, no don’t waste your time on Tinder. It’s good for laughs, I guess. Good for learning how to reject people and maybe you’ll get lucky but who wants to look at all of those horrible profiles? Best thing to do is focus on you/family/friends/community and someone will come into your life, in person and if they don’t? You’ll be just fine and amazing anyway. And if you want to meet a decent guy focused on the high educatio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Why just whyI used to think that way too. Hinge doesn’t work in smaller areas in my experience. Tinder has more people but the people are mostly trash and the odds of meeting anyone that isn’t or doesn’t think you are because you’re on there, are slim to none and it is not worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m a LVW?Do you have credit? Put the debt on credit and file for bankruptcy later if you can’t pay. A no interest card and negotiate the medical down to the lowest you can before paying with credit or personal loan. Or just don’t pay the medical. Federal student loans can all be deferred right now with no interest because of covid. Edit: I can’t stop thinking about this issue. Are you still married to him? Do not give him a divorce without getting some money from him. Go on unemployment ASAP. Why are you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Am I being insecure? Guy I’m talking to still hangs out with girl who he use to casually have sex with.I don’t even have to read this. Your title is enough. No! Lose this fucker. Now! What are you even doing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Why can’t I stopGirl. Been there. Get a new phone, new number, go to the dr and get xanax and then level the fuck up. You are above this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?Damn girl, remind me to talk to you if I ever start dating again. Your comm is perfection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Why just whyHe thinks he is hot and doesn’t have to put in effort. Tinder is a horrible place to meet a quality man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:30 PM |
| 5 | AppsNah most of them are horrible, you should be able to filter easily | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | I cannot believe the things I read on JustNoSO...This is the most disgusting and vile shit (no pun intended) I’ve read recently. Take his money and kick his out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:19 PM |
| 10 | The Wall and why it’s realI call it lizard skin. Their whole bodies become dry, gross, saggy skin. Hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 02:13 PM |
| 10 | Sisters, what led you to realize you needed the knowledge from this subreddit instead of dating the conventional way. In other words, what made you woke to the game?Someone made a comment about how people here are toxic so I came to check it out. It isn’t toxic, I had no idea I needed this sub, no idea why I was having so many bad dating experiences, and I had no idea people were out here preaching this stuff that resonates so deeply with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Pornhub exploiting the COVID-19 crisis for PR and offering free premium memberships in order to further the destruction of the minds of the populaceI wondered this too! They stockpile for disaster preparedness: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/heres-why-companies-like-facebook-had-n95-masks-to-donate-2020-3%3famp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:00 AM |
| 19 | So, I made out with him on the 2nd date ....Same. Jesus. Stay out of places where sex can happen and stay sober. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:30 PM |
| 7 | Men's first impressions of me tend to be that I'm too nice and sweet. How can I give off queen vibes right away?No kidding. This thread is fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:41 PM |
| 6 | "Why some men come back" instagram post by @r.h.sin. As a recovering pickmeisha I had to retype it here on phone to save & internalize that shit FOREVER. Here it goes :I just had one come back. Silent for over half a year and just showed up trying to get my attention. He killed my self esteem and made me feel completely worthless before. I thought he was coming back to talk and for us to apologize but instead he was looking for an easy hookup because he was in a bad place. I simply said I didn’t want to and then blocked his ass everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Freedom from the male gazeFor me, I’ve been focusing on the wheel of happiness. It helps but I know what you’re saying. I miss the comfort and hope of having a partner who makes me feel safe and wanted and cared for. Realizing the current state of men in this culture of dating has made me feel very lonely, disheartened, and filled with anxiety. I feel very alone sometimes. I don’t have any suggestions except to keep leveling up for you. I think this community helps with feelings of empowerment and it helps knowing there … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:59 PM |
| 7 | TLDR; 38F quits her job and moves across the country for a 46S just to be used for sex. My heart genuinely breaks for this lady. (From Askwomenover30)I’d hate to say it, but she needs to not be thinking about having children and focus on getting her self together. Where is this from? Someone get her over here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:02 PM |
| 11 | I was ghosted by a dude after talking to him for two weeks & exchanging risqué photos.If you’re ever tempted to do this again, do not include your face in the photos. Even if it’s a long term boyfriend, just don’t do it. You never know what could happen. I feel for you, we all make mistakes and are growing and learning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | The propaganda has arrived!Genius! I have noidvpn already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:32 PM |
| 3 | The propaganda has arrived!Good idea, I will try google voice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:32 PM |
| 5 | The propaganda has arrived!I’ve considered that possibility but it’s probably for the best, I don’t want to be tempted to use tinder for dating ever again anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Annnd porn sick right from the gate.I wish they all made it this easy honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 04:29 AM |
| 11 | How a LVM datesTranslation: she is way hotter than I expected and out of my league in every way. I can tell she isn’t going to let me fuck her easily so I am going to leave her with the bill because I am a broke coward. This way she won’t have a chance to reject me. I’m completely insecure in every known aspect of my life and now I am posting this for validation from my best friends at The Dudeship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:43 AM |
| 9 | The propaganda has arrived!I thought about posting it on Tinder as a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:06 AM |
| 7 | The propaganda has arrived!This is giving me hope. Thank you. Honestly, I am having the worst week of anxiety and my new hope is that FDS becomes huge with local meetings and like minded women that I can talk to in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Woman moves into beach house with fiancé; is getting married this summer. She met him on tinder 2 years ago.I feel like this is an ad for Tinder! Like what are the chances of meeting a quality guy on there and then have a connection and get married? It seems impossible to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 12:44 AM |
| 14 | The cockacity!!!!“Sorry you are so hurt by me.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 12:24 AM |
| 10 | The propaganda has arrived!Queen of life! I’ve been considering doing this and you just convinced me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 10:23 PM |
| 9 | On a post about MGTOW getting banned in blue pill. 🙄They can’t not look 😂 Anyway, this is brilliant. I mean we can viral market the fuck out of FDS on our own. “FDS is awful, should be banned, I’ve never seen such filth!” Then people click and join because they’ll find it’s actually the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 15 | Apparently I missed my opportunity with a real catch 🙄Gross. Why would you want to date this person? He barely acknowledged what you were saying in your texts when he replied each time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Study Finds Older Women Who Date Younger Men Are More SatisfiedUgh, she is basically still a kid. Predatory af for this guy to date her. Please give her good advice on how to be HV and help her see that she does not need to be seriously dating anyone at her age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Study Finds Older Women Who Date Younger Men Are More SatisfiedUgh, she is basically still a kid. Predatory af for this guy to date her. Please help her see she does not need to be seriously dating anyone at her age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 04:04 PM |
| 11 | He asked me to coffee—I think I did pretty good?That makes sense, if it’s a bad dinner date you can just leave. That didn’t cross my mind but girl, it sounds like you’ve got this! I just remember this one guy from OLD wanted to go other places and had this big idea that we were spending the day doing things together and I was like, I’ll meet you for coffee and then had to awkwardly turn him down in person for the other plans. This was my life before FDS. I haven’t dated with FDS strategies yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:51 AM |
| 22 | He asked me to coffee—I think I did pretty good?If it’s someone from OLD, I would do coffee only to get a first assessment. Like, what if there’s no connection and you have to sit thru dinner with them? Also, I don’t like when they plan two or more things for a first meet. One guy wanted me to spend the whole day with him for a first date... I barely got thru the coffee part before excusing myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Mostly Ignoring Men's Compliments on TinderI understand you’re joking and entertaining yourself but I think it’s just coming off as you’re giving him attention and so... he’s getting something from you and it’s probably making him feel like he usually feels as his :alpha: self, which is “I am a king, I’m drowning in women. This woman wants me like they all do but I’ll probably just entertain her for a bit while I find someone less weird”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 5 | I’m actually really excited for valentines day this yearYes Queen! I have a tradition where I take my child out to eat. We have the best time enjoying ourselves and get presents. It’s self love day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 08:30 PM |
| 6 | Fact: OLD apps have confirmed that men age badlyLast time I tried to get on Tinder to scope things out, I saw 3 guys I’ve dated in the past. ALL using pics from over two years old but mostly pics from 5-10 years ago. One had pics up from when he was 19-20 (he is 35!). Knowing them and having seen them all in person, they look nothing like the individuals pictured, all are heavier than pictured with dry, aging skin - not baby face skin that is pictured. Why the cat fishing, bros? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Is it normal to have mixed feelings over ex?Yes, this person’s post history is questionable and concerning. “Mostly unwanted women, black women etc.” worst women because unwanted or black, the delusion and racism are astounding on this platform. What in the actual fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:52 AM |
| 22 | Dudes who complain about women with fake butts/boobs don’t seem to realize they’re not the target audienceThey’d cream their pants if a woman, literally ANY WOMAN, looked in their direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 02:32 AM |
| 3 | FeeeeeeeemalesDoes he not know how the app works? You don’t request what you want and dont want, moron. Just swipe right on what you want and if the hooker swipes back, you get to chat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Just when I was starting to change my mind..I don’t like the “he’s just not that into you” thing. Maybe I need to watch the movie or read the book. It just bothers me and I don’t know why but I see it so much here so maybe I am the only one. I do think, if someone isn’t into you but asked you out then they should still offer to pay. They still sat there and ate with you and had your company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 06:08 PM |
| 8 | Just when I was starting to change my mind..I love her. I watch her nomination hearings on YouTube just for fun. Her voice and views and patience are comforting. And her husband was a HVM completely smitten with her. Before the Supreme Court nomination, she was working on cases where she had to convince her male colleagues about equality. She lost and lost but got closer each time and told herself: “They aren’t ready.” Meaning, the male colleagues were not even on a level of understanding that a woman could in anyway be equal - they weren… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 06:04 PM |
| 13 | Let's all learn from MeghanI watched Diana, In Her Own Words on Netflix. She basically said the same. She was groomed and married to Charles at 20, he was 32. She developed bulimia, she had no idea how to be a part of that family and no one ever asked if she was alright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:16 PM |
| 7 | Let's all learn from MeghanShe looks so fierce. Saving this picture because damn girl!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:11 PM |
| 14 | Nothing worse and more vile than a broke dude whining about gold diggers.Lmfao. Wouldn’t expect Brad Pitt to pay?! This is their logic? Brad Pitt is gonna pay and he wouldn’t even think twice about the cost and I still wouldn’t fuck him until after 3 months of vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:52 PM |
| 9 | What about me gives him permission to talk to me like this??? Just started texting this dudekik = married. I dunno why but who else uses kik? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:00 AM |
| 40 | The Dumb Fox CredoMy ex took all of my Christmas decor that I had accumulated and picked out and he uses it in his house. 😂 It was depressing last Christmas but also kinda funny in a ridiculous way, like why would he want that stuff? I’m enjoying getting new and refreshed things. I freakin love Christmas (and appliances, sorry for your loss). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)Keep posting and contributing, mods will change it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Annnd porn sick right from the gate.Thank you. Staying strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:53 PM |
| 5 | All I did was ask him what his does for a living. That was my second message and he sent this 🚩🚩🚩😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:38 PM |
| 34 | Straight to degradationPretty sure Dan played 30 shows in front of his mirror and that’s it. Nothing worse than a musician who thinks he is the shit when he most certainly isn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:14 PM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)I hung out with friends over the weekend. I’m not sure if they were trying to make me feel good about me being single but they were talking a lot about their boyfriends and what they were saying was making me ill. These women are gorgeous and several years younger than me. One has a UTI and she suspects it’s because her bf didn’t shower before sex and ignored her request to do so. She asked him to get her some cranberry juice at the store the next day and he came back an hour later with somethin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 39 | Annnd porn sick right from the gate.What is up with the daddy thing? I was in a horrible situationship for a year and he tried referring to himself as daddy once. I said you are not my daddy and I don’t want to be talked to like that. He apologized and didn’t say it again for 10 or so months and then when he became erratic and drinking excessively towards the end of us, he reverted back to the behavior. Me: how’s work going?” “Daddy’s hard at it today.” I was disgusted but let it slide as a joke (Pickmeisha). But then a few days l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:06 PM |
| 9 | Some guy got triggered by my post about how males are biologically wired to chase us and made a whole 22 minute video about itLook at him, he has NOTHING but time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:51 AM |
| 21 | Practice makes perfectBe careful of the look. I have come to find that it means absolutely nothing. But also congratulations on getting out there and confronting your nervousness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 03:41 AM |
| 11 | OkCupid experiment proves men don't mind dating sociopathsMen don’t mind dating anyone as long as she has a place to put his dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 34 | Ladies, it's not looking good out hereOmg! “You pick. I don’t know. Wherever.” I had a guy who is probably better than most but he could not plan a date to save his life. It was annoying. I would ask him good places to eat in his area of town when he wanted to go out. “I dunno.” I had no feelings for him so ended things over text. He wanted to break up in person and I was like ok, where do you want to meet? “I dunno.” I was so turned off by his utter inability to pick a place that I ended up just saying we’re breaking things off ove… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 5 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty trying to help a poor pickmeisha 😂Do it! I just looked up homemade business cards and they look great. I also thought of like old school band flyers but about femaledatingstrategy and just like putting them up in women’s bathrooms. I can’t think of anything clever right now to say on the media though. Maybe this should be its own post so you can get some ideas for what to say. The only thing that comes to mind right now are simple one liners from some of the memes posted here: Dick is abundant and of low value r/femaledatingstra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 09:15 PM |
| 38 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty trying to help a poor pickmeisha 😂So I was in the elevator the other night and a woman was obviously flustered in there with me. I said something small talky and she said she had just gotten into a fight with the person she was with and he asked her to leave the hotel - I imagine they were on a trip. She had all of her bags and was clearly upset, fumbling, and looked so fragile. I was like, I’m so sorry that happened. Then the elevator door opened and as we were getting out I said, “Fuck him! If he is a guy and did this to you, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:35 AM |
| 10 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty trying to help a poor pickmeisha 😂Omg I’m having a flashback where one guy I dated said that I had “no understanding of basic communication” after he had insulted me and put me down thru long ridiculous texts. Ugh. I used to go to datingoverthirty for advice when I got back into dating after divorce. Big mistake. I can plug the sub there sometime and get banned, maybe someone will see the link and be saved :pray emoji that I can’t find: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:21 AM |
| 49 | TF is going on tonight; their ways of saying casual is evolving. Wasted my daily OLD 20 minutes!If something develops, I’m open to it. The hell? The only thing that’ll develop with this moron is herpes. Nice try, Ariel😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:09 AM |
| 5 | How do I (21F) stop myself from wanting his attention?This. It’s the only way. Level up. FOR YOU. And don’t explain yourself to this person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 9 | So where do I meet a HVM?I agree. Do things you enjoy doing. Volunteer, activities, political events, dog parks whatever. If you hit it off with someone while doing something you enjoy, you already have that thing in common and can go from there. Meeting HVM isn’t a huge issue, you will meet them here and there. Just because someone is high value doesn’t make them an automatic yes for me. The hard part is meeting one and actually wanting his attention because you have a connection and attraction to him physically and me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:10 PM |
| 16 | Dating apps need women. Advertisers need diversity. AI companies offer a solution: fake peopleDelete Dating Apps 2020! I just can’t be bothered with it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Saw this on fb she said they messaged on tinder for 2 hoursAnd he actually expected her to say im srry (sic), baby to him. Like who the fuck would call a person baby unless they are in a relationship? Or a nice southern lady being motherly to someone she cares for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:26 AM |
| 1 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.I’d do it, fuck this ugly loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Guy gets a drunken hook up pregnant, and instead of worrying about the child, he’s worried about his social prospects. And he thinks he can still be high value? 😂I can and I might one day but it is based on income and he makes less than me so I’m not sure if it’s worth it at this time. Plus I worry it would further irritate the situation of us just trying to be civil at this point and raise a child. His audacity to complain to me about having to pay 35 dollars is truly insulting though, like wtf weirdo, you think health insurance, food, shoes, toys, and clothes are free? Thanks for the 30, let me go blow that fat check right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:52 AM |
| 14 | Found one MDS is just how to play FDS to their advantageOmg this is truly hilarious and so pathetic. As if these losers can fake being high value in any way, shape, or form for more than 10 minutes when they’re so thirsty for sex and can barely keep their cool around an attractive female for any length of time. And where will they meet these women to attempt this futile exercise? OLD, I guarantee it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 11:57 PM |
| 10 | Bumble and the wallMy new doctor thought my age was wrong on my chart! I truly believe living in the present and self care make a huge impact on aging. Stress ages fast and dudes are always stressed about their sad and depressing lives, they drink a ton and look like shit by 34. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 11:38 PM |
| 19 | If empowering my fellow sistahs is wrong, then I don't wanna be right! 🤣Oh god, a fortnite loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 21 | Guy gets a drunken hook up pregnant, and instead of worrying about the child, he’s worried about his social prospects. And he thinks he can still be high value? 😂I get 35 dollars a month in child support. 35 dollars and he complained and moaned that he had to pay me child support when I make good money and that I must have lied on the paperwork that he filed. Complained over 35 dollars a month which is basically pocket change and not even a drop in the bucket when it comes to caring for a pet much less a human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on being picked up for a first date?It’s a good question that has prompted good conversation IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on being picked up for a first date?Also get an idea of where he lives and try to meet away from his area of town or at least find out if the grown up will be driving himself to the date. I’ve had someone have his friends drive him to the date so then his dumbass asked me to drive him home. Hell to the fucking no, get a Lyft. He didn’t ask until he had walked me to my car, “I live right down the road”. So I was in a very awkward situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on being picked up for a first date?Omg that was me. I stupidly kept this trash in my life for a year. He asked to come over, it was late at night and were supposed to go out earlier in the evening but he ended up going out “with the boys” and drinking/staying late. So I told him, no he can’t come over and I am going to sleep. I locked all of the doors and I have deadbolts but yes, it’s damn easy to break in without deadbolts and that fucker tried to break into my damn house with a gas station gift card. I had no idea until the ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:44 PM |
| 6 | This is why I don't date.I was on Tinder and changed my pictures to a totally different woman than the original person (me) and not one person I was actively talking to for 2 days noticed. So then I made the pics blonde women - 3 completely different blonde people in the same profile and no one noticed, everyone still matched me and kept talking, asking me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)I forgot to mention that when confronted about what went on while I was SLEEPING, in addition to the “trying to be romantic” statement, he also said “there was 39 cents left on that gift card so you’re welcome”. This piece of trash of a human exists in the world. He’s on Tinder and Bumble and allowed to actually breathe air. He doesn’t live in my vicinity anymore and I keep tabs to make sure he is actually gone. Calling ADT next week about alarms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 03:44 AM |
| 10 | Elizabeth Warren’s Dating Advice Is The Kind Of Energy I Need In LifeI appreciate your comment and I will read more about how they differ. I’ve been wearing my Bernie 2020 shirt today and I’ve been a fan of his for a long time. No doubt I want one of the two to win and/or possibly come together to make an unstoppable team. Just hearing a woman speak like that who is running made me have hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:32 AM |
| 4 | Dumping my controlling boyfriend but still don’t feel happy about thatYou don’t want marriage and kids with some low value loser or with someone who isn’t right for you. Your life will be hell if you settle, think about other things that you want and can get now and focus on being happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 41 | Elizabeth Warren’s Dating Advice Is The Kind Of Energy I Need In LifeCan you imagine if she became President?! I don’t pray but shit, I’m praying for this every night starting now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 07:48 PM |
| 88 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBEpic. Rob can go fuck himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Should I be FWB with an ex (LVM)?I don’t really want to shop for a vibrator but need one. The last time I ordered one it was junk. Do you all have a recommendation from Amazon? Edit: in case anyone reads this in the future! I got the fancy ass Magic Wand recommended by some of you all here. Thank you😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Should I pay for myself on a trip?I feel/felt like this too but I want to change after finding this sub. I want to be able to let a man pay for me and take care of me. I was always thinking how I’m independent and can pay for myself and I don’t need anyone but that hasn’t made me feel very high value so far and I have had some pretty horrid dating experiences. I see what you’re saying though. I guess I’m commenting in case anyone has advice on how I can feel independent, like I can take care of myself but also give someone the c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 05:58 PM |
| 15 | anyone want to hop over and help out this poor pickmeisha?I made a sad relationship advice type post last year. Someone said “drop his ass fast, you can do so much better”. A person who didn’t even know me saying that actually helped change my inner dialog a bit. She’s reaching for advice and validation so I don’t think she is past the point of saving. I think if someone would have made me aware of this sub last year, I would have saved myself from doing the same stupid things with a different guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)Thank you. I am going to look into the door alarms for my own peace of mind. I deadbolt every door constantly but each time I do, I am reminded of him which sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)It is strange to me too. I am actually low key terrified, obsessively locking my doors now, wanting to move because the last guy tried to break into my home while I was sleeping. He was clearly drunk since he left his opened beer on my porch and the crinkled up gift card he used to try to get in. Said he was trying to be romantic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Talk therapy: the cringeningClown me, please sis. I was traumatized and in a shitty place and told myself constantly that he was just having a hard time in life too. It was constant lies and breadcrumbing, conflicting statements, slut shaming me when I would go out on dinner dates with other guys. He said he loved me, he said he wanted a relationship with me, fucked me and then literally changed his mind the next day because he wanted freedom. Took me on one dinner date. This shit went on for all of 2019. When I texted one… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:09 PM |
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