Total_Bumblebee_622 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Women objectively have it better than men in the modern western world Depending on how coercion is defined, yes it literally is. Coercion and CUR covers everything from disagreement to threats and physical force. One is not the other, and having them both included in the same term is a weaponization of language. Arguments are not force. Convincing someone is not force. It's gross, and shady, but it's not forcing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 07:05 PM
1	Women objectively have it better than men in the modern western world Sure as hell turned most of them to the right and conservatives though. That's a kind of slow-rolling self-destruction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 12:28 PM
1	Women objectively have it better than men in the modern western world Sometimes people don't want to do what you ask them to do. It's called free-will, men have it. If this frustrates you, that's something you'll have to handle on your own. Some people don't like condoms. The same way you would like to enjoy the sex you're having, the same goes for men. If you don't want to have sex without a condom, then don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 12:18 PM
8	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have What's subconscious about an openly stated prejudice	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:14 PM
3	What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks? You can't free men through eunuchry. And I'm not saying that to diminish your point, I agree that it should be still be striven for. It's just not an end state in of itself. A sexual existence is part of a fulfilling life. And no matter what else you do, if you still have to fall in line to a narrow band of stereotypes to find love and have children, then there's going to be a ceiling on what can be accomplished. I don't think women are as restricted on this as some are. There are women who date…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 09:35 PM
2	Do you like someone more when they're exceptional at things you're deficient in, or when they're similar at things you're exceptional in? I like the latter more, but both are good in a vacuum. To me. The problems more come from the ways women find attraction in men than the other way around. A women who is exceptional at something I'm deficient in isn't likely to see that difference as complementary. Most women value the parts of life they've invested into over others. Things that lie outside of that are lower priority, no matter how useful or vital they are. Just an example; a woman who's really good at skiing and makes that her …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 01:12 PM
5	Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea. with someone who has zero idea You're showing a disturbing lack of respect for women's intelligence. But in either the case that they are completely unaware or they're not, it doesn't matter, the condition for continued friendship isn't to reciprocate feelings (also, I don't respect the idea of having feelings for another person as a bombshell. It's a basic human interaction, it happens everyday, for god's sakes this is so unhealthy of a mindset I don't know where to begin.) the condition for co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 12:07 AM
5	Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea. Friendship isn't a contract. And attempting to have one-sided covert contracts with people is a form of emotional abuse. Treating differences in outlook and desires as violations is a disgusting thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:03 PM
2	Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea. Why would the onus be on the person who doesn't want to change the status of the relationship to end things? Principle. And obligations to the people you care about to not facilitate their self-harm. If someone wants you and you know it and you don't want them, you need to pull back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:00 PM
1	What explains the difference in how some men respond to authority, admiration, and emotion when it comes from women versus other men. No, I said the appearance of aptitude. Appearances are not the same as substance. Looking strong and being strong aren't the same, same goes for every attribute that someone might be drawn to. Men aren't more logical. I think you're projecting a bit with the irony here 😅, but in any case I just think men view women with suspicion and defensiveness. And it reflects in how they respond to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 09:53 PM
2	What explains the difference in how some men respond to authority, admiration, and emotion when it comes from women versus other men. Never argued that any of this was logical. Please rebut me with that in mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 08:04 PM
7	What explains the difference in how some men respond to authority, admiration, and emotion when it comes from women versus other men. Specifically on the fangirls thing. I think it's less about the fangirls and more what that behavior is an analog for. It's culty. It's mob-like. And I don't mean that men think of it that way, just that that behavior is perceptibly similar. And when you're not part of the ritual, part of the mob, seeing thousands of people acting the same way in one accord is a bit disturbing. That's a separate thing from one streamer having a strong reaction. If there were lines of people out begging for a cha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 03:26 PM
11	What explains the difference in how some men respond to authority, admiration, and emotion when it comes from women versus other men. Women use authority differently. And they use emotions differently as well. I think men respond to women the way they do partially because of the lack of physical imposition or a credible show of skill. Men will learn from those who have something to teach them, if they value what's taught and have confidence in the teacher. If you're the boss, you need to be better at the job than they are. Men respond to the perception of aptitude. They have to be impressed. Titles don't mean anything on their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 02:19 PM
–	what preferences are women allowed to have? The basic premise of a committed relationship is changing oneself. This is not some kind of innovation. Going from single and open to other people to committed and open to one person is already a big change and that is not only acceptable but it is necessary for healthy connection for the overwhelming majority of people. And part of the transition to being open to one person is to stop inviting other people in to give you attention, to solicit you, to take you places, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 09:28 AM
4	A man without female friends is a red flag Just cause you want something to be the case doesn't give it normative weight. There is no "should". You just prefer things to be that way. And reality isn't going to blindly reflect your desires. Are you saying that a man can't like a woman for a friend without falling in love with her? He's saying that men fall in love with women they like. There's something broken in you if this is actually that hard to understand. Either you're afraid of sex or afraid of people or you're afraid of love. But …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 09:21 AM
1	Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again. Sway me? I take no for answer, I don't need to be swayed. I’ll contact the council of women so we can get the hive mind to begin shaming this behavior, and I will have the council look into this henceforth so the hazing ceremony may begin Godspeed, my sister. Godspeed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 02:25 PM
–	Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again. It's not my standard, you need to listen to what I'm saying. You have an issue with how things are. I don't think it's worth it to fight it because it's a problem of women's making and women cannot control every other woman. A lot of the problems that women face are socially pre-determined, because there's always going to be someone that does it. And so long as they are sensitive to it occurring anywhere, there will be no satisfaction. It's a recipe to be perpetually upset. Sometimes people are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 02:10 PM
–	Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again. It's not about what I want. I'm not the one who wants zero men to try again. That's what you want. I'm telling you how to get what you want. If that's not getting the result you want, then you're not doing enough. I can accept things how they are, messy as it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 01:47 PM
1	Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again. Skittish people are going to be scared. Your fear, in a situation where you're not at threat isn't men's job to care about. If we waited for women to never be afraid to talk to them then no one would be able to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 01:44 PM
–	Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again. Unironically, yeah. If women consistently make obstacles to core life goals for men, it follows that many men will prioritize their own life over the comfort of people that don't want them. If you're not hurting anyone (being uncomfortable at a normal interaction is not a form of harm and these anxious types need to build some resilience) then it's fair game. If women want their no's to mean no, they need to police the women who mean "keep trying" when they say it. And they need to learn to make…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 01:42 PM
–	Old people have no understanding of how dating works today Buddy, I don't think you understand my point if you think you're the kind of guy who shouldn't give advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 02:46 AM
0	Fellas, is it discriminatory for women to experience attraction? Discuss How did this turn left so quick? I don't think you realize how much women value male validation There seem to be racial differences in this, from the outside looking in. I notice White women try to appeal to each other a lot more than others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 10:17 PM
–	Old people have no understanding of how dating works today When the fuck did that become a thing? It's not just evolving rapidly, it's simply not a cohesive thing anymore. Everyone has radically different temperaments, diagnoses, expectations, cultural mores. It's all scrambled up. It became a thing when everyone stopped knowing what to expect from one another. And common went along with it. Cause there's nothing in common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 09:55 PM
–	Old people have no understanding of how dating works today Just being successful on its own doesn't mean much with dating. It's why you're successful that matters. how to be in a relationship better than perpetually single people If dating was about being in relationships, it'd be a lot easier to give people advice. But attraction isn't something that's skill-based on its own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 09:50 PM
–	Old people have no understanding of how dating works today Who are you taking advice from then? For men, it would be normal men who don't have an overwhelming advantage in life that makes advice from them nonapplicable. You can learn from a guy with the common handicaps that large amounts of men have. Most of us are not the tallest in the room, not the most handsome, etc. A Hemsworth cannot teach a normal guy anything useful. Because they're not doing things the same way. Also maybe some advice doesn't fit you but it might be useful for someone else. Wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 09:48 PM
8	The utter revulsion women feel and openly express against the idea of coddling or nurturing their partners like a mother figure is conclusive proof that women do not actually love men for who they are as I would likewise do were I a woman. People have got to stop offering moral excuses to the positions they critique. They don't make the argument stronger, they naturalize everything that you're ostensibly against. If you treat opportunism like a force of nature, it's justified to respond to you with dismissal or indifference. If "women are just like that" is at the core of your thoughts, don't be surprised when women go "Yeah, so?" Which is what's normal on this sub. Women aren't just like tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 12:42 PM
3	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. I've always thought this was more of a agreeability result rather than a belief result. They stopped faking their politics to get along and became more willing to go against the grain when they had more confidence in themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 07:15 PM