Totalwink Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	Coping with being the one who left. What did you guys do?		Totalwink	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/25 10:48 PM
11	She doesn’t want to leave and still loves me. Its making me question things. How do I stick to my guns?	Rant	Totalwink	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/25 02:14 AM
8	Figuring out what to do in regard to intimacy/sex?		Totalwink	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/25 06:15 PM
5	I’m worried I’ll never have kids now…		Totalwink	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/25 10:53 AM
4	Is it worth it to resolve my condition at the cost of my marriage?		Totalwink	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/25 07:00 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Monthly check in, how are you men holding up? F**king horrible. I don’t miss her I’m past all that mess. But I want someone to hold and love. 4 years of a dead bed room destroyed me. My libido is through the roof now and I’m so tempted to dabble in the intimate parts of Reddit. I just can’t. It would be all fake. Transactional. Some OF bs. It makes me sad.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/10/25 11:25 PM
1	Is it worth it to resolve my condition at the cost of my marriage? Over spending on her part, emotional abuse, paranoia that I was going to cheat. Which I never did btw.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/25 01:08 PM
1	Is it worth it to resolve my condition at the cost of my marriage? No kids at all	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/25 01:50 AM
1	Zoom Sessions? I’m 100% interested. Hell I’ll host it even if you want. Lol	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/25 11:06 PM
1	She doesn’t want to leave and still loves me. Its making me question things. How do I stick to my guns? Problem is i do know she has it. Her mother had a heart attack when she was very young and she watched her deteriorate for ten years before she was taken off life support. Trauma is definitely there.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/25 02:33 PM
1	Figuring out what to do in regard to intimacy/sex? This is true. Problem is it took years for me to dig the canyon. Lol	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/25 01:16 PM
1	Figuring out what to do in regard to intimacy/sex? I’m American. It’s illegal here. Lol	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/25 12:37 PM
2	Figuring out what to do in regard to intimacy/sex? It’s been technically a month. But I slowly mentally checked out long before that.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/25 07:28 PM
2	Figuring out what to do in regard to intimacy/sex? I don’t want to stay married. I actually am looking forward to dating, but can you date if you’re separated? Is that frowned upon?	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/25 07:23 PM
3	Figuring out what to do in regard to intimacy/sex? Unfortunately I’m only separated at the moment, not divorced yet, so I feel like dating = cheating on my STBX. I might have left, but I don’t know if dating is morally right.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/25 07:12 PM