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I pretty much saw it coming. She kept saying "we should take a break" out of nothing. And when I made it clear that I don't believe in "taking breaks", and if she isn't sure, we should rather break up, she would immediately retreat on that. I had already given up on that relationship, and it had already become dead weight for me. She was neither ready to commit, nor ready to break up. At one point, I even told her that if she is seeing someone else (which I suspected), she should pursue it with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:04 AM
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Okay, on a serious note, for any man or woman, the virtue I look for even in long term friends, is that the person should be able to own their mistakes. The kind of people, to whom everything they fuck up has to be someone else's mistake, are problematic to be with. I once had a girlfriend who used to complain that I was getting too clingy. Which was weird, because she was the needy kind, who would call and tell me about every little good or bad thing. So I pulled back, and reduced calling her f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:17 AM
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My wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:39 PM
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We don't feel negative emotions as strongly. That's all I can say. It helps in some cases, and creates problems in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:59 AM
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This comment just assumes that all women are looking for something serious and long term, so they need to make the guy wait for it. If a girl genuinely wants something long term (and she has made that clear), and the guy lies to a girl to get sex, he is a manipulator. But if the girl wants something casual, but she still wants the guy to be serious about her, because she wants to play some stupid power games, where she wants the guy to be committed, but keep things casual at her end , then she i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:49 AM
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Sometimes I open reddit, and wonder how stupid are the debates that happen in the context of US politics. I wonder what's the age and IQ of people having these debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:53 PM
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Yes. Let me be clear. I have no issues with my wife working. And I don't believe in either being traditional or modern, to check some boxes. A family needs ro do whatever is the best for a family, after discussing all the possibilities. And it could be different things at different times. She worked and was pretty successful at her career, till she had to leave a toxic job, that was taking a toll on her health. And it was her decision. We had our first baby recently, and the break extended. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:35 PM
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That is some strawman. Men don't complain about women complaining all the time. It's about complaining to their spouses all the time. Go on complain on the internet, but let your man live in peace, without making everything his problem. (And even his mistake) All the examples you could come up with, are about anger. So that's the only emotion you could find. In case of men, we have to deal with a much larger spectrum of emotions. And at the same time, you entirely ignore the mood swings women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:52 AM
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We can easily talk about most men, and be right. The problem comes when someone makes claims about "all men" or "all women".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:29 AM
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Women do love to claim to be speaking for all the women. And then, everything becomes a "men v/s women" drama, as if we are still in primary school. The same gets projected to taking everything bad they have seen in a bunch of men, and extrapolating it on "all men", which honestly pissed off most of us men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:28 AM
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Certification just comes with the course. So why should I leave it? I had to pay the same amount, either way. I just had ti give a written exam, and a few group massage sessions for evaluation. I have had bad experiences with massage. With both men and women. In fact, worse with men. Women back off, with their "suggestive" touches, the moment you ask them to. I once took massage from a guy, who was possibly gay. Kept touching my glutes, even after I told him not to. (I had no issues in getting g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:07 AM
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I was kind of good at it as I had learnt it in college (I mean I learnt it somewhere else, when I was in college), and wanted to be better. I am interested in muscle anatomy and biomechanics, because of my interest in resistance training. Which means I know how exactly to press, manipulate, stretch specific muscles. These skills, and relevant knowledge, somewhat compliment each other. I don't intend to make it a profession, as my current profession interests me a lot, and even though I am curren…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:26 PM
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This is really fair. I am a certified massage therapist, and while I don't do it as a profession, I sometimes give massages to friends and family. But if it's anything more than a head or back massage for a lady, I make sure that someone from her family is present at that moment. One of my really good friends once brushed it off, saying -"I trust you bro", to which I said-"I don't want to put you in a condition, where you may have to ever reconsider that". I used to go to gym with my SIL, and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:25 PM
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If someone is intentionally keeping distance from women, and only meeting them in public places, then being creepy is clearly not in their plan. All of this is, in fact opposite of what creepy people would want to do. So clearly they aren't creepy, but want to ensure that they cannot be wrongfukly accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:17 PM
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Just like that argument "not all men, but it's always a man that rapes" "Not all women, but it's always a woman that puts fake SA allegations" I am not rich, so I guess I don't need to follow all of this. But I had once exposed a female colleague's habit of telling lies all the time, by letting her keep lying beyond the point of no return (basically, when they cannot use the grey area of "Actually, I meant to say" anymore. She got scolded for her scheming, and later threatened me by saying "a gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:14 PM
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Lol....!! :D If you want to go in the literal sense, then you will need to look at a lot of other things that are done around the main act.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:42 AM
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Well, it depends....!! It's not like she doesn't want sex. Even being a guy, I don't understand this lingo of assuming a girl to be a passive partner in sex, who is, in some way, "just taking it". Not all women see sex as "getting run through". I have been with women in casual setups, and they are very clear about what they want, and what they don't want. And they are quite vocal about it. I do have my doubts about her, though. Given her meek personality. But I know her from a few years ago. Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:28 PM
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Definitely, more men than women, are looking for "sex-only" relationships. Or one can say less women are doing it. I think more women would have been doing the same, if they were getting enough orgasms. With how things mostly are, women don't have enough ROI. Also, there's societal conditioning for women to not consider sex as something they too need, but as something they are supposed to use to reward a man doing other things for them. The problem is not more men wanting only sex, the real prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:32 AM
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It's weird we are even discussing this. I can't imagine the kind of people who want to control their partner to the extent that they could even consider "porn as cheating". Porn might be bad in many ways, but lol, it's not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:46 PM
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It's just the term that is common in my country. It was not about the word either, when I actually explained what it is, they had no clue that it happens. Also, 2 of those girls were medical students. You being a sex-ed instructor, are in a much better position to know it, but I had thought that the doctors were close to the best of what female population had to offer. It sucks that we don't have much sex ed in our country, or at least it wasn't there when we went to schools. (Gen Z has somewhat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:18 AM
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Yuppp... Most women are nowhere close to the standards that they hold for men. They just take anything related to men for granted, while they are discussing their problems. And that shows in way too many areas. Recently a friend of mine, was ranting about how men have no clue about menstruation, and that parents must teach it to them, before letting them even date, or play with their sisters. A lot of generalization of the flavour "most men make fun of menstruation", "consider period cramps to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:15 PM
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That's just something that older women have come up with. I would personally not have dated anyone too younger to me, but that is just personal preference. Most people might find younger women more attractive. Women have this habit to justify all their "preferences", and to blame men for having theirs. But yes, it depends on "how young?". Women in their early twenties, are more vulnerable to manipulation. But a 30F-45M couple is pretty much at a similar mental maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:20 PM
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I got it done as a child. At around the age of 15, when I did understand what is was supposed to do. The reason was not religious, but a partially closed foreskin. It was made clear by the doctor and my parents, that it was an optional procedure at that stage, and we can choose to wait for a while. I read up about it, and realised that if I want to get it done, it should be at least a few months before I was going to be sexually active. (To avoid the initial hypersensitivity), so I anyways went …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:17 AM
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Do you think women like women? I doubt it. It seems they barely tolerate each other. The amount of bad mouthing that women do about even their best friends, behind their back, is surprising. Men don't do it (well, most do not) If there are no men, womet might discuss different groups of women being removed next, based on their fashion sense or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:07 AM

Yea, sex should be based on mutual attraction. But if that attraction isn't there, why are the two people married in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:15 PM

Huhh...??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:18 PM

2/2 Continuing fromt he previous comment: There are men with fragile egos, and there are women who are punishing their husbands for all the feminist narratives the see online. And no, I have no friends, who would be doing the same by listening to the red-pill nonsense. (can't tolerate those andrew state fanboys) I have friends who are gaslighting their wives on being asked to wear a condom, leading to frequent UTIs and even unwanted pregnancy. There are cases where a man gets to complain about n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:15 PM

Women already provide and have friends. Lol no wonder singleness is at an all time high. Good that you came on this sub to inform us about that. Men aren’t really providers anymore as most of the time women have to work and earn as well. Naah, that's just unfair. If a woman is also earning, and the job demands (not just pay, but actual demand of the job) are equal, then both partners better be lifting equal at home as well. The whole gender role drama of red-pillers is useless. It's about social…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:14 PM

Why can’t men just rub one out Why should they? That's not why they married a woman. And if that's what they were supposed to do, why should they even take care of their wives? A lot of what women expect from men, they can also do those same things on their own. And yet, they demand that men do it. From things as meaningless as "putting the toilet seat down" to "taking the garbage out", or even "making enough money, and handling the finances for the family". I respect women, but honestly it take…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:37 PM

Some people go with those solutions, but I am not one of them, as I will have sex with my husband but when I don’t want to, as I don’t need it like him, I will help him in other ways I can, and be as understanding as he is for me. That sounds wise. What you said earlier was quite different. No one should be having sex, when they don't really want to have it. What you said was about "women don't need it as much, so it's okay to deny it" We men don't need all those long conversations either, and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:28 PM

So you think women should be okay with their husbands paying for sex, or having it somewhere else? That is certainly not the case. And that's why it becomes a hostage situation : "You won't get it from me. But you also cannot get it from someone else" To be clear, I am not justifying a man whoring around, just mentioning that it might be the only option for someone in a sexless marriage. And I would say the same about a woman in a sexless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:03 PM

"Sex isn't a necessity" But... "Toilet seat being down is essential for the continuity of life" The real problem is that since childhood, women are mostly taught to treat their sexuality as a taboo. And even the old-wife-advices are to use it as a currency. Some societies expect them to somehow consider it a sin till marriage, and then indulge in it afterwards. Guess what...!! It isn't a switch that they can switch on and off. A lot of men just make peace with infrequent sex, and that becomes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:00 PM
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Tate has a company?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:55 AM
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A lot of so-called “men” don’t seem to get that not being able to get your dick sucked isn’t an actual systemic issue That was a silly attempt to make fun of some very genuine problems. It's like saying that all feminism is about, is complaining that men won't go down on girls who are hairy down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:45 AM
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In India, we have a lady called "Deepika Bhardwaj", who is a men's right activist. She raises issues about fake rape cases, and how the laws related to divorce and domestic violence are inherently anti-men in India, given that there's little to no burden of proof on women to back up their complaints, and a guy's life can be ruined, just on the basis of "she said". There are even laws, where a woman can claim that her consent was based on a promise of marriage, and the guy can land in trouble. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:42 AM
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Feminism is an equivalent of patriarchy. All it talks about is "X is better for women, so it should be done this way". This goes from the toilet seat debate, to dating attiquates, to alimony and divorces. It can be an efficient counterbalance forto patriarchy, but that's all it is. Pretending that it's a useful ideology for all, is delusional. And for the same reason, it needs to be treated by men, the way women treat patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:35 AM
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Yeah, my in-laws once tried to convince me to join a cult (which seems like a Hindu equivalent of the one that you mentioned). They too preach things like "you should only have sex to make babies, and not for pleasure" I laughed and asked my FIL, if he wants his daughter's marriage to end or something. My wife too was pissed when she heard this, and told him to never bring it up again. I guess the reason might be that for a lot of these older people running these cults, it might actually be good…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/24 06:51 AM
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Even love is transactional. You do expect people whom you love to do things for you, and so do they. And yes, money is a virtue, if one has earned it the right way. It represents a set of strengths in an individual. Someone who spent time actually studying in school or college, or at least learning some life skills, instead of just sailing through life aimlessly, is much more likely to earn more in the future. Someone who just spent their youth procrastinating, is simply an inferior person compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:10 AM
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I have updated some more details in my comment. Just to put the entire context out there. The phase I talked about, was around 10 years in the past. Now I am in my early/mid thirties.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 02:26 PM
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I was in a dark phase, just out of a long term relationship. Was pissed, and was in company of people, who were a little too much into drugs and alcohol. I didn't get much into drugs (just weed, that I do not regret). Those weren't the average jobless junkies, but well-earning people, with messed up hobbies. But they were addicts, nevertheless. Most guys in those groups were extremely unfit, and most-likely bad in bed, so I got a lot of attention, and my early 20s self didn't hate the easy sex t…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 01:59 PM
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Yeah man, at the same time. I will accept- "It takes one to know one". The reason why I know that it's repelling, is because I have been in that phase for a few months, where I was only looking to score sex (without paying for it, or taking too much risk). I have slept with some really problematic women, a few years ago. I am glad that the phase didn't last long, and I came out of it, without any STIs or any major dents on my self-esteem.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 06:59 AM
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This is just a silly thing to say. Thinking that it's silly, tells that you are too naive. It literally is. Banks print it out of thin air But you can always put your money into things that aren't as easy to manipulate, as the pieces of paper. If you aren't doing it, then it's not someone else's fault. Sure, even stocks or real estate can be manipulated, but not as easily. And there are ways to safeguard against that. Money represents the value that the world has put into your skills, and it rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:30 AM
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Money is one of the things that tell about who someone is. All your counter arguments pretend that it's the only variable in the question. So no, someone making money by child-traficking is not the same as someone making money by spending years learning some useful skills, or just working their ass off, without any standard marketable skills. Being successful on any field that isn't criminal, is a virtue. Such people also exist in the third world countries. (I know because I am in one of the cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:15 AM
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This romantic notion of "love just the person", is stupid. Unless someone is born with money, the money that they have is a reflection of who they are. Similarly, if a girl or a guy maintain themselves in a good shape, it is a reflection of their self. Being good in bed is also a reflection of ones efforts they have put into being better. Even love can be transactional. But yes, if one keeps using just sex as a product, they won't have anything to sell, once the other person gets accustomed to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:24 AM
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Now that you mention it ... I might have been a similar old guy. I guess I am not an old man (in my mid 30s, so decide yourself), but in past I have tried to ensure that an ex of mine, finds a good partner. The girl is in her late twenties, and so is this friend. She was a good girl, though. Not a hooker, like the one in OP's story. She lost her virginity to me, in a casual relationship, where I had made it clear that I am not looking for/or planning to give any commitments. She ended up develop…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/24 05:54 AM
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We don't, those women are bad in bed, and mostly very unhygeniec. Maybe the people with messiah syndrome love that. Some women too want a project to fix, instead of a partner. They too end up falling for the drug addicts and alcoholics.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/24 05:44 AM
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OP, it's okay to write a few extra words, when you are writing your heart's content. Unless you want to be an author. There are people who are willing to tolerate the distractions and the wall of words. But at the same time, you can't hate those who want things crisp. So a ChatGPT summary isn't a bad thing, after all. Maybe, add a Tl;Dr; to avoid unwilling people having to go through the whole text, only to be pissed at you afterwards. That's a win win.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/24 05:42 AM
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I doubt it. Most likely the church elders are trying their own virtue-signalling, to be seen as more influential in the community. That's why one needs to be very careful, while following anyone's advice. Most of the time, the advice is not to benefit you, but to help the advisor build an image of the "wise one". The advice isn't supposed to fix your problems, but to put you on a path of consistent problems, for which you need to keep running back to them, for the next equally useless advice.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/24 05:38 AM
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A man does have to sacrifice for others. But only if the other person has earned it. I am with my wife for almost 2 decades (including dating and marriage phases), and I know that I will fight to my last breath for her and my children, if I have to. But I can't say the same for the kind of relationships that some of my friends are in. So every one has to make that decision on their own. But it doesn't mean that my sacrifices come without any expectations. I will expect my wife to be an equal par…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/24 05:16 AM
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One cannot "fix" another person, by loving them. This applies to both men and women. Also, one must not let any cult (religious, or whatever) drive their life decisions. Just listen to their shit as ideas no matter how hyped they are, evaluate them, and take your own decisions. I find it really stupid that the guy would keep running to the church everytime something wasn't right in his marriage. The sad truth is that he is way too influenced by the church. The church elder got his satisfaction, …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/24 05:03 AM
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Naah, it applies to both men and women. As a men, even I have found myself projecting my own image of perfect partner on my partner, at times. And I have seen many men and women doing it. If you try to act otherwise, you wouldn't really be honest. This is human nature. And that's why the questions like "What does the personality of your perfect partner look like?" Everyone has an answer to such questions, even if they don't talk about it, for the political correctness reasons. Look at all those …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:08 AM
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Basically, lick their ass so much that they don't feel the need to use toilet papers. Be careful with this hyperbole. If you do it a little too much, then people will perceive you as a little bitch. Bending too much make people assume the you lack skills. You do need to confront, just not too much. I have few of my past managers, as my mentors. And they have referred me to places, told me the salary ranges for roles I applied for in their company (which the recruiters were lying about, obviously…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/24 10:40 AM
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Your toothbrush can also kill you in some ways. But you are more likely to be killed by polonium vodka shots. Similarly, any dumb person can be manipulated by a cunning person. But a younger girl is more vulnerable to manipulation by an older man, into acting against her own interests.. Also, if voters couldn't be manipulated, the democracies would have worked very differently. And well, there are way too many dumb drivers on the road. Both men and women. So, there goes whatever point you were t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:05 AM
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Naah, I feel the same way about younger men, being manipulated by an older woman. I have a distant cousin, who at 24, got married to a 39 years old lady with 3 children. The fucker was a socially awkward guy, who never saw much success in life. The woman was living of the alimony wealth of her ex-husband. Now he is nothing more than a toy-boy for her, who runs her errands, (I guess) fucks her, and does a job to manage the running expenses. She has a big house, some money, but lacks regular runni…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:41 PM
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only go after naive women I really think that when some men say "I don't want a woman with baggage", what they actually mean is that "I don't want a woman with enough experience, to recognize and call out the games/manipulations that my online alpha-guru has taught me". And on the part of women, a lot of "old men seeking" is mostly about money, even if it is presented in more "palatable" sentences involving maturity, stability, etc. Women aren't really going after older men, who are as broke as …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:51 AM
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I get it. Most people like to see the world as "their country & other countries". But my friend, the school system is the same way in most parts of the world. And if you think about it, school have to keep those strict boundaries. I have gone to schools in the suburbs, where the kid of local goon, used to come to school with an airgun/pistle. That's what happens, when school looses the knot. But yes, one needs to learn to "skirt the rules" just enough to not be a pushover, and still stay out of …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/24 06:40 AM
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It takes usually one violent outburst to push most bullies away This. I was the kid of a school teacher. And while, neither my mother (the teacher), nor me, ever tried to take any advantage of that (and the list of disadvantages was pretty long for me), other kids just assumed that I must be getting certain unfair benefits. And as I was good with studies, and scored well, they kept taunting me with things like-"Your mother must've given you the question papers", or "She must have requested the o…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/24 06:36 AM
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Yeah, that is true. It seems bro is still blooking, and needs his initial dose of validation from us. I think he should go and try his luck with this girl, to fill that validation gap for himself. And who knows....!!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/24 05:12 AM
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I think it might be because it's easy for a woman to squeeze and pull out a condom without letting you know, when doing cowgirl. And then pretending that it happened in the heat of the moment. Similar to how some guys try to work-around "no sex without a condom" by pulling it off mid-way. Acts of cunning losers. Both men and women have their share of these A-holes.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/24 04:27 AM
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Are you really sure about your analysis of that woman? Or are you just assuming things, just because you are bitter that she wouldn't have cared about you 10 years ago? All of this depends on an objective analysis of that girl, and while it might be true, it seems that you are, at the moment, just projecting an imaginary woman's image on this girl.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/24 04:22 AM
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