ToughFail1430 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	If you want him to lead, then you need to follow - how? TLDR: My advice is, when you see a little bit of leading, even though you are not completely agree or believe or whatever, follow that thought or idea or whatever of the men, find common ground or just do it or add your own touch of the lead, without changing the product much, then you two have a flow. In dance scenes, there are two terms, follower and leader. The leader does something, and the follower follows. It makes the dance look good and fun. Both of them are hard to do and you really nee…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/25 02:17 AM
31	Scarcity mentality isn't just about quantity, it's also quality relative to your reference point You either get better or bitter. At times, at certain places, you could be 5, 8 or 10. Gotta learn try fail, and fail better, succeed and succeed better	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/25 10:59 PM
3	How to STFU correctly? You mix it up. Tell the truth (could be boring, taunting, etc), do flip, do other methods, and try something else. These are just examples to solve shit test. Why didn't you call, may not be a shit test all the time. It could be a conversation starter, etc. Don't blindly follow red pill principles. Edit: There is theory and examples. If it is from example. It is not a principle. Think if it is really the situation. And passing shit tests can be fun, but if you do it always the same it is no long…	/r/askMRP	23/09/24 11:39 PM
3	Hypergamy and Women who leave for LGBT partners It is a big red flag area anyway. So it doesn't matter. Who cares for LGBT when you are a straight man and want a relationship with a straight woman.	/r/askMRP	23/09/24 11:11 PM
4	How to STFU correctly? Don't run away from amplifying. If you do, it is no more amplifying. Have fun doing it lol she will give up. Or do the flip, and ask why didn't you. Or just call her sometimes, you get 3, you give 2. If you don't give you can't get	/r/askMRP	23/09/24 10:51 PM
9	Wife starting to threaten divorce, feels inevitable It doesn't matter what she says, only what she does, and in this case, if you ask me, the last paragraph shows it is not a shit test.	/r/askMRP	18/09/24 05:42 PM
1	What does your partner think of RPW, submission, and male-led relationships? Wikipedia of this sub	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/24 11:51 PM
1	What does your partner think of RPW, submission, and male-led relationships? It depends if the red pill men want LTR or not. They wouldn't want those two from the same women. But I see your point. The idealogy is contradictory if you compre sociological aspects with psychological ones. For example, trying to be the best version of yourself to get laid is to contribute to hypergamy(social phenomenon) more, rather than trying to fix it. At an individual level, it can't be fixed. When it comes to LTR(individual), they want low body count. Of course, if everybody(social) wer…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/24 10:30 PM
3	Can you be RP and gay? Sexual marketing strategy for men without any discrimination, mind you	/r/askMRP	04/09/24 11:35 PM
8	What to do when you fuck up? If it is obvious, the reason he is angry may not be that you are late, but you are playing the victim. Even if you don't apologise or don't want to, it is way better not to lie. Another perspective to think about may be that your feelings about him could be damaged or his feelings if he were to accept your victimhood. Testing boundaries to get away from doing the right thing, generally the hard thing (in this case, it is accepting the mistake and apologizing), is generally a bad way to form a re…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 11:11 PM
2	Feeling defeated I am going to talk in general, not only for those two Think about their past behaviours and if you came across rumors, etc. future behaviours, and see if they align with your relationship goals. If it is not aligning with you, you are on the right path. You are not attracting people thinking differently. As some other people said, you learned about them earlier by chance. Criticising them will make it easy to sniff out the same type of people without getting invested at all, without relying on c…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/24 05:37 PM
2	field report: the way to a man’s heart is his stomach Basicly, fill all stomachs	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/24 03:31 PM
36	Feeling defeated The way I see it, you ruled them out, not defeated. You won, actually.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/24 06:56 AM
4	Tips to stay focused on a red pill future? I used to think and try to explain every human interaction that is around me with TRP to keep myself on toes. You might try that. It is interesting to do it as well, and you also get to better understand the behaviour differences between people and help you to change more. You could notice your mistakes in other people. So if you think about it this way, it is even better. Too much of it could lead to burnout, though, in the long run. It is best to do it in moderation and keep doing it. If you s…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/08/24 12:13 AM
3	Men don't care about loyalty or faithfulness If a man says she cheated or was unfaithful. It is giving away too much information, and it is not easy to say it. It hurts to talk about it. Probably that is the reason you didn't hear as much. Most relationship ends with one of the side being unfaithful because people don't know themselves that much or addicted to dopamine	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/24 11:42 AM
1	Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stability Thanks for spreading the information and trouble	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 10:27 AM
1	Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stability Out of curiosity. This is from 1998. Do you think it still holds true? I didn't do any research for recent studies, but maybe you already did and know it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 01:48 AM
1	Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it. As other mentioned, blaming on society, women, etc. is a phase of trp and not taking responsibility or evaluating past and learning from it. The problem with the red pill is that people think it is all about women. In reality, it is just a small part of it. Most trp people don't read the resourses or live up to it. I mean, I am guilty of it as well. It is hard to do it. Most trp people even don't do it. If a red piller doesn't talk about women here or anywhere else, then take his or her ideas se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 01:25 AM
3	Men say dating has gotten “harder”. Harder than what? If you are red pilled, apps are just a bad option	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 12:37 AM
1	Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy. I see. Interesting topic, actually. It made me think	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 11:52 PM
1	Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy. Do you talk about relationships or casual sex? For relationships, after year into the relationship, you might be right. For casual sex though, it is different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 11:30 PM
0	Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy. It seems to me that the first statement doesn't relate to the second one. The problem with most men is to get sex, so it is irrelevant to get good at it. Why would you try to be good at a game that you can't play? When you get the game, by all means, go for getting good with it. With open communication between partners, it is not a problem at all. I don't see the problem and solution to it. I am new to the sub, coming from the red pill. For casual sex of course, it is going to suck for women whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 10:45 PM