Tovo34 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? I would say the best thing you can do is find the line of being both strong and kind - which is most rare and thus most coveted by women. In my experience women are definitely more attracted to strength initially (both in personality and physicality), but kindness is what will keep them in a relationship. Knowing when to be one vs the other is key, but you must be both.	/r/seduction	27/07/26 07:31 AM
2	Feel like a creep trying streetgame or daygame Preach brother 👊🏼	/r/seduction	24/06/26 01:55 AM
4	Feel like a creep trying streetgame or daygame Sorry but that advice is shit If you want to learn to pick up girls you need to practice picking up girls An indirect strategy works better for women than men	/r/seduction	24/06/26 01:50 AM
1	Asking out your waitress. Thoughts? Experiences? Solid advice - but personally I think you need to be more bold than that to stand out. Coming back on off-hours with a direct approach has worked for me	/r/seduction	22/06/26 01:02 PM
3	Asking out your waitress. Thoughts? Experiences? It's not harassment to ask someone out jfc	/r/seduction	22/06/26 12:59 PM
3	Where would i find a rich millionaire woman? Right next to a pot of gold and unicorn my friend	/r/seduction	22/06/26 02:13 AM
3	What are your seduction unpopular opinions? Direct > Indirect	/r/seduction	19/06/26 06:35 PM
6	How do you feel when you see a day gamer in the wild You're gonna be weirded out by me then cause I give absolutely no fucks who you think I should approach - that's the kinda attitude you need to daygame so take notes ✌🏼️	/r/seduction	11/06/26 07:01 AM
1	What made Dennis Rodman so attractive to high status women? agreed but it’s not the hair - it’s the lack of fucks as you mentioned. 💪🏼	/r/seduction	01/06/26 03:04 PM
3	What made Dennis Rodman so attractive to high status women? the guy was fearless- and he displayed that yall gonna realize sooner or later that women don’t care about looks that much	/r/seduction	01/06/26 02:59 PM
4	Best current PUA system? (Better than ToddV?) shit that was actually excellent advice- i wanted to hate but imma check your book out now lol	/r/seduction	30/05/26 04:17 PM
1	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s you’re coping so hard bro 😂 it’s pathetic	/r/seduction	30/05/26 07:35 AM
2	Best current PUA system? (Better than ToddV?) W Anton’s book The Manual is still the gold standard in my eyes	/r/seduction	30/05/26 07:32 AM
1	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s this is the dumbest shit i’ve ever read - have fun with my leftovers I guess	/r/seduction	29/05/26 05:22 AM
1	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s You get hotter women by actively approaching the ones you decide to go after instead of passively letting them decide to swipe You also build confidence by facing your fears and come across as a much stronger man in their eyes - and they end up respecting and valuing you more for it. My gf has told me this directly more than once and brags about how we met to her friends constantly I’ve been successful in both and the difference is night and day.	/r/seduction	28/05/26 04:01 PM
1	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s they’re time wasters even if you get lots of matches. I spent so much time swiping, texting, talking only to spend an equal amount of time and money going out on dates etc.. I learned that nothing tells you how attracted you are to someone until you see them in person and have a 5 min convo - and that’s all you need. Apps are inefficient in every respect if you’re looking to spend the least amount of time (and money) to find the best match Besides, no girl dreams of being swept off her feet on t…	/r/seduction	27/05/26 07:00 PM
2	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s anything and everything - try em all and see what works best and where you feel most confident	/r/seduction	26/05/26 01:38 AM
7	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s then why even use the apps if you’re crushing it in person?	/r/seduction	25/05/26 05:45 PM
87	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s you gotta get off the apps - best way to stand out is to approach in person	/r/seduction	25/05/26 05:44 PM
16	I hear a lot of people spreading the idea that a lot of men are MISSING opportunities with women by not approaching. The reality is they aren't This is dumb - I have an average face, under 6ft, and average body and I can crush it with cold approach. Why? Because I put in the years of time and effort to learn how just like any other skill. Either cowboy up or don't, but don't bother trying to justify laziness and fear as 'the smart thing to do' - the reality is you just don't want it bad enough	/r/seduction	08/05/26 06:44 PM
15	“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT You should be approaching at any and every age if you're single - men have plenty of opportunities later in life but you need to maximize your chances of finding your person throughout. The key is to play to the different strengths of each time period - and to do the work now that will set you up for the next	/r/seduction	20/04/26 05:25 AM
2	How are average looking men supposed to meet women? Excellent advice - this guy closes	/r/seduction	11/02/26 03:59 AM
1	Base level attraction matters — no game can override it well i’m definitely not lol	/r/seduction	31/01/26 12:27 AM
2	Base level attraction matters — no game can override it Nobody is arguing looks don’t matter, we’re all hitting the gym tonight But I will argue to my grave (as a short, skinny, average joe no less) that behavior is FAR more powerful than guys think. Most women value attractive behavior much more than attractive looks in my experience. Most guys just aren’t good enough at game / or have attractive enough behavior to find that out	/r/seduction	31/01/26 12:04 AM
1	How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs? Montana might be tricky for techno ngl In Oregon right now myself tho 👊🏼	/r/seduction	25/01/26 08:38 PM
1	How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs? What city are you in? Def easier in a big city for sure. Resident Advisor is usually a great guide in the US but caters to underground more. Usually there's a few clubs or independent promoters that focus on specific styles. Get to know the genres and artists you're more into - and Google search to see the last few places they played and which promoters brought them. Follow both and listen to they music of people that are coming up. Take a few risks and hit up shows that are in your wheelhouse, …	/r/seduction	25/01/26 07:58 PM
4	How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs? Go to techno clubs. Get lost in the music 💪🏼	/r/seduction	25/01/26 04:17 AM
1	The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributes Forgetting the fact that you're choosing someone who's in the 1% of looks to boost your argument (like the Dicaprio example) - it's not that fame doesn't matter, it's that it's not weighted as highly. How many women realistically approach Brad Pitt in an hour? 5? 10? A guy with A level game (and equal looks) could get twice as many dates as him in an hour simply by approaching and closing properly. You could spend your whole life trying to become an A list celebrity, or you could spend a 6 month…	/r/seduction	28/12/25 06:10 AM
2	The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributes That's cool appreciate the breakdown - I actually never thought about them separately like that but that's a really good point about them being very different. Good stuff.	/r/seduction	27/12/25 07:32 PM
5	The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributes Again, not my lived experience. Having been a B level musician for a long time where everyone knew me walking into my own shows and having plenty of fans come up to me - I can tell you without a doubt I've had far more success with women learning game than relying on fame. The difference is that with game, you don't even need fame. Fame is a crutch. When you rely on it you're taking the mindset of a woman's where you're waiting for someone to approach you - a guy with game doesn't need that beca…	/r/seduction	27/12/25 07:25 PM
20	The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributes Proper list but in my experience the weighting is backwards I would say behavior (game) is king, followed by looks and physique, then money, then social status. A good looking dude with good game is gonna crush an ugly or even average famous guy who can't talk to women. Def agree that richness is still a factor lol Genuine question though - aren't status and fame kinda the same thing? I like those concepts but can you explain the line a bit more? In your example wouldn't she run over to the NFL …	/r/seduction	27/12/25 04:51 PM
13	Anyone try pulling a stripper? What are you? A robot?	/r/seduction	24/08/25 04:07 AM
19	Anyone try pulling a stripper? Truer words were never spoken	/r/seduction	24/08/25 04:06 AM
6	30+ dating amazing answer lol	/r/seduction	18/05/25 01:26 AM
8	How do I approach guys at the gym? How do I approach guys in general!? I would get a day pass at gyms in the area and just practice different approaches without the worry of blowing up your regular spot - Id also think you'd need to be a bit direct since the gym is a risky place for guys to approach Also as a woman it will be tricky cause i think you'd want to be direct with your interest at first - but also make them chase a bit as well so it's not a free lunch. Maybe even tell them that you'd like to see them show you a proper date to match your energy of making …	/r/seduction	08/04/25 10:56 PM
2	Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar? Most men in here lack the skill to do it well - in my lived experience I can tell you with full confidence you are wrong, women love a good approach.	/r/seduction	22/03/25 03:14 AM
1	Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar? please.....	/r/seduction	21/03/25 10:22 PM
2	Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar? That's what they say - not how they act. The only reason we're all here is cause this stuff works	/r/seduction	21/03/25 10:21 PM
1	How do you decide whether to go direct or indirect Always direct, because it's always the most confident and masculine. Die trying my friends	/r/seduction	14/03/25 03:37 AM
1	What years were you most successful Right now, 35-42	/r/seduction	10/03/25 11:11 PM
2	Dudes who consider themselves a good seducer Agreed, you can be funny but not a clown	/r/seduction	08/03/25 03:17 AM
8	“Women don’t need seduction” myth needs to stop I def respect you and your approach just not sure how to give actionable advice	/r/seduction	07/03/25 10:24 PM
2	Dudes who consider themselves a good seducer Absolutely agree, women don't want a jester	/r/seduction	07/03/25 03:20 PM
0	How to deal with "Boyfriend" 😂👌🏼	/r/seduction	04/03/25 06:55 PM
0	How to deal with "Boyfriend" My man's out here lookin to cuck her bf lol	/r/seduction	04/03/25 06:54 PM
2	How to deal with "Boyfriend" If you're just trying to fuck I guesssss, but if you're that good at closing it's also not that hard to pick up someone else with less drama. I'd pass personally	/r/seduction	04/03/25 06:53 PM
1	Why Your Friend Group is Holding You Back from Meeting Women Anyone downvoting care to explain?	/r/seduction	04/03/25 01:06 AM
-1	Why Your Friend Group is Holding You Back from Meeting Women My point is that this dynamic is seen in nature across many different species - and there's really good reasons why. I find this kinda stuff really fascinating honestly, was trying to make a connection behind what the OP was saying, and the things we see play out in nature all around us	/r/seduction	28/02/25 05:57 AM
-2	Why Your Friend Group is Holding You Back from Meeting Women Yall are missing my point 🤓	/r/seduction	28/02/25 01:36 AM
1	Why Your Friend Group is Holding You Back from Meeting Women Just sayin most predators are solo / smaller groups while prey are in bigger herds. I'm not a lion expert guys lol Look at schools of fish vs sharks or barracuda etc.. Even group hunters like orcas or lions aren't as big as antelope or gazelle herds. There's a reason there aren't big groups of snipers. Even swat and seal teams are relatively small. Its a math / game theory / efficiency thing like OP is saying. Male or female doesn't really matter	/r/seduction	28/02/25 01:34 AM
6	Why Your Friend Group is Holding You Back from Meeting Women There's a reason why lions don't hunt in groups	/r/seduction	27/02/25 06:22 PM
0	Do women actually liked to be approached? If you do it well - absolutely yes Most do it bad	/r/seduction	27/02/25 02:33 AM
6	Destroy your ego - there's nothing wrong with dating a 3/10 girl when you're a 3/10 yourself HB?	/r/seduction	26/02/25 01:35 AM
-2	(Longer post) My own story of finally understanding that sex appeal matters more than being handsome Bro I wouldn't keep around a friend that did that, whether or not I said anything. It's a character thing, a man should stand by his word and commitment	/r/seduction	22/02/25 07:14 PM
1	What makes you prefer cold approaching? Is it because bars aren’t your thing, or maybe you don’t have many friends? Or have dating apps not been working for you? What's your story? Daygame is the ultimate challenge, you have confront what you're really made of, and how much work you're willing to put in. Very few have what it takes, and that's why those who do stand out so much.	/r/seduction	11/02/25 05:00 AM
2	Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successful not all heroes wear capes - great stuff 👊🏼	/r/seduction	10/02/25 08:33 AM
42	O.L.D - Photo with the “SOLD” sign on my new house. Thoughts? Hold up a fish in the photo as well	/r/seduction	07/02/25 06:36 AM
1	Realisation that girls actually want me to approach them most of the time. this is real, much respect 👊🏼	/r/seduction	31/01/25 05:47 PM
2	Realisation that girls actually want me to approach them most of the time. Damn, this hits hard	/r/seduction	31/01/25 08:38 AM
-4	22yo Man attacked for being a "predator" for setting up Tinder date with 18yo Woman. - This is a "social media trend"? Sorry, when is this a social media trend now? Allowed? Says who - the dating police?	/r/MensRights	08/01/25 10:12 PM
1	As a feminist I might be over looking the men's issue. So tell me what are they? Props for just being here - few people are concerned about true equality on both sides. I respect your approach	/r/MensRights	25/11/24 10:42 PM
-2	Are These Victory Meltdowns Real? Do you really wanna take that chance?	/r/MensRights	07/11/24 06:36 AM
2	Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't get You're not wrong - but those traits don't necessarily translate to being a global leader or having the best economic policy. Shame is very necessary for navigating worldwide conflicts. Giving the middle finger to another country with nuclear weapons is very different than pissing someone off on reddit. A cool controlled head with logical thinking is what I'm looking for in my president - there's much more at stake than their take on the 'gender wars' in America	/r/MensRights	03/11/24 10:47 PM
-5	Host of “The View” says men are useless This - would never vote for Trump ✌🏼️	/r/MensRights	02/11/24 03:44 AM
0	Do you hate feminism to its core? Nah just wish they would practice what they preach more	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 11:13 PM
1	Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvern While I do appreciate your approach to different lines of thinking (and I really do because it's very rare) - I'm not going to change my mind since I'm an economist myself, and all of my colleagues who are better at policy than me all share the same thoughts. That's really only one of many reasons why I would never vote for him though, and honestly I'm just not interested in a long debate about it.	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 08:17 PM
1	Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvern I mean in this case you literally have Janet Yellen making speeches against it publicly - I think it's fair to say it's a terrible idea.	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 06:17 PM
0	Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvern I'm mostly referring to his tariff plan which will absolutely cause a spike in inflation again. Dude has no idea about economics and it shows.	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 11:27 AM
0	Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvern lol, I don’t like Trump because of the words he says himself. His policies are shit, his character is shit, and his logic is shit. I wouldn’t trust him watching my dog for the weekend.	/r/MensRights	21/10/24 10:00 PM
0	Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all. Nahh eff that - my current girlfriend was the cashier, y'all gonna have to wait and watch how it's done ✌🏼️	/r/seduction	30/09/24 12:00 PM
13	Stop Being a White Knight About Sex Fundamentals are the same	/r/seduction	15/09/24 05:00 PM
5	How do I stop being a pu**y? I dunno I like being direct more than random questions or stories or bantering - giving a girl a compliment off the bat is a good way to let her know your intentions, as long as you follow up strongly not weakly. Everyone's got their own style tho, if it works it works	/r/seduction	04/09/24 08:50 PM
3	First thing to say when approaching girls? This guy fucks	/r/seduction	17/08/24 07:26 AM
1	First thing to say when approaching girls? You can, and should talk about her appearance since that's why you're talking to her. Just do it in a classy way like 'I saw your smile from across the room' or 'you have really pretty eyes' and just don't be crass about it	/r/seduction	17/08/24 07:23 AM
3	First thing to say when approaching girls? Right?? I was like Bruhhhhhhhhh	/r/seduction	17/08/24 07:20 AM
2	Hard to settle down once you know about game? Yeah this is a really strange take imo. Being attractive and seductive are about embracing more of who you are, and expressing yourself shamelessly and without fear to do so. It's not about being manipulative or fake or anything of the sort. I think there's a lot of people doing that sure - but that's not the right way and again, not everyone's experience.	/r/seduction	14/08/24 12:40 PM
1	Hard to settle down once you know about game? Your experience isn't everyones	/r/seduction	14/08/24 03:26 AM
3	New York City vs Los Angeles? Not compared to NYC	/r/seduction	06/08/24 08:13 PM
2	I hate this city (Seattle), driving me insane here. Thinking the same	/r/seduction	08/07/24 12:48 PM
10	I hate this city (Seattle), driving me insane here. No he's def not, stay the eff away from Tacoma lol - go to Kirkland, Moss Bay Hall and around that area. If you can't pickup there the problem isn't the city	/r/seduction	08/07/24 03:53 AM
7	I hate this city (Seattle), driving me insane here. Ok so just leave, what do you want us to do? If you can't leave, see it as an opportunity to get better. Smooth seas never made a good sailor	/r/seduction	08/07/24 03:50 AM
2	Anyone think that Seattle is the worst day game city in the USA? The homeless problem has really hit both hard - the difference over the last 20 years has been staggering. The main problem in my eyes is that both are extremely liberal, and protecting their right to take over at the expense of the city and economy. Now mind you, I'm a liberal as well but I think it's more idealistic than realistic. It's a very complex problem, for sure - but until the cities make the hard decision to draw boundaries, they are going to continue to struggle. I don't specifically…	/r/seduction	30/06/24 07:50 PM
3	Anyone think that Seattle is the worst day game city in the USA? Yeah I live in Portland but go up to Seattle a lot - both cities have really taken some hits, especially since covid	/r/seduction	30/06/24 06:38 AM
13	Anyone think that Seattle is the worst day game city in the USA? I mean yeah, it's more than a day game issue - Portland and Seattle have some serious issues right now :/	/r/seduction	30/06/24 05:21 AM
1	Does anyone approach at the gym? Ok	/r/seduction	29/06/24 08:27 PM
1	Does anyone approach at the gym? And you got that axe spray all over 😂	/r/seduction	29/06/24 05:54 PM
0	Does anyone approach at the gym? Yes	/r/seduction	29/06/24 04:04 PM
1	Does anyone approach at the gym? This is the best advice	/r/seduction	29/06/24 04:04 PM
1	Does anyone approach at the gym? Wtf? Please don't wear cologne in the gym - it's not a middle school dance	/r/seduction	29/06/24 04:03 PM
1	Does anyone approach at the gym? Stupid question maybe but when you smile at a girl after making eye contact is it better to go with a subtle smile, or more obvious smile?	/r/seduction	29/06/24 04:02 PM
1	Does anyone approach at the gym? It's a tricky one - cause you're gonna be there a lot if you crash and burn. I try to approach in places where I'll never see them again, but there's no rules	/r/seduction	29/06/24 03:56 PM
0	Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women. society comes from biology	/r/seduction	20/06/24 01:23 AM
13	Game Was active in 20s how to get back in 40s Clubbing never ends for those who love the music	/r/seduction	16/06/24 05:13 AM
68	Girl asked to be exclusive on second date—how to not give boyfriend? Yeah this actually sounds strangely healthy - two people talking about their expectations and boundaries early on in a very direct way	/r/seduction	14/06/24 12:38 PM
24	What advice, quote, lesson or move made you level up the most in life/game? Fortune favors the bold Also - Die Trying	/r/seduction	08/06/24 10:38 PM
15	Any late bloomers on here who hit your dating prime in your mid 30s or beyond? Hard disagree - men hit their prime in their 30s and 40s when they still have their physique, plus more money and confidence to boot. Most men just don't realize it's their prime. Women aren't attracted to youth like men are - they're attracted to experience	/r/seduction	07/06/24 07:02 AM
4	Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 Approaches Username checks out	/r/seduction	22/05/24 05:08 AM
14	Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 Approaches On the contrary - I think this guy's built for the game just based on the sheer tenacity. Hats off for effort, but def more work to do	/r/seduction	22/05/24 05:07 AM
6	Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details below Basically that scene from dumb and dumber where he pees in the beer bottle 😂	/r/seduction	18/05/24 04:44 AM
5	Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details below Ignore him - take her by the hand and lead her away. If she doesn't follow you leave her there, if she does follow you make it clear you're on a date and you expect her to be flirting with only you. If she calls you controlling you leave, she's gonna be drama and pushing lines later. Overall it's better to be strong than weak. It's a shit test to see if you'll stand up for your boundaries.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 04:38 AM
1	Never go on Dinner Dates Lol you don't know me - stop trying to pick a fight. You're young and new at this and it's obvious. If you want someone to follow you around get a dog. Any women of high value knows their worth too - and isn't gonna stick around while you pretend your chores are a date. It doesn't matter how good you think you are at seduction or game - if you want a good women to stick around you need to make her happy, end of story.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 12:50 PM
1	Never go on Dinner Dates This sounds pretty selfish imo, you shouldn't be doing only the things you want to do and have her tag along - you should be working to find a compromise.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 04:48 AM
3	Never go on Dinner Dates Interesting take - will try	/r/seduction	05/05/24 02:55 PM
12	Never go on Dinner Dates Agreed, you should always be sitting next to her at a table for same reasons - preferably at a booth. I never sit across my from girl unless I physically have no choice	/r/seduction	05/05/24 02:55 PM
173	Never go on Dinner Dates This guy fucks 👌🏼	/r/seduction	05/05/24 02:52 PM
25	Never go on Dinner Dates A fancy cocktail bar on an off-night is always a win	/r/seduction	05/05/24 02:52 PM
13	Never go on Dinner Dates And way too expensive	/r/seduction	05/05/24 02:51 PM
10	Never go on Dinner Dates Come on now be honest - a woman would much rather go on a date to a pumpkin patch than go retro game shopping 🫠	/r/seduction	05/05/24 02:49 PM
16	Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours? I have done this (for the music not for the women), and can tell you the people in the club at that hour are on a different planet	/r/seduction	18/04/24 01:22 AM
2	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? This is by far the best comment here	/r/seduction	18/02/24 04:21 AM
3	There are so many single girls who are great catches! I fully agree and have had the exact same experience - if you are decently kind, in decent shape, have decent game, and a decent career it is very easy to stand out above the rest. And no I'm not tall or a model by any means. Not saying that imbalances and problems don't exist - but guys in this forum would rather carry their victim mentality to the grave than work on themselves. Life's very much a self-fulfilling prophecy that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 03:27 PM
5	CMV If a Man is successful with women other women calling him a „mysoinist“ or „inel“ doesnt matter. Results talk for themself. You have - the more that like you the less who love you. Women are describing what they want from men at large - not from their partner. They simply won't respect you as much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 03:19 PM
4	Many women take male attention for granted Why does this sub feel more red pilly by the day? It's not that I disagree with the premise but OP is too full of resentment and hostility to talk about it objectively	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 05:03 PM
3	Men say they want one thing in women yet their actions say something else entirely Interesting how men and women both do this - say one thing and do another. Imo it's a game theory thing of maximizing the benefits and minimizing the costs to get the benefits of both. Notice how the side being argued for is usually what's most rare - loyalty in a very sexual women and kindness in a very strong male. The harsh truth is that the words people say are usually not their true intentions - which is why it's always better to watch actions over words	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 09:25 PM
2	What can older guys do to not feel shortchanged in the dating world, like they say? Date the women you're attracted to the most, and go after the things you want most in life with no apologies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 10:35 PM
1	4 things I feel men should always remember. Can you elaborate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 03:35 PM
0	Dear Mens Rights activists, why do some of you vote left? There’s much more at stake with voting than gender agendas. I vote one step to the left because I believe it's whats best for foreign policy, protecting people's rights, and supporting the middle and lower class	/r/MensRights	26/11/23 09:08 PM
1	Does demonization of sexuality affect you? I would agree, but I think men absolutely have specific problems that are neither seen nor talked about. Ours is not an immediate or physical threat, they are a hollowing of character, sense of self, and sacrifice of what we want most	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 07:34 PM
1	CMV Men that date Single Moms, will always be seen as Cucks/suckers by other Men, and Women need to understand this. Alphas don't give a shit what anyone else thinks. Betas worry about their reputation and what other people think	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 09:11 AM
1	Red pill gets a lot of things wrong but the biggest lie is that younger women are sexually attracted to older men Yeah your logic is off on this one - women aren't physically attracted as much as they are to the experience and status. Also you're talking about marriage success being the same thing as raw attraction and that's definitely not the same thing. Also just because women weren't attracted to you doesent speak for every older man. I love it on reddit when people take their singular experience and try to apply it to the whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 12:02 AM
1	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? True that, I agree with ya I'm just always talking about the norm rather than the exception when it comes to behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:05 PM
1	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? And who decides that lol? Everyone's gonna fight to pass on their genes whether you agree with it or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 10:44 PM
1	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? In the end - everything we do is about passing on our genes yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 03:45 PM
1	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? I mean yeah I hate football myself but that's not the norm 🤷🏼‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 08:56 PM
-1	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? You're welcome. Forget the lawns if you want to nitpick that bad though - my point is by and large women care much more about the inside of a house then men do and you'll see this reflected in most cultures even if in different ways	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 02:53 PM
0	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? Touché, but I would also argue that gender rules are more pronounced in the US than they are in other places.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 02:44 PM
1	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? I'm confused, are you arguing that men look at porn but aren't visually aroused?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 02:42 PM
2	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? Yeah but that's to be noticed by men. And yes I know - this is where everyone will come in to say otherwise but we all know that's the driving factor. It's no different than the reason men behave overly masculine, which is to be noticed by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 02:15 PM
4	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? Oh we notice, we just don't priorize the inside of our cave since our role is outside of it. Ever notice how men are hyper obsessed with their lawns?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 02:08 PM
0	Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success? How is that not the case? That's literally the case	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 02:04 PM
1	"Male loneliness epidemic" is just a tool used to manipulate men I've had plenty of luck with it and I don't look like those guys, just gotta put the time in	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 04:23 PM
1	"Male loneliness epidemic" is just a tool used to manipulate men Women love a proper approach but they won't admit to it because they fear it will open the door to more bad approaches. No hallmark movie or romance novel has ever had her meet the man of her dreams online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 08:31 AM
1	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. Hey if it's not your cup of tea that's fine too. Just keep your mind open all I'm saying	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 06:10 PM
1	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. I mean, you can tell me it doesn't work all you want but my experience speaks otherwise 🤷🏼‍♂️ Believe whatever you want	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 06:07 PM
1	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. Again, you're doing it wrong or have never done it if that's the way you see it. Part of the challenge and fun is the you have to be in the moment and be genuinely yourself - woman can see through a script pretty easily. Done correctly, a real life approach will always be much more genuine and romantic. Just ask yourself - in all of those hallmark movies or romance novels - how many times does the woman meet the man online? None.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 04:27 PM
1	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. It's true, can't lie about that - but the results are worth it. You'll improve quickly if you put in the work, just dm me if you want	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 04:15 PM
1	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. I wouldn't entirely disagree - but I think attractive behavior goes further than men realize. The only reason woman emphasize height and looks online is because that's all they have to go off of. Let's be clear though - dating and attraction is a very old concept not a new one, and all the trends, narratives, and technology of the modern world won't change those core biological instincts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 04:04 PM
1	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. You're right - I'm not a model and I have to put the work in to get a date, something you don't have to do. But let's be clear, you're the exception to the rule, and not necessarily for the better. You're the rich kid complaining about how lame it is to work for a living. So congrats you won the lottery, but it's made you lazy af and too soft to approach.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 03:25 AM
1	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. I disagree, I'm not that attractive - I just put in the work to get decent at it. A cold approach is like any other skill, you're gonna suck at first - but as long as you're not disrespectful and you can handle rejection you'll eventually turn the corner. I deleted all my apps so I would have choice but to get better. That's the kind of dedication you gotta have. It's not easy but it's worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 03:19 AM
1	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. No I don't catch your drift - your 'what if' scenarios come across as fear. And if you're simply saying yes to women that come up to you, you're never really going after what you want most. That's like taking any job your friend offers instead of going after your dream job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 07:16 PM
1	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. No they're not rare or 10s, they just work at it like any other skill in life	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 02:18 PM
3	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. I promise you you're wrong - plenty of my best relationships are from exactly what you're scared to do	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 02:17 PM
0	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. Honestly only if you're terribly awkward	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 02:16 PM
3	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. You have to get over it dude - the best things in life take work and require you to get outside your comfort zone. OLD is a losing game for the average man as is passively waiting to be introduced to someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 02:14 PM
3	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. What you think a cookie cutter response on OLD is somehow different? A cold approach takes a lot more genuine interest. If you're saying the same thing every time you definitely suck at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 02:07 PM
2	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. Virtually all of my long term relationships have been from a cold approach - woman respect a man more when he has the courage and confidence to go after what he wants. Night and day difference between a respectful cold approach and a disrespectful one. Most men simply don't know how to do it or are too scared to try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 02:06 PM
1	High libido is a curse for unattractive people Doesent matter that much honestly	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 08:43 PM
1	Whats men should avoid after 30? Watch your heart rate when doing cardio - don't redline your heart like you did when younger	/r/MensRights	22/10/23 03:16 PM
–	If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair game Agreed that rejection should always be handled respectfully. Women have every right to not be interested as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 02:02 AM
–	If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair game Of course there's gonna be some who aren't into it but that comes with the territory. You won't guilt or shame me out of finding my person, and I will take all of the rejection in the world and walk through all of the fire to find her. Tell me that's not the drive and energy you want to see from your man, someone who will fight for the chance to be with you and will stand up for himself and what he wants. Again, being respectful and polite about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 03:36 PM
3	If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair game In my experience they don't though, almost every woman appreciates a sincere and flattering approach. Just don't be an a-hole about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 01:08 AM
3	In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them. This is the same with every person you will ever meet, and every conversation you will ever have. Welcome to the real world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 12:16 PM
2	Why does all Men's advice keeps revolving around women? Collect retro games and action figures - that's the only thing we have that's purely ours	/r/MensRights	28/09/23 08:06 PM
1	“Just Be Yourself” and other passive platitudes about dating Woman say that so they can sus you out more quickly - find your rough edges and see if its a match. It's a subconscious thing, but woman hate it when a man hides his true self because they don't know his true intentions and if it's a match for what they want. It's a game theory thing in the interest of saving time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 11:32 AM
1	Dating today is difficult because we prioritize Physical/Sexual Attraction (rightfully so) Here's the thing - women actually care about masculine behavior more than looks, but online you have no way to show that, all you have is a picture. In the real world you can become very attractive to a woman simply by approaching and showing confidence which takes a lot of balls - but that doesn't translate online. The solution is to drop the apps if you're an average man - you won't stand out that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 05:27 PM
3	Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50? Best comment lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 07:24 PM
1	Women are completely delusional when it comes to their physical appearance, yet they constantly suggest men are the ones overrating themselves What are you talking about? Emma Stone a 6? Boo this man	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 01:56 AM
3	Double Standards Between the Sheets: The Orgasm Gap Was honestly surprised there was a woman in here - saw your other post on the uplifting men thread and damn I gotta say you sound like one of the real ones. A person who is willing to look at both sides is rare. Keep being you please 🙌🏼	/r/MensRights	28/08/23 03:43 PM
1	When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way. You're taking a very small sample of men and assuming that's how the entire population behaves. Most people think about instinctual things like fucking a stranger on the bus or punching their boss in the face but most of us seem to behave just fine despite our primal instincts. We have higher level thinking for a reason. Just because I have an attraction doesen't mean I'm going to act on it if that would cause harm. That's how most men and most people actually behave - you just don't hear from t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:37 PM
5	When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way. Yeah but men are equally disgusted by woman who are attracted to money - but that's still fine according to your earlier comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:29 PM
4	What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating? Wise words	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 04:18 AM
6	Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible? I think men need to improve their behavior more than their muscles	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 10:48 PM
1	Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) Works again, you said it yourself. we’re in agreement more than you think attraction is where women settle	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 08:39 PM
1	Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) Works Yes you said it yourself - a GOOD relationship is very hard for a woman to find since most men are self centered and less empathetic (necessary to hunt and kill more efficiently). I think what you're also touching on is that woman also control the narrative of what is good and bad in society - in the same way that men control the economy and politics. Thaaats a whole separate can of worms though..	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 06:45 PM
4	Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) Works Woman can be more selective when choosing a sexual partner (because men prioritize it more than woman) - and men are forced to settle as a result However Men can be more selective when choosing a relationship partner (because woman prioritize it more than men) - and woman are forced to settle as a result Each side wants what is rare from the other, and both sides point the finger at each other because for each side it is very hard to get what they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 05:53 PM
2	I transitioned to man when I was 26, and discovered his hard it is to be a man. Now Imma tell you men how to be better men. Woah - def powerful quote	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 10:13 PM
1	Age gap relationships end in divorce You lost me with your black and white thinking	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 05:47 AM
8	Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women do Very true	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:52 PM
1	Dating scene is harmful for men Let's rock kid, you're fuckin fun	/r/MensRights	11/07/23 10:06 PM
1	Dating scene is harmful for men Correction - I said WHO GIVES A SHIT but I like my edit better 👌🏼😂	/r/MensRights	11/07/23 10:03 PM
0	Dating scene is harmful for men Something we can all agree on!	/r/MensRights	08/07/23 04:16 PM
-8	Dating scene is harmful for men Just means I might fuck your mom 😂	/r/MensRights	08/07/23 04:13 PM
-6	Dating scene is harmful for men You're the problem	/r/MensRights	08/07/23 04:11 PM
-10	Dating scene is harmful for men Don't shit where you eat and hit on woman at work, easy. You won't get any sympathy from me if you can't figure that out 😂	/r/MensRights	08/07/23 01:41 PM
-9	Dating scene is harmful for men I'm talking about actual harassment - https://youtu.be/b1XGPvbWn0A Don't get that confused with a genuine approach which is not harassment if you're respectful and willing to walk away politely. But let's be real - the amount of genuine approaches pales in comparison to the amount of harassment woman receive on a daily basis.	/r/MensRights	08/07/23 01:38 PM
-1	Dating scene is harmful for men Bullshit if you think the average woman can take on the average man - you've been watching too many marvel movies 😂	/r/MensRights	08/07/23 01:27 PM
-36	Dating scene is harmful for men Oh c'mon now, they're def not the same - rejection is not nearly the same as being harassed by someone who can cause you physical harm. If you can't handle rejection you don't have to approach - but woman get harassed whether they're ready for it or not. I'm no white knight but y'all gotta man the fuck up sometimes and stop whining.	/r/MensRights	08/07/23 07:27 AM
2	How do I start approaching? You're giving terrible advice - and you even admit that you've never cold approached. What are you even doing here? Get back to your family. And to the OP - you should cold approach all the time and be unapologetic about it. Always be respectful, but don't worry so much about coming across the wrong way. The difference between being a creep and being their knight in shining armor is how confidant and comfortable you are - and that comes with time and repetition.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 04:58 AM
–	One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some men Naturally thick eyebrows are great, I agree - I just mean the ones that look super out of place	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 10:55 PM
12	One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some men Completely agree - the huge overdone eyebrows you see everywhere will never look good to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 07:16 AM
2	I really think that most women are attracted to strength and fighting ability and turned off by a lack of either. Woman are attracted to power of all kinds. Strength, money, art, smarts, humor etc.. The more power you can bring in different ways the better. Muscles and strength just happen to be one of the most visible types.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 05:04 AM
2	How do average people succeed in dating if they don't have looks nor wealth? It's simple - TREAT THEM REALLY WELL. You'd be surprised how many men treat woman badly. I'm not rich, and I'm no model but I do well because most men's behavior is a 5 at best. Just be a genuinely good, honest, funny and empathetic person - and know how to present yourself confidently and proudly without being obnoxious. Always remember - men care more about looks, woman care more about behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 08:43 AM
4	Men are better off not watching and avoiding porn altogether. cell phones do more damage to your brain than the 10 min of porn. That's actually something people spend hours and hours a day on getting quick dopamine hits	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/22 09:12 AM
1	'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crock Here's the thing - woman are attracted to power, but there are many types of power. It can be muscles, it can be brains, it can be art, it can be money etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 04:46 AM