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I don t want to sound like a bad person, but try and find other persons to open up to. This is killing the attraction at start , no matter the girl. Even when you have a wife , you have to learn to open up. It s like telling what is happening to you, but on the same time you know what the solution is and you re in control. Women love to see that you re human , but they hate feeling like you put your "problems" on them. Is more like a story telling if you want. And , for the love of God, where is…
/r/seduction16/03/26 10:09 AM
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Read and apply what i learned . Than fail , then read and listen some more, then analyze what i did wrong , enjoy success and defeat. Thousands of hours spent trying and learning. Also therapy , to improve my self love from inside. If you want success in seduction, you have to build a character and a life that is true to you. The exterior is the body of the car. Your character and body, are the chasis and engine. I made a good career , I cycle and i do alpinism , i dress well and have a nice car…
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:49 AM
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Good. If you acknowledge what you feel , it means you re learning. You are true to yourself. Problem is EGO. The day you truly understand that you re not responsible for other people actions , you ll be free from most of the pain. Imagine you do a "bad" thing . A good loving person will react in a way , a bad one in another , a sad one in another, a happy person ...and so on. You did not change. What happened to you changed. Maybe you re bad at this game , or not. My guess, is a cyclical process…
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:09 AM
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You don t owe anyone anything. Girls string along guys much more than guys do girls. If you want to have girls to sleep with, do it this way: You date only for sex. Don hang out for anything else , don t accept to see her friends or her parents or anything. Don t talk to here every day. Do casual dating that s ending up with sex. At some point , if she wants , she will bring up the relationship talk and you can say yes , or you can say i am not interested in relationship and i would like to keep…
/r/seduction09/03/26 09:17 AM
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The guy from above is right . I will also put my 2 cents Most of the time if a girl is with a group , you have to get her alone . At start you ll always be an intruder. What worked for me was to be direct. If i can t approach the girl alone, i would go and introduce myself with a variation of this: Hi guys , I won t keep you long because i value privacy also , but i could not resist to talk to your friend . I think I was brought to world for this moment . They laugh , i gave them time to react ,…
/r/seduction09/03/26 08:23 AM
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Dating is the act , seduction is the science or some big BS for 99% of people. Probably you refer to a difference between dating and hooking up. At least this is what i understand from your post. Depending on your personality and character , some men get their internal approval from the number of partners, some (as in your case) for being accepted and loved for who they are. Seduction is a nice topic, but is mostly theoretical. You have to enjoy it and have some kind of "talent" towards this to …
/r/seduction09/03/26 07:56 AM
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This ...The essence of everything you need to know
/r/seduction29/09/25 05:50 PM
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Bad advice. Be friends with people you vibe and share the same values. No matter the gender. Of course it helps to know lots of people and have connections. That s amazing. But if you re bad with women, chances are, you ll get more confused "learning" from them. There are very few women who understand the game. They play it by nature. Best advice is to do the work on yourself and your life. Take care of your body, profession , the way you present yourself, grow a backbone, grow a complex charact…
/r/seduction26/09/25 04:44 PM
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Food, cars, childhod, career, sex, psichilogy, alcohool,friends, dreams, other people, everything. What you coverd was suprficial, because girls will open up în time... Maybe you should take her to play some pool or table tennis and start touching her some more, Kiss her... At the 3th date you should be at least, depending on age, kissing and not talking. Good luck P. S. Stop that shit with LTR. Even if you are loking for one, Don t ever say that to a girl util îs her ideea. Or act on it.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:48 PM
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Dude... This shit does not work. You need to start a topic. She ll say something than you comment and say your opinion, then she will ad something, then you ll jump to another topic... Don t be a robot asking questions like a Police officer....
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:46 PM
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Dude, learn game and practice. Just say hello, tell her that she prety and you d like to excange phone numbers or Ig profiles . That s all.
/r/seduction16/11/21 07:25 AM
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Ok, so listen to this. Girls love drama. So she s not invested in him, she is invested in the situation. She craves it. She has a guy that she likes and one ex that gives her free validation. Dream scenario for a girl, even if she sais she doesn t enjoy the situation, believe me , deep down she is. All the above does not mean that she s not attracted to you. You need to stay calm. Dinamics with women, are like a dace where you stay centered and she dances around you. She will do all kind of move…
/r/seduction16/11/21 07:20 AM
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You have a problem, not them. Not every girl will have the same pattern as you. Seduction is a man s job. You need to learn how to adapt and enjoy diffrent types of sex. You re imature and a crybaby :))). No offense
/r/seduction13/11/21 09:17 AM
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Forget about her, or just tell her if she changes her mind for a date to let you know. She has no real desire for you. Don t give Girls Free atention. An learn some game, learn about frame and so on.
/r/seduction10/11/21 06:51 AM
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-In my opinion, you have a ego problem. And quite franckly, deep down you like this situation because it validates that you re good with women. And you give Power to this situation and that s why it s persisting. -Cut this crap out and have some bounderis. That s all. People who respect you, will change their atitude. And the others, let them go. But, as i said, firstly, it s a you problem.
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:49 PM
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No
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:46 PM
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Tell her to call the cops. And if you were the first to call she s not în danger anyway. Ghost that bitch.
/r/seduction25/07/21 07:08 AM
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You never discuss that if the girl does not ask. They always have a lot of guys în The background and no girl will tell you the truth. Most Girls say they want a relationship, but they date multiple guys at once until they find "The one". Men should do the same. This guy just wanted to showof.
/r/seduction25/07/21 07:05 AM
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No, you don t have an understanding of the hole package. All this rainbow non sense it is useless . But you do not care about people who read, you care only about your incomplete message. And the truth is the truth, no matter the subreddit. And if you re not man enough and you don t have enough informations to argue my comment, then you do not deserve to teach people anything, No offence. Of course if your ego can do that,
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:59 PM
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You can t love women if you don t accept theyr nature. You can t accept theyr nature if you don t understand them. Good personality and swagger it s like saying that rain is wet. No offence but your advice is not very usefull. The reality is that women want a guy that s higher value then them. They do not love like guys do. They love you for what you can do for them: emotions , money, status in society, beeing a provider in some situations , access to intresting activities, fizical protection an…
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:55 AM
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-Feeling liberated and good, does not mean you ll arrive at the desired outcome. Your post it s just about your experience. Most guys out there are so needy, that if they would act naturally, would not stand a chance. - Beeing yourself, it s a shit argument. All our life we learn to become better. At sports, at work and s-o on. Social things are the same. So, you need to learn about women. And the first thing you learn îs that, women respond well to strength and power. Mental and physical. They …
/r/seduction01/03/21 09:50 AM
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-I understand your point and agree with it . About corey, I think he is perfect if you want to understand the basics and have a girlfriend. Which for most guys, i think it s the reason why they are here. -Seduction is of course different than dating. Seduction it s a part of dating. Seduction is understanding what makes a girl click...let s say she is a sexual prude, but secretly she wish for the sexual guy who will pass her barriers without shame or asking for permission and make her feel that …
/r/seduction16/12/20 07:24 PM
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I remember a passage from Vikings. maybe you saw the series. And Ragnar was questioning the gods. The old, ugly, blind and wise man told him: If you believe it s true, than it s true...to you! So...we all have our experiences, pains and hopes ...we all have our own truth. I understand and respect yours
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:37 PM
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You can express your needs in a non needy way. That s the real way .But that it s a hard line to walk. What I was trying to say, but of course peoples ego it s grater then their level to read between the lines, is: Women hate insecurities in men. It does not matter the conexion, if you start acting inssecure that girl will lose respect and attraction for you. Everyone who understands masculine and feminine energy, knows this. Beliving that someone will love you the way you are, if you are a weak…
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:46 PM
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Man that story it s mine. And yes. You can read and listen to that man. He is great.
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:32 PM
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Well man, if you listen to me, you may change your life. There is a guy on YouTube. Coach corey Wayne. Watch his videos and read his book. It s for Free. That guy will explain to you, why they feel more attracted to you, if you give them less attention. -No one is attracted to you... You. They are attracted to your image in their minds.(of course that your person influences that. But their character will also add things to you). What you can do for them and how you make them feel. That s the mos…
/r/seduction16/12/20 01:10 PM
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You did not get it. I was not talking about hunters and hunting. It was a metaphor. I was talking about how people cherish more the things they have to make an effort for. I think on this we can agree.
/r/seduction16/12/20 12:49 PM
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Well, what i was trying to express it s like this: What he must felt in those moments, it s crazy painfull. But it was his fault for chasing a girl that never gave him a chance. Life is cruel and it puts us in situations like this. To prevent beeing this guy, do not give people free atention, gifts, your time and all the rest.
/r/seduction16/12/20 11:03 AM
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That s a little extreme. They do stuff, she ignores them and that s that. You can t call the cops because some dude bring you flowers, or gifts and so on. And to some extent, all women like the attention. Let s be onest here.
/r/seduction16/12/20 08:42 AM
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No
/r/seduction16/12/20 08:38 AM
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I m not making fun of him. What happened to him( even if he is the one responsible for his actions) it s cruel. Life hit him with a brick. I told this story so people can avoid beeing in this guy place. And yes. I made a lot of mistakes and probably i was where he is. That s why you don t give free things to people
/r/seduction16/12/20 07:21 AM
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In my opinion, you give gifts and so on to a woman, only after she slept with you and you ahve at least 2-3 moths of exclusive relationship. In other case, she will see it as bribe for sex . We as people, not only women, like to work for things. "Nothing good comes easy"- this is a shit statment and it s not real. Sometimes you do get good things without effort. But it s human nature. It s how we function.
/r/seduction16/12/20 07:16 AM
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There is no such thing as the right person. If you re more needy than she is , it s by by baby 95% of the time. I respect your vision about life, but in my opinion it s a numbers game. Statistics.
/r/seduction16/12/20 06:17 AM
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Well: She goes out on dates with you, she s responding to your text s in a resonable manner and time, when you try to kiss her she kisses you back, she initiates contac and so on. Depends on witch part of the realtion you are. You need to learn to read the body language and be aware of her actions. In my opinion, if you talk with a girl for more than a week, let s say 2 in some cases and she does not become active in this interaction, or agrees to go out, your wasting your time. THis time frame …
/r/seduction16/12/20 06:04 AM
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Most of the time it s a no. But I may be wrong, depending on the girl. Usually, if you don t have social proof (like someone from her friend group to know you), you need more time before she is confortable to go out. You may be a psycho... Depends on the gril, how open minded she is....
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:52 AM
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I m a Romanian guy. That s why. LOL
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:49 AM
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She tells them. One of them it s her Ex from 1.5 years. That guy leaves her presents on her car. What more of a "telling"than breaking up with someone can you do?
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:41 AM
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You re right. The girl in the story it s structured and has a lot of rules. If I would have listen to her, I would have been in the friendzone like the others. But I allways pushed gently to intimacy.
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:38 AM
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Yeah. I know. And I share your your view about this things. That s why I posted this
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:34 AM
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Go on YouTube and find coach corey Wayne. Write: when she back away. Listen to all his video related to that topic. They are a lot. The apply it. And read his book. It s freea and it can change your life if you apply it. Apply what he teaches and you ll have her back. And the fact that she did not brake it of, does not mean you can t do what i told you. Your anxiety it s not because of her. It s because your belief System and how you work emotionaly
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:43 PM
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Yeah. I read it. It s very usefull. Very... I like this one : She beloooongs to the streets 😂😂. LOL
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:17 PM
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This is a hard one. I have felt the same way recently. In my case she pulled away, my anxyous attachment style has activated and i have becomed a little needy and she, with her Avoidant attachment style, broke up with me. What i would sugest you to do it s to back of. Call once a week and make a date. If you do this 2 time and she does not ant to she you leave her alone. În the mean time, Take a notebook and write. Imagine you are 2 persons in one. The first one îs you, your emotion, conviction …
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:18 PM
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Well, i would have caled you after 2 or 3 days and scadule the next date. It s common sense if you ignore a woman for weeks, she will back off. Thing is, some women like more contact, others less. This are details and you ll learn them with time, as a man. What i tried to share with guys here, it s about becoming more valuable as a man and don t get your value from a woman. In our days, guys will do enything to have whomen approval.
/r/seduction15/12/20 03:22 PM
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-Well baby, if you were a simple woman, you would not have come with "secret red-pill-misogynist" theory. -Cold hard truth: 100% of the guys who are cought in friend zone, share your opinion. -If your first tought is that i m a misogynist, then i m sure you re a feminist. Because you can t see the darknes in someone , until you have it in yourself. -You should thank me. With my advice I try to help men to build a healthy life. A life that he s proud of. I m sure you would like a guy like that. I…
/r/seduction15/12/20 11:33 AM
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-Man, this thing happens because of those beta guys who put women on pedestal and offer the free attention. -In our days, quality does not matter. If a girl has enough folowers, in her mind she will be a 9 or a 10 while she is fucked up emotionaly and so on, and in reality the looks it all she has and she is a 7 at max. -I had your toughts> You can t change what i wrote up. But you can play the game by your rules. That means sometimes be ok with beeing single. Develop yourself and you can date t…
/r/seduction15/12/20 10:39 AM
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I was agreeing with you
/r/seduction15/12/20 09:24 AM
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Imagine if she would have made it hard for you. The spark it s just a ilusion. That s why you see uninterested people wo get dumped and they act after that like they lost their soulmate. It s caled scarcity. You must be aware of this phenomen in yourself and in others. This is one of the most important skills in seduction. That s why I said about the Porsche. No one wants a car you can see everywere. -And yes, it works the other way around.
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:55 AM
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-Maybe your one of the rarest girls who have a secure attachment style, or you re insecure and need attention all day. But for all those avoidant girls who are out there, what I said works. -What you don t understand is the metality that most guys have. The put women on a pedestal. -What i said - build a life, do not put women first. Women will come as a consequence. - Next time don t be bias and try to understand the real message.
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:25 AM
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-Yes you are right. My point was that in between dates don t blow up her phone and look for her approwal. Or enter her everyday texting ritual. -Maybe I should have been more clear.
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:15 AM
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Of course not. You should rest and recover, but in that resting time, don t blow up her phone and look for her approval.
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:12 AM
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You can develop your character and style to that degree. And build a life that you are pround of. Beeing a Porsche means to stand out from the crowd.
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:10 AM
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LOL
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:07 AM
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Well yes, but Porsche is much well rounded. In my opinion. Koenigsegg it s more extreme and it s about genetics. Becoming a Porsche it s attainable for every men.
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:06 AM
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You want some ideas how to improve your life ? I ask because i want to understang and give you the answer you need.
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:04 AM
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LOL.
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:03 AM
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LOL. Metaphor ...baby
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:02 AM
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-Assuming it s for unsecure people. Healthy and emotionaly centered people communicate their needs. -You missed the point.
/r/seduction15/12/20 07:59 AM
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-You missed the point. I said "forget"= don t blow up her phone, do not act needy and want her approval. -When i said Porsche, i did not talked about aesthetic ( that s subjective). I said: "man develop your character and life so you stand out from a crowd.." I bet you would like a guy like that.
/r/seduction15/12/20 07:56 AM
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Man, there are women with an anxyous attachment style, daddy issues (and so on...) and they would not mind that much texting. But I know what you mean. And in terms of attraction you are 100% right.
/r/seduction15/12/20 07:47 AM
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Thanks for your input. I do not advocate to have a avoidant attachment style and be unavailable. I say, show the girl amazing time and in betwen be busy, don t blow up her phone, or act needy and be unsure , looking for her validation ( that s the mistake a lot of guys do). About your situation, have you ever told him what you need or what you want? If you told him in a nice and loving manner and he still did not listen, the you were right to move on. If not, you have your own part why things di…
/r/seduction15/12/20 07:43 AM
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That goes without saying. My point was to have a life that keeps you busy when you re not with her. Of course it s healthy to invest in someone who is doing that also. But it has to come for a place where you enter to give, not a place of lack and unhelthy attachment.
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:40 AM
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Well that s the secret. You do thing for you for your life. And that will automaticaly influence the way women will percive you
/r/seduction14/12/20 07:44 PM
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It s the only true way to keep a woman interested for as long as you wish, in most cases.
/r/seduction14/12/20 07:40 PM
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It means to stand out from the crowd. In a world of boring and weak man, be a strong and complex one. Be a King. Like a Porsche 911 against the usual cars.
/r/seduction14/12/20 06:04 PM
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Women enjoy being approached by the "right" guy. If you re not creepy , if she likes you, she will engage in conversation. Most of girls won t like you , so that s why they reject us.
/r/seduction14/12/20 01:16 PM
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I think he s trying to say the same thing, but he s vague. You re 100% right. Show a woman the best good time when you are with her and keep it short in between. That s how you do it. That s what it s missing from his post. She likes to feel special and that you feel atracted to her. "Loving"her but not needing her aproval will drive her wild.
/r/seduction14/12/20 01:02 PM
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Find "how to be a 3% man" corey wayne . It has a youtube chanale also . He s the real deal. This subreddit it s more for fun in my opinion. Most people here lack the skill and the knowladge . Good luck
/r/seduction14/12/20 12:40 PM
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I guess there are more chances for the earth to stop spining. LOL You are right
/r/seduction14/12/20 12:37 PM
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"Off course not"and the put a flirty smile
/r/seduction14/12/20 12:31 PM
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Thank you for your reply. It s not bitter. It s coled Hypergamy . When you have time, i invite you to reserch it and learn about it. I think it s an iteresting point to analyze. In my opinion people come here to learn and find out about other people s expieriences. . In my humbel opinion, you acted to strict. As long as i did not hurt enyone and it was about seduction, i don t think is usefull for all the users, if you kill information just because you tought it was bitter. Thank you for underst…
/r/seduction10/12/20 02:11 PM
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Man, what it s not civil and on topic? Please explain so i won t do this mistake again. I wrote it like a constructive text.
/r/seduction10/12/20 01:58 PM
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Otside the context: Maybe you need to learn to expres better. Not for you, for others. To give them the chance to learn something from your truth. Eather way, i don t mind it. The truth it s always welcome. It brings clarity and with that, you know how to act. Acting it s the begining of the end of our problems . Thnaks for the replay. Good luck to you sir.
/r/seduction10/12/20 01:29 PM
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Build the life you want for yourself.(this is the most important tihing) In this time start learning about girls. Move to a big city. At least 200k people. You ll have jobs and girls oportunities Develop a great body and dress well Hobby s...have some of those Go to therapy ...having sex it s just the begining. You need to become emotionaly healthy Build a great instagram and Tinder profile. Have somone take some good pictures of you. Don t over use it, but you can find good girls on IG and Tind…
/r/seduction28/09/20 10:25 AM
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Well I think about 60% online and 40% in real life. I m very open minded and most of the time I have the courage to approach girls in real life. In the park, in the bar ...it dependes. Tinder also it s fine in my country. I go in a big city for it, to have more opportunities and there are a lot o nice and curious girls. I talk a wile with them an then things can happen. From talking with 10 girls, i get lucky with about 1-3. It s a lot of work but once in a wile you have sex at the first date an…
/r/seduction18/08/20 09:59 AM
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It s correct.
/r/seduction18/08/20 09:38 AM
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If you "meet" her online (Tinder, Fb, Ig and so on)...texting it s a must to create raport and trust , so you can ask her out latter. It s not black and white. You need to be able to adapt.
/r/seduction18/08/20 06:26 AM
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It depends. If you meat the girl in real life texting should be logistics . If you "meet" her online (Tinder, Fb, Ig and so on)...texting it s a must to create raport and trust , so you can ask her out latter. So guys, it s not black and white. You need to be able to adapt.
/r/seduction18/08/20 06:23 AM
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5’6” Stop with the BS man. I have the same height as you. There are a lot of girls who liked me and my personality,but because of my height, they rejected me. I never gave up. And in the last 3-4 years I slept with about 20 girls.(i have 28 years ) Not much for some, but more than the avrage joe. There is nothing like the feeling of wining when you are the underdog. It s your mind man. Deep down you feel insecure and you lack self-love. Remember, deep down. There are 3 layers of self trust. You …
/r/seduction18/08/20 06:20 AM
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It works. It s great, but i do have a problem whit it. The attraction and dating part it s solid. My problem is when you go into a serious relationship. He s proposing to have more of an avoidant style of attachment. Now, if you have anxyous attachment style, or only secure, it s difficult to be so "cold". And you ll never fulfill your needs. You ll never be true to yourself. Pretending to be not needy it s needy by it self. In my opinion, you need to become healthy and then find a girl that it …
/r/seduction04/08/20 06:53 AM
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