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| 1 | Maximum age gap? Your own thoughts and moral standings.The half your age plus seven rule has worked pretty well for me. Also if we’re talking dating you have to look at the maturity level of the woman and what her mindset is. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guyBecause you should think highly of yourself. You should firstly identify with your advantages and what makes you awesome. You’ve unnecessarily stuffed yourself into a box | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 11:12 AM |
| 2 | How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guyVery simple, you should be going out during the day and night, approaching, and looking to close the same day or night. Whether or not you’re “average” doesn’t really matter although the fact that you would even categorize yourself as such is a huge red flag. Approach in high numbers, stay in your masculine, learn how to read the girl and see what her emotional tics are and give her a “fun/emotional” experience. Though you should be looking to be your best your status doesn’t matter much. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?As said before By calling them 10/10 you’re pedestalizng them. | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?Positive spin: you have more potential for an epic comeback story. Your self esteem is largely connected to the positive/negative actions you are currently taking. For example, a fat person who is training hard eating right ect. May feel better about their bod than a fit person who has been lazy/binge eating. If you shift your momentum towards the person you want to be you’ll feel better about yourself and thus sub communicate a better outlook on your life to others. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Why no success in clubs?Sounds like you’re too into the aspect of dancing. I’m all for dancing but if you’re too into it it can seem feminine | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before datesMake a concrete plan on how the date will exactly go. Visualize it through to the end | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | I feel really horny alone but when I get the chance with a girl I don’t go for sexSlow things down. Don’t rush straight to sex, really try to feel the woman’s presence first | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 06:32 PM |
| 22 | Do women have one night stands sober/tipsy/drunk?Nope never happened in the history of earth | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 01:41 AM |
| 11 | How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym?It’s honestly hard. I recommend immersion periods where your main focus is social results and other periods where your focus is work/school/gym. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Starting a conversation in publicYes this is an “approach” and I’ve done thousands. If it’s a daytime venue like a cafe, park or gym I’ll start a conversation with something situational for example “what’s a good drink to get here?” or I’ll comment/compliment something about them like their shoes jewelery ect. From there if they are at all receptive I’ll introduce myself and move on to normal conversation If it’s a nighttime venue like a bar or club you have to understand that people literally go there to socialize. My most com… | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 07:33 PM |
| 2 | As someone who used to pull, I’ve become so desperate and not sure where to start?What I would say is that it seems you are attached to the successes and conquests of your past. You’re looking back and wondering why you can’t achieve now what you achieved then. Let go of the past and humble yourself. Start from ground zero with cold approaches and do it without the ego of who you think you are based off your past. I have had the same issue. You’re game isn’t as good as you think it is. | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety. Yes I know…Once I gave my buddy 60$ and said keep it if I don’t approach at least 10 women | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Burnt outHere’s what I would say. It seems like the idea of this new city having “better women” is largely made up in your head. And it seems like you are bringing that energy to the interaction which is messing the sets up. Go in there with boldness and confidence and challenge your own belief that these new women are “different” or “better” | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 06:06 PM |
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