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| 2 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.Well handled. Solid plan. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 11:06 PM |
| 2 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.Here’s a piece of random advice that has the same idea behind it. If you ask a girl out and she tells you yes but to “call beforehand to confirm” you LAUGH and tell her no deal. You’re a busy guy and aren’t putting your Friday night plans on hold for a maybe. So either she’s in our she’s out. Now OF COURSE nothing is black and white so if she follows up by saying her dog is getting put down that day or gives you an actual reason to call and confirm.... just propose another day. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.Live your life how you want. This isn’t for you. It’s for OP. ALSO OP regardless of what these fools think I’m saying— don’t be MEAN to her or anything like they’ve interpreted. Just don’t go out of your way to be nice to someone like that. If you want to sleep with her then you’ve gotta flip the script on her— SHOW HER through your actions with others and lack of attention to her that she made a mistake turning you down like that. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 09:58 PM |
| -4 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.No shit Sherlock but THIS IS A SEDUCTION FORUM. Crazy concept! Go back to r/dating_advice. Or even better r/painfully-friendzoned. 🙄🙄🙄🙄 | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 09:49 PM |
| -7 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.Like I said before- sounds like a great way to waste a lot of time. This chick changed her mind and canceled a date with OP. If he wants her to have ANY RESPECT left for him he will NOT try to continue being my her friend. Also who the fuck cares what she thinks?? Weak. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Making life work for you when you’re not conventionally attractive or charmingI don’t know. Do you have hobbies and things you like to do? Find clubs or recreational activities that center around those things. Also I’m pretty sure everyone in New York is still absolutely TERRIFIED about the covid so Goodluck . | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 09:22 PM |
| 11 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.If he wants to date her and she doesn’t want to date him then he should MOVE ON. Edit: if she says no and he keeps trying to get to know her that makes him appear weak and chasing. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 08:39 PM |
| -5 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.Or you might waste all your time. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Making life work for you when you’re not conventionally attractive or charmingYou’re on a seduction forum, doc. Usually “club” means nightclub. With implied semantics aside though; yes. Yes, recreational clubs are a great way to meet like minded individuals. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Making life work for you when you’re not conventionally attractive or charmingDon’t go to clubs to learn to socialize. Loud, thumping music, drunk, distracted people, strobing lights. Unless you want to fail miserably because of these things I suggest you learn to socialize, well, everywhere else BUT a club. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | John Anthony...................................... common man. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with sexual insecurityYeah, because those guys don’t make it all weird and awkward for her initially with talks of a serious relationship. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 07:15 AM |
| 4 | Help choosing a pet name for my clingy and adorable gurlfriednHow the fuck does this pertain to r/seduction? Think of a damn name yourself you fraud. Edit: I should probably get some sleep. Goodnight troll. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 07:12 AM |
| 6 | When a girl tells you she can't figure you out, there is sexual tensionAlways have something you’re working on that other people don’t know about. You don’t have to tell women much about yourself at all at first but if you feel compelled you can always share. Be developing new hobbies and don’t show people until you’re good at said hobbies and it’s a surprise. Never stop discovering amazing things within yourself and sharing them with others. | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Syndrome of the Chill Girl (23F)Play against their expectations. Don’t allow yourself to be as available to them. Scarcity, my friend. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 08:53 PM |
| 3 | How do you ask a girl if she's single or not without indicating directly that you're interested in her?But you are interested in her. Don’t ask if she’s single. Go based on her actions. Honestly you should just ask her out on a date. Make sure she knows it’s a date. If she has a boyfriend and any integrity whatsoever she will tell you. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Syndrome of the Chill Girl (23F)Screen men better and practice standing up for yourself more often. Could you potentially aim to meet people in person other than on dating apps? I have a feeling that these apps draw very certain kinds of people to them. (I know it’s hard in these times...) | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | My road to 100 approaches a day in Melbourne Australia (gradual steps to become a beast)Social media is not my specialty and I certainly have a bias against it. If she’s not interested at first that’s fine—I don’t see a need to maybe have a chance with her down the line. It might just be my read on it but this mindset oozes neediness in my opinion. Edit: good luck on your approaches! | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you politely tell a girl you're not interested?Ahh I see. Take it as a compliment and continue forward. You’ve got what it takes. | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | How do you politely tell a girl you're not interested?“Great advice! That part about displaying authenticity really made a lot of sense to me! Now excuse me while COPY your words..” lmao Edit: spelling. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 07:49 AM |
| 3 | Don't Underestimate the 5s and 6sIt’s self-sabotaging to rate people by numbers like this. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I get this girl to want to hookup?First get her to hangout with you. Have a rough plan ready that YOU SUGGEST to her that ultimately ends up with you two alone somewhere comfortable. If you and this young lady have a connection it should not be exceedingly difficult to be fun, flirty, and open about yourself! Enjoy the time spent together but YOU have to to LEAD the interaction forward. Once alone it’s up to you to make your move. I suggest NOT asking and just going for the kiss. If she declines RESPECT THAT if she is receptive.… | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 06:25 AM |
| 3 | First ever nudes from girl I’m genuinely intoSecond this. He’s not even asking for advice— just validation by....proxy....? Even if this woman does meet with you I doubt she ever will again. (Hey I hope she does!) I just presume that she’d smell the insecurity that’s pouring outa you. Edit: look man keep going, you’re on the right path. Keep working on yourself. Find that validation inside of yourself. Albeit the current, fucked up, state of the world definitely makes things a little more complicated but human nature stays the same.. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 06:09 AM |
| 5 | “I want her but she’s out of my league”If a woman tells you “maybe” to your proposition of a date, 9 times out of 10, fucking laugh at her. Let her know you’re a busy guy who doesn’t deal with “maybes.” Bid her a nice day and MOVE TO THE NEXT ONE, only this time you will have some more self respect. ;) good luck. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Girl I’m into says “give me attention 😡”With all due respect I would recommend that you think of a response yourself. Be genuine. What you are asking for is not genuine in my view. Good luck! Edit: spelling** | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 03:07 AM |
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