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| 2 | What do you like and dislike about dating books?https://mindful-masculinity.org/2024/06/23/top-12-dating-sex-relationship-books-for-men/ wrote a list of my 12 favourite ones - i actually like them a lot They give me hope and inspiration from the stories The stories of rejection and near misses are important too because they give a realistic display of what daygame is and isn't . Good advice on Fashion , importance of SMV. What i dislike ? Well when some people use reading them as a procrastination for actual real life experience that is my on… | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 07:22 AM |
| 3 | How do you make daygame approaching something you enjoy?getting good wingmen - helps increase the number of sets thereby increasing the probability of success : https://mindful-masculinity.org/2020/10/17/the-importance-of-good-wingman-to-those-starting-out-on-their-seduction-journey/ Improving your SMV so that interactions become more enjoyable and the probability of positive feed back loops increase https://mindful-masculinity.org/2023/09/22/10-ways-for-men-to-improve-smv-for-better-day-game-interactions/ A reframe that your time on this planet is l… | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 07:17 AM |
| 14 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)i gave up dating apps after i had a date when the woman was dating another man on tinder during it- it just felt i was devaluing myself - went onto and committed to cold approaching instead and i met my girlfriend through that method . My aunt was also happy we met in a romantic way face to face and not online like the majority of couples these days haha . | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?my female cousin gets 2k matches per week in new york - i can't compete with that. On the best week of my life i got 30 in brazil lol . In london i get 5-10 a week | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Approaching girls advicehey i wrote a fair few guides on daygame in london: Wrote an upgraded list of places to date in London for 2024 including brand new spots that have just been made in the last 6-12 months : mindful-masculinity.org/2024/05/30/more-areas-to-date-around-london-the-4th-edition/ I shared an areas to to do daygame around London : https://mindful-masculinity.org/2020/10/17/areas-to-game-around-london-a-full-analysis/ Along with 2 Of my Dating Guides before in London: https://mindful-masculinity.org/2022… | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 05:51 AM |
| 1 | hiring a coach or learn by myself?find good wingmen first- build a basis and a social circle and see how you do - without long term effort daygame wont be success https://mindful-masculinity.org/2020/10/17/the-importance-of-good-wingman-to-those-starting-out-on-their-seduction-journey/ A coach can patch things up short term 1-2 days but what will happen after your session you need to be honest with yourself and plan accordingly | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Girls just want to have fun. Don't need to be the top 10%.https://mindful-masculinity.org/2023/11/07/does-money-matter-in-relationships-a-socio-economic-analysis-of-moneysexual-market-value-and-pua/ money and status still impact smv and can help reduce daygame flakes and prolong relationships- i've seen a lot of succesful wealthy individuals in my daygame career but i've also seen a lot of low value men do well. The results were slightly tilted towards the wealthy but not by much from my perspective in london | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you have to physically escalate on the first date?you can plan out the first dates and organise them such that the women go straight to your place - i laid out a plan here mindful-masculinity.org/2024/06/11/9-step-first-date-same-day-lay-guide-planning-texting-and-escalating/ had a decent 30 percent hit rate on dates for me in terms of getting the woman back to the house - you can try to escalate soon on the first date see what happens if it fails plan a 2-3 location date then push for the bounce back to your place | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 03:59 PM |
| 0 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellmindful-masculinity.org/2024/06/16/relationships-are-brutally-capitalistic-regardless-of-how-you-look-at-it/ i do agree that relationships have created some degrees of inequality in dating - but men can combat hoeflation simply by improving themselves or by moving to countries like those in south east asia where hoeflation is less problematic. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | New to Cold Approaching.. I need advice on success with womenThere are websites - sosauve and the skilled seducer forums are communities of men interested in dating you can find wingmen off there | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 03:54 PM |
| 4 | New to Cold Approaching.. I need advice on success with womenA lot of approaches- took me 600 approaches to get my girlfriend and "date out of my league" Wrote some free guides of stuff that helped me dating in London when i did daygame there for 3 years : https://mindful-masculinity.org/2024/01/21/13-crucial-errors-in-daygame-and-dating-and-how-to-avoid-them/ https://mindful-masculinity.org/2023/09/22/10-ways-for-men-to-improve-smv-for-better-day-game-interactions/ Finding good wingman really helped me too - i wrote a guide on my experience of that here-… | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 08:10 AM |
| 2 | No PUA course is good?10 Critical Factors you need to consider from Dating Coaches/Marketers/Course sellers https://mindful-masculinity.org/2023/12/07/10-critical-factors-you-need-to-consider-from-dating-coaches-marketers-course-sellers/ honestly most dating courses are overhyped and overpriced - you really don't need them . It's better just to find solid wingmen and instead go out and open sets with said wingman | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 06:54 PM |
| 9 | Do you think someone with autism could play this game?depends on the level of autism - are you able to maintain LTRS or friendships with men and women- this is a really vague question and without being able to analyse your infield its hard to answer the question | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How does a women want to be seduced?a well planned date https://mindful-masculinity.org/2024/06/11/9-step-first-date-same-day-lay-guide-planning-texting-and-escalating/ of course this depends on how strong your initial daygame interaction was- are you talking about approaching? or are you talking about what to do on a date? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 08:38 AM |
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