~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.Yea def not. I am realistic with dating. Not my fault everyones unhealthy and emotionally broken and dont want kids. Or they married for money when they were young, had kids and then got divorced and now willing to date someone thats better for them but wont have more kids. So I wont commit and be exclusive. Whats the point if I'm not getting kids and a family of my own. Its been 3 years of this. I meet woman, woman doesnt want kids, woman gets mad that I wont commit, I tell woman that if they w… | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Pt.3 tinder-Hanging out with girl tomorrow and she has a boyfriend what to do?Sorry but as a man, a 10 is someone that is all around a 10. If you are puffy and not in peak physical shape.....you are not a 10. Maybe an 8. Its sad, women will date down and settle for a less attractive man for the sole purpose getting his money. Eventually, due to no contest divorces, these women will get fed up and bored leave you. Not all but look at divorce rates and dating culture. I might not make 200k but I make enough to be a home owner that lives alone. Im not 6'4" but I'm not short … | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 08:59 AM |
| 0 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.Ok sure, date americanized foreigners. Sounds greeeeaat | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 08:40 AM |
| 9 | Pt.3 tinder-Hanging out with girl tomorrow and she has a boyfriend what to do?I would rethink that. Most american women are not 10/10. You will never date or anything if you hold out for a 10/10. The older you get, the worse your age women will look. Just how it is since no one has discipline. Not my fault but I dont make the stats. Average american woman in her 30s is 170lbs at 5'4".....74% of americans are overweight and 43% obese. Look it up. Im not insulting anyone. Merely stating facts | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.Gotta play the numbers. Get short leases and sign up on dating apps. Get a passport and go to European countries where most women have the characteristics it like. For me, I love fit, blonde and light colored eyes for my women. Ones that value a man for who he is and not how much money he spends on them. A lot of interviews with Swedish women, they want first dates like a walk and coffee so they can talk and get to know you and how its not responsible to waste $200 on a first date for someone yo… | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 02:21 AM |
| 0 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.Thats cute. I have 3 fwb right now with bombshell women that literally beg me to come over half the time. They dont want kids. Doesnt want kids, no commitment. No point in committing if I'm not having kids with someone. Whats the point. Might as well play the field and have a good time. Not my fault everyones unhealthy and golddiggers | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 02:02 AM |
| -2 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.Id prefer foreign over american. You think women living in cities are healthy just cause they look hot. No thanks. They are filled with toxins and usually have an extremely high body count. Plus most want to stay in the city and I'd rather die alone then ever live in a city. Not to mention they are less likely to have any real life skills other than ordering door dash and Uber eats. Also, you better have a lot of money cause city women are hard-core gold diggers Im good. You guys can have them. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 01:29 AM |
| -7 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.Its not in america buddy. Doesnt matter what city you live in. American stats are as followed.....74% overweight and 43% obese. The average height and weight of a woman in her 30s is 5'4" and 170lbs.......Just under the obese mark. #pathetic If I was wealthy, I'd be in eastern europe. 40% of women have not gotten any covid vaxes. They are traditional, healthy and have respect for men beyond how much money they have to give. Men are leaving to find wives but I dont see men coming to america for t… | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 01:17 AM |
| 7 | How I learned that physical attractiveness and money doesn't equate to success with womenDuh. These women need a lesson in statistics. Only 13% of americans earn six figures......read that again. Stop wasting the best years of your life with a man that will abuse, neglect and cheat on you.....only divorcing in your late 30s as a single mom thats bitter and traumatized. Stop holding out and being a sexual until youre 40 because you want mr 6ft, 6 figure, 6 pack, 6in dong. You will mostly likely end up alone your whole life. I have everything but six figures. Home owner, live alone, i… | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 03:36 AM |
| 2 | 18 year old added me on tinder too hook up she’s in high school and im 23 it’s just weird thing to do right?Exactly. 23 is not grown. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | 18 year old added me on tinder too hook up she’s in high school and im 23 it’s just weird thing to do right?Still a legal age of consent in most states. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 02:12 AM |
| 6 | 18 year old added me on tinder too hook up she’s in high school and im 23 it’s just weird thing to do right?Legal is legal. You didnt seek her out. Im 38m and have been with many young women but I dont seek them out, I am never the aggressor and I am ALWAYS direct and honest with them. I never pressure anything ever. Basically these young women are sick of immature boys their age that are brain washed with porn brain and no idea how to actually pleasure women. Also usually selfish in bed and more. This is not my opinion but what all these young women have told me when I was so confused why they arent … | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 01:10 AM |
| -1 | Those of you with a lot of instagram followers does it help you with womenLooking is over rated, everyone sees porn. I wanna feel, touch, smell, taste and see. I would just end it, as far as I'm concerned if people sleeping together before marriage than sexual compatibility is very important. Youre essentially trying to find this sexual, personality and looks balance person. If you're a virgin before marriage you want really know any different. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Those of you with a lot of instagram followers does it help you with womenI'd imagine for men at least, having a closer to 1:1 follower/following ratio is a better look for guys and who they are following. In contrast, a woman with a lot more followers than following might not be seen as a good thing either. My ex hated all these dumb fake women I followed on IG for years. After we broke up (for other reasons), I did away with the random hot girls I followed and redid my whole algorithm. We need to do away and limit these phones and apps. It's wild but I've had women … | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What are some signs that you are an attractive man?Funny cause i get lots of attention from women because of my looks but thats about it because I dont have any money. At this point, I'd take a loyal gold digger with a prenup | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 12:30 AM |
| 1 | What are some signs that you are an attractive man?You have lots of money | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 12:10 AM |
| 3 | How to date without drinkingWho cares. Be yourself. If you dont drink, say that and own it. Get a coke, club or mocktail. Be authentic. That is sexy. Dont need to justify anything either. I myself dont drink much but will have a drink here and there but I dont care if someone else drinks around me. I do hate the loud crowd drunk bars though. Maybe take them to a higher end place that isnt as binge drinking like | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 02:45 AM |
| -1 | Bar is low or women are picky?I mean, I (38m) want kids, diapers to change, a wife to cook for and wait on when she carries my child, share things with, support, couch rot and more with. I seems to me that the majority of women these days tend to have unrealistic expectations while also having a skewed self assessment of their own attractiveness and worth. Mainly due to social media and all the attention they get. Most women I've been into, didnt really bring much of anything to the table for me but yet had endless expectati… | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Broke deadbeats who pull beautiful women...how do they do it?They dont. The women like being the hot and powerful one holding all the cards. Women like fixer uppers. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inHow many total doses were given in the early covid? How many plants manufacturing it and how long does it take to make one dose? It wouldve taken decades from them to make all these doses, even if every facility capable of producing them was making them 24/7/365. You can sit here all you want and hate on RFK Jr but last I checked, that senior citizen is probably in better shape them you. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to read textbooks, memorize things and regurgitate them for a test. I'll take… | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inAwww you're cute | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inPretty much all over weight people are pre diabetic. I dont date over weight people so. Bingo | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inLast I checked, tens of thousands of americans went to Canada to euthanize themselves due to covid vax injury. Pretty sure millions are been 100% diagnosed with covid vax death. Pretty sure the company themselves report over 1,300nl side effects. Pretty sure they've admitted that not 1 vaccine on the market has been tested against a placebo or the accumulation and used together. Why did our government have to give legal immunity to vaccine manufacturers for wrong doing in 1986? Yea I'm so dumb a… | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 12:15 AM |
| -1 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inYea but its only been 4 years. It takes 10 or 15 years to properly test a vaccine for long term side effects and genetic disorders. Dr. Fauci even said that about the HIV VAX in 1999. "12 years down the road and all hell breaks loose". These shots were not vaccines, they were gene therapy drugs that altered your dna transcription. 33% increased infertility in covid vaxed women. Cancer exploding and more. No thanks. I dont want some sheep that just blindly does whatever theyre told. Its pathetic … | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 09:32 PM |
| -2 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inWell i do know that 74% are overweight, 43% obese, 3-5 meds average, #1 in SIDS, 48th in global life expectancy. So yea why would any healthy individual that has worked very hard at maintaining their health and fitness want to date someone that falls into the "average" american person. So no, I would not date someone that is pre diabetic and type 2 is 100% curable, preventable and avoidable. Its all about activity and diet. Ive met 85 year olds that did away with it. As for the tanning. Studies … | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inYea but is the guy into them also. Usually, most women dont have a good sense of their own attractiveness or lack there of. Social media has blown a lot of women's egos up. Maybe only 1 or 2 I found attractive in my 38 years on this planet. The rest, ugh. Recently had a really sexy chick give me her card and all but she doesnt want kids. Big dealbreaker for me. What emotionally/mentally healthy person doesn't want kids? Even if she did, she got the covid vax and I'm not about that and the unknow… | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Quit being greedy in your dating life and things will improve for you drasticallyFor me its more about lifestyle compatibility and what it says about them. Im very active 38m and want a partner who can keep up and already has years of living a healthy and fit lifestyle. Everything from the gym to outdoors to cooking and more. It just so happens that when most people practice this type of lifestyle (before letting themselves go) they are usually more attractive and healthy. So its not that I only go after thin in shape pretty women, I go after the lifestyle and personality. I… | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 10:20 PM |
| 44 | Should I re-shoot my shot with a girl from Hinge who ghosted?No. That is just pathetic and desperate. Her loss. Move on. | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Met this a cute chick at work but I rarely see her how do I ask for her contact without looking desperate?Asking for contact isnt desperate. Its confident. Just causally say something like "hey, i like talking to you at work. I want your number so we can hangout or continue this after work sometime." Showing interest is not desperate. But it she seems hesitant, dont push it. Just smile and continue being friendly. | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 02:10 AM |
| 0 | 31/M, 64" black guy living in Toronto. Dating Apps are unusable for me and I need to know where to startYea i got banned from tinder and hinge and I never knew why. Never sent pics or creepy messages or anything. I think women get mad and falsely report men often. I was able to get back in hinge but still banned from tinder which is stupid. Like you said, some people send some wild stuff on there and not banned. Idk. I rarely meet any women irl these days which used to work. Sucks man | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | In your experience how often do girls sleep with multiple guys at once?"They" just want to moralize us Americans and ruin us. | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 01:33 PM |
| 2 | I'm dead afraid of approaching women, how can I get better.Awww you're learning already. Life is more about dealing with failure and rejection than being successful. Thomas Edison took over 1,00p tries until he invented the light bulb. If you want to talk to women, you better get used to rejection, being confused, ghosted, reading between the lines.....all while portraying a calm, collected, confident guy. No guy knows how talking to a woman will go. They're all different and you'll have to take it experience differently. But like I said, you cant get u… | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 01:36 PM |
| 4 | I'm dead afraid of approaching women, how can I get better.They are one and the same. You need to desensitize yourself to it and just go nuts. Ask out and talk to every woman you see. Lots of rejection but you'll see that once you walk away from them......it doesnt matter. Rejection from women means nothing. Doesnt change your life. Just get used to it. You'll meet a few that like you though | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm dead afraid of approaching women, how can I get better.Practice 😂 | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guyNo, it's not. Thats when women are at their healthiest and highest value. Meanwhile, men's value goes up after 35. Id much rather have kids with someone as young as possible simply for the lack of risks and issues. Not to mention all the accumulated toxins and crap that everyone is exposed to. Id make sure my young wife and mother of my child is well aware of whats healthy and what is not. Sad times for Americans | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guyThey dont seek it out because society looks down on it. I can tell you right now as a 38m......18 to 25 y/o love me and they chase me due to all the little feminine boys their age. Just sucks they're all vaxed | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guyIve met and have had tons of very young women be aggressive with me and I'm 38m. These young women can not stand the young men their age. They have all told me the same story over and over again. All these young men are just more feminine. These young women want men and not little boys with low T and not confidence to go after them. Plus all these guys are addicted to porn and yet you'd think that would help them in the bedroom. Nope, I have girls legit spend their friends to me because they fel… | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guyIm 38m and dont really fit into my typical age range for dating seeing how I'm energetic, youthful and in great shape. No one believes I'm 38. That being said, I'm not all that interested or physically attracted to most women my age. Simply, they just dont value or prioritize health, fitness, wellness and nutrition. So I shoot for closer to 25 to 30. At this point though, I dont care. I just want a healthy, fit, no covid vaxed woman to date, marry and start a family with. Really not much else to… | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I pull women that are older than me?You ask them out. Be direct. | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 03:44 AM |
| 3 | What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on?Money and you spending it on them | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Threesomes: Best way to find a girl from a dating app?Closest thing I've come to is a 3some with a mid female and her trans bf. Which is not what I'm looking for. I've tried 3fun but never link up with anyone. Its like I need to be invited into a female/female relationship or have a gf to find another woman. Im single anyway and have my share (or more) of women but I want a legit 3some with 2 attractive cis women. Hard to find. Tbh my sex drive is so high, I should find a poly female couple to have a love triangle marriage with. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Photo with platonic female friend on dating profile, yes or no?Insecure much | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 01:00 PM |
| 11 | How do I begin becoming the ladies man?Practice, experience, trial and error, letting go of your ego when rejected, | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Premature ejaculationLearn arousal control, how to relax and flex pelvic floor muscles, exercise, limit or do away with porn, when you masterbate, do it for a long time, learn your point of know return, learn how to control those little muscles and do research. Follow the coach on ig. Tbh I started lasting way longer doing all these. Like 1 or 2 hours with some fluctuations. Men need to stop with the porn, OF and following all these ai women. | /r/seduction | 01/08/25 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Exactly! Ambition and potential.....of making lots of money lol like you're literally proving me point! Women feel good when men shower them with gifts, expensive things and trips........Men with money make good partners because they can afford gifts, expensive things and trips. Lol Literally, I'm laughing out loud in bed. Men want peace and a healthy woman. Id marry a cashier if I liked her and she wasn't covid vaxed. Everything comes down to what a man can give and provide. Thats it. Men are l… | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against youWomen want men with experience and knowledge on how their bodies work. This only comes with high body counts. Men are usually ok inexperienced women that they can coach a little to develop their skills. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What’s the difference between the guy who ends up becoming the best friend and the guy who fucks her?True but its more about testing you. Are you man enough to show her a good time, be yourself and then make a move. Even just a long hug with some hips and a little peck of a kiss goes a long way. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | What’s the difference between the guy who ends up becoming the best friend and the guy who fucks her?Gotta make moves in a respectful way. I usually make some sort of first move on ghe first date. Get a little banter and touchy feely. Even if she shuts me down, she knows my intentions. Id she goes out with me again then I know she wants more | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 03:27 PM |
| 8 | How come for some guys dating and relationships are easy while others struggle ?Because most men have low T and low standards and desperate for anything they can get. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.And show me 1mil 15 year olds born to covid vaxed parents. It takes 10 years or more to properly test these things. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.The mRNA technology has been around for a long time but never used or passed testing. Thats the facts. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Can’t get hookups but can’t get a girlfriend despite trying.Yea its a tough middle ground to be at. I have a hard time getting fwb with women I'm attracted to or enjoy spending time with. It seems that certain men (maybe more desirable men) have an all or nothing issues. Meaning women see them as someone that want to date and build something with or nothing at all. Almost all my hook ups and fwb catch feelings pretty quick and end things. Funny thing is that I want to date and start a family but none of the I really want are up for it | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 12:18 AM |
| -1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Im glad you got a good laugh. Its proven that the shots increase infertility, cancer, damages dna, excess deaths and more. Dating and wanting to start a family with a vaxed woman is like playing Russian roulette. Being a biology guy, tell me, if we've had mRNA for decades, why havent they ever used it? Does it have something to do with the animal trials and how they skipped animals trials for this vax? It takes 15 years or proper test a vax. Show me 1,000,000 15 year old children born to vaxed p… | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 08:02 PM |
| -8 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Nah man I'm good. I was asked out by a smoke show blonde last night and we share some drinks and deep convo. Going to dinner next week and she agrees with everything I say and had her own great points. The great correction is already here | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 07:06 PM |
| -7 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.I dont vote. Its a rigged system one way or another. This country was ruined and its going to take a lot more than a single term to repair. Social darwinism needs to do its job. Then things will improve | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 06:47 PM |
| -10 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Yea well good luck to you. Im not settling and dating down some average america woman. No thanks. Not with the stats we currently have: 74% overweight, 43% obese, 3-5 meds, 48th in global life expectancy, #1 in SIDS and 1 in 31 are autistic. Yea you can have them. I have my roster needed to get by until I met the one. Not my fault everyones unhealthy and covid vaxed | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 05:40 PM |
| 22 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Yea the world they live in is "how much can I get from a man and how can I land a rich man" Pretty much it | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with WomenIts a few things which I think are very logical but everyone thinks I'm crazy for making this a deal breaker. Basically the #1 reason is the lack of data. Show my a 10 or 15 year old who was conceived, birthed and grow up by covid vaxed parents or even just a mother. #2 would be the mentality and will of the person I want as a partner and mother of my children. I dont want some weak minded person that cant think for themselves and willing to comply with a mandate that they really dont want to. I… | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with WomenThat could be but I didn't say dont have intellectual conversation. I know women love deep talks. I meant turn your brain off to over thinking and stuff. Just let things be as is | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 12:28 AM |
| 4 | Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with WomenMy self with self improvement is that it makes you raise your standards while also sort of offending others and alienating yourself from the average person that is focus on martials and crap. Health is wealth and being active and healthy is my #1 priority which narrows my dating pool to like 12% of women. Then factor in the gold digger culture and unrealistic expectations most women have, then looking at wanting kids, good age range to mine and a few other things. I'm down to like 4% and when yo… | /r/seduction | 23/07/25 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Question for guys with more experience – which approach works better when meeting a girl for the first time?A little of both but let things happen naturally and unfold. You dont need to tell her everything the first night. Focus on figuring her out so you can plan dates that she will enjoy and have fun. That my friend is the key. Girls just want to have fun. Plus as they get to know you and build some trust, move things to more chill and intimate like a night in. Dont rush the physical part but I do believe in going for a kiss on the first date. Even if you just get a peck on the lips. It just shows y… | /r/seduction | 23/07/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Is it rude to approach someone at a restaurantMen take what they want and make moves. Rejection is part of life. Get used to it and move on. See someone you like, go ask them out. | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | He's experienced. I'm not. help?Communicate this with him instead of us. Sex can usually be good with anyone. Imo you should watch porn and even non sexual instructional videos. Ive dated a few inexperienced women and I will admit, it was a bit of a turn off when they weren't good at certain things or didnt like certain things that 99.9% of other women liked. So I would talk with him, read, watch, educate and most of all practice practice practice. Also, a lot of inexperienced women dont like to initiate sex which was sort of … | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | whats the best texting advice sub on reddit?Less is more. Learn to leave them on unread and dont feel obligated to answer quickly. Women dont want to know what you're thinking or feeling until you are theirs. Trust me | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | 21 & virgin. I wanna get started but I'm overwhelmed. Where exactly should I start??A lot of women would very much enjoy spending time and getting physical with a virgin. A lot of them love it when a man cant control himself and urges and they just get off to them and get them off easily. Its a compliment and turn on for many women. Obviously you have to return the favor and slowly work on arousal control and lasting longer but the right women wont care about that as long as they get theirs and are having fun. Practice makes perfect, start getting used to rejection and not lett… | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else been cockblocked by another dude.Yea and mostly by married and taken friends. Why? Because when they come out with me as a wingman, the ladies come to us and talk us up but they all want my friends and not me. Ive been told that I'm the best looking and in the best shape compared to all my friends but all the women want high earning men that will be grown children to them that they will then grow to resent. So basically I cant even go out with my married friends anymore. All men are competition and women would rather steal marr… | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How do I have better/more sexual conversations with girls?Mis between a good honest and deep conversation with some direct flirting and sexual statements or playful things | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 02:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you stay interested in a girl after sex?Some women are just shy and bashful. Once they are comfortable and trust you, they open up more. Plus most people dont average hobbies these days. They just work and sit around. Why not start making a list of activities, events, restaurants, museums, etc you would want to go on dates with and take them out and then sleep with them. Sometimes going with the flow and not over thinking it much helps. Just enjoy having their company and someone to share an experience with or talk to. Ive found that … | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How do you stay interested in a girl after sex?I mean its sort of true though. Women want a leader. Men should go about doing what they want, how they want and when they want and the woman will follow. Its ok to take the woman's thoughts into account at times but most the time they want a man that takes what he wants makes the plans. I tend to take women on dates and to things I want to do. I found this works out way better vs be doing things I feel like they want. They see me get excited and energetic and having fun and that turns them on a… | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you stay interested in a girl after sex?Exactly | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Most Guys Have the Product. What They Lack Is the Pitch.Maybe but a lot of women will deal with that while being loyal for money and the lifestyle. Probably just selling themselves, having kids so they can then divorce 10 years later and get child support and half of everything the man earned and worked for. | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 03:06 PM |
| -4 | Most Guys Have the Product. What They Lack Is the Pitch.The product is money. All they care about is money. Earn 150k and you'll get women. End of story | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 11:36 AM |
| 1 | I find dating extremely exhausting and confusingSounds about right but try and make it fun and confusing. I feel like if you just make them genuinely have fun with you if you can get a date. I personally like to find things I want to do or restaurant i want to try. Talk less, listen and ask more. Practice and get used to asking women out. Tweak your dating profiles. Dont get me wrong, I'm single and get very frustrated, angry and exhausting but I usually try to just have fun which can be tough sometimes. | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?Say hello, I ask out and approach women all the time. This isnt a confidence thing. Yea its easy to get laid when you have low standards, an average american, dont care about vax status and just looking for hook up. Im personally sick of only hooking up with women that I don't really like or attracted to. Plus I dont work in some annoying crowded drunken loud college bar. I prefer higher end places with higher check averages and no late nights. Over working until 3am. Ive had women hit on me but… | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?Tons and they still dont regret it. Fools | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?Idk man it depends. I dont work in some college town bar and I dont like crowd drunken sports crowds or late night places. I prefer higher end, higher priced and slower service. Im over screaming for 7 hours straight and working until 3am | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?Nah man you dont get it. Everyone thinks bartenders just get laid but its not true for males. Women dont want to date a bartender they want to date the business men that in come with BMW key fobs. Ive even met female bartenders that told me they dont want to date bartenders because why would they when they can just wait for rich men to hit on them and ask them out while working. In fact I know multiple women that started serving and bartending on the side as a way to solely meet, date and marry … | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?Oh I'm sorry for your loss. Same thing for a lot of people. My grandmother got a rare cancer that killed her in 3 months. Got sick with a number of months after the shot. She told me she didnt feel right as soon as they gave it to her and on her death bed she blamed the shot and told me she felt better knowing I didnt get it. That women was never sick my entire life. Id man, I meet great women but if it's not one thing it's the other. They dont want kids or theyre vaxed or unhealthy or wont date… | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?Currently bartend with side hustles. I have some things in the works but wont play out for a while. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?They have very unrealistic standards and have no idea how statistics works. 80% of women believe they will all land a high value high earning man that will also be handsome and loyal. Just not going to happen. Only 13% of americans earn six figures. Time to wake up | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 06:19 AM |
| -3 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?No I have tons of skills, I'm just done being a slave and making pennies while the owners are getting rich. Sorry not sorry. If people paid well with healthy work/life schedules without needing some bs piece of paper that illiterate people can get now with a mountain of debt. Yea nah, def not skill, just self worth. Im. Not going to be a slave for some corp, sell my time for a pay check to pay check job. No thanks. Not worth my time. Plus soon the economy is going to really suffer with all these… | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 08:54 PM |
| -1 | 22m feeling emotionally connected but not sexually desired by 22F girlfriendMake more money, she'll like you more. Thats how dating works now | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?Only if you have a fancy job and make a lot of money. So no. I approach and ask women out all the time and I'm 38m. Two instances are brought to mind both of which essentially started asking me interview questions about my life and job. They both proceeded to laugh in my face and one called me a disappointment to all women everywhere while the other just laughed and walked away. Keep in mind, I am not a loser, not short, I'm in great shape, stable, employed, home owner with no roommates and has … | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Where do you go to approach women?Does matter the time or place. You see something you like. Go ask them out. | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Me (M25) worried about my new girlfriend’s (F25) posts?In my friend group of 20+ years, since high school.....so many of us have dated, had flings, drunkenly slept together, etc. Its sort of normal as long as theres trust and boundaries. Just cause you ask, doesnt mean shes going to tell you the truth. Thats why youre going to have to sit on this one way or another. If you cant either way, just end it now and move one. Mastering your emotions is very important in life. Think of it like this, instead if her hiding something, you're watching her for c… | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Me (M25) worried about my new girlfriend’s (F25) posts?Idk man, id sit on it and play it cool for a while. Let it play out. Brining it up, even calmly will could do a negative things. 1, she might take it as insecurity and get thr sick and start leaning towards her back up bf. We all know women have like 3 back ups but doesnt mean its that guy in the photo. 2, she starts getting better at hiding things from you. Like for example, her and this guy are thing. Bring it up and they get better at hiding it. Dont bring it up and they get sloppy and lazy. … | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What's your experience with local Spanish ladies?Nah i dont want to date someone last that cheater. Ozempic is a joke and doing more harm than good to these people. Its made from a venom and cause organ damage. America is the only country whose government recommends it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 01:05 PM |
| -1 | What's your experience with local Spanish ladies?Just a % of total population. Obese people are in the overweight category too. Its just too much for me. Theres just no excuses to be overweight and unhealthy these days. Im a single homeowner that works 2 jobs.......health is wealth. If you dont make time for your health now, you'll be forced to make time later. Plus you'll be spending a lot more money on yourself later | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 10:50 PM |
| 2 | What's your experience with local Spanish ladies?Like i said, get them before they are americanized. | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Mixed signals , confusing afShe wouldnt have mixed feelings if you made more money. Just saying | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 11:53 PM |
| -11 | How do you check if the friend that said "No" to a date is having a change of heart ?Idk about that. From my experience they ask interview like questions and then decide based on your career and income. | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to awful rejections?I forget and move on. Unless youre a rich man, get used to it. Im by no means ugly and I'm in great shape. Been single for 3 years. Home owner and stable, doesnt matter. | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 10:31 PM |
| 4 | What's your experience with local Spanish ladies?Its means American stats are as followed.....74% overweight, 43% obese, 3-5 meds, 48th in global life global life expectancy and #1 in SIDS. A round of applause (or laughs) people. So proud 👏 | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | I find myself being too direct or not direct enough, how do i find the sweet spot?Yea even if you just get a little peck on the lips. Making a move and being a little touchy or even verbally flirty/sexualizing will go a long way. Men take what they want and women like men that have the confidence to make moves. Dont get me wrong, I still get rejected and denied left and right. Rejection is more common than success so get used to it. Thomas Edison figured out 1,000 ways not to make a light bulb before figuring out the 1 way to make one | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 05:25 PM |
| 1 | I find myself being too direct or not direct enough, how do i find the sweet spot?It the women. Not you. Tbh I've found not talking and just going with the flow, making moves and waiting for them to bring up the "what are we" convo. I wont commit to covid vaxed, unhealthy or women that dont/cant have kids with me. So if I'm direct and up front, I'm getting no dates or action. Im not lying, just not spilling the beans unless asked. Even then I'll eat around the bush at times. Not my fault everyone's unhealthy and vaxed | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 05:23 PM |
| 3 | What's your experience with local Spanish ladies?Thats funny cause I've been with a decent amount of them and a few wanted to wife me up. They hate average americans. Trust me on this. They've told me | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 01:51 PM |
| 6 | What's your experience with local Spanish ladies?Better than american if you can get them before they become americanized | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 01:22 PM |
| 1 | 18M I feel worthless because I am unable to get Sex.Im very confident and easy going and have no problem taking charge, asking women out and making move. They just want rich men to do it all. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | 18M I feel worthless because I am unable to get Sex.Sort of. Going to the gym and working out is half the battle. Its the results and not letting yourself go too far before worrying about fitness | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 07:24 PM |
| 2 | 18M I feel worthless because I am unable to get Sex.Yea I agree with you. Im not obsessed. Im more into a healthy work/life balance and focusing on prioritizing your health and fit. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 07:21 PM |
| 2 | 18M I feel worthless because I am unable to get Sex.Yea tell that to most my self Employed sick figure earners and their sexy ass wives that have kids with them and see the vacations they go on. My one buddy has multiple motorcycles and just dropped 3k on dumbest carbon fiber parts just cause. Not to mention all the couples I see at work, tons of very below average men with gorgeous women. Sorry but I'm America, money wins | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 03:04 PM |
| 2 | 18M I feel worthless because I am unable to get Sex.Yea not unless you're making a shit ton of money and a home owner. The older women get the more they want men with money cause they learned what it takes to survive in this world. At 25 you should be trying to date 20 year olds before that organ in their brain clicks on and only wants money. I'm a 38m and really only go after younger women in their 20 while also being chased by those women too. Are they all keepers, hell no but you have to keep your endurance up some how. Dude needs to use his a… | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 02:33 PM |
| 3 | 18M I feel worthless because I am unable to get Sex.Haha welcome to being a male in 2025 buddy. Im 38m fit and handsome home owner but sadly not wealthy. So I'm in the same boat seeing how everyone is unhealthy and I will only commit and have kids with an unvaxed woman. My advice at your age, work and focus on yourself. Dont wait until youre 30. Start research diet, nutrition, lifting weights, cardio, start a Roth IRA and atart putting whatever you can in, start to come up with some business ideas and trial some stuff out. You'll fail more than s… | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 02:24 PM |
| -19 | What is the difference between American and European Women in terms of Seduction?Hey, not my fault no one prioritizes health, fitness and diet while falling for the biggest pharma scam ever in history. Eastern Europe usually has around a 50% covid vax rate for women. Also, not my fault women dont understand statistics and how only 13% of Americans earn six figures while so much women hold out for their high value man while offering next to nothing. Women have a better chance of finding a good man and then working together for financial growth but they dont want that, at leas… | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | This is craaaaazyPractice practice practice. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | How to remove the guilt of a failed approachPractice makes perfect. Im a good looking fit guy and I get turned down all the time. If you arent getting 99 no's for every yes.......youre doing something wrong. Master the art of accepting rejection. When a woman tells me she has a bf I will litetally ask her if she has any single friends that I might be interested in. Ive been invited to their friends outings and stuff to mingle and meet their friends. Also, when rejected, dont go around texting them again out of the blue. Just forget and mo… | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 08:11 PM |
| -24 | What is the difference between American and European Women in terms of Seduction?I cant stand most american women and im american. I desperately want to travel to central and eastern Europe to find myself a healthy and unvaxed traditional woman that isnt a gold digger. My only fear would be them leaving me for a rich american once they came back with me. Id probably want to in europe but idk | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 07:29 PM |
| -5 | Why don't I see guys with game AND looks?I dont see many down to earth women that are healthy and fit, eat right and didnt get the covid vaccine. Plus most of the ones I like are all gold diggers, unhealed trauma snd have horrible attitudes. So yea goes both ways. Maybe the men dont have game because youre not worth the effort. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Sex Advice NeededAnother woman | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 06:45 AM |
| 2 | When she asks about my workAll they hear is cha ching because you'll be making a lot of money. They dont care about your personality or what you say about your work | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | This is why you guys suck at pulling women, keeping them and getting them interested with you ..Id have to agree with you but my issue is more so women love my confidence and personality and all. Ive had loads of women ask me out, give me their numbers, etc. For me it comes down to them and their lifestyles. Yea I can get laid but is it with someone I really want to be sleeping with? Probably not. Also, im not into unhealthy women and I will sleep with covid vaxed women, I will not and could never date one and have kids with one. Too many unknowns. Also, most women just want men with money… | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Most Girls Thinks Im Gay & Friendly. Someone recommended me to use this to my advantage for SeductionAgreed. I dont drink much these days and hate going to bars and shit to try and meet women. Its like brunches and drinking are everyone's hobby. Im the weird one for being fit and healthy. Im not desperate for sex. I can laid any time I want. Im desperate for finding a compatible healthy, fit unvaxed woman to start a family with. Im not expecting or looking for a super model by any means and prefer chill down to earth women | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Sacrifice all fun just to get more girls? Last night got me thinking.I dont agree with this. My issue is I really only want to have fun with women. I dont want to go out with other men who are my competition. Nor do I want to go out drinking and wasting my money to meet women. I dont really drink. Now when I have or with a woman, I'm constantly taking her out and doing fun as shit but at my age 38m I really dont enjoy the bar scene and all my friends are married with kids and shit. If women wanna judge me based on their assumptions then thats on them and their lo… | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Most Girls Thinks Im Gay & Friendly. Someone recommended me to use this to my advantage for SeductionNah, you're partially right. There is something truthful about what you say but its tough to say. Being a woman's friend too much can lead to friend zone vs trying to make moves early to set your intentions. Yes my ex was my best friend but that took years of dating and living together. Most the time someone is without someone else when put in the friend zone and who knows how long that wait will be or if theyre ever single again. I dont find it very healthy to be friends with the opposite sex w… | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Most Girls Thinks Im Gay & Friendly. Someone recommended me to use this to my advantage for SeductionYou want to be flirty but friendly. Make them think you want them but dont make a move for a number of dates. Dont overly text. Be yourself. Women are used to men throwing themselves at them and shit. That and they love attention and being wanted. When you dont act like every other guy trying to get in their pants ASAP, it just triggers something in them. Like they need to be desired by everyone and get attention. When they dont get it, its like a little kid going harder to get their parents att… | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Why is this sh*t so hard?Idk man, I do a lot more on most first dates. It all depends though | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Most Girls Thinks Im Gay & Friendly. Someone recommended me to use this to my advantage for SeductionEver see the movie "I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry".........watch it and learn. Sort of the same shit i do with women but I just kind of lead them on and friend zone them and confuse them......next thing you know they're throwing themselves at me. | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Why is this sh*t so hard?Oh they love that and being called good girl when they are doing things right or enjoying themselves. They want to.be desired like that by men they desire. | /r/seduction | 05/07/25 01:00 PM |
| 12 | Why is this sh*t so hard?Direct only works so often. Sometimes being direct but between the lines is better. Like which sounds better "you wanna get out of here and go back to my place" or "you wanna hook up"? Also nice guys finish last. You have to be nice to get the date but you need to take charge, grab the girl and kiss her. Make moves bro. They want a guy with a plan and takes what he wants. Dont ask just make moves. Move up the bases until she stops you. | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 02:47 PM |
| 2 | I am stuck..... :(Plant seeds bro. You're rushing the process. Sometimes it takes weeks or a month of work to get women. If theyres dancing with you and all thats good. Take a break and buy them a drink, talk to them and get there numbers. Text and talk to them, ask them to meet up for a date but make it seem like "hey, I'm about to head out to (activity), you should come" or just try and get together in public again. Let them see you out od the club and sober. After a few outings while progressing physically lik… | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How to stop seeing girls as the be all and end all above everything else?Start doing yoga and not half assed. Go do a class and work at it like you would the gym. Learn to breathe and control breath. You will also loosen up your pelvic floor muscles. Worry more about colors like red instead of green. Think pomegranate juice, beet, berries, red wine, dark chocolate (cacao, not cocoa), and more. Low antioxidant diets can cause a dysfunction with the nitric oxide system in the blood vessels. One thing that sucks about being active and healthy and in shape.....healthy se… | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 02:30 AM |
| -3 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?Id rather stay single than settle and potentially have mutant children riddles with disease and illness or a lack of critical thinking. Like I said, not my fault only 20% of americans care about their health and fitness. Maybe 80% of people need to change their lifestyle instead of the 20% living by example for the rest. No thanks. Im only interested in unvaxed healthy women. They dont even have to be super pretty and all. I dont even like that glamor look. Its just sad that so many people got t… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 07:07 PM |
| -4 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?I can not and will not settle for some vaxed up u healthy average American women. No thanks. Im not average so therefore I do not want average. Its not my fault no one prioritizes health and fitness. I'm really only interested in younger women as they are healthier and have less years of baggage and trauma. Id rather someone my age but they arent healthy and wont have kids with me. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?I've tried using reddit for dating but I feel like it comes down to the same things as online or in-person dating. Looks usually come first and then lifestyle and compatibility. Ive only found 1 women in a few years that I found attractive that also liked me but we lived 8 hour from each other. Im not into long distance. So then it comes down to location. Idk, I'm not your typical 37 y/o american man so that means I'm not settling for some average american woman. I think there's a shot you could… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 02:48 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter