Traditional_Tea7340 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Post-Divorce Aftermath How have you been managing custody? Are the kids around this guy now? I absolutely wouldn't want my kids around someone who is violent and abusive. You need to process the end of your marriage yourself, but you also need to advocate for your kids now, even at the potential cost of undermining an amicable relationship with your ex. You're not a passive observer here -- there are options available to you, even if they're unpleasant. For me, part of how I pushed back at some of the things that my S…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/26 02:49 PM
1	Pension buyout? Had my first mediation session last week, and my STBXW has a pension. I was always planning on taking the buyout, and the mediator said that's what the vast majority of people in this position do. The one thing to be sure about is that you understand the tax implications of the decision. If your house has appreciated significantly and you're not planning on buying something else in the immediate term, you might end up with taxable capital gains, in which case it would be reasonable to ask that t…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/26 05:46 PM