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Hi PPD, just posting to get some more advice on my current dilemma (had posted here in the past and got some good feedback - looking to get a little more, thanks to everyone who responded already). I'm interested to hear what the different schools of thought have to say on here. I'm 23 years old (having just turned 23 last week) and live in Canada. I (a heterosexual male) have never had any romantic relationships or sex with girls/women, and this has really begun to weigh on me lately. I feel ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:36 PM
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Agree, gotta keep at it and try harder socially. You can't help be I secure when you're getting swiped left on by bottom of the barrel girls (below average looks, no personality observable, no career or hobbies), who I don't know they're expecting to find (like our lives will not be comparable in 10 years FFS - how do you think you'll do better?!). Agree that you can't let that insecurity show though - looks pathetic to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:46 PM
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Interesting - good luck with your research. Before I die, I'm gonna wrote a book on this - comparative study between Japan/SK and the West, mark my words. Decline of socialisation and dating is a big deal and a problem our generation has to remedy. Turning to myself personally, I can't really say. Maybe I do lack a certain type of charisma, maybe I should be more active, maybe I should be expanding my social network further. Hard to say. Maybe dating has always been somewhat shitty for dudes in …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:34 PM
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Hi PPD, just posting to get some more advice on my current dilemma (had posted here in the past and got some good feedback - looking to get a little more). I'm interested to hear what the different schools of thought have to say on here. I'm 23 years old (having just turned 23 last week) and live in Canada. I (a heterosexual male) have never had any romantic relationships or sex with girls/women, and this has really begun to weigh on me lately. I feel abnormal and that I've really failed in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:00 AM
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Will do so, slowly and steadily dropping hints seems like the way to go. As for what type of woman, I really don't know - haven't had the experience to narrow it down, and I don't exactly have many choices to 'narrow down' from, which makes me think that I should just take whatever I can get really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:56 PM
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Maybe - will say something like that if I get the chance, it would have to be the right kinda conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:17 PM
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Thanks - will give this some thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:07 PM
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At this point I just need a partner, not a perfect partner. I'm not in a position to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:04 PM
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I could ask those around me, so will think on that. Young? Don't agree with that - I'm definitely behind the crowd here, and hate it. Thanks for your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:40 PM
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Thanks for the input, seems like one of the only things I can really do tbh. Does feel like leaving it all to chance (what're the odds a girl who might like me just happens to attend the same event/club?). Maybe that's just my personality speaking though, I hate leaving things to chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:36 PM
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Noted. Will look into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:27 PM
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Thanks - how would you go about approaching friends though? Slowly? Not sure about colleagues though, that's playing with fire (HR).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:26 PM
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Agree - that's a good idea. How do you learn charisma though? I've always believed it was natural or from childhood, but how would I learn it as a young adult? Online courses? Toastmasters?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:22 PM
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I've been doing all this for a while now, and it's not really helped. Will continue on this path, because there's no alternative, but I have started to become quite negative about my prospects to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:20 PM
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Noted, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:15 PM
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Get that, but what's the threshold? What would you do improve if you were in my shoes, given what I've told you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:14 PM
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'Lawyer bars' lol, can't imagine anything less sexy. I know it's a trope that women chase guys with high paying jobs and status, but I've never found this to be the case, so far at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:47 PM
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Hi PPD, just posting to get some advice on my current dilemma. I'm interested to hear what the different schools of thought have to say on here. I'm 23 years old (having just turned 23 last week) and live in Canada. I (a heterosexual male) have never had any romantic relationships or sex with girls/women, and this has really begun to weigh on me lately. I feel abnormal and that I've really failed in this aspect of life. It has severely impacted my self-esteem and stands as my greatest source of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:11 PM
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