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Question For WomenTrainingApple94/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:50 PM
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My epiphany was when I entered a poly relationship knowing I couldn't do it but also knowing I'm not good enough to be wanted monogamously and left a day later crying to the point of gagging and dry heaving and my realization was that I'm fundamentally unlovable and not good enough for any kind of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:59 PM

Why do posts on this sub make everything with men and women seem so black and white? I'm a male born non binary and bisexual so reading all these really strict takes kinda makes me feel like I'm on another planet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:58 PM
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Neither of them have health issues that would affect the sexual drive as for as I know. I've known him my entire life and he's hardly ever expressed much interest in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:53 PM
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You're right. Maybe you're onto something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:50 AM
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"Why can't you be happy whether alone or coupled?" Because preferring to be alone is what proper modern people who are strong do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:37 AM
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Hitler also liked dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:24 AM
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My best friend has almost zero interest in sex and he is engaged to another zero libido lady and they're pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:21 AM
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Yea basically how I feel about myself. I don't bother trying to date anymore because I know I'm not good enough for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:18 AM
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So men are still shit then I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:48 PM
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To most women getting into a relationship just for a few months (not even a whole year) isn't a relationship at all. For most men getting a one night stand and perhaps a single female interaction is like striking gold. Ouch. This one hit close to home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:42 PM
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At least you don't hate me as much as it feels like I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:34 PM
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Christ I wish things were actually that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:19 AM
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Ok at least theres that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:19 AM
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Me being pathetic is only one of my many flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:00 AM
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I'm extremely depressed and feel a lot of pain and anger from being alone for so long, but I don't hate women, or men, for not reciprocating. I understand that I'm not desirable and I shouldn't be resentful about it. Idk would you say I'm entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:37 AM
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Happy for you and him. I've been told a lot and I do believe I'm quite attractive in an androgynous boyish way. My problem is I'm rotten on the inside and my insecurity amongst other character failings makes everyone repulsed by me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:13 AM
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I know some pebbles just want to be acknowledged anyway at all - and if they aren't shiny enough or fun enough they are least want to be acknowledged in any shape or form Shit I feel called out.. welp. If it hurts I guess it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:11 AM
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Oh ok. I guess I'm trying to do that now by watching stupid youtube videos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:06 AM
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I found something referred to as TIPP. Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:49 AM
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I don't want to frustrate you by cycling in this loop of self pity. I feel so sick to my stomach and I just want the constant sadness and emptiness to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:35 AM
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Never thought of that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:29 AM
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Man this is as black pill doomer as it gets...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:08 AM
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Does it at least make you feel big?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:07 AM
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Honestly I think a lot of the guys who think they’re low value aren’t low value imo. Men seem to rate themselves very harshly and I think there’s a self esteem and mental health crisis in modern men. Wait really? The overwhelming majority of women think we think of ourselves too highly. Where is this coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:59 AM
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"you deserve to feel this way" is basically 99% of the advice I get
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:38 AM
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what would you do? Don't know. I'd probably just let them go off about themselves I guess. My mom has done it and not much makes you feel more helpless than trying to console your crying mother who feels all the same insecurities as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:37 AM
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Well I guess at least you know I have no value then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:26 AM
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What constitutes a "low value" person? Someone who no one wants, like me. Because everyone has value. You are a human being therefore you do have some kind of inherent value. Some have more value than others. And that doesn't mean I'm at all lovable or even likable. We aren't some market value commodity we are people with different tastes and preferences and things we value. You'd think yet none of that shit seems to matter. I prefer more androgynous men maybe who are very expressive with their …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:23 AM
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This negates it by victim-blaming, it's essentially "well if you weren't so miserable" to a depressed person. No shit they'd be happier if they were happier, but clearly there are medical or social reasons why they can't just "be" happy, or even necessarily try to pretend to be happy. If, circumstantially, life really is shitting on them and they're struggling immensely with stress, loneliness, or lack of success in other fundamental areas of health and human fulfilment, of course they're going …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:04 AM
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I guess you can always say it's up to me to stop the vicious cycle but idk.. tbh I don't think I even want anyone after what Ive been through.. the thought makes me sick to my fucking ass
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:58 AM
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We should still talk to them. However I'm not going to lie. These people frustrate me some times. They think so negatively about everything and anything. I get they feel doomed and lost. But when you're trying to have a genuine conversation with them and trying to understand, but everything is just met with self-loathing, it really makes you want to throw your hands up in the air. Why come to a debate sub when it's clear you don't want to debate? So I'm a waste of everyone's time. I'm sorry if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:52 AM
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Yet it means jack shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:27 AM
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Well what the fuck you want me to say? I can't stop fucking crying thinking if this person and I fucking hurt. It hurts so fucking bad and I'm so fucking alone thinking of them knowing they don't miss me and they couldn't give any less of a fuck about me. Seriously what the fuck I'm just trying to live my life but I'm never fucking good enough for anyone, especially the people who I have strong feelings for. They deserve better than me and it hurts so fucking bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:26 AM
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That's actually a good way to put it. They don't hate me as long as a fade into the background
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:18 AM
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I make my bed, clean my room, shower, shave, wear deodorant, brush my teeth. I even paint my nails, exfoliate, and wear make up. Still not good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:17 AM
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I mean I'm barely a human being at this point let's be real. But yea catch 22, everyone hates me and avoids me thus I hate myself, which makes everyone hate me more, which makes me hate myself more. I'm just so fucked and far gone I'll never dig myself out if this hole and I'll never "love myself" enough for someone to give a fuck about me. By the time I love myself enough I'll be elderly so fuck it. I'm just not fucking good enough. Everyone around me gets love and companionship, often times mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:16 AM
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Yea I guess it's best that no one speaks to me ever, just like 99% of my life when I open my mouth or type a word it's just shit so it's best I never speak or communicate with people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:10 AM
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You're right. I already know I'm not worth anything. I don't expect anyone to say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:09 AM
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They're not ignorant, that's just how life is. At least they're honest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:07 AM
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Make your jokes about how I'm this old and this pathetic. Go ahead. It's either social media or no social what so ever. No one speaks to me. I have to force people to speak to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:05 AM
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Yea I know there's always some way you can spin it. Fuck my life I have to fucking look at the person I like so much and not cry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:57 AM
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Your first two comments were insisting that no one gives a fuck and no one should give a fuck and I'm a piece of shit crybaby for talking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:55 AM
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No one wants someone like me. Yea abundantly clear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:29 AM
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Yet I can feel the resentment with every word.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:24 AM
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I don't expect empathy. I've accepted that by default all women see me as this potential piece of shit rapist until proven otherwise. woe is me" attitude also doesn't really help your situation. Well no one gives a fuck about me. I have no one to talk to and it's going to be forever until the system decides I'm worthy of therapy. All I do is bottle everything up because I know no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:19 AM
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You're clearly extremely agitated that I posted this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:11 AM
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"no one will love you if you don't love yourself" That good old carrot on a stick. No, I know my place. I'd rather be alone anyway I guess. And I'd say I'm actually pretty good looking, my personality is just such utter low value garbage plus my baggage makes me very unstable. I know I know, "just change! It's that easy you stupid fuck". Yea yea constantly change and adjust. It's always the fucking same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:06 AM
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Why would we not? Because as u/-shes-a-carnival put it, we're not puppies. We're dangerous threats to your existence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:57 PM
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Why are you so mad that I posted this? I'm not implying I'm a bigger victim of life than you if that's what's upsetting you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:49 PM
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Yea this is exactly why I bottle everything up until I explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:48 PM
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Ok well thanks for making it extremely clear you don't give a fuck about people like me. I already got that message loud and clear years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:41 PM
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It's a common way women rate men. I am objectively low value so I know my place. I'm just curious if women can handle being in the same room as something like me, even knowing I have no intentions on hitting on her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:40 PM
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to the right person you are valuable. Yea no. That's not how that works. I do hope they find someone who is Isn't that harmful to the women though? She's the one who has to be trapped with a lvm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:38 PM
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So I guess there's low value then there's shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:32 PM
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I hope everyone finds companionship and love🤷‍♀️. Why would you ever hope that? Try thinking in terms of well matched and poorly matched instead of low value and high value 9.5/10 it's a matter of low vs high value, especially in heterosexual relationships. Most people are basically the same and everyone is easily replaceable so its largely to do with that. o you think that the people you don’t want should resent you for that? No I don't feel resentment for them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:32 PM
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Just asking if we're still human beings. That's all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:30 PM
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