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| – | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.Got a bad grade, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Did her baby-daddy buy her candy too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hate" ... some women look for more egalitarian partners than their local men." This. I've been dating a woman originally from Malaysia for about 7 months now and through her have gotten to know a number of asian women married to western men. This is the biggest thing I hear from them as to attraction. Oh, and western guys are tall. Most of them say they like that too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 01:16 AM |
| 1 | What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite gender15 REASONS WHY A WOMAN WITH A HIGH BODY COUNT IS A DANGEROUS CHOICE FOR MARRIAGE Listen up, son.This isn’t about political correctness. It’s about reality. A woman’s past matters. You’re not here to marry headaches, emotional baggage, and future liabilities. You’re building a legacy — and you need to be ruthless about who qualifies to stand beside you.Let’s get into it: SHE WILL ALWAYS COMPARE YOU TO OTHER MEN - No matter how good you are, she’ll stack you up against ghosts from her past. And th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”I tend to steer away from women with political opinions. I have enough for two 😁 ... and I prefer she adopt mine - as they generally end up doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”I'm fine with being the "funny, fun, charismatic" one. I don't want my girl to outshine me anyway 😁 She just has to look good, treat me right, and be a good "first mate" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpDon't cast your pearls before swine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 12:45 AM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manWomen should be choosier than many of them are about who they sleep with.... and men too. From what I've heard of some other men's experiences, I do pretty well in the dating "market" it seems. But I certainly don't bump uglies with just any sloot that will have me .... and have no interest in sleeping with sloots who do. And that's all I got to say about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The real reason why some women hate passport bros and whoremaxxersI see a big problem in this discussion with the fact some people are talking about men who are just "sex tourists" while others are talking about men seeking a wife. These are not the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 01:58 AM |
| 2 | What is the final verdict on due process in college campuses?Made aware by who and based upon what evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 01:13 AM |
| 2 | What is the final verdict on due process in college campuses?Educational institutions should NOT be conducting sexual assault investigations at all. All allegations of sexual assault should be immediately referred to law enforcement authorities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Men's love is highly conditionalBJ's. OP forgot BJ's on their list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 01:07 PM |
| – | Men had a harder time finding a mate before feminism.The red pill claims feminism is to blame for men not being able to get a girlfriend From what I've read about red pill, I don't think it quite says that exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 12:32 PM |
| 2 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?My daughter's wedding cost a bit over 5k and it was beautiful. We didn't invite a whole gaggle of unnecessary people though .... just a few select family and friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?Every conservative women I've met in real life is, at minimum, 40 Go to any Southern Baptist church (to name just one denomination) .... you'll find scads of them. There are "conservative" churches in every town & city in the USA and most of them are pretty darn full every Sunday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?This is not rocket surgery. The simple answer to the OP question is that men are hardwired by evolution to inseminate many women as possible. Women, otoh, are hardwired to be choosy as to which man they are inseminated by. One can add layers of complexity (i.e social conditioning) to that answer .... but at the heart of things that's all it really is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 08:30 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.Not gettin' any, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 08:07 AM |
| 3 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happySee very popular movie "Pretty Woman" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 09:35 PM |
| 17 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyI'm older (64) and my girlfriend (62) of 8 months now is Malaysian but has lived in the US and Europe for over 30 years - so, I've had the opportunity through her social network to meet quite a few married couples wherein the man is a Westerner (Americans, Canadians, & vari9us Europeans) and the woman Malaysian, Indonesian, or Thai. Some of these marriages they met through the natural course of the husband working abroad, and some are what people might call "passport bros" What I have learned th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 09:21 PM |
| 11 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyWomen have been encouraged to marry "up" for millenia in pretty much all cultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy"There are actually measures in place where women can claim abuse and get out of these marriages easily, and can even benefit by continuing their lawful resident status in the country" Marriage based green cards are conditional for the first two years. This is a marriage fraud prevention measure. After the two year period the foreign spouse may divorce and remain in the US for as long as they choose and later apply for citizenship if they choose. In cases of domestic abuse within the conditional… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Despite claiming that women have better friendships women are as lonly as menMay I suggest you are an outlier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Despite claiming that women have better friendships women are as lonly as menWho is "we"? You and your two fat girlfriends? 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Despite claiming that women have better friendships women are as lonly as menFlexibility, agility, and balance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Despite claiming that women have better friendships women are as lonly as men"Romantic loneliness". ? Sorry, that phrase does not even compute with me. "Romance" is something a man does to fulfill women's emotional needs. I don't think it's something most men need, but it can be enjoyable to engage in with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:38 AM |
| 0 | Despite claiming that women have better friendships women are as lonly as menI never feel "lonely". If anything I enjoy the rare opportunities I have to spend a bit of extended time by myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:34 AM |
| -1 | Despite claiming that women have better friendships women are as lonly as men"Friend circles" huh? Sounds like a term some woman made up. I don't think a lot of men are built that way. Many of us do not really need or want a gaggle of so-called "friends " I have my brother and one true lifelong friend I grew up with. (I'm 64). That's all I need or want. All other men are just acquaintances, business/work colleagues, neighbors, or sports/activity partners. I don't really consider them "friends" nor do I care to socialize with them outside of the particular role they fill … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:08 AM |
| 5 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultThus exposing the popular myth women have some kind of unique lie detecting ability. Many women are quite easy to fool when they happen upon a guy they actually desire for whatever reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 04:24 AM |
| 1 | The Shannon Sharpe situation proves that theres a significant proportion of older man-young woman relationships that are kept out of public eye and we don't know aboutThere are many different forms of prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysLots and lots of women voted for Trump. Mostly Christians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 11:18 AM |
| – | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.So .... AMALT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution)."That's why modern men are so bitter and hateful towards women imo, ...." So long as I'm pleasant to be with, not abusive, and give her intense orgasms often ... I've found most women don't care how much I make or what else I contribute to the relationship. I'm not one bit "bitter and hateful towards women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | What makes a guy boring?I quit drinking years ago. But I do enjoy my cannabis on the regular. I also enjoy a good craft beer or Guinness Stout on occasion, but just one. I don't need alcohol (or cannabis) to be social or have a good time. I would probably shy away from a woman who drinks to get drunk. Don't need that kind of "fun" in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menDesire is in the eye of the beholder. Some men need to change their expectations. If they can't find some beauty/desire with their looks-match, this is their individual psychological problem, .... not something wrong with society overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | It's very rare for a man to be with a woman who isn't primarily interested in getting money, resources or free food from him.And vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:22 AM |
| 1 | It's very rare for a man to be with a woman who isn't primarily interested in getting money, resources or free food from him.My gf probably would if I would let her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:21 AM |
| 3 | It's very rare for a man to be with a woman who isn't primarily interested in getting money, resources or free food from him.From what I've read about this Red Pill stuff, OP is .... not. I didn't see "whining" anywhere in the RP handbook. 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:20 AM |
| 1 | It's very rare for a man to be with a woman who isn't primarily interested in getting money, resources or free food from him.My gf is 62 and I'm 65. We share expenses mostly 50/50 at my insistence. (she has a bit more income and wealth than I. Neither of us struggle financially though) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:19 AM |
| – | Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thoughtHmmmm? Okay, then. Well, I don't know about all that but .... judging from the wild ride I had last night my gf is pretty attracted to me. Got an unsolicited wake-up bj to boot :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:11 AM |
| 4 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menI honestly do not know what that is that you posted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:46 PM |
| -2 | What makes a guy boring?I was referring to your comment about having traveled extensively in your 20's as you said ... how is it you did that but can't afford to now? I'm 64, retired with a net worth in the several mils, and have barely traveled outside the USA. No particular reason. Just haven't. I have traveled extensively within the USA and have engaged in a lot of outdoor hobbies/sports over the years - some pretty adventurous. My gf on the other hand, originally from Malaysia, has traveled pretty much the entire w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:38 PM |
| -3 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menOr ... they could find an undesirable woman and get to bumping their uglies regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What makes a guy boring?Then you are rich first world person compared to most of the rest of the world population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:29 PM |
| 3 | What makes a guy boring?No drinking? You find people who don't drink to be boring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Passport bros don’t take advantage of third world women, it’s actually the other way aroundDo you not think the prospective lifestyle a US service member can offer a woman from a 2nd or 3rd world country is a legitimate factor in the attraction of those relationships? "... you meet someone organically" Organically? You mean they met at the grocery store or while attending the same gardening club? How do you think US service members and foreign women "organically" meet? Most people here in the USA meet on dating sites nowadays (statistically proven) Is that "organic"? "not being able t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Passport bros don’t take advantage of third world women, it’s actually the other way around"Then I’m sure there are some loving and respectful international relationships. But the question is… how many really, and is it worth the risk on both sides?" I've seen many, many, of them in the US military. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Yes, women should “wait at the finish line” for a good man.Try a "/s" at the end of your post next time. /s is internet for sarcasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Yes, women should “wait at the finish line” for a good man."Women COULD stay with a guy who constantly has to fumble in life to learn OR ..." But ... what if that guy who constantly fumbles in his life happens to be the same guy that really turns her headlights on bright in the bedroom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | The future is polygamous - rich men have harems and male slavesAmericans idolize the rich and famous and that's not a new thing.That's why we're willing to be ruled by them and will continue to be. Every American child grows up being taught they just might, juuuust might, be rich and/or famous too someday and that should be the penultimate goal/measure of a persons life. And they believe that well into adulthood. It's always why (mostly poor) Americans buy lots of lottery tickets. It's a big part of the attraction of Trump to some (many?) people. The closes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 01:24 AM |
| 8 | Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losersCharles Manson got a lot of tail, so I have heard. Social proof? He hung out at the Beach Boys beach house all the time. In the 1960's one couldn't get much more "social proof" than that. The ultimate bad boy. He didn't even have to murder anyone ... he got his harem to do it for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man."Apparently the only reason men like more women is because of their bodies." Well, there's something to that. I'd much rather go fishing or out riding motorsickles with my guy buddies than my girlfriend .... but I don't want to sleep with them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Do you experience attraction to men on a binary "attractive, not attractive" way or on a spectrum? "He's a 6 but the other guy is an 8"So ... you don't go on dates with "5's". What's number does the guy have to be at minimum? Is that number higher, lower, or the same as yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).What "communities online" are you speaking of? I don't know of any | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:15 PM |
| – | First LoveDon't know if this answers the OP question, but ..... Widower here after 33 years happily married and dating a widow who was happily married for 30 years. We are totally "in love" - like a couple of teenagers (and get it on most nights to boot! ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 12:33 PM |
| 2 | No women should be excited to get married in 2025So? Maybe best you don't ever get married if you think AMALT (all marriages are like that) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 12:24 PM |
| 11 | Men who demand traditionalism and submissiveness from women without being competent himself will never deserve it and should not get it.Though they sometimes go hand in hand, fulfilling the role of a "traditional wife" and being "submissive" are not the same thing. My late wife was a "traditional wife" for many years (although she worked some on and off during our marriage.) Neither she nor I would characterize her as having been "submissive" to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 05:47 PM |
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