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| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeAnd that's the crux. Trust. Ether its a partner you can trust, or they aren't. Heres the truth. Only experience with that person will tell you. Watch them, their behaviors, how they treat and act around others. Do they CONSISTENTLY make good or bad decisions? Do they listen to you or disregard you? I never disregard a partner. They may not agree with a decision, and that's ok, if they are able to communicate why? and it makes analytical sense, im happy to listen and change my mind if it makes se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/26 12:21 AM |
| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeSorry, power couples are a falicy. Someone always takes the back seat. There is always compromises to be taken. My wife was a lawyer, I went into medicine. People called us the power couple but no, I had the final say so in family issues. I always listened and respected her views but ultimately I made the final decisions. Im not talking about a dollar amount but the expectation. Your example is on point. You gave him your concern but he didn't offer to compromise but compensate to get you on his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 11:43 PM |
| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeThere is a difference. Big difference between being well treated and wanting a princess lifestyle. This right here " I have found that more successful men are interested in me giving up my career to focus on them. Not in this lifetime." is what I precisely mean. Those "ambitious " men most think they want, want exactly what you describe. They want someone on their time table, their timeline and to focus on them, the household and family. This is simple. Either you offer what they want and expect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 10:34 PM |
| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeAnd there it is. You may have to learn to compromise or stay single then. I have met many women who want "ambitious" men, until they get them and hate they have strong and concrete expectations for a spouse. It basically boils down to them wanting a lifestyle free and clear but not wanting to provide anything to the partner. Like I said, double standards. One of the biggest reasons why I gave up dating in favor of casual dates. Fully retired 4 years ago very comfortable after years of hard work.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 10:07 PM |
| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeThen don't be alone. I am quite sure you can find a house husband or fwb that would love that situation. There are tons of r4r forums, where you can advertise such an agreement. Worst case, hire a live in servant. I know many colleagues who have full time staff. Personally, I call them lazy but its their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 09:35 PM |
| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeI know the cons, very well. I simply added the financial cons that most who argue never take into consideration. I have zero issue providing for a family but if it gets taken to a employer/ employee dynamic, that changes things. If that partner is looking for a "paycheck ", awesome all for it but they will also inherit the cons, taxes, personal expenses, percentage of house expenses, insurance, phone the whole gambit. At that point, I wouldn't consider us a family or me a provider spouse. Im the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 09:24 PM |
| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeI don't? 4 kids all under 8, lost wife to auto accident. Solo dad trying to finish double masters, working full time to pay the bills, put them all through college by myself, cleaned, cooked, shopped, house and car maintenance i did EVERYTHING. Never missed am event, helped them study while studying myself to nearly 3 am most nights. I don't know? You have no clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 09:00 PM |
| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeThanks you side stepped again. Basically all the benefits, none of the cons. So double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 04:46 PM |
| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeThat's not what I asked. A provider does provide, house, food, clothes, car, gas etc. So if they also need to pay a salary, why not consider what all working adults deal with, taxes, premiums, and include clothing, gas, insurance etc. At that point, the provider is an employer and should consider the costs of providing. IE cost overhead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 03:52 PM |
| – | If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of incomeOk, let's dig, should the one paying also remove, taxes, insurance premiums, percentage for costs like their hair, food, electric, car maintenance, gas, lawn maintenance, you know average daily costs of living? Or how about if roles are reversed and its a house husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Hypothetical choice (I think these are fun!)A, no question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 03:42 PM |
| 28 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolIt takes more strength to walk away than stand still in a cess pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsFully agree, i think all men and i mean all should get vasectomy done at 15 permanently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Women don't owe men kinky sex actsOh I have, easily. I get all the hate because x,y,z. Its common sense, if your not a match you dont try to force a relationship. Neither of us deserves it but IM the asshole because im honest about it and SHE still wants a relationship. Makes no damn sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What would you do if your partner cheated on you? Would you immediately leave them, or would you give them a chance for forgiveness? Do you think there's a gender-based difference in how people react to being cheated on?Nope, one and done, no exceptions. By the next morning, shes out, her belongings are in storage, locks changed, all contact sources blocked and lawyers already consulted. Again no explanations, reasons or discussions will change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 03:16 AM |
| -2 | Women don't owe men kinky sex actsAnd men do not owe women committed relationships with someone who isn't obviously sexually compatible. What's your point? Why is he expected to adjust to her sexual expectations at the cost of his sexual desires in favor of hers? Why should he sacrifice them because she made horrible choices in her past? Agree women aren't hookers in a relationship and men aren't walking atm nor emotional support therapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 03:07 AM |
| – | Rules for real sigma menHeres am idea, live your life, let others live theirs and go toss such rule lists in the shredder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.Well the issue isn't fringe any more. More and more guys are just wanting to step away from relationships and yes even dating. I do not seeing it reversing any time soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages?Govts have already created an entire industry of tax payer slaves. What we have is an illusion of perceived freedom. We have no real freedoms and its a joke to think you do. The only real freedom is to stay completely off the grid. Even that is damn near impossible now by design. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages?Except, by the time they perfect artificial wombs, the way AI advancements have pushed us closer to have true AI companions, those companions maybe advanced enough to do child care. If that's the case, Men would see many reasons to invest in one, have children and have none of the "cons" associated with marriage and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:26 AM |
| 0 | Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages?I wouldn't count on that. With the way governments are now giving the lower birthrate attention, which for the first time in history, low enough to be considered a threat to being able to replace the aging population, they might use that technology and offer it to men willing to be father's. Sex robots themselves, especially with the AI advancements, is fast being an option even "regular " guys can consider investing in. It wouldn't be a far stretch to see them have those additions to the next g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages?Nope, why, Because guys aren't and have not been having an easy time of even being accepted into college, which leaves little choice for them to have decent living wage. During the 80's, if we didn't get a sports scholarship, our choice was tech school, hvac, plumbing, work in a plant, construction etc, military or similar "hard" jobs. Our options for college funding was extremely limited when compared to what women had available. Its gotten even worse since then. In areas that were very rural, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:01 AM |
| 2 | “OF detected, opinion rejected” and why this pov is both incorrect and toxicIm not turning to nothing, it is what it is. You can address it all you want, but the fact is, SW'S opinions on any other subject than the sexual contract isn't valued. I cant speak for the rest of the world, but I know and have known both OF creators, even couple of well known 80's porn stars and met more through them and honestly, after watching nearly all over them chase one bad decision after another, destroying their health, relationships, even lavish spending until the money dries up shows… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 02:29 PM |
| 3 | “OF detected, opinion rejected” and why this pov is both incorrect and toxicLook, you can split hairs all you want but as with any choice, there are pros and cons. Throw around all the liberal buzzwords you can find. It will never change that fact. If the choice is being a SW, on any level, then one of the cons is that their opinion on almost any other subject will be dismissed. In no society I can remember ever reading about were SW'ers given any relatable status in the society. Even in those that accept the profession as a necessity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateBeing provided for isnt a right. Its a privilege that is earned. Try dating in Sweden, Netherlands or Germany, dates are expected to be 50/50 because of you guessed it equality. Try dating in areas like Italy, Ukraine or Russia, men pay BUT normal traditional gender roles are the normal. Even France it is a mix. It is fast no longer are expected to fulfill gender roles which includes paying for dates or even asking for dates. Just as its no longer expected women to fulfill and follow gender role… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateCrock of BS. Why? Because its YOUR choice to play dress up. Most men would prefer to see the authentic self on a first date. Not the painted up version. A first date is to establish if there is an attraction and compatibility. No more, no less. We owe you nothing, just as you owe us nothing. You quote feminism, well that means being treated equally. Equal means 50/50. You jump into kids etc and how does that even equate to a first date? You want to hold men to their expected roles? Awesome! Prep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:45 PM |
| – | There is no proof that men struggle more in dating than womenWhat? Any woman can walk outside and get tons of offers. She may not want to date them but the offers are there. Men walk outside and it may take 100+ rejections before finding ONE that wants to date. Nearly every measurable metric has shown this. By your own responses, you've had options, you just dont want those options. Big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:33 PM |
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