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4

Idk man, being a human being is too advanced of a skill set for this subreddit.
/r/seduction24/01/26 06:08 PM
0

Banging 18 to 21 year olds when you’re over 30 is pathetic.
/r/seduction19/01/26 08:41 PM
1

That’s like college freshman maybe sophomores? They’re the most finicky people on the planet. You’re better off just hitting on them in college, assuming you’re the same age as them.
/r/seduction04/01/26 07:19 PM
237

Dawg improve your life, get friends, start a dating app, go out to bars or public events or something. It’s a new year, maybe try something new, something different that will get you to meet more girls.
/r/seduction04/01/26 06:48 PM
-2

No they are not lmao.
/r/seduction29/12/25 01:39 AM
1

Face your fears, try new things. Get rejected, broken up, chase experience, taking action while being patient with how you feel takes time, and will require you to step out of your comfort zone n the meantime.
/r/seduction29/12/25 01:31 AM
-3

Fine, I’m sure some do, but as someone who just graduated college girls mostly prefer…you guessed it, guys at their school. Some might date a28 to 32 year old but after like 35 that’s just a fantasy unless you have money and still look young.
/r/seduction16/12/25 01:41 AM
-9

No they don’t.
/r/seduction16/12/25 01:35 AM
1

Move on and she’s right bro, 19 is too young for 30. In the US you could get arrested for buying a 19 year old alcohol. Thats how young she is lmao.
/r/seduction12/12/25 05:59 PM
1

The fact that you entertained a 17 year old at 32 🤢
/r/seduction12/12/25 05:55 PM
2

I’d say she is seeing another guy. Looks like she’s more interested in them than you, you’re prolly out bruh.
/r/seduction08/12/25 07:38 PM
2

I would only do one gym photo, at the most. Girls want to see more than a stereotypical gym bro.
/r/seduction07/12/25 08:29 PM
1

Tinder. Also don’t have standards.
/r/seduction06/12/25 01:53 AM
92

The adrenaline junkies have more success (higher match rate) than the chill guys on the apps, hence why the algorithm shows them to you more. Just swipe on the chill guys that are at least decent looking and look like they take care of themselves and have a hobby they show in their profiles.
/r/seduction02/12/25 08:28 PM
1

Get them off the apps quick. Like 1-3 days.
/r/seduction25/11/25 06:36 PM
2

Dude no. It’s guys that have boring lives irl that struggle with online dating. If your photos are all bathroom selfies and apartment photos then no, you’re not going to have success. As a guy ask yourself, what do you do with your life? What are your hobbies and goals? Who do you socialize with? Do you even leave your apartment other than work or school? If you can answer these questions, that’s step one, step two, take photos of you showing off your lifestyle, not matter how small it may be, y…
/r/seduction20/11/25 02:16 AM
1

Feeemales.
/r/seduction11/11/25 05:39 PM
2

So you can’t meet women outside this social circle? Even then, does it really matter?
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:16 PM
6

That’s the thing, when you get older this kind of we could be friends things ends. By your 30s you know what you want and don’t want. If we don’t have a group of people to do stuff together then we don’t hangout or talk at all. Any we should be friends talk after meeting from an app at a certain age is just a polite way of saying we’re not compatible but good luck in life.
/r/seduction10/11/25 07:52 PM
0

The good guy shows interest and flirts with girls in man to woman frame. he likes and finds physically attractive. A nice guy hides his feelings because he’s anxious and has low experiences with dating and sex. Therefore He acts platonic and acts like a friend. But then goes, hey, I might have a shot with her, but the problem is he acted like her gay best friend or a guy who has other options he’s pursing then the “friend” he actually likes. So the girl thinks obviously he is just a friend and t…
/r/seduction10/11/25 06:12 PM
2

I don’t think the notion of “women aren’t visual creatures” is entirely true. Many Women do have body type preferences and many do get turned on by seeing a natural muscular build. I think studies have shown women prefer men who are normal weight who have some muscle but not massive like a true body builder. Even then, I know some women def hit on and pursue men they like visually (body plus face), it’s just women will base attraction on other features outside of looks than men do. So if you are…
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:00 PM
1

K
/r/seduction08/11/25 09:04 PM
1

Dude…who cares. 😂
/r/seduction08/11/25 09:02 PM
1

she won’t be my gf? Oh well. At least I got laid.
/r/seduction08/11/25 09:00 PM
1

Sex isn’t everything. but being ghosted and rejection doesn’t mean anything.
/r/seduction08/11/25 07:53 PM
3

It’s hard everywhere even in the big cities for pickup. It’s not the city, it’s the culture we currently have being terminally online.
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:18 AM
2

Do you like do tell jokes and be a lil cocky and goofy with other guys? Then you know how to flirt. You just have anxiety around the opposite sex that you got to overcome.
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:16 AM
3

Anxiety can end up making you perceived as inauthentic and manipulative if you give in to fear of showing Interest to a woman. So if you think you’re not a manipulative guy, if you’re a nervous guy who is afraid to show interest…you’ll subconsciously come across as with an agenda. You have to defeat fear of rejection to get laid. You just have to get over it.
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:13 AM
8

You can always log off bro.
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:08 AM
0

Yeah try with women, not college girls. You’re better than that, you got this.
/r/seduction28/10/25 02:52 AM
-13

Well that’s because it is weird men in their 30s are going to college bars (and hell no to campus) to pick up college girls. Sorry bro you’re too old for that, it is what it is. Your honestly well past that point at 33…it’s not going to work out like you think it will, you will probably just be clowned at best and mocked on social media are worst. You instead should find girls graduated from college and working, you obviously can date 25 and up and it’s way less weird than picking up 19 year old…
/r/seduction28/10/25 02:41 AM
2

You’ll prolly just get ghosted bro. She’s flaky because she has options other than you most likely.
/r/seduction22/10/25 08:30 PM
11

Waiting 18 months is crazy, I meant in a much smaller time frame, like a few weeks to maybe month or two tops 🤣. But I do have one of my women and man friends hangout for several months when my female friend was falling out with her then bf, later she ended up leaving her ex for my male friend, still together 3 years now. so hence why it works sometimes to wait “behind the scenes”. But she has to be REALLY down for you.
/r/seduction21/10/25 04:52 AM
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This true for the most part. one exception however is sometimes she’s unattracted to her bf and still together but you know she fancies you, and know they’re about to break up…then that’s your opportunity to swing in and get her. But, if she’s neutral or not interested in you and drops about another guy to you, especially if they’re not in a relationship yet, then yeah…you’re cooked.
/r/seduction21/10/25 02:28 AM
3

You’re fine bro, don’t let social media (and even this subreddit sometimes) brainwash you to think you need to be a multi 6 figure hedge fund manager to find a woman 😂. You realize how many people have wives and kids making less than 6 figs a year? Most do have in reality.
/r/seduction20/10/25 01:08 AM
5

Nope. Just improve your photos and a lifestyle you can show off brother.
/r/seduction18/10/25 11:00 PM
1

Yep, explains why you are repulsive to women.
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:47 PM
1

You are letting them get to you, that’s not what a confident man does. You have an advantage being closer to her age so act like it and stop letting old guys getting in your head. Your insecurity is only gong to drive her away from everyone, including you.
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:45 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:35 AM
2

I agree but I think it’s more of not being shy and overthinking. You need to develop that through socializing more, not in community college lol.
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:32 AM
0

Man to women frame: unless you established that then you will lose. Flirting is the key to expose attraction. You can’t do that if you have been friends for a while, you lost your shot long ago. Pulling out the card late in the platonic relationship is doomed to fail. Also stop calling women feeemales.
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:28 AM
1

If you can get dates with attractive girls with them on a regular basis then they are the ultimate option. The problem is most men aren’t attractive enough to fulfill the above statement.
/r/seduction22/09/25 11:12 PM
-1

This mindset is great if you just want to be perpetually single. Lmao.
/r/seduction17/09/25 02:07 AM
5

This. No body meets there significant other by cold approaching in a mall, especially if your older then like 22 lmao.
/r/seduction17/09/25 02:05 AM
1

Hopefully she will be the one to move closer to you.
/r/seduction14/09/25 11:36 PM
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The ultimate goal with this is to develop your abundance mindset to the point that this kind of stuff is nothing to be worried about because your open to the world of opportunities of dating and sex. you should be confident you will meet and or match with another attractive girl no problem maybe not today but soon. And you developed the skills to achieve that fluidly. Until you get there, yeah it sucks, no easy way about it. The only way to get out of feeling bad is to chase your passions and im…
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:39 PM
2

“Being a "good man" and showing good social skills and doing everything right makes women think you don't have options even if you do.” Intriguing. Could you expound on that?
/r/seduction31/08/25 03:47 AM
3

Is this “Chad” here in the room with us?
/r/seduction29/08/25 08:49 PM
2

Why do I feel like this guy never even went out with this girl?
/r/seduction27/08/25 11:53 PM
1

My advice, build a social circle at church or join a Christian dating app.
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:12 PM
3

To find love, absolutely not. To find a virgin Christian girl? I mean I hate to break it to y’all but every Christian in the no sex for marriage camp already locked down after high school, at least that’s the case in America. Im not saying none in that strict category are out there still single in late twenties but I’m just saying lower your expectations, a girl does not have to be a virgin to love and be loyal to you if you’re the right man.
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:05 PM
9

Let’s face it if you’re nearing 30 and still a virgin this message is for you. Don’t give the wait for Marriage excuse, the legit ones saying that are already married/engaged at your age.
/r/seduction24/08/25 06:41 PM
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If you have two guys of similar looks and personality both making offers, the number of young women who’ll take the college student over the 30+ established man would be vanishingly small. If by young women you mean college girls chasing established 35 to 40 year olds instead of other college guys is a Wild take. Y’all live on strange planets. 🤣
/r/seduction18/08/25 03:00 AM
5

The rock is called offline.
/r/seduction18/08/25 02:57 AM
-11

I18 year old women like 30-35 year old guys just as much as 25 year old women, appropriate or not. Thats just not reality 🤣. An 18 year old just graduated hs, doesn’t know anything about the world, and is likely just going to college. Most 18 year olds prefer dudes younger than college graduates by and large. They def do not see a 30 year old the same way as a 25 year old. Outliers exist, maybe an older teenager might have a celebrity crush that’s 30 ish but that’s different than actively pursui…
/r/seduction18/08/25 12:02 AM
47

Well 18/19 is way too young for anyone over 30.
/r/seduction17/08/25 10:00 PM
102

More like 26 to 30. Most girls under 25 don’t seek out men over 30.
/r/seduction17/08/25 08:22 PM
14

I struggle with conveying sexual attraction. I just don’t want to be seen as a creep or that’s all I care about.
/r/seduction11/08/25 11:59 PM
2

Yeah but those examples are more random encounters where both of you are attracted to each other and horny. Getting told “no ew gross” is less consequential in this context than doing this to a literally a platonic friend or co worker you’ve known for a while and never made any moves or made intentions known.
/r/seduction09/08/25 07:23 PM
1

This is a very simplistic and superficial way of thinking: that a woman either likes you or she doesn't, with nothing in between. If you believe this idea, then it's crystal clear that you need to do your best to increase your chances of her saying 'yes.' Simple but effective. Superficial? I think not. If this is clear from the women I like, I know that she is probably not interested and should take note of that observation. In this case, you need money, status, and looks, all packaged at the sa…
/r/seduction08/08/25 10:41 AM
2

I like your post and I think there’s a lot of truth it. But here’s my take of the “friend zone”… The friend zone is not real. Or at best, it’s mis-labeled. What most people say is the “friend zone”, I see is the disinterest zone. You know it’s funny, the black pilled guys over the years would always try to pinpoint the exact archetype man that would slay All the pussy and be called the “high value man”…like that meme: 6 feet, white, 6 figures, blah blah blah. But what Ive noticed is that women a…
/r/seduction08/08/25 08:16 AM
1

So start putting your music 🎼 insta. Build your profile.
/r/seduction04/08/25 07:50 PM
18

RSD as a dating business is dead bro.
/r/seduction04/08/25 08:11 AM
7

Girls under 25 are extremely overrated.
/r/seduction25/07/25 06:51 PM
7

Are you literally asking if you should move on from These types of women!? ☠️. My brother in Christ, get some confidence in yourself.
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:40 PM
5

Or better yet, maybe work on yourself and confidence to attract the women you want Instead of playing with women who got tricked by your intentions.
/r/seduction24/07/25 06:56 PM
5

It’s not that deep dude, it’s a photo.
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:48 PM
6

Most girls wouldn’t really care if you were honest about it.
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:48 PM
5

If can’t vibe or have a conversation with a college kid anymore I’d say move on to older chicks dude.
/r/seduction14/07/25 11:08 PM
-3

Thank you
/r/seduction29/06/25 12:28 AM
21

I mean men do the same to girls that are obsessed with them but want none of that. It’s not exclusive to women haha.
/r/seduction28/06/25 08:23 PM
1

Yes you can. You can delete the number and that’s the end of that. See you in the gym, and hopefully the bars this weekend to spit some game.
/r/seduction28/06/25 08:22 PM
1

Well you definitely don’t want to ask out every person in your social group that’s a woman. Haha. Tbh social circle dating is a “it takes two to tango” strategy. You kinda know that a girl is interested in you when you all meetup and if you share mutual Interest and curiosity you can either separate yourself from the group to hangout and escalate or you ask to hangout 101. But again, I don’t recommend throwing a Hail Mary move to a girl that you like but you have no clue if she likes you back. Y…
/r/seduction28/06/25 08:18 PM
3

They will just reply with copium. Everyone who lives in reality knows 5 year windows or less are the most common age gaps for adults. Doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen or is wrong to go wider in age but that’s just what most men and women prefer. It’s not like dating apps pressure or don’t allow you to set your preferences. Unless you’re making million’s a year or have status on social media money really isn’t the end all be all for many women like this sub preaches. and certainly most 23 year old …
/r/seduction26/06/25 08:06 PM
1

I mean that’s just normal.
/r/seduction26/06/25 07:55 PM
19

Very few women in their twenties have the age go up to 50+ in the apps. You probably lying about your age.
/r/seduction24/06/25 08:36 PM
6

You got rejected. You don’t need help you need to go out and find more women.
/r/seduction24/06/25 02:38 AM
1

Southwest USA. I really think it just comes down to population, like us has soo many people so therefore they’re way more options and way more women who don’t care about age gaps (like early/late twenties don’t get me wrong some do but you just have to find the ones that are down. The cosmopolitan aspect also makes it way harder to distinguish age. Some Girls in their early twenties often want to look older for some reason lol.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:47 PM
1

Well thank god I don’t live in England lol.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:36 PM
1

💯
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:27 PM
3

As long as your selfies are mixed with lifestyle photos it’s ok, also I bet you’re way more good looking than you think.
/r/seduction05/06/25 11:29 PM
10

I don’t think she is playing games, she just added a stranger on insta to see if their a serial killer or not, that’s literally all it is 🤣
/r/seduction01/06/25 10:37 PM
6

“It's just hella awkward for women unless you are insanely smooth or have alot of good looks” That’s just not true. Get friends and go out. Go to real life events and or clubs. Be social. Don’t have expectations, just be social, be yourself, hangout and have fun. Better than both cold approach and apps. Despite what you hear on social media people still make friends and date without being online.
/r/seduction31/05/25 11:02 PM
3

Spark died. It happens. Sorry man, you got to move on.
/r/seduction31/05/25 03:03 AM
9

No, sometimes you just get friend zoned anyway. It’s all ok. You can’t control what people do and think.
/r/seduction30/05/25 11:47 PM
25

Unfortunately for 99% of men on dating apps, you take what you can get. Women get to choose who they want. You either get lucky by keep trying on the apps or find women irl that are available right place at the right time.
/r/seduction29/05/25 05:01 AM
2

I didn’t say anything that would be an ad hominem haha. but I won’t bother you anymore trying to market your program, enjoy the grifting I guess lol.
/r/seduction28/05/25 11:29 PM
1

Cool bro, where’s the ebook/course plug?
/r/seduction28/05/25 09:31 PM
2

It's not common because most people aren't skilled enough to pull it off, whether we're talking fighting or dating. No. Attraction is there or it’s not, it’s not a skill. This framing is why men can’t take no for an answer and the reason guys egos get massively hurt and they turn aggressive and creepy. This framing is saying someone rejected you because you have no value. Terrible mindset. You can’t negotiate your way to attraction. It’s either there or it isn’t. Some girls don’t find Brad Pitt …
/r/seduction28/05/25 09:07 PM
2

You have to lose some to win some. Rejection is not about your self worth, it’s always either incompatibility, or wrong time. But you have to face your fears. That’s what a man does.
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:34 AM
1

Great advice, always strike when the iron is hot as they say. I feel like guys who end up in this situation are nervous and likely still inexperienced. They also overthink WAY too much and wait for the right signs when the signs they had are usually plenty but they doubt themselves that the girl likes them, better to strike sooner than later gents. Also if your Inviting a girl to a “cool event” it literally could be just a coffee shop you want to check out.
/r/seduction26/05/25 12:11 AM
2

Your grey hair isn’t a big of deal as your attitude and confidence. Women in their 20s largely want someone fun,confident, youthful, funny, and is fully into themselves. If you don’t have those qualities you’re going to appear to be a boring dude in his 30s which contrary to male internet dating culture is not what women in their twenties largely want. If you can be those traits and you’re healed enough from the past, then it probably wouldn’t hurt to dye it, but you may not have to in order to …
/r/seduction24/05/25 10:35 PM
1

Man I’m 29 and unless I need to be somewhere formal I’m wearing the same shit i would when I was 22 lol. But once you get over the hurdle of turning 30 you realize 22 is both far and not far away at the same time. You don’t need to be anything but yourself. Just flirt and have fun, trust me she wants to have fun with a younger guy instead of being around another boring 30 year old taking life too seriously with no hobbies, just works for a living and talks about his stock portfolio. Lol. Good lu…
/r/seduction24/05/25 10:26 PM
1

The main issue here is you don’t know what you want with her. She probably picked this up from your behavior and decided you weren’t worth it anymore. You wanted her to text you if she wanted to try again so make the decision to let her do so or move on.
/r/seduction24/05/25 01:12 AM
1

I hate to be that guy but she was probably just being nice because it’s customer service. A lot of guys I know claim a girl gave her “that look” and it’s just simple eye contact lol. I don’t think there were any more signs then that. She probably enjoyed that you talked to her nicely and wasn’t another rude entitled customer she probably deals with everyday. People who have their SO in their profile pics are generally locked in to their relationship.
/r/seduction24/05/25 01:04 AM
3

Overall you did the right thing for yourself which is stand up to the disrespect of being late. The ONLY thing I would have done different was stay in contact with her during her ride, it shows you still care for her safety and for the date. Technically she still was on her way for the date which is different from op’s case. But oh well, more women out there.
/r/seduction24/05/25 12:56 AM
1

It’s not even real.
/r/seduction22/05/25 10:16 PM
1

Meh, reply times aren’t necessarily a huge concern, especially on apps, or with new girls you’re dating. Flaking on dates and standing you up..that’s when it’s done.
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:04 AM
11

He can’t. She had low interest from the beginning.
/r/seduction18/05/25 07:47 AM
1

I’m just going to be honest: most ghosting just means she has another man in her life. It’s not all personal. While yes, of course sometimes it’s because she’s not attracted to you…But you know what if that’s the case, oh well. At least you tried. that’s all that matters. But at some point you have to stop trying and acknowledge reality that it’s a dead end if she ghosts and you have to move on.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:39 AM
3

Big facts. This advice of stating your intentions is some of the worst advice ever…so of course Redditors say it.
/r/seduction14/05/25 07:11 PM
1

What hobbies do you do that are high value? What photos do you have yourself doing them? Do you have friends that can take your photos doing fun things around town, or travel? Do you go to social outings were you convey social status? are you willing to put in effort selecting and editing good photos of you that make you look better then real life, are you willing to pay for a subscription? If the answer is no to all these questions tinder will not be worth it and you won’t get many, if any date…
/r/seduction13/05/25 05:08 PM
2

Yeah, in this situation don’t make a move until she sends clear iois, which you can only get if you have already built a basic personal foundation of knowing each other.
/r/seduction05/05/25 05:33 PM
0

When college aged girls say they want older men, they mean mid to late twenties maybe, not much older than that. It’s not true at all that they find a 35 to 40 year old man as waay more attractive than guys their age. Not the majority at least, but I’m not talking about exceptions. I’m just telling op the reality is he likely has no shot and will be seen as the older creepy guy hitting on her, unless it’s the 1/1000 chance I’m wrong…even at your age banging and hanging out with girls under 21 is…
/r/seduction30/04/25 01:58 AM
3

Doesn’t really change anything. a hot 20 year old college chick prolly has way more options and is prolly seeing guys on campus, def not looking at some average late thirties guy with a receding hairlines and wrinkles. Anyone one who lives in reality knows most college girls by and large are not lusting after normal 30s/40s dudes they see at coffee shops.
/r/seduction29/04/25 09:38 PM
10

Dude no random 20 year old college student is going out with a random 37 year old dude. College students olds date other college students. A few might bang a rich older guy but that’s not the norm. You’ll have a better chance with a women in her mid to late twenties, not sure why you would go lower then that when your near 40.
/r/seduction29/04/25 08:41 PM
1

One strategy is having a buddy of yours agree to take random photos of you just doing something, even as chill as sitting in a bar and mix some photos of you doing a natural pose and even just when your not looking, and pick the best ones after hanging out. Get a friend that knows at least minimum knowledge of photography, you can edit them later too.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:26 AM
1

Nah I know plenty of dudes that age fast after even mid twenties.
/r/seduction14/04/25 11:21 PM
3

I agree.
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:56 PM
2

You’re getting played.
/r/seduction24/03/25 05:58 PM
1

That’s about the age I grew out of Snapchat.
/r/seduction23/03/25 07:07 PM
8

If you can’t get results from the free version you won’t get results if you pay.
/r/seduction22/03/25 06:00 PM
2

It sounds like you have a big boy job, I wouldn’t risk that for pus. Plus it seems she is more of a pen pal than anything, and you act confused when she just treats you as a co worker while you guys work lol. Unless you actually flirt and talk about non work stuff over text and phone, you either ask her to hangout or don’t.
/r/seduction18/03/25 07:40 PM
3

As per usual for this sub, the best and most practical advice gets barely any upvotes.
/r/seduction18/03/25 07:33 PM
1

Showing interest as a girl is as simple as showing you’re interested in guys you like. Be intrigued by what the guy says and ask questions, have open body language, tap his shoulder when he says something funny, ask questions, maintain eye contact while he talks and engage in the conversation. If your in college then suggest to take a walk with him or go for coffee, something that shows the guy your definitely into him and want to spend time with him. Ultimately, and especially guys around your …
/r/seduction09/03/25 12:23 AM
3

Because unlike most guys you have a good profile that can get results. I’m guessing that you’re lowering your standards a bit too like most guys who get a lot of play off the apps so that might play a factor into why you’re not feeling good afterwards. Or you realize that casual sex isn’t fulfilling, which tbh isn’t for most guys at least long term. As for approaching if you’re in College I would highly suggest you build a social circle of people and participate in extracurricular activities. Co…
/r/seduction09/03/25 12:15 AM
2

Generally if a girl mentions a guy she likes around you, let alone asks you about him means you are at near the bottom of her options to begin with…harsh truth, but that’s just her preference. doesn’t mean you aren’t a great catch and attractive for other girls. So yes, she ain’t the one to worry about…move on asap.
/r/seduction05/03/25 06:09 AM
7

Yeah but she did go out with him anyway so 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction28/02/25 07:48 PM
5

Last sentence was an absolute bar 🥶
/r/seduction16/02/25 07:21 PM
2

The world would be better if we left RSD tactics in the past.
/r/seduction14/02/25 01:29 AM
1

You can do better with more photos of you doing activities or something other then posing, I think that will get you even more and better quality results.
/r/seduction09/02/25 12:51 AM
1

2, 3, maybe 4, and 5 got to go. dark lit selfies will get you nowhere on the apps. You need more photos capturing your lifestyle and hobbies. They got to be clear photos with you having good posture, facial expressions and you looking natural, you’re going to need another person taking these photos.
/r/seduction09/02/25 12:48 AM
1

This true in some cases, maybe not all, no reason for your downvotes.
/r/seduction15/01/25 02:46 AM
1

Fuck it. We ball.
/r/seduction07/01/25 06:57 PM
1

Oops.
/r/seduction07/01/25 06:56 PM
13

This is true with college girls maybe, but older women won’t give a shit your at a bar by yourself.
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:28 PM
1

Reply to a story and start a convo thread, or just hit her up asking how she is doing, then get the ball rolling. It’s not weird, it’s not a cold dm, y’all know each other. talk about how bs your job was or something, just start. She will either respond accordingly or she will ghost, or give low investment reply’s, if it were me though I would throw in a hail merry at that point. Ask her to do something. Who cares if she unfollows you for that. she’s not interested in you anyway at that point.
/r/seduction06/12/24 07:43 PM
3

Hate to say it but that guy in her office hits more of her attraction triggers than you do. You’ve made your intentions known, you’ve played your hand, you did what you could do and it won’t hit with this person. Continue contact through your hobby but otherwise stop messaging her for anything other than your meetup activities. if she hits you up stay busy and keep her low priority. If you want to better your odds of getting her to come back this is the play. But you have to move on still, focus…
/r/seduction04/12/24 06:28 PM
3

I think you’ve demonstrated ops’ point just now. He’s saying that with online dating you have to show yourself a top 1 percent in whatever you do to get the most success with getting dates. When in reality, you don’t need to be a well known high status figure in a hobby or career to get laid or a gf…anybody can. I think dating apps are just a dating social media platform, where you get the most success by showing everything in the best light possible that never conveys anything wrong or lacklust…
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:08 AM
1

Srs, this is the way. Y’all need to stop fearing the words “sorry I have a bf” it’s really not that complicated or serious.
/r/seduction25/11/24 01:12 AM
1

Well you’re right, many virgin Christian women marry very young.
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:34 AM
3

There’s still plenty women in your age range that are down for casual things.
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:31 AM
2

Or maybe, just maybe, they aren’t attracted to you.
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:28 AM
1

What is the best way to ask a girl out?
/r/seduction19/11/24 05:48 PM
4

They always say “It happens when it happens” but never tell you there is a chance it won’t happen. That’s reality. Take action for your dating life gents.
/r/seduction09/11/24 04:46 PM
3

3to4 weeks of no contact!? sorry, but your the backup, move on from these dudes.
/r/seduction18/10/24 05:57 PM
1

It’s simple, if your under 6ft, don’t put height in profile.
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:55 AM
5

Neither. Brother, you know she is just young and playing games. You shot your shot. She declined…in a way that matches her age. it’s done, move on lol.
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:30 AM
1

Straight to your place? I’d think that would be too much for meeting the first time. Even if casual? No?
/r/seduction02/10/24 09:38 PM
7

Ghosting is the new no.
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:31 PM
1

Yo, is there a book about this core self that you recommend?
/r/seduction08/08/24 10:51 PM
3

You met 5 times and no escalation? Friendzoned.
/r/seduction04/07/24 01:35 AM
3

Besides if she wanted to meetup with a cute guy, she wouldn’t hesitate to work around her schedule.
/r/seduction27/06/24 04:29 PM
1

If you behave like a text buddy, you get text buddy results.
/r/seduction04/06/24 01:54 AM
1

Don’t ever comment on girls’ Instagram posts. Only if she’s your legit gf.
/r/seduction01/06/24 06:16 PM
3

Nah this will be the best and probably last time in his life he will be around thousands of people his age. The dating experience will be worth it.
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:07 PM
1

Then don’t. You don’t belong on campus..
/r/seduction09/05/24 09:39 AM
2

Are you a student?
/r/seduction07/05/24 07:17 PM
-1

At 31 the college game boat sailed long ago dude.
/r/seduction07/05/24 06:43 PM
1

😭
/r/seduction11/04/24 08:43 AM
2

“She already has a boyfriend for 3 or 4 years now”, y’all dudes need to move on to actually single girls dawg for these type of feelings 😭
/r/seduction11/04/24 08:36 AM
1

50 % this is the reason 50% the reason is you are not attractive to her/not her type..otherwise it’s both.
/r/seduction11/04/24 08:30 AM
2

Nah the longer you wait the worst it gets. You later in life virgins need to take dating/relationships more seriously if that’s what you want.
/r/seduction10/04/24 01:03 AM
1

Sorry Dawg she is just not attracted to you, what else do want anyone to say?
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:24 PM
1

Lmao, a girl friend-zoning you is putting YOU on the back burner! She beat ya to it! Game over.
/r/seduction07/04/24 07:24 AM
2

That’s actually kinda dope ngl..would you say you get better results doing that?
/r/seduction07/04/24 07:16 AM
1

Yeah, everything is better the younger you are.
/r/seduction06/04/24 11:39 PM
4

Dip
/r/seduction05/04/24 10:02 PM
2

Avoid small talk. At all costs.
/r/seduction27/03/24 08:30 AM
6

It will hurt until you fix how you approach your dating life.
/r/seduction27/03/24 08:19 AM
1

“Now she answers after hours and find excuses when we make a plan to go on a date”. It’s over. She’s not interested, most likely has another man she’s entertaining.
/r/seduction27/03/24 08:18 AM
2

Common and the best way to handle it is do nothing. If they are really interested, they would follow through, if not immediately set a date, will tell you about how soon they can meet up. Once they ghost after asking them out, don’t bother with them anymore, if they do come aback around, go straight for the meet up, if they do it again…stop reaching out and continue apps/cold approach/however you prefer to meet women. It’s not personal (most of the time) it’s just they either don’t find you they…
/r/seduction25/03/24 10:10 PM
1

When it comes to the first few dates, better late than stood up.
/r/seduction24/03/24 12:04 AM
1

Naw just delete the number and move on. Since she ghosted before anything began She prolly doesn’t even find you attractive in the first place.
/r/seduction19/03/24 06:22 PM
1

Props to you my man, srs, just go out with friends, have fun and drink water/soda. Nobody cares. Also many bars offer non alcoholic drinks nowadays anyway.
/r/seduction19/03/24 09:30 AM
1

Ironically your so called “weak” opener about there shoes was the least cringiest then your assumptions examples you started with. Instead of the whole “wow, you seem soo artisic because you have some tats” I would just say hey your tattoos are dope, do they have any stories or you just like skin art? Like bro, it’s 2024, you don’t know any girls w/o a tattoo or two 😭. Also if you are into fitness like you say you are talking to a girl that’s into yoga pants/Starbucks are pretty easy to work wit…
/r/seduction19/03/24 09:24 AM
1

Would you say it’s worth it to pay for a subscription? Assuming the app offers it.
/r/seduction14/03/24 06:21 AM
1

Do you pay for all these apps, or do you do it free?
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:41 AM
2

Finding single, available women that are willing to go out with you.
/r/seduction13/03/24 02:14 AM
1

Absolutely, because you’re not and there’s no reason for you to be there.
/r/seduction03/03/24 12:01 AM
1

Dude it doesn’t matter, honestly just meet people at general in shows, make friends and open your social circle.
/r/seduction02/03/24 11:52 PM
1

Lmao guys please don’t go to college campuses to hit on girls when you’re not a student or over25, creepy shit.
/r/seduction02/03/24 11:49 PM
2

Text game has a time and place. But the point is to build attraction and set up dates/hangouts. If she is distant, I think you mean by a slow responder, setting a plan up to meet up will tell you where she stands based on what she decides to do (or wont do). Good luck.
/r/seduction23/02/24 05:33 AM
2

Set up a date or at least a time to get together to hang out in person. Walk around somewhere idk you come up with the plan. If she is interested she will follow through.
/r/seduction23/02/24 03:31 AM
12

Other than this one, don’t. 😂 apply what you learn here in the real world, that’s all you need to do man.
/r/seduction23/02/24 12:38 AM
2

Just listen to it and apply. If you’re wrong, you learn.
/r/seduction21/02/24 07:15 PM
4

Seems like the incels are working hard to down vote your very reasonable comments, this sub has fallen.
/r/seduction06/11/22 04:25 AM
5

Acknowledge your emotions, most if not all of us have been in this situation before. It sucks but at the end of the day she chose him. For now. In the meantime, go out/get on the dating apps and find another opportunity.
/r/seduction27/10/22 11:26 PM
3

Yep. The small frame 5’9 and under guys are on hard mode. Only appeal to specific types of women.
/r/seduction23/10/22 02:14 AM
1

I mean I guess it can work if you have a blue check mark, but I doubt anyone in this sub has that going for them lol. Maybe I’m wrong, What’s your profile like?
/r/seduction15/10/22 09:01 PM
1

Adding random girls on Instagram? Idk, that seems kinda sus to me ngl.
/r/seduction15/10/22 08:58 PM
12

Because going up and talking to women in public Is frowned upon by modern society, especially on online spaces like Reddit. Cringy/awkward guys going viral on tik tok filming themselves approaching and creeping on women doesn’t help either.
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:58 PM
1

Yeah I’m sure they would if they did. I asked you first lol. But idk above average is like maybe thousands of followers, a blue check mark?
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:07 PM
1

What do you consider a shitty profile? I know dudes who have literally one post, only a few hundred followers (or less) that do above average with women.
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:01 PM
26

Dude you met online in an app, she is using it for validation from most guys while letting only a few actually go out with her. You tried 3 times? Yeah, better off moving on to trying with another match dude. Just text hey let me know when your down, and leave it at that.
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:19 AM
2

Yes
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:51 AM
3

No. Become friends with them and get used to understanding women. Bonus points if you arrange a group to go out with girls and guys and use it as social proof.
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:37 AM
10

I don’t doubt it. I’ve seen women gawk over Guys and almost always they are what anybody would call “muscular” and “fit”. Skinny and fat guys: you know who you are, you gotta hit the gym and understand basic nutrition that will get you to your goals. No excuses. Start grinding!👍
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:28 AM
9

Because they got sometimes hundreds of options online buddy. It is what it is.
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:25 AM
2

Ehhh, don’t underestimate the cluelessness of some men. 🤣
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:59 PM
2

7 years ain’t much younger like your freaking out about. You must be fun at parties 😂
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:10 PM
1

Women flake on you for someone else. You are not the only one being flaked on though so keep that in mind. But alas my first point is the hard truth.
/r/seduction26/07/22 05:23 PM
2

People over think irl Interactions in 2022 Build your social circle ⭕️ of people with likeminded Interests. When I’m out with my friends I end up taking more shots with randoms At bars etc. talk to people! Talk to everyone that’s around you. Man or woman. Fuck, just engage with people and see where it goes. By all means use dating apps, but also utilize the real life situations. Get used to starting random convos with everyone! Life is too short to live in arbitrary mindsets. Go out, get to know…
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:47 AM
3

It’s a good channel. No pua gimmicks, just showing dudes how to take action.
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:01 AM
2

Attraction is built by interaction. Start taking action, talk to her, be yourself, be the man.
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:00 AM
2

Scarcity mindset. The only solution is to talk to more women, take more risks with girls who are single that you like.
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:58 AM
1

Yep. This post is 💯. Most of the time you have to experience this pain to learn from it.
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:31 AM
1

Do you add randoms or mutual friends?
/r/seduction03/07/22 03:52 AM
2

The common denominator is how interested the girl is into you. You show interest if your unsure/know that she is interested in you potentially. You pull back when you know she was even slightly interested but then she started getting cold with you. If a girl isn’t interested in you enough however, pulling back won’t get her interested, she’ll just be relieved that there’s one less guy to worry about.
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:12 PM
10

Eh, i mean sometimes In certain circumstances you’re right. But you can’t really build up Interest w/o exclusive hangouts/dates, which if the girl flakes all the time…means she’s not as willing as you to try to spark something. The point is, is that girls don’t flake on guys they know they want. That’s just facts. If she flakes on you, she’s making time for someone else. It’s important for guys to know that. I think better advice for flakes is to keep them a low priority, text/talk build rapport…
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:30 AM
86

Let’s be honest though, most of the time they flake because they’re not interested in you lol.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:16 AM
1

What are the top causes of men still being virgins in there twenties? Genuine question.
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:56 PM
2

Go black pill bro = just give up bro.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:28 PM
2

My last oneitis was someone Whom I never even gotten a date with 😂
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:29 AM
1

Umm I’m younger then thirty 😂. Who said anything about getting with anyone under 21, I was just talking about a 30 year old just hooking up with other legally aged women, most likely older then 18…but exaggerate harder bud. Sounds like you’re salty an older lad banged a chick your age lol. stay salty 😂👍
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:36 PM
1

30 isn’t that old. Many people his age get casual sex around his age, slightly older and younger. Whatever man, it’s not your life. It’s still better then wasting your twenties being some reclusive judgmental ass on Reddit.
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:21 PM
8

Exactly, the Down voters can go fuck themselves. Not everyone wants a relationship, why the hate?
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:31 PM
3

I kind of disagree with the person that said your ig isn’t high value. Your a music producer and your showcasing your interesting hobbies at least. You can get some of the hot girls you like if you keep putting yourself out there and build your social life. It’s not a bad profile honestly, I think he was right when it comes to posting more content that’s not related to your music career if it’s your personal profile. I think your alright fam. Your not a bad looking dude, just work on looks maxin…
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:26 AM
1

What’s the cutoff age to hit on 21 year olds?
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:24 PM
1

Lol. Well I guess it could’ve been worse. Hopefully you got some more experience since then.
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:45 PM
1

Oof. How did that pan out?
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:25 PM
3

Be patient. More experience will get him to have more self confidence.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:27 AM
4

Looks like red flags are flying. Probably better to stay away from her as much as possible.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:23 AM
1

Good idea. Make sure you have a time and place in mind when you ask. Good luck
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:06 AM
2

I missed the part that this was on snap, my apologies. Best idea is to talk to her in person, if you can. Then right before ending that convo, ask her out and get her number. If you can’t then I guess the only thing you can do is chat on snap. Idk if you are able to isolate her personal snap from the group chat. If you can’t, then that might be a little difficult lol. Depends how close you are to everyone in the group. Maybe Invite All of them out and hope that the girl shows up too. Or bite the…
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:01 PM
2

Since she msged you, you should have her number so you can txt her outside the group chat. From here just Make a plan to hang out with her. You’ll know if she commits again to seeing you that there is at the very least some genuine interest. Then go from there. Good luck.
/r/seduction01/02/22 05:48 PM
2

Did you date/hung out or are you just talking to this girl? Dude, her watching your stories on snap/Instagram whateva, don’t mean as much as guys think. She prob looked at dozens and more of other guys she knows to be honest. Sounds like you’re too fixated on her activity with your profile(s). What other attraction signs does she show you? If you’re trying to gage her interest solely based on what she watches/doesn’t on your social media, and nothing else, you’re really just wasting your time. Y…
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:27 AM
1

Hell, even a yes can sometimes end up being a no 😂
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:30 PM
3

What happened?
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:44 PM
9

I hear ya I hear ya. Soo…when’s the date bro?
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:42 PM
30

This is what I’m trying to incorporate in my personality. I’m not too serious but my anxiety I’ve grown up with has always made me care what other people think. It’s because of that I put pressure on myself to put on a great impression, it’s probably why I have neutral conversations instead of fun ones. I have moments of fun conversations, but I’m missing that ‘spark’ of engagement that makes new friends with people as if I’ve known them for years. My old friend has done this, he wasn’t conventi…
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:34 PM
2

Not good signs. Yeah your only chance is your mutual friend inviting her out, if she bails on that, then yeah it’s 99% over. She already slept with you so she got what she wanted, a one night stand.
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:26 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction02/10/21 02:32 AM
5

They can be, or you can use those skills you learned in class and go out to bars/venues that offer dance nights and just have fun there and ask girls to dance, who knows, some might even ask you.
/r/seduction26/09/21 01:21 AM
1

Correct. Snapchat Is for girls you just met at events or parties, it more then just dating them it’s expanding your social circle through social media. Obviously if you feel it’s hitting off well or your scheduling a date then yes that’s the best time to get the number.
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:10 AM
1

Flaking/not getting a response is a rejection, a quite common one on dating apps.
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:44 AM
2

Someone interested is going to meet up with you, if not then that’s your answer.
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:40 AM
1

Interesting response but ok.
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:03 PM
5

Disagree. If we’re talking about dating young women especially 26 and under snap is a great way to get it first and see what they post and they can see what you post as well. Sometimes chicks will hit u up if you use it often and show cool things, or you can hit up chicks after awhile and then get the number after you snap back and forth. It’s also great for chicks that you also see on a regular basis Like classes or work so they can see what your about and vice versa.
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:37 PM
1

Not necessarily, it’s mainly just they go to the same parties and venues, many of the guys just know the girls from those events and though friends. Just be confident and shot your shot, more importantly just have fun.
/r/seduction11/09/21 04:13 AM
1

The reason is frat guys have the highest social status on campus, other then the athletes but they more or less are in frats and get into the parties as well. It’s simply that they party with the sorority girls, thus having the most access to them. On top of that most guys in frats have high confidence and many come from wealthy families and have had abundance with women since high school. Just go to the parties, chill with the bros and the chicks will come to you.
/r/seduction11/09/21 04:11 AM
1

Oh ok, yeah she’s not interested if she texted you those responses.
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:27 AM
1

Unless she actually had a connection/met in real life, she will never hit him up. Lol.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:08 PM
1

That’s good man, listen, I’m in a similar boat, I have interests that are more solo/niche oriented, like guitar and beat making. I was never good at sports so I avoided a lot of clubs(which unfortunately have the most abundance of men and especially women) in school and town. My friends either had gfs, or are total homebodies. So I have and still go out alone all the damn time. I’ve gotten compliments on my looks from both men and women sometimes but I’m definitely no Casanova in physical looks,…
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:25 AM
3

Well as long as you don’t label yourself an incel that’s a good start. Just saying in general. But if those things are true, what’s your social life like? Dating really is just putting yourself out there enough times. You’ll have to figure out ways that best fit your lifestyle. What you said actually isn’t that uncommon, once you get your life at a decent place, it’s just a matter of running a numbers game.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:57 PM
12

If you feel this post is ‘condescending’ perhaps you actually need to hear it.
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:57 PM
2

I agree in general, but there’s no reason to not at least go for a number of the guy, or gal, if they feel they are interested. Obviously, you wouldn’t want to push after that or even ask if the cashier didn’t give any indicators of interest.
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:39 AM
2

Those are weirdos that can’t read social cues and or out of depth with human interaction. Making blanket statements doesn’t help the conversation. You know what’s bad advice, telling guys they can’t shoot there shot out of irrational fears of backlash.
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:29 AM
1

If he is getting around like that as easy as your saying, it’s also probably his confidence and body language. Gotta factor that in as well.
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:12 AM
1

When she won’t commit to one on one with you, it’s simple, if you can’t make it happen, there’s no attraction.
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:56 AM
2

To add on to matchaboy66’s great answer, socialize with everyone, even other guys and just enjoy yourself. The creeps at parties are the guys no one really knows who just seems to be there to get laid. Thank the host for the party and get to know them. That way you can be the guy other guys want to invite at parties. It all part of social momentum and as you build it great things can happen! Above all, enjoy yourself and don’t do what you don’t want, think for yourself.
/r/seduction13/06/21 12:38 AM
1

1) maximize your looks, look into your face shape. Then determine the right haircut, ask the stylist for their recommendations. Go get nice clothes, go to Ross or discount shopping stores if money is an issue. Pick clothes that compliment your body type, look into men’s fashion on YouTube. 2) get confident in something your passionate about, set mini goals for your hobby and do it consistently. Find a job you feel that suits your needs and interests, just any job until you develop skills for wha…
/r/seduction13/06/21 12:25 AM
1

I mean I get what your trying to say, but sorry, making more then the average income and achieving high status (doesn’t have to be professional or famous) DO matter in the grand scheme of things. What your describing is an example of a high value male, having goals, aspirations, having an independent mindset. Generally these traits by default lead to high status and wealth. Plus I gotta say sure, under 30 a woman who’s just focused on money is a red flag BUT if your over 30, your income matters …
/r/seduction03/06/21 07:54 PM
1

So they approach you, where ever you are?
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:33 AM
1

So where have you met these women that give you signals? The ones you actually went on dates with? Is it a job you do, do they dm you? You run/part of a social group?
/r/seduction01/06/21 11:51 PM
1

Sorry for the late reply. You got the signals. If I were you, continue working with her on her project, I suggest you offer to work on it either at an on campus quiet area, like a food court, or better yet a local coffee or tea shop. Continue flirting as you see fit, then as things get going ask her if you would like to grab drinks, coffee, tea, whatever makes sense for you just one on one to get to know her better. You have strong signals my guy. Your good to just announce that “you’d like to g…
/r/seduction01/06/21 01:57 AM
3

Unfortunately my man unless she’s your girl, there is never 100% certainty. Sure she might want to make an impression on someone, or she’s focused on her own content, or she is trying to look for someone she likes, maybe it’s you, maybe it’s not. Don’t get too carried away with the what if’s. Is there a reason your taking your time with this girl? We live in a world of online dating, social media and now that venues are opening up, social venues. she might already be dating a few guys or someone…
/r/seduction28/05/21 09:21 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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