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| – | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Because they're hot. Duh. You don't want to date them, then. You want to fuck them. Which is fine, but it's not the same thing. People will figure it out even if I don't tell them. Believe me, I have reasons to know it doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 09:15 PM |
| – | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Men should approach women again. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 09:00 PM |
| – | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?To find a soulmate You might as well go to find a unicorn. That doesn't exist for many people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 08:59 PM |
| – | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?In this clip a woman notices that there's literally no men out at the cafe she's at. There are no dates. It is just full of other women. I can think of many things to do with my time that rank above 'going to a café'. where are the single men? I'm busy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 08:51 PM |
| – | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Because I would have to change everything about myself in order to date a woman I'm attracted to. Why do you want to date these people, if they're so detached from your core values? The problem is that society doesn't like men who don't get laid. Unless you go around telling people, it really doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 08:29 PM |
| – | A world without men would be calmer, safer, and more harmoniousI’d love to hear counterarguments, because maybe I’m seeing this too simplistically. Let's see. 1. Atmosphere in public spaces I can't argue with what you feel, be it justified or unjustified. However, you do have to consider your experience is not universal. Those men are probably friends, brothers, sons... to many women, who feel more comfortable when they are with them. 2. Aggression and violence You offer two correct premises. Men do most of the crimes and men fight in wars. I don't agree wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Before or AfterI agree, it is self inflicted. But you can't control when or with who you fall in love. I guess you can stop yourself from falling in love, but not stop once you are. The way to shut it down when it gets to that point is to leave, which the other commenter seems to deem very morally reprehensible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Before or AfterNot you, apparently. You seem to think yourself entitled to their company, their pain be damned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 10:21 PM |
| 9 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyThere is no motivation for men to work that hard unless there is the prospect of getting a loyal woman. Hello. Yes, money is calling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyIt is true, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:04 PM |
| 2 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameIt's not a strategy, it's just being hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Before or AfterSpending time with someone when it hurts you is not consideration, it's masochism. If you loved your friend, you would let them go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:58 PM |
| 5 | Before or AfterOnce we’re no longer a sex option, we cease to be appealing to you You misunderstand the reason they break the friendship. It hurts to see the one you desire romantically be with another. It's miserable. You see her smile, but never for you. Every second together is an echo of what you can't have. It reopens the wound, over and over. How can you let her go when she is still there, reminding you with her presence why you fell in love with her? This is not a problem for me, because I don't let mys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | What have you tried in your life that was *actually* deeply transformative?healing from trauma I've never understood what this even means. Trauma (very overused word) is always there, you just deal with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 12:10 AM |
| 3 | What have you tried in your life that was *actually* deeply transformative?for most men sex is a basic need like food. Little hyperbolic there, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question from a guyAre the people making policies for you, people that govern you the, people that make decisions that influence your life the most educated people you know?? In equal conditions, the more educated are more powerful than the not educated. This is obvious, and you are deliberately dodging the point. The more educated earn more, on average, for example. Sure buddy. Women were literally discouraged from pursuing education or any form of passion for that matter throughout history. The most popular roma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 01:33 PM |
| 7 | Genuine question from a guyBut education isn't a zero sum game. The more educated are more powerful. It's a simple concept, is it not? Is there anything that's preventing men from getting education?? Since they're not getting it as much as women, evidently. Is there something that women have been doing that denies education to men or keeps education to themselves?? Is this relevant to the fact that men are less educated across the board? If they are less educated, they are de facto less privileged in this regard. Higher s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 02:18 AM |
| 8 | Genuine question from a guyIt implies a position of power because the opressors get those necessities less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: when was the last time you were too intimidated by a woman's beauty to approach?Never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 04:11 PM |
| 5 | The rejection that women go through is worse than that of menThere is a difference between confused and hostile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with a guy who’s not into partying, clubbing, drugs, or hookup culture, seeking out a woman who shares his interests.Now, when did I say that 20-40 people is not a party? Also, you don't seem to know what 'nerds' do. You are out of your element. You think the following is a normal 'nerd party'? Seriously?: "Parties where, like, 8 people play a game and like 15-20 others stand around talking, drinking, and doing other things" Yeah, no. There's another thing you don't seem to understand. In parties, where people tipically get drunk, the friend who doesn't drink is tipically bored out of his mind. You know how I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with a guy who’s not into partying, clubbing, drugs, or hookup culture, seeking out a woman who shares his interests.Yes. Large gatherings, where alcohol is prevalent. None of what I said fits the bill, sorry. Maybe it's because you're older, but you don't know what a party is. Furthermore, if alcohol is necessary to 'party', are those who don't do so because they don't drink, and don't find drunk people fun, asocial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:38 AM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with a guy who’s not into partying, clubbing, drugs, or hookup culture, seeking out a woman who shares his interests.People go clubbing because they like to drink. Which isn't bad, to each their own, but it's stupid to try to hide it when half of clubbing is gulping down various concoctions that would make an alchemist proud. I've even been told by 'dance aficionados' they wouldn't go clubbing if they couldn't get drunk. All the other examples you put are not parties. They're hangouts. Get togethers. Not every meeting with more than four people is a party. There are very specific limits as to what can be consi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:14 AM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with a guy who’s not into partying, clubbing, drugs, or hookup culture, seeking out a woman who shares his interests.Partying (that is, clubbing) is boring. It's mind numbing. It's tedious. You do not need to party to be a normal member of society. It's not 'if you don't party you're a basement dweller', there are more options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Do touchy feely women really think they are being platonic when they grope men, I find it kinda hard to believeI'm not reading something that you didn't even write. Saying 'no, it's platonic' is not plausible deniability, it's normal deniability. As in, 'no'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Do touchy feely women really think they are being platonic when they grope men, I find it kinda hard to believeand you take their word for it? Yes? Of course? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Do touchy feely women really think they are being platonic when they grope men, I find it kinda hard to believeThis is an invasion of personal space, be it platonic or otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 02:30 PM |
| – | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Do you, as an employee, not kick them out? In this same thread. Write down what happened and report it to HR. Writing it down and reporting to HR does nothing because no one cares. You know what I was told when I was stalked for several years? That I should be more sociable and that I was being the 'bad guy' for complaining. Sure, report it to HR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Somehow, I don't think making a scene and getting fired contributes to that goal. The point is no one cares about the guy getting touched, and him kicking the girl out (which, rememeber, he does not have the legitimacy to do) wouldn't achieve anything except villainizing himself. Also, people can point out societal problems without fixing them. 'If you don't like it why aren't you doing something about it?' is not relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.There's a difference between lightly touching your arm and squeezing it, which is most common. Or hanging like a bag off your arm, as well. Touching my chest in general, which he also mentions, is not appropiate. These are all behaviours that when done in reverse, are constituent of 'creepy conduct'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.You know very well it's not simply 'getting touched in the arm'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:31 AM |
| 6 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.He's not Superman. It's not his responsability to risk his livelihood to stop it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:22 AM |
| 7 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Yes we do. It's very uncomfortable. If you don't encounter it, that just says more about you than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:16 AM |
| 5 | It's probably a good idea to implement programs specifically to lift up boys and men.That's a separate issue that affects both men and women. It does not explain the shown disparity. Yes, everyone is softer than a wet pretzel nowdays, but it's not related to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 10:06 PM |
| 3 | It's probably a good idea to implement programs specifically to lift up boys and men.Do you know the meaning of 'more often than not'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 11:37 AM |
| 3 | It's probably a good idea to implement programs specifically to lift up boys and men.I see. Please, mention those privileges. It should be easy, since there are so many, and you'll shut everyone up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 11:31 AM |
| 5 | It's probably a good idea to implement programs specifically to lift up boys and men.They obviously aren't working very well, are they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 11:20 AM |
| 2 | "If she is interested she will show" show what exactlyYes that much. Some people are very, very shy. It's not that uncommon either. The friend thing is a common strategy I've seen, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 06:48 PM |
| 3 | "If she is interested she will show" show what exactlyHeavely depends on the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 06:28 PM |
| – | The Truth About FeminismDon't worry, I'm confused too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 06:58 PM |
| – | The Truth About FeminismIs men's grammar also different from women's grammar or...? Because if you want me to judge your logic by what's on display here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 06:58 PM |
| – | Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men?Most men don't know what the Red Pill is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 06:19 PM |
| – | What do you all think the dating prerequisites are?No, it's not. Most people here are jaded, don't take them too seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:49 PM |
| – | What do you all think the dating prerequisites are?15? Here? Poor thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:45 PM |
| – | Quick reference guide to debunking myths spread by the manosphere"This is easily debunked because I say so." Weak. What the Red Pill also says is irrelevant to your original debunk being abysmal. If you actually read what you're replying to, you'd realize the answer to your question is on the same paragraph. What he should do is irrelevant. What matters is what he does, and in surveys people answer them quickly and glossing over them. They do not overthink the matter the same way you do. The point made by the manosphere is that women have an unfair advantage.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 12:13 PM |
| 4 | Quick reference guide to debunking myths spread by the manosphereI do not think these 'myths' to be true. Having said that: Dude, your arguments suck. The Red Pill claims only 20% of men are attractive to women. This does not mean that only 20% of men are an option to women. Your debunk debunks nothing. They don't know if there is an overlap in that 5% and you don't know if there is an overlap in that 5%. Therefore, the only available metric is anecdotal experience. Obviously, their lived experience supports their beliefs. 'The wording of the survey...'. Do y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 07:07 PM |
| – | The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinityWhy would I? I don't care about companionship, what do I gain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinityWhat family, Mrs. Mature? They don't have one. They are alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinityBecause Biden was less extremist than the alternative, and got votes from centrists. This time, the people who are not extremists stopped voting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 10:29 PM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?"Would you rather find out you have a cold or that you're dead?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityModern feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityWhat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:08 PM |
| – | How can u tell how attractive a girl is?Why would I care if she has 'High Dating Market Value'? Do YOU like the girl or not? It really is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:51 PM |
| 0 | I'm starting to believe that the "women are only attracted to the top 20% of attractive men" rule is only true for Autistic malesAre you dating the most attractive woman you’ve ever seen? I date the woman I like the most/am most interested in at that particular moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityTheory is irrelevant, what matters are actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:46 PM |
| 0 | People pick and choose when women aren't a monolith.It could also be that there exists more than one person in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 11:12 PM |
| – | Question for Unmarried People - What is your ideal mate's, ideal mate?Male, straight. Me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 11:09 PM |
| – | Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicamentBut the bullies were boys Speak for yourself. As if girls didn't bully anyone. What a joke. all my by those bullies and say that all men are Pieces of shit. Grammar. This is meaningless diatribe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 12:29 AM |
| – | Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicamentWell, you certainly are no genius Ouch. Do you mean it? If you and all the other loses who downvoted me want to stay lost in high school that is your problem. Highschool creates behavioural patterns that extend late in life. Are you unable to understand this?Bullying can cause suicide. Someone capable of bringing a peer to suicide does not become a good person just by growing up. Oh, sorry, they're not peers, they're losers. My bad. High school boys are most likely to be bullies 'And I took this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | There is a huge problem of women never admitting fault when they are criticized the same way they criticize men.You have to be shitting me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicament"If we ignore when it counts, it doesn't count." You are a genius. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicamentsome sad sack in high school whom everyone bullied Not everyone bullied them. Not everyone is a piece of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 02:49 PM |
| – | Some women just want attention, more than some men.So, why should men keep giving attention when they receive none? This? But: Interestingly enough, what men do always catches their attention. They want to know what men are up to, even if men are "ill intentioned as a majority" Which is what you're doing. You care that they care, aka, attention. "But I didn't say they are ill intentioned as a majority!". Exhibit A: As long as men give them attention, men are a tool for self esteem Still, I don't care enough about the humor in the situation to ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 01:50 AM |
| – | Some women just want attention, more than some men.That this post is about you caring about what women do, while generalising them in a way which implies you probably don't like them very much. It's funny, is all, didn't mean to offend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindEquality for women requires equality for men, or else they are not equal. Women can't be equal in a vaccum, they have to be equal to something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindWhy would you use that as an argument if you admit it's not even happening and is just men's perspective? Because that's how they experience it. They are harmed by something they think is feminism (and sometimes speaks using its mouth) and feel attacked. That's the reason they don't help, not because they 'have to be rewarded' or because they lack empathy. If you want them to help, you have to convince them you aren't the one harming them, not attack them further. Unless they aren't that group. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindI can support a dog shelter without that shelter rewarding me. I have actively volunteered at a men's homeless shelter, which would not support me if I was homeless. Yeah, I can support a dog shelter without it rewarding me too. It's easy when the dog shelter doesn't actively harm you. If the homeless shelter forcibly took your house to give it to men, you wouldn't be so eager to help. This is extreme and is not what happens with feminism, but it's how some men experience it. Kinda sad that men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindNeither does any feminist who actually thinks for a moment about feminist theory. That opinion seems to change when it's time to convince men to join the cause. The "Equality" one is Egalitarians and Humanists falsely claiming the Feminist label. A movement is represented by its largest/loudest group, not by what you want it to be. Feminism is commonly defined as a movement aiming for the equality of the sexes and the end of sexism, by people more important than you or I. This is also how its pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindNo one complains when a dog shelter "discriminates" against homeless humans. The dog shelter does not advocate for 'equality of shelter'. No one complains when a group home for people with certain mental illnesses "discriminates" against mentally healthy people. The group home is not 'for everyone'. No one complains when a "Park Cleanup" group "discriminates" against cleaning up his personal backyard. The Park Cleanup group does not advertise itself as fighting for the equality of parks and back… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Men are much better at manipulation than womenFirst, it's not that way. Second, if it were, it would be people's fault. You people live on fairyland or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Should men forgive a cheating girlfriend that wants him back ?No. Never. Same answer the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 11:08 PM |
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