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Agreed. You can actually see this in salary negotiation where women typically do not ask or negotiate for more than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:32 PM
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So you're telling me that based on your limited lived experience and Reddit posts where people complain on the internet tells you that women are bad at taking initiative? Duh. Because that's been your whole experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:30 PM
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" Basically, if woman is mad at her partner for some reason, alot of times she will use lack of sex as weapon " That's gross. Idk, people must feel like they have to take something important away in order to get someone to do something. That's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:11 PM
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A.) So in your example with junk food, we should ban junk food right because it encourages poor behavior? B.) The other Why punish people for needing to make money or are sometimes put in situations where this is how they make a living? Using your junk food example, some of those individuals are from susceptible backgrounds where those types of life choices were a.) influenced by their economic background b.) culture c.) mental health issues. Same with sex work where in places that have sex work…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:44 AM
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Uuuh what makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:52 AM
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Honestly I’m not sure what I meant either. 😂 That’s on me for not thinking it through
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:09 PM
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I still find it wild you find the numbers based on something g where the article a.) doesn’t even state how much the business is actually worth b.) again, I’m genuinely worried if this is how you assess relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:46 PM
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Do you think banning sex work will incentivize people to engage in “actual relationships?” Like, if your end goal is to promote healthy relationships, then banning an alternative just doesn’t work cause people do it anyways. It’s like how the “don’t do drugs campaign” or “abstinence” campaigns didn’t work. Plus, with sex workers those workers should be able to defend themselves if they are exploited by malicious individuals who display unhealthy, toxic behaviors. Safety should be a first for eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:44 PM
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I’m not sure how “ Buying and selling sex twists it, making it harder for the people who actually want real relationship” does do this. I might actually challenge this by saying it makes it easier to discern when a relationship is purely transactional and when something is not by having guidelines. Besides, people who want to purchase sex work should if they just want sex, not a relationship. Back to the whole cigarettes and alcohol. Okay, this still proves my point that cigarettes and alcohol a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:08 PM
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Repeated lying is a big one for me. Especially about topics concerning finances, important personal, cultural, and familial values, and where this person sees themself going. I jokingly not so jokingly go by safe, sane, and consensual: anything goes but you cannot lie. There must be transparent, open communication. I’m not saying someone has to be blunt all the time or approach the conversation like how I do. Just be willing to come back to those conversations and be open. The other is just imma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:58 PM
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Like what patterns or lines or…?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:49 PM
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That’s me. I’m someone who is driven by context and certain patterns of behavior. I’m also just someone who has an overly compassionate personality, but I’ve got some pretty hard lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:47 PM
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What’s an atypical bottom line for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:42 PM
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I think it’s pretty excellent given your whole shtick is reducing relationships to a monetary/ strictly transactional relationship. Jeez I meant priceless as yea, sentimentality isn’t something you can just put a value on tbh (monetarily). Emotions, communication, and other skills are important to making a relationship “valuable”. Experience / wisdoms cannot always be measured by some weird ass standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:39 PM
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“is that they decouple sex from pro-social behavior” K there’s something that’s very interesting to me about like your views on what’s considered harmful to society. Also, for me, I’m speaking from a perspective from the U.S. Cigarettes, at least in the U.S. are allowed just like alcohol. So this statement “ We still heavily regulate, and in the case of flavored cigarettes, ban many things all parties consent to” confused me why you put this in here because it just adds to my point, I feel like,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:36 PM
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There’s a difference between age appropriate sex workers and human trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:27 PM
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I’m so confused how your opinion and perspective gets to dictate whether legislation for sex work is ok? You personally don’t have to buy a sex worker or purchase your time with them if you don’t want to. Doesn’t mean other people won’t nor does your point address the legal implications OP proposed to legalize sex work in their country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:24 PM
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Oml this is cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:21 PM
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It is so interesting to me that you put hitmen in the same category as sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:21 PM
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Of and yet even if you ban it people will still go for it. Might as well protect the market that exists and the people that do the work for those that want the demand. Same thing goes for porn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:56 PM
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Wait I’m so confused. so you’re saying in a heterosexual relationship that the man is supposed to be willing to pay all of most of the bills??? I’m so confused by this post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:47 PM
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True facts. Retirement is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:45 PM
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My partner is priceless 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:40 PM
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I mean I’m not here to cmv. I agree that sex work should be protected and not criminalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:39 PM
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I honestly am struggling to understand the question. But from what I'm getting at describing someone just based on their genitalia's performance is objectifying (misogynistic for pussy and misandrist for dick).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:43 AM
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I think part of it is being intentional by dedicating a lot of self-reflection and studying social nuances. I mask pretty hard at my workplace so most people probably think I'm really good at socializing when in reality I'm just following years and years of social flow charts I've constructed through trial and error. I end up copying a lot of basic (work appropriate) phrases that people use like "hey how was your day..." = showing interest and engagement. People watching was a blessing (just you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:32 AM
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Are you proposing some dystopian society? Yikes. People, men, women and anyone in between, don't want to have children because living is fricking expensive. Many developed and first world countries have lower birth rates compared to others a.) education b.) social mobility c.) costs of living d.) paradigm shift towards not NEEDING to have a child and e.) having the family units/ energy to raise a bloody child This is some super wild proposal that just violates so much autonomy and consent of any…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:40 AM
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OP, idk you surround yourself with in your life but it seems like you're taking a vocal minority as the majority :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:33 AM
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I was totally down with this claim until the last sentence about "those people are more successful..." and that is just not true. There is WAY more nuance to "stupid parties" and "stressing about school being important". Both are important for different reasons, so you can't say one is more important than the other. In the States, Imma say high school is a good time for parents to teach their children about responsibly partying and encouraging good study habits. After high school, at least for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:27 AM
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True facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:21 PM
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Where are you getting this idea from anyways? People also say men have it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:20 PM
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...no? Isn't there literally a dating site for people who value the traits you listed? Christian mingle or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:18 PM
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Or maybe dating in general just sucks? Why blame women on this? I swear it's the same argument the other way around. I think you're just a mad lad my guy. Who knows, maybe you'll find a more fulfilling partner with men :o
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:16 PM
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I mean guys are a great so why not date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:07 PM
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What heck is this slang nowadays? I think I'm just old.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:53 PM
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"anyone that demands that someone push their fears, insecurity or doubts aside for the personal wellbeing of only one side of the relationship is looking for a dictatorship not a relationship." In a truly secure relationship, people would be fine either not asking and/or also asking for a paternity test. If someone asking for a paternity test is doing it for a controlling reason, that's not cool. It's also not cool to bash on someone for asking for a paternity test within reason. Also, hospitals…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:36 PM
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No idea. But those who do, good for them. Stick to your values if u want :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:26 PM
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I don't even know if those stats are accurate or not, but that's not my point. Also, I'm not even talking about married folk in the first place. Monogamy doesn't equal marriage. "Warm fuzzies" doesn't mean a healthy, sexually monogamous relationship. Healthy relationships are built on forward communication where both people are honest about their intentions, the ability to disagree but come to a compromise, acknowledge differences, and know themselves where partners can set boundaries. So as I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:23 PM
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...what did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:23 PM
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Is this a debate or a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:15 PM
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I think OP also doesn't have the life experience yet of planning for a family tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:13 PM
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Sure it's a possibility, but that doesn't make it probable. I think you don't know what trust actually means OP. I truly believe you're a troll of some kind so kudos to you for making people ponder if there are individuals that are as obtuse as you. Trust with your partner (in a healthy, sexually monogamous relationship) means that both people accept there is a random, incredibly rare off chance of getting an unexplained pregnancy from a non consensual, non penetrative form outside of traditiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:11 PM
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Edit: read my other post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:43 PM
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Yea, the biological Father aka the exclusive sperm donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:39 PM
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OP's a troll I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:25 PM
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Because in a monogamous, trusting relationship you're the only ones screwing with one another :/ The only sperm that's going to inseminate the egg is your partner's sperm. Unless you're like a chimera or have some rare genetic disorder where your organs have a totally different genetic makeup, then it's your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:23 PM
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...have you ever gone through implicit bias training?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:14 PM
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TLDR: Some marriages are unbalanced, some marriages are healthy. People have different values, cultural backgrounds, and other reasons for entering a marriage. What's new, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:00 PM
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No one is obligated to "give people chances". Just focus on the people who do tbh instead of those who don't. Like, what are you missing from someone who doesn't see you in the way you are as an individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:08 AM
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Idk you heard this from, but I personally value someone educated in a trade, passion, or degree seeking. For me, I care a lot about whether someone applies themself and wants to learn. That is attractive to me because it demonstrates the person has a drive to seek something more than just the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:05 AM
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What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:58 PM
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I'm going to say in general, yes if someone doesn't respect vulnerability or in an unhealthy way you just dip. Leave. Like, is that how you would want your friends to treat you? Family? People you care about? No, probably not. Find someone who has the emotional maturity that you have. Def a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:54 PM
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? First of all what the heck does this even mean. Secondly, I have no idea what you mean by if a woman sexualizes herself and a man also does it's okay. Followed by "non retarded women understand this" doesn't make this any clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:27 PM
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Funny how I would love to see your sample size of how women generally “refuse to listen or have empathy”. On top of "oh no women are choosier these days". This sounds like a bunch of horseshit to blame women for being selective. Of course women pick personality. Some men do as well. All of your articles do point out to "lack of social skills". People don't always owe it to others if someone sucks at being healthy or practicing open communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:19 PM
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Oof how cringy to not take admit that those who are the vocal minority are the issue. Also to place the blame on this group of “women” who apparently just can’t give good guys chances. This is exactly the sentiment that pushes people away. Also people in general should be allowed to be picky and choosy about their partners. People now have more options, and opportunities than before where a relationship isn’t always the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:57 PM
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Okay new way of framing this. Why get upset at women instead of the men that represent the “lack of emotional intelligence”? Why not just focus on those men to understand if they’re part of the issue? Seriously, don’t enable shit behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:53 PM
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Tbh I don't approach people when they're working, especially customer service. I think it puts people in an awkward position where, if their job is to nice to you, it's hard for them to say no. It also depends on how you're approaching women in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:57 PM
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That's such bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:55 PM
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Something doesn't always have to be data driven to be useful. It's problematic once people start saying "this is how people work". I agree there. Otherwise, it's just a "take it as you will with a grain of salt" of how one person views communication. It's like how the greeks organized the different types of love. It's not proof, but it's helpful language at times to identify relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:49 PM
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I think it's a useful starting point to understand to increase some self awareness of how people feel validation/ affirmation. The point of the test isn't the end all be all of these are the only ways people feel affection/ affirmation. Just one of many guides/ tools to increasing the communication between partners to reduce misunderstandings or simply to feel closer with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:47 PM
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There's a lot more nuance to this question. It depends on the person because every person has slightly different expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:04 PM
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What is the point of this kind of rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:12 PM
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You have a wildly inflexible mindset OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:06 PM
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Sounds like you've not actually been a rewarding relationship. Because " In the average relationship people just pretend to be loving, but they don't actually love each other" is such terrible generalization. Like where are you getting this from? What do you think friendships are or family? In terms of romantic/ sexual relationships, what you're talking about is infatuation. The honeymoon period is a genuine phenomenon, which is why people say it's really after 3-6 months that you start getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:32 AM
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Bless this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:24 AM
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Peter Zeihan He's an interesting guy, but usually fails to capture socio-cultural nuances in his thinking. He needs to be taken with a grain of salt. This post bothers me because it conflates the objectivity in economics as "well if it exists" therefore x will happen or is right. This post also uses it justify sexist views about women like "Attractive women will lose their market advantage. In the short term they will be replaced by unattractive women". "Both feminism and patriarchy are at the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:54 AM
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What saddens me is you’d didn’t even answer my question. You’re also missing my point in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:35 AM
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What the hell did I just read. This is hot flaming garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:57 AM
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Frankly, I don't understand how you're expecting people to "change your mind". Change your mind about what? I think your point is lost in my mind. So please clarify what you want a conversation about when it comes dating norms and expectations around women. I agree the notion "women have it easier" is superficial and ignorant. However, I think your reasoning is misandryist and frankly dehumanizing and invalidating the issues that men face. This isn't to take away the issue of male privilege nor …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:17 AM
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First of all, this is wrong for saying "this person's problem is worse than the others". Oppression Olympics is cringe. Secondly, the statement "The most 'traumatic' dating story most men can cough up really doesn't compare" is misandrist. Men experience rape, sexual assault, and violence. Your statement contributes the problem of saying that "only women feel this way." The rest of the post is also riddled with misandry. It's true that men have privilege. However, you're conflating people that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:02 AM
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