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| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldNo way would Swedish criminal justice system work in (most of) the US. Our culture is now far too violent. Many of our most progressive cities have tried to apply the leniency of Scandinavian terms in the last two years, and the disaster it has become will cost them control of the federal government next election. don’t think anyone’s ever been jailed merely for paying for sex there. Don’t you think the idea that men are guilty of solicitation but women providers are not is a bit sexist? I know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 07:10 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldThe US is rapidly bifurcating along red / blue lines with abortion laws. Conservative states are passing Texas-style laws, and blue states are countering by pushing “legal till day of birth” laws. Isn’t abortions effectively banned in US? In reality, even most conservative states aren’t all that different than what’s allowed in much of Europe, while blue states are creating the most liberal abortion laws seen anywhere in the world. Sex drives comparisons have conflicting results Ridiculous, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI never claimed it was sex workers themselves who were pushing these laws. My guess is it’s typical feminist orgs which absolutely hate the idea of younger women and all men being able to avoid the marriage / relationship tax that gives a massive advantage to older, less attractive women at the expense of everyone else, including sex workers. But I’m sure there’s a lot more nuance to these laws than I’m aware of. As a guy who’s looking at it strictly in terms of the “men vs women” battle lines, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:26 PM |
| 0 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldIt doesn’t exist for women now. No reason it needs to exist for men. Buy sex toys like a normal horny woman would. They exist for men, FYI. …. Is that for just men? What does the wording of the law look like? Any “man” or any “person”? Okay in a sense you’re right. We don’t provide horny, lonely women access to male prostitutes. And I assume a woman could be prosecuted for using a male or female prostitute, just like most men are (gay or straight). The difference, though, is that we still - cont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:15 PM |
| – | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI don’t think you’re heralded as “heroes” but there is a growing divide between how we treat sex workers (mostly women) and their customers (mostly men). Many western countries and US states (e.g. NY) are moving towards the “Swedish model” regarding (de) criminalization of prostitution, where the providers are immune from prosecution and even given subsidies, free health care, etc while (male) customers are still heavily prosecuted and societally shamed. If we gave the same lip service to men’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | What states have the least likelihood or shortest duration of alimony?This book Real World Divorce is really interesting. It has real attorneys from every state detail what would happen in a few different scenarios e.g. wealthy guy divorces sugar baby after quickie-marriage, two equal-earning parents with 3 kids divorce after 15 years of marriage, etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | It's unfair and depressing watching a 40 year old perfectly healthy woman leave the country while im 18 and male and because im male im forced to stay behind and die - my ukraine friendDidn’t a women crew crash and sink your biggest new warship? | /r/MensRights | 03/03/22 05:05 AM |
| 12 | I'm Tired Of Guys Wanting Me, But Not Wanting To Date Me | YourTangoI was actually going to say that it sounds like the same old wives tale about baldness being inherited from the mother. It is… not true. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/12/21 12:44 AM |
| 14 | I'm Tired Of Guys Wanting Me, But Not Wanting To Date Me | YourTango(Don't forget we get our intelligence from our mom's, so don't have kids with a beautiful dumb ass.) What? I’ve never heard this in my life. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/12/21 12:36 AM |
| -1 | The prohibition of prostitution is an artificial regulation of the Sexual Marketplace which can no longer be justified post-female sexual liberationHaha, it’s a bit satirical. OTOH, I do think that a society has a fundamental interest in ensuring that we’re all able to fulfill our most basic needs. So if you’re going to claim that basic health care, education, shelter, food, employment, etc. are provided to all by forced state transfers, then ability for men to obtain sex should be up there, especially if you’re claiming that abortion & contraceptive access, subsidized fertility treatments, state child support and alimony laws, etc. for wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 05:51 AM |
| 0 | The prohibition of prostitution is an artificial regulation of the Sexual Marketplace which can no longer be justified post-female sexual liberationIf we’re gonna start spouting all this bullshit about “human rights”, which according to the Reddit mob, includes everything from free premium health insurance to UBI and rent and taxpayer abortion on demand, then I’d say we ought to back up a bit, and revisit ol’ Maslow’s Hierarchy of (actual) Needs. It would seem that sex and intimacy are more important than, say, taxpayer funded master degrees in gender studies. And so I’d say it’s logical to demand that the state ensure that all men - especi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 05:36 AM |
| 12 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreAfter that I had to deal with dating below average women who treated me poorly because it was the best I could get but now I know I am better off just being single instead of tolerating that bullshit. This was the conclusion I came to also after a few years of playing the online dating game, even in a costal city where an “educated man” can do alright due to too many educated women vs men here. Listen: I know I’m not a 9. I know I’m never gonna be able to go into some bar or club and be the guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Watching Spring Break Videos: Maybe a few things have changed...When I say “bars and clubs” I really mean the type of one-night situation where you go to a “meat-market” atmosphere of a bunch of 20 somethings and dance, get numbers, try and take a girl home, etc. For these I really do think looks and general “status” are 90% of success. You might be the funniest, coolest dude with tons of charisma, but how are the women going to know that when she hasn’t even talked to you, the music is blaring, and your one of 20 guys trying to dance with? Same at a bar whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Watching Spring Break Videos: Maybe a few things have changed...Yea I think that dating apps and social media in general have just made it harder for young guys to get women. It’s just too easy for women to find 1000 men within a 15 mile radius willing to give them attention. And they know it. Supply and demand. However, I think the ONE place where supply and demand may be working in men’s favor is actually college campuses, especially those that are now approaching a 2/3 female to 1/3 male ratio. I did okay myself at college in the 2000s as the ratio was al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Watching Spring Break Videos: Maybe a few things have changed...Do you think things are a bit more polarized in terms of male appearance at a club now? I don’t think the male 7s and below have EVER had an easy time in clubs and bars where appearance and status are everything. The top 10% of guys have always had the attention of 80% of women at these places. And bottom 20% of men have always been completely banished from sexual / romantic marketplace. I think what may have changed in the last 20 years - since social media, Tinder, etc. - is that the rest of g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 11 | Watching Spring Break Videos: Maybe a few things have changed...I don’t think there was such a thing as “phone video” until the mid 2000s, at least at a quality that you’d watch. In late 90’s, camcorders were getting good - you could buy a small Sony model for $500. Wealthier middle class families all had one. But high school and college kids certainly did not carry these things around for fun, with the exception of the wanna-be “producer” or “film-maker” in every class. So I’m gonna guess that most videos you’re seeing are cherry picking the best looking pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 01:36 PM |
| 8 | I made a series of posters to inform people about sexist discrimination, and its similarity with racist discriminationAll your reasonings are fine, and probably partially true. That being said, I’ve been taught that all disparities are absolutely the fault of systemic “ism”, so in this case everything is because of sexism. If men commit more crimes than women or die earlier or are incarcerated longer, it’s because they were conditioned to do so by an evil matriarchal society or because they are discriminated against. Period. Even arguing otherwise is sexist and not to be tolerated. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 02:41 AM |
| 9 | Post-Divorce Dating VentThe (online) dating game is already horribly biased against men. They’ve done a few studies that have leaked, and let’s just say that even a 300 lb 3 gets 10x the attention and matches as an average looking guy making 6 figures. It’s just insane. That being said, I’d say one very small advantage that men have over women, in general, is that there is not nearly the bias against men with kids as there is against women with kids, at least in your age group of late 20s and above. Many men, myself in… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/21 12:34 AM |
| -2 | What happens to a man who has not has a relationship/sex by age 30.This isn’t normal, dude. If you’re “okay” with it, that’s fine. But if not: I mean first things first. Why don’t you just go use a hooker? If you’re in some ultra religious / feminist country, well there are upsides of globalization. Go take a little vacation to a more bachelor-friendly place. That would at least help your mental health, I’d think. From there, start considering some more drastic measures. Antidepressants, Testosterone injections, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:56 AM |
| 4 | As a 21 year old lurking in this sub, you guys have motivated me to never get married.Wow $40k / month is insane. People don't believe these stories, but they're true, depending on the state. I know it's even worse than it looks because the payer (almost always the man) now has to pay full taxes on alimony and possibly some child support before he even hands it over. About what percent of your monthly income remains in your pocket after paying for CS, health care for her and kid, their expenses, alimony, etc? It wouldn't surprise me if she takes home 3/4 of your net income leavin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/21 04:39 AM |
| 3 | As a 21 year old lurking in this sub, you guys have motivated me to never get married.The US is extra discriminatory towards men precisely because of the divorce-legal complex, as you mentioned. In most western countries, there is a bias towards men in both everyday life and also divorce, but it's worse in the US because the legal industry has so much more power here vs the EU, Asia, etc. I've never been divorced (nor married), but I've had to deal with courts in the US several times, and after that experience you understand our system is not about justice, it is just another ren… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/21 04:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. They can't expect acceptance and support in return.The fact that you’re even trying to make a grand, unified claim that applies to everyone shows how little you know of the subject. The reality is that family court is completely different in every state. Some are approaching near equity with standardized child support calculators, very strict requirements for alimony, and near 50/50 custody in all non-exceptional cases. In other states, a woman’s vague and unsubstantiated accusation of “abuse” can mean you don’t see your kids for years, you’ll p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 03:29 AM |
| 7 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Yea they are “actively” inhibiting men from these position. Like I said, many traditional male professions are bending over backwards to push women into the ranks, even if they’re not qualified. Nearly every single “project manager” of mine in the tech field has been a woman with no actual tech skills, because they need somewhere to place them. Meanwhile, there is absolutely no push in nursing, teaching, or government to get men in their industry. In fact, ask male teachers what it’s like these … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 03:26 PM |
| 19 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Good union jobs that mostly went to men in manufacturing were all offshored. Many trades jobs were similarly gutted by massive immigration which has mostly screwed over men. For skilled / white collar jobs, we see the same sexist dynamics. Millions of foreign workers have flooded into the country and mostly push out men in tech, engineering, systems administration, etc. Meanwhile, feminists have pushed to force companies to ensure women are represented in higher tier professions like law and med… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 1 | I'm 46. What am I doing on a baby making app? Just exploring my options really.How old can the woman be to successfully carry one of her previously frozen eggs to full term? I assume a 60 year old woman can’t do it, regardless of how “young” the eggs are. There has to be some other problems that arise with an older woman that’d greatly increase the risk of miscarriage or some other issue. Or is the plan always to have a surrogate do it? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/02/21 05:13 AM |
| 7 | I'm 46. What am I doing on a baby making app? Just exploring my options really.Really unlikely she was bright enough to freeze eggs at 25. This was almost unheard of 20 years ago, and even now, most 25 year olds don’t have the money and absolutely don’t believe they’ll find themselves in such a position to need their eggs 15-20 years later. They’re so sure they can just find Mr. Perfect whenever they’re ready since they’re so used to attention in their early 20s. More likely she got divorced in mid 30s and by late 30s realized she just might not be able to find Chad willin… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/02/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What Is Gender Studies? Indoctrinating Students With Bad Research - Woke FatherIs there a difference between non violent crime sentencing, especially white collar crimes? Most non-violent criminals aren’t sentenced to prison anyway (e.g. small quantities of drugs). | /r/MensRights | 09/10/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | What Is Gender Studies? Indoctrinating Students With Bad Research - Woke FatherI think it’s silly to complain that men are given harsher prison sentences than women. Men are physically stronger and prone to violence and more of a danger than women. Likewise, I have no problem if women don’t ever dominate sports, enjoy 50/50 representation in executive and leadership positions, earn as much money per capita, or win as many Nobel prizes. It’s just not possible for women to compete here because men are physically stronger than women, and the top of the IQ curve is predominant… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/20 09:45 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many women now have children outside of marriage? Does it matter?No, single mothers take up the lion’s share of state and federal direct aid (section 8, welfare cash, SNAP, Medicaid, etc). You don’t even have to be a legal resident to get a lot of these freebies if you’re a woman with a couple kids and no baby daddy found who can be forced to pay. The only other aid that’s really available for everyone else would be social security and Medicaid disability if you can obtain it. It’s not like the US has tons of support for the poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 12:09 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many women now have children outside of marriage? Does it matter?Quite empowered to depend on huge amounts of state and federal aid, paid for unwillingly by taxpayers who weren't as irresponsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 06:58 AM |
| 1 | I was falsely accused of sexual assault. My university tried to run me through to the ground. I fought back hard but unfortunately still lost. Hear my story, it has a happy ending.We’re you able to force discovery of her psychological records, or are you just assuming she’s whacko? | /r/MensRights | 10/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 5 | I've been triggeredI could care less about this woman’s dating life. I don’t doubt that she’ll find a few beta males to entertain her for a few months at a time. I’m far more concerned that women like this seem to be an epidemic within the millennial and GenZ generations. And all of us who work for a living will be forced into subsidizing these garbage women, who will be given cushy, well paid pseudo-jobs in schools, universities, NGOs, and the government itself. They’ll produce nothing of value, but instead creat… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/08/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | What was the excuse used to stop women from having jobs?The whole premise that women weren’t allowed or didn’t work is completely false for both most of history and most societies. Are you purposefully being disingenuous to try and spread more bullshit, or perhaps you just took feminism 101 from some mediocre university and think the few few cherry picked examples represent more than a tiny minority of actual history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/20 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Dating again!From experience, I’d say many women without kids (built who don’t have medical issues) are very very picky, and that’s why they ended up single and childlessfree. In big, liberal East coast cities like DC and NY, there are more educated women than men. They spend their 20s in school, half their 30s working to climb the corporate / government ladder, and then at 33-36 have a OH-Shit moment when they realize that they’re getting too old for kids. They then spend years serial dating online, initial… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/20 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Ever heard of this?You shouldn't be paying anything without it being ordered by a court where it can be monitored. Not only are you throwing money away, you're establishing a legal precedent for her to receive even more child support / alimony in the future based on the cash you're giving her now. And anything you've given her so far may not even be counted as anything but a gift, so if it ever does go to court, you'll owe her again, half of whatever cash she can prove you had at the time of the separation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/20 09:08 AM |
| 1 | How to make all men lose trust in their partners 101I'm sure there are still plenty of more conservative women out there who would consider this trashy. But not most modern women. Over the past 20 years, the mainstream media has made it 100% acceptable for women to just bail on their marriage and family anytime they're not 100% happy, which I'm sure has led to stats of women now initiating most divorces, along with the continued anachronistic courts who reward women with cash and prizes when they leave. In contrast, there are very few outlets tha… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenI had way more luck getting dates and sex in my mid 30s than I did in my 20s. Part of the reason is that I lived in a big, progressive city with more educated career women than men, so any guy making good money with a stable career and nice car could do okay. But I wasn’t able to get more 22 year olds than I would have at 25, it was easier to find women my own age. I find this is even more true as I get older, and not only are there a lot of never married 35 year old women looking for the nice g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists.Yeah I agree with you it’s about supply and demand to some extent. These $500k 3BR 900 sq ft homes sold for 2x a single worker’s salary in 1970, and now cost 6x. But in 1970, the population of my metro was probably 1.5M, and now it’s 6M... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 11:26 PM |
| 23 | A couple of weeks of lockdown and it seems we are back to basicsBingo. Tipping has become so absurd in the US that I think it’s actually the waiters, waitresses, and bartenders who don’t want a living wage, even they’re always trying to guilt the rest of us into feeling sorry. When my city tried to pass a bill to force $15 / hour, it wasn’t the evil business owners who were against it, it was the service workers themselves. What other industry can a completely unskilled, but young 22 year old decent looking woman, make $200 or more working a few hours on Fri… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/20 01:59 PM |
| 20 | Men think women only want Chad because they only focus on attractive women.Wrong. Half the fun of subs like /r/whereareallthegoodmen is seeing post after post of obese, uneducated, and tatted up 2’s and 3’s bemoaning their inability to catch a Chad whom she deserves, and who will be happy to wife her up and support her three kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 11:28 PM |
| 1 | If the pay gap is largely accounted for by women's tendency to choose careers that pay less and take time off work due to pregnancy, and women are the only member in a heterosexual couple that is allowed to determine if a pregnancy goes to term...then why is the pay gap considered the doing of men?That’s one way to look at it. Though I often talk with people from all over the EU who are in my same career. For some reason they all make half what software engineers in the US make, and what’s worse is that their salaries are all heavily taxed in order to pay for all the subsidies that go mostly to women. Guys in Sweden or the Netherlands will be making the equivalent of $80k. The 30 year old social worker (I.e. the women paper pusher) will make $65k. After the extra taxes the male engineer m… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you feel if your husband cheated on you causing a divorce where you lost half of your possessions, had to pay alimony, lost custody of your children, and had to work to support two households via child support?This isn’t true that women are actually paying child support and alimony though based on the statistics. Men pay over 90% of both in the US, but the amount of women who are the main breadwinner in the family is a lot higher than what they’re paying. The only logical conclusions you can make are either: courts are biased against men, without regard to changing family economics women who are more likely to earn cash and prizes for divorcing end up pulling the trigger at a far higher rate than thos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 03:23 PM |
| 8 | How children make it differentI'm ready to raise my daughter myself but doesn't a child need her mother? Unless you’re in some Muslim country, apparently you don’t understand how the divorce courts work with regard to custody for men, especially with very young children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/20 07:36 AM |
| 4 | Maturity comes from both sidesWhat’s the best flight game you played? I’m getting really excited for the new MS Fligjt Simulator coming out in this year. | /r/MGTOW | 20/01/20 06:47 AM |
| 5 | Update on the girl who cheated on me after 7 years togetherI dated a Filipina for 7 years... Let me guess, that’s exactly how long it takes for her to get her EU citizenship card. | /r/MGTOW | 19/01/20 08:50 PM |
| 8 | It gets harder to date after high schoolMaybe I phrased it poorly, but I meant it in the sense of guys who are good looking and can obtain lots of sex without having to play the beta bucks,female-worshipping boyfriend, that many average young guys must perform to obtain a relationship in their 20s. It’s no different than young, attractive women who manipulate men for attention, money, dates, etc. It’s how life works, even if you don’t like it, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 08:35 PM |
| 2 | It gets harder to date after high schoolWell I think Russia is getting closer and closer to Western ideals, but they’re still different enough to not be considered. It seems like the UK, Canada, and other Anglo countries have the same awful laws and media propaganda as the US. It’s not quite the same yet in much of the EU. But yeah, I explicitly said Western because in much of the world - and I’ve lived and traveled to quite a few places - these rules aren’t the same, and it’s a much better risk to reward ratio if you’re able to find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 5 | It gets harder to date after high schoolAs far as marriage, relationships, male vs female - the system has definitely shifted to an unnatural state that is propped up and enforced by the state and media. But from what I’ve read, the idea of the Disney marriage and perfect couple was mostly a fantasy too. Men and women were never expected to be best friends, equal partners, etc. It was a legal contract that promoted children and production, but not necessarily happiness. If you got along fabulously with your spouse, that was a bonus. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 08:17 PM |
| 14 | It gets harder to date after high schoolI agree. Dating was not fun in my 20s as an average dude, and a lot of it was because 25 year old guys are still poor, unsure of themselves, crappy job, and extremely horny, which women can detect a mile away. At mid 30s, I had a great job and salary, close to a million dollars in assets, sex drive far lower which meant I simply didn’t care about most women except for the absolute most attractive - and again, women notice that too. Meanwhile, dating was still mostly a shitshow of mid 30s women w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 07:15 PM |
| 32 | "21 years old with a 9 month old" is literally the only info she gives about herself. Then comes the demand- "Looking for a man to love me and someone else's kid unconditionally."they are still the prize You can see this belief in action on almost every single post here, where they end their horrid profile with a sentence like: if this isn’t for you, swipe left and let the next man try. They are the prize in their minds, and we’re all just the potential lucky winner, if we can jump through all the hoops and pass her tests. It really shows you that there is definitely a market imbalance, and sooner or later it will probably correct itself as many men, myself included, jus… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/01/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?Oops missed that. What mental illness does his kid have? Some of them are genetic, not a whole lot you can do about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:13 AM |
| 7 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?What does his wife having mental illness have anything to do with his character or ideas? Would you say the same thing if his wife had breast cancer or some other physical illness? I’d say dealing with it first hand makes him a much better psychologist with more empathy. And he’s not some junkie. He got hooked on benzos which is far more common than you’d imagine. Doctors, until recently, handed them out like candy, and didn’t realize how bad it can be to take them every day, until the patient a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?The hard liners on the right don’t like him because they think he doesn’t go far enough or is controlled opposition. I think he’s a really savvy speaker, and enjoy seeing him crush journalists on YouTube as he is extremely well spoken and does do a very good job in pushing back against lefties who have never had anyone like him question some of their more rigorous dogma for fear of being shamed in public. We definitely need more people like Peterson to counter the narrative which is heavily one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Men don’t acknowledge that there are women who men don’t notice out there. In fact, these women are most likely the majority.I find that hard to believe if you’re in the US, UK, etc. It’s probably true that men are very wary of showing anything other than disinterested politeness these days due to #metoo and how risky it is. Especially at 22, if you’re younger in appearance, guys are terrified of showing interested in women who might be a teenager still. I’m an older guy and I won’t even make contact with women still college aged. But trust me, all guys notice younger women because that’s what we’re wired to do. Are y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 07:53 AM |
| 12 | Men don’t acknowledge that there are women who men don’t notice out there. In fact, these women are most likely the majority.Reddit is full of teenagers and 20 somethings who live in their own bubble it’s incredible. Of course most women don’t get hit on. It’s called the Wall, or being anything other than aged 18-35 or so, or in other words, the vast majority of adult women from late 30s to 90s. Hell, go onto to one of the subs for older women like /r/askwomenover30 and lurk. Nearly once a day there’s the same post of some women at 32 lamenting that she’s not getting as much attention, and the older women all admit th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 07:23 AM |
| 13 | [31F] "My friends are getting married and I'm sitting home alone, drinking an entire bottle of wine to myself."These chick on bumble: .... Only 5’10 - swipes left I don’t like that shirt on him - swipes left academics don’t make enough - swipes left yuck, looks like a Republican - swipes left ewww, guys with cats are weird - swipes left looks too much like Brian at work, no way - swipes left Asian - swipes left only 5’11 - swipes left too skinny - swipes left that guy has his ear pierced - swipes left guys with trucks are probably Trump voters - swipes left his pants need tailored - swipes left not white… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/20 11:16 PM |
| -8 | The word 'men' is missing from this because men don't matter. Cool.AOC is actually a pretty clever politician for being so young - she deserves props for that as most people can’t manipulate others so well. Doesn’t mean she deserves respect, but she’s absolutely not that dumb. She knows what her poorly-informed base wants to hear, and plays them like a fiddle. | /r/MGTOW | 05/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Here is it... I could say it now...but I won’t. Doesn’t feel right. Why can’t I do it?Sounds like she has been a home maker for a long time while you’ve brought in all the income. You’re going to get destroyed with alimony and division of assets, and your outcome will be similar to my divorced parents who, I’m guessing, are just a bit older than you. Basically they divorced when we were teens, and 20 years later they probably would be better off married, but not in love - they at least would still have family Xmas and holidays all together. Instead it’s just random when one son i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/20 08:48 PM |
| 18 | Study finds that when all conditions are identical, female applicants are favored over male applicants by 2:1 for STEM tenure. This wouldn't be possible in a system with systemic male privilege!Which isn’t diversity, of course. All you end up with instead of white males is mostly Indians. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/20 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Yesterday I learned that my wife left me for her zumba instructor.So true. Go on to /r/divorce and it seems half the guys are furious: I can’t believe the nerve of her - we separated and two weeks later she’s dating a new guy. How could she move so fast, while I’m still in shock... It’s like, I want to tell them, but they’ll figure it out sooner or later, hopefully. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4All. For those who gave up dating (or approach it in a different way?).Everybody’s priorities change. When I was younger and dated, all that mattered was appearance, reputation, etc. When I was looking for something longer term, I wasn’t picky about appearances, and was a lot more concerned about personality, finances, her family, etc. I assume women have traits they look for when they’re younger, and different ones when they’re older and looking for partner / longer term. Wouldn’t you agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4All. For those who gave up dating (or approach it in a different way?).It’s all relative for men. I think it gets easier when your older as it isn’t so much about who’s the best athlete or in the popular crowd, but more which guys have education, good job, money, no felonies, etc. Like I mentioned, I also live in a big progressive city with lots of single career women who matched my demographic. When I visit relatives in smaller cities, I don’t fit in with the typical tatted up motorcycle dudes who have better luck in that area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4All. For those who gave up dating (or approach it in a different way?).I dated a ton when I reached my 30s, mostly online dating apps. It was a lot easier than in my 20s, and I lived in a city with a (supposedly) more educated women (without kids) than men. I went on a lot of 1st dates - probably over a hundred in 3-4 years, and maybe a dozen month long flings, and a few relationships of 6 months or more, with one relationship where marriage and kids were actually discussed, and we got along very well. In the end, I just got tired of all the effort and money I was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Women. For the next 30 days you are now a man. Tell us what you think happens.Well if you remember the last big abortion fights in the US, it all started cause a few states introduced bills which would have allowed abortions up till birth, so conservative states fought back by pushing even more restrictive policies than they already had. I'm not really sure of the various outcomes as abortion isn't an issue I care about either way, though I'll be getting popcorn ready if Ruth Bader Ginsburg should die while Trump is still in office. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 01:47 AM |
| 5 | This one is solid4 years of study and 4 for their career? Come to DC or NYC. All women have 7+ years of undergrad, master, and internships. In their mid 20s they’re just starting their careers and having fun. By 30, they’re finally moving up the government or corporate ladder, and now it’s time to really give everything to their career. Maybe at 34 they’re finally noticing that a bunch of Facebook friends have little kids already starting school, and then it’s time to find the nice guy. Based on my own anecdotes… | /r/MGTOW | 28/12/19 08:37 PM |
| -4 | Women. For the next 30 days you are now a man. Tell us what you think happens.What if you’re husband just decided he wasn’t feeling it, had an abortion without your input, and just said, his body, his choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 03:47 AM |
| 28 | We went on one date, no sex, and she expects that I should be “jumping to help” on my weekend off.Interesting. The old me would have rationalized the request for help and also her wanting to slow things down physically as proof that she was a decent woman who was just doing what she had to do to ensure I wasn’t just looking for a quick pump and dump. And the chores, I’d assume, were further woman tests to qualify my dedication to a LTR partnership where we help each other out. I would have totally helped her out with her bed, also sent some cringe reply to her slow down request about how tha… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/12/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | If LTRs are bad for men why do most studies say they are happier than single men?My theory is that all else remaining equal (I.e. let’s forget that happier, attractive, healthy men are more likely to get married anyway), married men probably hold both ends of the bell curve - they’re both the most happy and least happy. Unmarried men are probably all lumped in the middle towards the median. A married guy with a faithful wife, well adjusted kids who aren’t total brats, great group of friends and family - typical Disney representation of married life - are more happy than any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Are men desperate because women are picky, or are women picky because men are desperate?Desperate for what? Despite all this talk about equality and strong and independent women, guys are still the ones who earn more and women still depend on men for status, money (especially if kids are in her plans), and social acceptance. Men, OTOH, are dependent on women for sex and also status, though not nearly as much as women. Men are definitely the beggars when they’re younger and very driven by sex. The game changes as we get older, and I’d say by about mid 30s or 40s, men are definitely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 05:51 AM |
| 34 | Single mom wonders where all the decent men areWhen I moved to a smaller city in my later 30s, there were absolutely no sane women over 30 without kids, so you pretty much had to accept that possible dates would have them. I quickly learned it was a complete waste of time for most guys. The following scenario happened dozens of times with women like this one: We match on Bumble or OkCupid or whatever app. She’s decent looking but has a kid, a bit overweight, and aging quickly. She has some shit job as a preschool teacher or admin and makes $… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/12/19 11:14 PM |
| -1 | 30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share.This whole post is missing the main point. The Wall happens when women are no longer fertile. A 30 year old woman isn't a whole lot less fertile than she was at 25. At 35 it begins to decrease exponentially. Most women are done by early 40s. My dick knows it intrinsically, and I think women can very easily discern the huge difference in male attention they receive in the few years it takes for menopause to complete. Redditors don't even pay attention to these women, and concentrate on only young… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 08:37 AM |
| 7 | What are some warning signs that a potential or current partner is settling for you and was never sincerely attracted to you?How’d the divorce turn out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 04:01 AM |
| 2 | A response to a post on r/FeminismThis is my point. As a man you can’t just call the cops, get a restraining order, ez divorce, alimony, the kids and child support, house, etc. Our problem is that we have no options to just leave, without a huge penalty. So no point trying to convince anyone about men suffering physical abuse, because there isn’t anything the government can do, and society could care less. The whole issue sounds like controlled opposition. Let’s just all admit how bad emotional abuse is, or that financial abuse … | /r/MensRights | 16/12/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | A response to a post on r/FeminismThat’s never happened. If it did, it’d be the one time it ever happened with that woman as I’d charge her with battery. It’s already illegal, and you have nobody to blame but yourself I’d you put up with it more than once, regardless of the dozens of major warning signs you should have noticed starting on the day you met her. That being said, if you can’t leave, cause you’d lose your kids or home or all your money, well that’s the real issue. A woman going through the same thing makes one call t… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/19 01:48 PM |
| -1 | A response to a post on r/FeminismEmotional, financial, social, etc violence ... Violence by definition is a physical threat to ones well being (though I’m sure you can find some modern redefinition to fit whatever narrative you want). While I understand these are all real issues, there is little the government can do about it. I would much prefer a system that assured men are able to leave a relationship where this is happening, without being forced to continue providing for a family or woman which you’ll no longer be with. Thi… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/19 08:01 AM |
| 2 | A response to a post on r/FeminismIs female on male domestic violence and rape really something that any guy cares about? I mean seriously, gentleman, I’ve never once in my life felt physically threatened by a woman - that is actually one of the real advantages biology has gifted us. Real issues that need to be discussed: education system that favors women family court system where men are treated as slaves, forced to provide for a family in which he is no longer a part of, should the woman decide she wants out of the contract a… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/19 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Women use sex as a weapon. And it's not okay.Women using sex is as old as humanity. It is a perfect example of how the sexes evolved. In exchange, men were required to protect and provide for women. In the West, this system has been turned upside down, where the state forces men to protect and provide at the societal level, with women no longer required to provide anything in exchange. Obviously, there will be consequences, and we're already seeing some of them: lower birth rates, less family units, more uneven distribution of sex and rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 10:52 PM |
| 4 | I Feel selfish and like I’m trying to tear apart my familyYour wife hasn’t cheated on you, appears to be trying, and makes as much money as you, while also having a kid. This sounds 10x better than most of the cases here where stay-at-home-wife of 5 years who has never contributed a cent suddenly gets bored because her friends tell her the guy is emotionally abusing her because he is no longer acting like he did the first month of their courtship 10 years ago. So she cheats, initiated divorce, takes the kids, all the cash, and maybe adds a domestic vio… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/19 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Women are far nastier than men! Link in the comments.He should have taken a piss in that toilet before wetting his squeegee. | /r/MGTOW | 24/11/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itI'm a techie too and have worked with some great women devs. My manager is a woman, and she does it way better than I could. That being said, almost all the bright women in tech with whom I've worked have been foreign (mostly Chinese). Very few American women. And you're right, I'm seeing a lot more diversity hires and quota filling these days. Not only are these women way out of their league as they get tossed in with senior engineers, buy they piss the guys off because they either complain tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itWhat work exists in developing countries for poor women to make a decent living? That’s the whole point. Haha I hope I'm not still considered a help desk geek. If I am they're overpaying me. Though I bet you'd cry like a little girl if your IPhone / Reddit device stopped working. What do you do / study that would make anyone cry if you stopped working for a few days?? But yeah I think we're in agreement here: in the real world, women don't produce much because there aren't fake jobs in the third… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itYou’re confusing slaves who had no right to do anything with women in many countries who simply cannot do the majority of work which exists there to earn a living, simply because there are not millions of subsidized government, teaching, and office jobs where putting on a pantsuit and filling a quota is enough to earn as much as the men who are doing all the real work. I’m not going to say that most women who get up everyday in the West and go to their jobs, don’t deserve their paycheck. They do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itThis is even more skewed than the numbers show. Most jobs women take are make-work, i.e. if the state wasn't subsidizing then or enforcing quotas, they simply wouldn't be filled. Look at the rate of women vs men in government jobs - federal, state and local - it's far more women: teachers, middle managers, paper shufflers, etc. Every job I've ever had was mostly men, thank God, but the few women I've worked with tended to have kind of random duties. Like what the fuck do they do all day, besides… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itYour numbers are completely wrong as SS and Medicare are funded separately. In reality, about 20% of the budget as paid by income taxes is used for social programs, and most of that is for women. On top of that, Social security and Medicare themselves pay disproportionately to women as they live longer and have more health problems and costs. Majority of state taxes are now used for education, which I may have supported 50 years ago when children were the future, but now that men have no rights … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Men do not need or want to control women.You're saying you feel bad that you value your own species over farm animals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 06:03 AM |
| -1 | Men do not need or want to control women.you realise the world is full of men, the vast majority of whom DO want to control women... Most men don't want to control women, we just don't want to be stuck dealing with their bad choices. A perfect metaphors is all the women Democratic candidates. They're basically competing on a platform of promising the most freebies to as many different groups as possible, while ignoring the fact that someone will have to pay for it all. And the statistics are quite clear. Women, for all the education an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 07:33 AM |
| 6 | Men do not need or want to control women.Men kill men a lot more than they kill women. But if we're arguing like 12 year olds, over which sex is the biggest meanie, without considering the physiological differences between the two, then modern women are the absolute worst tyrants, killing both sexes far more than men, when taking into consideration abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 07:19 AM |
| 3 | What am I?Coping. | /r/MGTOW | 17/11/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Retire before or after divorce?I'm not an attorney, but what I've seen is that Massachusetts is absolutely the worse possible state for a man to divorce in, especially after a long marriage. If you make the majority if income, not only will you be giving up 50/50 assets, but you can expect alimony for life. Quitting your job probably won't matter as you'll be imputed at your past income. A lot of good info is this site and book: Real World Divorce. The one thing I remember from reading various states, is that Massachusetts ke… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Can women fill the productive void left by men?I love that you are (perhaps unknowingly) making this post in a reply to a female who works with code and with making things more efficient to everyone. Most women coders deal with the user interface / Photoshop stuff. Unless they're Chinese, apparently, lol. I've seen a few women developers - they're just rare, especially amongst American / Western women. My manager is really good, though. She's kind of pushy at times, but that's okay. The world wouldn’t end if either of us quit. We are all rep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Can women fill the productive void left by men?No single person in irreplaceable, but that's not the point. Personally I write software that allows users to do their jobs 100x faster and more efficient than they would have done years ago. The world wouldn't end if I quit. I've had a few really good women engineers on my team. They were all foreigners from East Asia. Western women don't seem to be interested in challenging work, or maybe it's that they're just so privileged in the West, they don't have to get their hands dirty or grind throug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Can women fill the productive void left by men?It lasted a day and was mostly symbolic. I'm talking about permanently removing women from the private and public workforce. Employers prepared for the day without women by buying sweets, pencils, and paper to entertain the kids who would be brought into work by their fathers.[2] As a result, sausages, a popular meal, sold out in many stores that day.[2] Sounds like the nation was crippled without their sausages. Men would have never been able to recuperate after such a blow, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | SeparationI would be careful about immediately starting therapy, AA, etc right before you're going to be separating. Did she recommend you do these things, btw? Because of you don't have a documented history of mental health issues, alcoholism, etc, you will, at least in the family court's eyes, after seeking treatment. It sounds contradictory - you'd think that would improve your chances in a contested divorce. In reality, it just gives her more ammo to make claims of an abusive marriage, where you're no… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/19 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Can women fill the productive void left by men?Except the baby won't be yours - it will belong to the state. You'll then be about as necessary as ... the average guy is now, which isn't much at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 06:41 PM |
| 7 | Can women fill the productive void left by men?Also with a very few exceptions women can do everything a man can. I'll believe when I see it. The fact of the matter is you could probably have 50% of the women workforce just stop, and society would slow down, there'd be some issues in certain areas like hospitals and the kids would need to be babysat or left to roam, but things would be okay. Take 50% of men out of the workforce, and society would be in anarchy in a week when the grocery stores went empty, the electricity and plumbing stopped… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | My efforts being used against me.Not OP, but there are a lot of tricks women play in the divorce game, and most men fall for them because they've been taught that marriage is for life, women aren't malicious, etc. One of these is where the wife encourages the guy to seek help from a psychologist or maybe even treatment for those few beers he drinks every night or some innocent anger management course cause he shouted that one time after his 12 hour shift. Well turns out that this is immediately used to frame him as a mental hea… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/19 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Honestly, I'm horrified by what MGTOW says about women, anyone else?I don't even go to MGTOW these days. Seems like a lot of 19 year old incels who don't have a clue of what they're talking about, so you are somewhat right judging things based on the present state over there. It used to be better. If you can, look at top posts from 2015-2017 or so. The reality is that all women aren't evil, all men aren't victims, or vice versa. But if you objectively look at how relationships work now vs how they were 20 years ago, 50 years ago, 150 years ago, etc. you'll see t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 02:48 AM |
| 14 | Honestly, I'm horrified by what MGTOW says about women, anyone else?There is no truth in relationships and men / women like you'd look for in Physics or math. Looking at things black and white is signs of youth and inexperience, hate to say it - as you get older, things become more gray and complex, which can be infuriating since it's easier for the psyche to put everything in nice packaged good / bad columns. The reality is though that Western relationships are vastly one sided due to feminism, the state, misandry, and biology. There are valid reasons to tread … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 16 | Honestly, I'm horrified by what MGTOW says about women, anyone else?I bet most of those guys have never had any relationship with women. You'd be wrong here. Most of the original MGTOW guys were recently woken guys fresh off a horrid divorce, guys who'd had the innocent angel suddenly pull a 180 and start fucking a new dude, or guys like me who had had numerous relationships over the years but began to notice some issues and patterns, had success with TRP for another few years, and finally realized the whole game was rigged and decided to opt out. Nowadays the M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/19 08:07 PM |
| 5 | CMV: the manosphere has become nothing but a wasteland of unmasculine tradcon men pining away for the impossible.And how old are you? If I had a dime for every woman I knew who claimed she might or might not have kids - whatever - in her 20s, but starting singing a different tune in her 30s... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 11:42 AM |
| 5 | CMV: the manosphere has become nothing but a wasteland of unmasculine tradcon men pining away for the impossible.My fiancé and I got sterilized and it was the best decision we could have made. Just out of curiosity, how old are the two of you? I'm sure some people will be happy traveling and living the DINK lifestyle, enjoying each other's company. OTOH, women especially tend to start regretting their lack of children as they get older and most of their friends and family have them. Again, some probably are happy being the cool aunt but that mentality strikes me about as honest as a lot of younger MGTOWs w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 10:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: the manosphere has become nothing but a wasteland of unmasculine tradcon men pining away for the impossible.Until they're about 30. Source: older guy who lives in one of the progressive cities with a mismatched ratio of single career women to well paid single guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Marriage is shitYeah there are definitely women out there who are better than others, same as men. The problem is the laws have been skewed from what marriage originally meant. It was always a societal and legal contract that dictated: Men were to support women financially and protect their honor. Women would bear children for the man and give the man her virtue, which meant her virginity and access to sex. What has happened over the last century or so? All rights that men had to their children have been stripp… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/19 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Headed toward Divorce in New YorkThough New York is one of the worst states from r most guys who are the breadwinner, the fact that she makes more than you by $30k might end up favorable to you since most of the time they have to use a formula based on incomes. So obviously you need a lawyer, but it might not be as bad as you're imagining. The worst thing to happen is for you to get a BS domestic violence charge, so I'd start recording interactions with her if it's feasible. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/19 01:23 AM |
| 7 | Most of them are single moms too.You’re missing the point of what we’re saying to you. Dating apps aren’t a waste of time for you, as a woman, unless you fall into the trap that seems no woman these days can escape. Give it a try - Bumble or Hinge or whatever is appropriate for your age. Regardless of your attractiveness, you’ll get plenty of matches and dozens of guys willing to do whatever it takes to get a date with you. The problem, though, is you’ll have so many options, you’ll go for guys way out of your league, then when… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/19 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Wage gap addressedI work in tech, and I’d guess it is even worse than any report can quantify since it is hard to determine who is overpaid or underpaid based on titles or experience alone. But I have watched now as companies have been clamoring to hire more women in tech to avoid getting bullied by feminist groups and the even the government. But the rates of women majoring in computer science and engineering still hasn’t improved much, even with all the extra help they get. So what happens? Management ends up h… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Experienced people stay singleThis sub is a bit hyperbolic, like any sub on Reddit. And a lot of it is humor and memes. It's no different than the inverse women subs, where every man is an abusive commitment-phobe who's part of the evil patriarchy. That being said, do you not believe that things have become very tilted in women's favor, and that choosing to avoid women and traditional relationships and especially marriage and kids is a valid way to go in 2019 in the US, UK, etc? | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/19 03:31 PM |
| 7 | Experienced people stay singleDo you live in the US? Once you hit about 35, almost every woman is heavy, especially if you live outside of an urban area. And the fact is, the few women who stay thin can choose who they want, and it isn't going to be average Mgtow-Joe who isn't the type to lavish her with attention and financial resources. | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/19 02:36 PM |
| 9 | Well, I guess it has come to this..Divorce... I would appreciate any Advice or Any help.She just about has her citizenship and she has now grown cold? Big surprise there... I'd imagine she has been playing you for some time now. If there is anything you can do to save as many assets as possible, start preparing while keeping up the appearance that you want to work things out - though it will be hard. Cut off credit cards, any joint accounts, and once the shit hits the fan, be very careful about letting yourself get angry and nailed for some sort of domestic abuse charges. It sounds… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/19 05:08 AM |
| 5 | [41F]"I have a 10 date rule, unless you're chad."You’re spending way to much. I lived in a very expensive city and dated a lot, at least once a week for a few years till I burned out. Since most dates are meh there is no point in doing anything but a drink or two on the first two dates. $35 is usually what I’d spend. But yeah, Central America or a trip to the Caribbean every six months is a lot more fun and about the same price as dating. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/10/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Banned from r/divorce ("you're an ass" per moderator)... maybe we both areFor putting up with a stay at home wife with no kids, she better have been good looking, man ;) Otherwise, that’s a shitty deal for you, though absolutely not uncommon as men are still expected to perform all their traditional roles, while women cherry pick the good parts and demand equality on the bad. We know this is true as women rarely ever marry a man who makes less than her, and when they do, the woman initiates divorce at a higher statistical rate than average (which now is 2x higher than… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Banned from r/divorce ("you're an ass" per moderator)... maybe we both areMost subs on Reddit are completely run by SJWs. That means if you say anything negative about anyone but white men, you are likely to be banned. I think I read that same post and was going to reply that many women who complain about their lazy husbands are either stay-at-home mothers or they work part time jobs. From the guy’s point of view, he spent 12 hours that day commuting, busting his ass at work, and doing an actual job that brings in 80% of the income. Yet women expect them to put in 50%… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/19 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Women hiring male prostitutesI don’t agree at all based on experience in countries like the US where it’s expressly forbidden and countries in Asia and Latin America where it may be illegal or not, but there are no government handouts so many women are prostitutes, and the laws are’t enforced as it’s socially acceptable. In countries where it’s easy and affordable and not socially stigmatized for Worker Joe to go get some action after a hard week of work, I’ve noticed that men are far less likely to worship women and hand o… | /r/MGTOW | 03/10/19 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Why can’t child support be a pre-tax deduction?You must have had a shitload of write offs if you ended up at 14%on a $150k income. That probably doesn’t include FICA which is another 7%. Anyone, a lot of those itemized deductions have gone away with Trump’s new tax plan. If you were itemizing businesses expenses over 5% AGI (or whatever it was) that is gone. So are moving gun expenses and most everything else unless you form some sort of LLC or something. Self-employed probably isn’t gonna work so well anymore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/19 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Very trueMen have a far higher statistical chance of being victims of violent assault. Anyway, assault is illegal. There are no laws or societal biases that say it’s OK to assault women if they’re walking home late at night. It’s just a disadvantage of being the weaker sex. Ask any smaller man how he has felt his whole life. He’s also disadvantaged against most other men, and unlike women, it is accepted that he’s going to be bullied and picked on and even physically assaulted by other men, sometimes con… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Very trueCan you give me an example of the patriarchy with regard to the Average Joe who isn’t part of the 0.0001% of elites who actually are over represented by men? I can list a dozen ways men are discriminated against off the top of my head - all men - yet I’ve never been able to get feminists to come with examples of how the average woman is so discriminated against. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Lost my retainerAs much as legal retainers seem scammy, after trying to do freelance software dev on my own, I don't blame lawyers one bit for using retainers, and not refunding the money. I tried to be the honest guy, where I'd take clients at their word that they were definitely going to use my services if I'd just provide an initial prototype or research. And then they'd never call back after I'd spent three days finding a solution that's workable and providing an estimate. . Same as the use-it-or-lose it cl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Another blow to #MeToo as France court finds a woman being propositioned for sex is not sexual harassment and to claim otherwise on social media is in fact defamation.Put your money in ETFs bro, 7% return is a norm 7%, lol. Last year I got like 12%. Exponential growth is fucking amazing when you’ve been saving up for a while. It’s obvious that this is how the rich get so much richer than the rest of us plebs. That being said, when 7% is meh returns, you know we’re getting into bubble territory. I might put a bunch of my investments into something safer than an Index fund soon... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/19 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Only honest and decent beta men need apply to take care of Chad's 2 amazing kids with the remote chance of getting sex somedayPS4 or Xbox? Xbox is like $100 cheaper in the US, but if one is way better than the other, price is not a big deal. After all, got no GF to wine and dine at the moment. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/19 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Only honest and decent beta men need apply to take care of Chad's 2 amazing kids with the remote chance of getting sex somedayHaha, Goldeneye 007 came out in like fall of ‘98 in the US, and I flunked out of college by winter of that same year. Coincidence... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/19 06:33 AM |
| 6 | Only honest and decent beta men need apply to take care of Chad's 2 amazing kids with the remote chance of getting sex somedayCompletely unrelated - I loved gaming as a kid an in my early 20s (James Bond on N64, COD on PC). But I haven’t payed much in over a decade. I have a really nice TV now and plenty of time and was thinking about getting a console for lite gaming. What console and shooter game would you recommend? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/09/19 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Getting help as a single guy who knows no-one.Nobody has to sign you out at a hospital, or at least they’re not going to make you stay unless it’s some type of locked down psych ward. Just tell them you ordered an Uber and are fine. They might bitch and moan, but they can’t physically stop you, assuming you are actually good enough to leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/19 03:46 AM |
| 19 | Another blow to #MeToo as France court finds a woman being propositioned for sex is not sexual harassment and to claim otherwise on social media is in fact defamation.This is one of those vague generalizations that is often made in the manosphere, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve found it to be true. I’ll admit my sex drive is far lower than it was at 18 and even 30 - most women my age just aren’t that attractive and even young women don’t do much for me, partially because it gets less likely I’ll attract them and partially because society has become so insane, I subconsciously won’t allow myself to even let my imagination run like it used to. And now that I’m … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/09/19 11:43 PM |
| 20 | This billboard makes me happy.Regardless if this is targeted towards Lesbians, I’m not real sure the biggest problem men face these days is being physically abused by women or raped. Personally I’ve never been afraid that I’d be physically or sexually harmed by a girlfriend or date. The real problem is how the law and society itself treats men when there is some sort of confrontation between a man and woman: Things like the Duluth model, the man is always guilty, the man is always assumed to be the one to pay legally, financ… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/19 10:53 PM |
| 12 | Creeps being anyone she doesn't get tingles fromCan confirm. My mother teaches at a community college. She has mentioned on more than one occasion that she has the most problem with 20-30 year old women who feel entitled to everything, constantly complain, and always attempt to get extra time or help or some other gibs due to having children out home. My mom, who is normally on team woman, gets disgusted at these women, whom she knows don’t pay a dime for anything and have horrible manners. She also claims it gets worse every year as the newe… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/09/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Got served this evening after being out of town for work. Returned home and a process server was there. What was written in these papers.. horrible.. it’s “lawyer speak” according to her. Child abuser, drug abuser, alcoholic, cheat. Every possible thing. All lies. Never felt like this in my lifeGood luck with new GF, but haven’t you heard that term that all women are like that once they’ve got full commitment from you. I’m surprised you’re ready to roll the dice again, lol. I guess she has her own income, though, so you’re somewhat safe financially, at least while there are no kids in the picture. Don’t even think of consolidating your debts - doctors can have $300k in loans these days, and there has been more than a few anecdotes around here where dudes worked their asses off for 10 y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/19 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Got served this evening after being out of town for work. Returned home and a process server was there. What was written in these papers.. horrible.. it’s “lawyer speak” according to her. Child abuser, drug abuser, alcoholic, cheat. Every possible thing. All lies. Never felt like this in my lifeHope she pays you back each year. It seems like the courts could care less once they’ve made their decision and the woman decides to just stop paying. Maybe I’m biased cause I read subs like this and don’t see many successful outcomes in real life, at least those which aren’t religious couples. The older I get the less afraid I am of getting the typical nightmares divorce with kids often described here, as I only date women who are getting too old for more than one, if that. But from stories lik… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Got served this evening after being out of town for work. Returned home and a process server was there. What was written in these papers.. horrible.. it’s “lawyer speak” according to her. Child abuser, drug abuser, alcoholic, cheat. Every possible thing. All lies. Never felt like this in my lifeJust curious, if there were no kids what exactly did she hope to gain from filing false claims? Usually things are just split 50/50 and that’s that. Did she want years of alimony and the house, her debts paid, etc? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/19 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Andrew Yang talks about the effect of automation on majority men jobs and mass shootingsMany may disagree, but why on Earth are we purposefully allowing millions of more poor, uneducated and mostly men come here from foreign countries, while we all know it’s just going to get harder and harder to find jobs for both them and the older men already here? The cognitive dissonance of libs who refuse to give honest debate to these and many other issues - always just calling the messengers racist or worse - is becoming an absurdity. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/19 06:33 AM |
| 1 | LOW MAINTENANCEIt works both ways, though. Used to weigh 180. Started taking medications and went up to 230 in 2 months. Certain meds or genetic dispositions can mess up your metabolism and response to sugar. Doesn’t matter if I were to run 10 miles a day, you can’t fight the medication. Long term the best I can do - once I’ve figured out the issue with carbs - is get down to 200, or stop taking the meds. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/09/19 06:28 PM |
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