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| 1 | Does this work for wounded wives? | TrashHubby | /r/askRPC | 01/12/21 12:32 AM | |
| 1 | Thoughts on splitting finances | TrashHubby | /r/askRPC | 13/01/23 12:22 AM | |
| 0 | Marital balance before mission? | TrashHubby | /r/askRPC | 07/02/24 08:19 PM |
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| 1 | Marital balance before mission?Thank you for breaking that down. I will chew on it. | /r/askRPC | 08/02/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Marital balance before mission?So basically my mission is to produce culture (video games, for example) that is high quality and point the God-less to God without being preachy. This takes a lot of free time to do in a timely manner but she wants me to prioritize her with that free time. | /r/askRPC | 08/02/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Marital balance before mission?So… are you saying that if the house is not in order then I shouldn’t use my skills, talents, and abilities to work on the mission until it is? Keep in mind, I’m not applying to be an elder, I’m trying to produce culture that point the lost to God. I live in an area where men think their wife is the mission but I’ll pray God brings some men into my life to have this conversation. My wife is definitely defiant from a comfort test mindset. She feels like I’ve put everyone and everything ahead of h… | /r/askRPC | 08/02/24 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Marital balance before mission?Exactly my thought. I also can’t think of one man in the Bible that was known as a great man because of his amazing relationship with his wife. | /r/askRPC | 07/02/24 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Marital balance before mission?Hey thanks for the response. I agree there is a way to lovingly incorporate my wife into the mission (though she is defiant towards it at the moment) and I have halted progress while working on counseling. I assumed he meant that I shouldn’t pursue my mission while the marriage is rocky because he used the founder of World Vision as an example of a man that put mission before marriage but I could be wrong. | /r/askRPC | 07/02/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on splitting financesOh… That’s the problem, I only tend to think of this stuff after the blow up has happened. It’s time to start including this in the daily routine. | /r/askRPC | 15/01/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on splitting financesI tend to get derailed with lifting because I reach a point where the weight exacerbates an old shoulder injury and then I stop until it doesn’t hurt any more. I should probably see a physical therapist about that. I have started taking martial arts again as a stand in so there are efforts at discipline being made. | /r/askRPC | 15/01/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on splitting financesYeah excellence has never been my forte. I’ve always been a “good enough” kind of guy. As for stats, I’m not currently lifting due to shoulder injury but I should be posting my OYS’s | /r/askRPC | 15/01/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on splitting financesSo what is the best way to become consistent in this context? I never know when my wife is going to explode so I don’t get a chance to practice WISNIFG techniques consistently enough to make them second nature. | /r/askRPC | 14/01/23 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on splitting financesTo be honest it feels like a physically divorced couple as well; we are basically room mates that sleep in the same bed. I know it’s on me to fix it but consistency is a thing I struggle with in almost all areas of my life. Not saying that is a valid excuse tho. | /r/askRPC | 13/01/23 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on splitting financesAll of this is on you brother. The Lord has tasked you with leadership of the family, so if you let her do that then it's your responsibility that there's not enough in your 401k and too much spending. So true… The more important thing is that it simply masks the underlying issue of her leading the marriage. True again. • All money goes to a joint account where you give to church and/or charity, bills are paid, investments are made for 401k, catch up investments, etc. You need to have a frank d… | /r/askRPC | 13/01/23 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Does this work for wounded wives?Option B is likely the correct answer. I don’t know how Jesus is going to tell me well done if all I did was make my wife happy. Also, the nautical metaphor was pretty spot on. Thanks. | /r/askRPC | 02/12/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Does this work for wounded wives?That makes sense, guess it’s hard to weather the storm as a pile of gravel instead of a rock. | /r/askRPC | 01/12/21 10:48 PM |
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