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| 5 | Men discuss heartache on Reddit’s relationship forum more than women, study finds… but we’re the ones who are missing out. Suuuure.I genuinely believe two things contribute to the stereotype that women are so much more dependent on romance than men: One, it's a relic from back when women were institutionally dependent on men for things like housing and other property, custody of kids, resources, etc. No, it's not that women aren't allowed these things on their own; it's that they just really want a Prince Charming to sweep them off their feet! Two, because women are encouraged socially to put more effort into preserving lon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayThat's because these scrotes do endeavor to own women, without any expectations of decency, fidelity, or commitment on their part. This has happened to me before, and it's exactly why I now recommend against the casual hookup or first date sex when finding romantic partners. Is it because I'm morally fastidious? Really, not at all. But, for women, the personal risk is simply too great if you treat a scrote how he's treating you. You just don't know if he's gonna come back and ruin your reputatio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 11:18 PM |
| 14 | Please, please, please dump your porn-addicted boyfriend. There’s been a lot of posts recently on men being energy vampires, but nothing in this world will take your energy more than being partnered to a guy with a porn addiction. It’s not your problem to fix - let him goI have an extended relative who was addicted to porn. It was a similar vibe whenever he was around. Sometimes he'd look at it on my personal laptop and leave links or windows open; I was in elementary school. I remember him looking at it on 9/11 when all the other grownups were glued to the news. He eventually died in prison serving an 18 year sentence for committing what the prosecutor called "the worst" sex crime the county had seen in his forty years of service. I have not recovered fully fro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Husband cares so little about pregnant wife who has an immune disorder & lies about wearing a mask & social distancing, forcing her to leave the home because he can’t be responsible. Poor woman.Medical sociologist here. So, aside from some biological differences (hormonal and cardiovascular are the two that come to mind) which favor AFAB people, men's high death rate is largely attributable to their lifestyle choices. Increased rates of tobacco, alcohol, narcotics, obesity, etc. and decreased rates of presenting for healthcare. Higher rates of suicide and homicide as well. Women, however, except for a handful of diseases stereotyped to affect only women--like osteoporosis and breast ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 7 | They’re “not in a relationship” but “exclusive” after 6 months of dating 🚩🤡and it turns out he’s a creep and a liarI don't think it ought to be taboo for women to openly vet potential dates and partners using social media and people finder sites, or local court searches. It's rough out there! Women are substantially more likely to be murdered in dating, romantic, and sexual contexts. And people lie constantly. I think if a man was offended that I was looking him up on a website like that when we had just first gotten to know each other, I'd take that as a red flag. A HVM in my eyes would understand and appre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Nah men, women are visual creatures too.You're not even describing someone who is ugly or unattractive for aesthetic reasons. You're describing someone who doesn't take care of himself. Poor hygiene and dental care, no exercise, etc. have long-term ramifications to physical and mental health. Why, when considering someone for long-term partnership, should you not take into account how sustainable their lifestyle is? I think that's the true difference here. Men are socialized--through media consumption, porno, etc.--to find women's fea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 01:28 PM |
| 43 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchySystemic problems require systemic solutions. Therapy, even implemented en masse, is an individual solution. The problem is not that we somehow have a bunch of individually terrible men. The problem is that we have a society which breeds male terribleness, and declares that any man who doesn't behave terribly is gay, a cuck, whipped, whatever you like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 24 | It took him 41 years to finally make her a priorityOk word I'm glad I'm not the only one who got guilt vibes. Either that he just plain feels bad for treating her like a helpmate for most of their lives, or he cheated or otherwise transgressed seriously. Or she reached a breaking point and this is his lovebomb apology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 02:45 PM |
| 48 | Man(27) gets 17 year old pregnant after one night stand and absolves any fault "she was drunk but she wasn't sLoPpy dRuNk"This is fucking stupid. Wan wan she told me she was in college. I was 16 when I started college. How about no more acting upon attraction to teenagers instead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 11:59 PM |
| 2 | You Have to Vet Harder Despite Health ComplicationsI have EDS and feel this a lot. Not vetting properly can lead you down a long line of being gaslit ("Is it really that bad? You should be able to do XYZ for me even tho you have a health problem"), abandoned if you have a flareup, etc. I got lucky with my boyfriend in that he was raised by a nurse, so my health has never been an issue. If anything happens to my current relationship I'm only going to pursue men who either are health professionals or who were raised by them for this reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:25 AM |
| 21 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?I could only make it through half the convo before I gave up and was like wow what a fucking tryhard this guy is. I'm sorry, but nobody talks like this in real life. They're on Tinder. They don't really know each other. This isn't normal. Just my 2c. I don't trust people who come off this strong asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:40 AM |
| 55 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.An article from a neurology journal on the subject: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3050060/ Porn use disorder causes the same overexpression of the protein DeltaFosB, which can likewise be associated with substance use disorder and addictions. An aside: I love Dan Savage, but I hate how he insists that porn and sex addiction are invented disorders by moralists who just want us to all be monogamous and sexually vanilla. We have science to demonstrate that this is a destructive behav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:25 PM |
| 23 | Is the bar actually this low? That we are just so happy to find a guy who isn’t r*pey that we think they’re the one? 😐Glad I wasn't the only one who caught this! 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 12:59 PM |
| 81 | This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..The two singular most NVMs I've ever been subjected to were both from wealthy families. In one case he came from 1% of 1%-ers. Idk if it's bc I was raised in a very modest family myself, but I simply cannot get along with wealthy men. Maybe some are HVMs! I have yet to see that for myself though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 06:53 PM |
| 26 | Be careful out there ladies: Comments under a tic tok about most dangerous people you’ve met- man kills wife, justifies it claiming infidelity. Men need to hold one another accountable, not justify violence and in this case murder.Even if your man doesn't do/say this stuff, if his friends do and he continues to fw them and not correct them, he's just as NV as they are tbh. Especially considering how many men statistically come from homes where they saw their mothers being abused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:44 PM |
| 23 | “But I love casual sex. I have a high sex drive and I don’t want a loving relationship.”I was this woman over the winter when I was single. I feel pretty attacked but tbh I deserve it. There are only two things that can come of casual, meaningless, NSA sex: 1.) You're having sex with someone who does not respect you and is just using you to hook up. Regardless if that's what you're doing back to him, that's what he's doing to you. 2.) He doesn't actually want casual NSA sex. He wants a relationship but is not mature enough to ask for it nor actually do the things on his part to beg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:Yes. This will make them more vulnerable to exploitation by LVM and NVM of average intelligence who listen to Jordan Peterson and Stefan Molyneux and think Elon Musk is a God among men. Unfortunately I do think this will also affect high IQ women with low self-esteem. I was highly vulnerable to this kind of stuff in late adolescence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:My father has almost a genius IQ and my mother and stepmother both are, in addition to lacking power in other aspects, both of average intelligence. The women that my ex-husband have dated are also significantly less intelligent than he is. All these women also have heavy pickme tendencies. I don't think that smart women do this thing where they deliberately pick lower-IQ men in order to exploit them in some capacity (e.g. free labor, "loyalty" i.e. fewer opportunities to leave, etc)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:I'm not going to entertain the second two articles because they're obvious clickbait. We're better than dumbing ourselves down for LVM who are so insecure about their own IQ that they go out of their way to find smart women and then ask them to dumb it down. I think the first article has merit as a conversation starter. What are some red flags to look out for, wrt men who are insecure about their intelligence and make it a HVW's problem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 04:43 PM |
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