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I think the key thing to understand is that you are free to do whatever you want. It is your life. You can dress however you want, have whatever hobbies you want, and think however you want to think. You have every right to do what you choose. You also need to understand that you cannot control how other people perceive you or respond to you, especially men. Just because you like yourself as you are does not guarantee that men will share that same affinity. You need to do some soul searching and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:41 PM
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If you can meet and marry a man who WANTS to and DOES spend money on you, why would any woman willingly choose a man who doesn’t? It’s a no-brainer. The women who screech the most about giving broke and non-generous men chances are the women who have low/no self esteem, and they think they are not valuable enough to garner such treatment from men (therefore other women should have equally low expectations). Couldn’t and will never be me. I just got back from vacation with my husband. While on va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:47 PM
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Times like these make people come to terms with mortality, and the fact that tomorrow isn’t guaranteed. Nothing makes men who were too bad or afraid of pursuing women more desperate than the idea that they may never get the chance to succeed. This is why people are getting desperate to date during a pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:07 PM
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I’m a Taurus, and I’m married to a Scorpio. We compliment each other nicely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:03 PM
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Couldn’t be me. I would never be with a man who is shiftless or has no ambition with follow through. Absolute dealbreaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:45 PM
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The point is that not having money is significantly more likely to make you miserable than having money will. Why stack the odds against yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:21 AM
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If a man has no male friends, it’s safe to say that he has been perceived as extremely low ranking on the male hierarchy by other men. If no other man is willing to hang out with him, you have to ask yourself why that would be. The male disposition to compete also extends to their social circle and contacts, meaning that men gain status and rank by having valuable friends. Men will befriend other men who are higher than them in the hierarchy because those contacts open the opportunity for them t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 05:45 PM
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Men who are low on the male hierarchy spend significant amounts of time trying to crawl their way up in the eyes of other men. It’s important to them because life on the low end of the totem pole is brutal, and the brutality is almost entirely dictated by other men. When I say that men constantly compete with each other, I don’t think that many women truly understand what that entails. In everyday life and interactions, men are constantly sizing each other up to determine where they rank among e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:27 AM
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This is a perfect example of a man spending money who does not have a “generosity mindset”. He spent money on you, but resented the fact that he did. He did not spend money on you without ill feelings towards the gesture. Notice also how his true self reared its ugly head early on. Based on your post, he only spent significant money on you for a period of 2 weeks to one month’s time, which was all before the three month mark. He couldn’t hide his true self for long. He most definitely tried to m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:41 AM
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Indeed. How a man spends money on you should not be a trait that is considered in a vacuum. If a man spends a lot of money on you, but is abusive or incompatible in other major ways, he is not a good match. That one good trait alone is not enough to qualify a man as high value. It's one trait on a long list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:56 PM
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100%. Many women get caught up and confused because they believe men think exactly the way that we normally would. This is not the case, especially regarding money. Almost all things that men do are done to compete in the male hierarchy. They want to acquire lots of money because it raises their ranking. Having a hot woman on their arm raises their ranking. Being tall/strong/good looking raises their ranking. Many men do not live their lives to impress women. Many live their lives to impress oth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:38 PM
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The people that say "money isn't everything" when talking to women have ulterior motives. Men that say it are oftentimes trying to increase their chances of getting with women. If they can make money seem less/not important (Hah!), they think they can make their relative lack of money seem not important as well. Women that say it either (a) want you to get with any man/think you being single is a bad thing or (b) don't want your standards to be higher than their own. If your standard is to only …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 04:38 PM
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100% this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:49 PM
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Indeed. A man who is truly invested in you will try his best to move mountains for you, and he views his efforts with fondness and pride instead of as an inconvenience. A man who feels “meh” about you will not put in that effort. Avoiding men with lukewarm views about you is critical for success in the dating and relationship world. They are huge time sinks otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:53 PM
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Yup. In his mind, he has been "friendzoned" and he has to reclaim his "pride" by demanding sexual content from OP under threats of him ending communication with her. ​ He has yet to realize that he isn't special, and there are billions of other men on the planet to vet instead of putting up with this foolishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:51 PM
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This is what happens when desperation takes precedence over self-preservation. It’s horrible to witness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:25 PM
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Once a woman knows what it is like to have a man be financially generous towards her, instead of having men clutching their nickels for dear life like they are the only ones they will ever see, she will have much higher expectations about how men treat her going forward. My husband spent $400 on dinner alone for he and I on Valentine's day this year. You bet that bar is and will remain high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:28 PM
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Ultimately, it is about control. A woman who engages in relationships from a mindset of wanting to be with someone instead of needing to be with them is a woman whose loyalty (defined by LVM as her never leaving them regardless of what they put her through) is not guaranteed. A woman who isn't with her partner out of need has inherent options for her life. Men who date such women know they need to always be on their best behavior and treat the women properly, or else the women will leave. Women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:41 PM
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I think the transition from "manic passion" to "comfortable happiness" is normal and expected. I don't think our brains and lives would be able to withstand being in the "manic passion" stage of love forever. I don't know about others, but the "manic passion" stage of infatuation has always been pleasantly uncomfortable for me. In the early stages of love with my husband, it was hard for me to focus on anything other than him. I barely ate or slept. My performance at work suffered because I was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:48 PM
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Indeed. He's trying so hard to "mark" her through physical contact. It's his way of signaling, "She's mine/She's with me. Don't even try to approach her," to other men non-verbally. The dead look in her eyes, the way she isn't looking at him, and the fact that she turned her cheek to him is her way of signaling, "I wish I was anywhere but here".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:05 PM
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No. Absolutely not. The End.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:39 PM
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That description aligns more closely with the “working class” or “lower class”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:58 AM
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I mean, we often hear from such eloquent lads that being a woman is “living life on easy mode”. Jealousy/envy is the best explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:52 AM
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Is it just me, or does anyone else get annoyed when people refer to males or females as “species”? They are not species. Men seem to be particularly guilty of this error.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:49 AM
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I've noticed that whenever the topic of "looking good for one's age" comes up, men typically only focus on the shape of their bodies. They never seem to focus on facial attractiveness. Most men tend to look rather worn out after the age of 35+, if not earlier, mostly because they refuse to maintain good skincare habits throughout their youth. Years of sun exposure, bad diets, alcohol, etc wrecks havoc on most people's skin, especially those that don't even bother to use moisturizer. Ask most men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:49 PM
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You are desperate to be with a man, ANY MAN, because you seem to find more value in what some man can do for you or make you feel, compared to self-preservation and valuing yourself. Be honest with yourself about what you think you can get from a man that has you acting this recklessly. Is it children? Is it "attention" or "validation"? Is it sex? You are currently operating out of a sense of being unfulfilled with yourself and your life, WITHOUT A MAN. Only people who do not feel whole within t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:04 PM
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