| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Watching some of the youtube and netflix recommendations and is a real eyeopener | DISCUSSION | Travelcat78 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Video about PickMes from great channel | FDS HUMOR | Travelcat78 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 12:47 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 64 | The nerdboy syndrome is just as toxic as the f*ckboyLove the IT Crowd! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Cruella has to be the most FDS thing Disney has ever madeA friend saw it and im not going to spoil it, but the back story for the dalmantin hate/wanting a dog coat was....interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on matchmaking services?Right? I did a 20s-30s night and it was a bit much seeing the guys in their 30s, like those are my options? 😂 The guys i matched with had been to a few of these nights, probably because they had no luck with OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on matchmaking services?I dont know if id even recommend something like speed dating tbh, i tried that once and found it was good to see people straight away rather than text first, but ultimately didnt meet anyone. Made two matches but they were both a bit strange too i realised after going on proper dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Dating coach says to implement a 3 month no kissing rule. Thoughts?Lol great line. Can relate too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:48 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 12 - How FDS Can Help Autistic Queens Navigate RelationshipsStarted watching Love on the Spectrum the day before this podcast ep, felt like good timing. I liked having some guests on, felt like a nice change, and the topic was interesting. Looking forward to another patreon moment this week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else find certain shows/movies infuriating now that you've found FDS?I was going to ask what the thoughts were on SatC etc. I got into podcasts looking back at different shows and its nice to revisit it, even if my opinions have changed a lot lol. Edit: have binged friends a few times and didnt ship Ross and Rachel the last time i watched it. Did watch the Friends reunion then they had the finale episode after and it was like stay on the plane! Just so manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 8 | LVM have always and will always diminish powerful women. Continue being powerful, Queens 👑There was a great book about Cleopatra i read ages ago, fiction but the author did her research similar to this book. Also if you look at the coins from that time, shes not portrayed as a 'typical' beauty, saw them in an exhibition/history class. I would definately read this book 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 10:48 PM |
| 27 | Beware of the Men Who Want to 'Find Their Pam,' This Could Be Your Future.Right? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:22 AM |
| 5 | FDS has made soooo many shows unwatchable for meSome of the comments were pretty foul, like defending that happening. I dont know why a fake body could have been used. Guess they wanted it 'authentic'? 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 10:12 AM |
| 7 | FDS has made soooo many shows unwatchable for meSame, i didnt hear that at the time either. Really makes you look at them differently, the shows already full of staged violence without actually harming actresses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 10:04 AM |
| 35 | FDS has made soooo many shows unwatchable for meA revenge torture scene 😐 but i agree, a lot of these scenes werent necessary. and only like 2 mins was used. Its super messed up, the actress said shes got pdsd from it. The ending for her character was awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:25 AM |
| 49 | FDS has made soooo many shows unwatchable for meAgreed, and did you hear how one of the actresses, hannah waddingham, was tied to a board and waterboarded for 10 hours on set? That was on reddit this week 🥺 idk if i can rewatch it post FDS, i gave the books away this year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-in😅 same here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-inLast year i got unmatched because i didnt want something casual in march. He didnt seem to believe in covid. Its like yeah ill risk my familys safety so you can bang a bunch of people. Realised it wasnt a good time to be on OLD 😅 deactivated my profile. Can agree that constant vetting would be a must, even post FDS discovery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Porn culture and Only Fans promotes the dehumanization of women everywhere.Had an 'interesting' conversation about OF, someone thought it just was a chance to see people they knew nude. 🤡 Im finding out more acquitances/friends of friends are using it which kinda freaks me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-inIdk how many people watched Eurovision, but its one of my favourite times of the year 🥳 just been relistening to the songs today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Watch Out for Negs and Men Who Are Jealous Of YouYes! 👑 Here for it, happy solo living with the cat and a great career | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️Only met IRL one person on BFF, we went to a concert together back when i wouldnt go by myself. I think were still FB friends 🤷🏼♀️ otherwise found it very much like same interests, no one really stood out as someone id want to be friends with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:17 AM |
| 5 | I love this sub for work vettingThere was a great account on insta, her podcast got me through last year. Shes now on this different route about not being offended and talked about Petersen on her new podcast. Disappointed because i thought he was a right wing weirdo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:35 AM |
| 17 | Men Who Have Inconsistent Communication Will Eventually Ghost YouWhenever i gave scrotes a second chance rather than block and deleting after a few days, i would always regret it. It happens all the time on OLD, one reason why im glad to be off it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:09 AM |
| 36 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Matthew Perry looks like a grandad rather than the same age as Jen, Courtney and Lisa. Anyone watching the reunion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 08:16 AM |
| 3 | A lot to unpack here....why on earth do some women deal with this absolute bullshit??😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | It’s okay to have preferences. Ladies, don’t let unattractive men shame you for wanting “Chad”.Great quote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 07:17 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021After a few posts about the Male Gaze, i sure notice it more. Im doing more study and the guys will literally just stare at you when youre in the common school areas. I hate it. Theyre all so young too, its totally what the most recent podcast was talking about with the pornsick look. Great podcast, always look forward to the next one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021MisKonduct is great, if youre into the retro look. Based in australia but pretty sure ships internationally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Y'all I'm so HEATED when it comes to how my friends male partners treat them.I feel this, theres a few friends partners i really dont like. Have had to distance myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Bullet Dodging Chronicles: Where Are They Now?Blocked and deleted, though last i saw they hadnt posted much, just annual updates of their cats birthdays and not much in between. Another tried to add me to their podcast insta and theyve lost all their hair at early 30s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:31 AM |
| 8 | "Feminism Chat"??Havent had that yet, thought id turned off my DMs but got this random request saying Hello dear how are you? Didnt look at the profile, just deleted it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 5 | How FDS changed how I view every day interactions with a partner.Last time i saw my ex, wed had lunch and walking back to his place. He was walking so far ahead i slowed down and was going to walk a separate way back to my car when he came back and said What are you doing? Like he was confused i wasnt sprinting to keep up with him. Ended up blocking him not long after that. Eye opening that other women have had this happen too, makes me feel better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:19 AM |
| 9 | Pretending men in public are invisible: a new game I like to playStarted doing this more this year, wearing sunglasses is great to help with avoiding eye contact. I can still feel them staring though, which seems weird i havent noticed this as much. Maybe i was in my pickme bubble or the pandemic has made scrotes more obvious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:00 AM |
| 15 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 10 - Boomers, Coomers, & Consumers: What Went Wrong with Male SocializationI told someone the Roast a Scrote story from the start and had to say she got out safely when they were in his house. And then he had the nerve to call her a gold digger after one sip of JD! Also love the dick conneisser line 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Men Who Don’t Believe You/ Play Devils Advocate and What It Really MeansExperienced this too much, good to read some tips on how to deal with it/vet more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InThank you! 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:54 AM |
| 7 | Man recreates the patriarchy with catsFair enough, gotta keep identifying details hidden. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:39 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Check-InLooking forward to turning 30 next month! Feels like a chance to put the mistakes of my 20s behind me, especially the dating ones 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 09:22 AM |
| 20 | Man recreates the patriarchy with catsWow, how did people respond to him doing that? And first time I heard of a dog called Daniel 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:39 AM |
| 17 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️Theres so many 😅 one that comes to mind is paying 50/50 for a hotel room for a ONS from OLD then the guy didnt even bring condoms. I went out to buy them 🤡 he obviously had a partner since he wouldnt have me over at his house, said his 'roomates' were religious/conservative. Big yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 15 | Henry VIII's wives if they'd never met himIts Sentimental Garbage on spotify, theyre looking at books typically called chick lit and reviewing them. So i listened to the one about The other boyeln girl. I really enjoy them, but its not a purely historical look at it 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:48 AM |
| 3 | “I just had my time completely wasted by a LVM douchebag, but OMG it was awesome!!” 🤦♀️This reminded me of when i was waiting for an OLD date and he came over talking on his phone then stayed on it for half the date. Apparently a work call. Id already brought a drink but now i would have gotten it in a takeaway container and left. He also unmatched after the date, beat me to it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:49 AM |
| 22 | Henry VIII's wives if they'd never met himI just listened to this great podcast about the Tudors 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:33 AM |
| 12 | Billie Eilish and the teenager to Sex Symbol pipelineI agree, it makes me more sad than like yeah, empowerment! I read the article and saw it on here too, that she was like do whatever you want, do surgery. I think she looks stunning, it just feels depressing Billie/her management felt the need to do this. Most people love the shoot though and it makes me feel nuts for not liking it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 9 | Do you run into men demanding your attention and getting angry when you don't give it to them?Had one guy on OLD not text for a week, i normally unmatch but we had mutual friends. After he wrote back, i didnt and he was like are you giving me a taste of my own medicine. Well yeah lol. But not again, block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Do you run into men demanding your attention and getting angry when you don't give it to them?Goddamn i love this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:28 AM |
| 63 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieI am here for the dick talk 😂 i love how it went from disney to dicks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-InTrue words 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:31 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-InHad a conversation on OLD last year with this guy who was shocked id been single for over a year. He confessed hed recently gotten out of a long relationship i think and was rarely single. Didnt seem to get that you need time to process stuff in between relationships. Honestly its a red flag even asking about your history like that if its guys and no ones business. Like the others say, just turn it back on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | SATC Clip: Carrie and Big. Who Deserves the Most Hate/ Responsibility for this Scene?Theres a podcast about the series, it really goes into details about the different themes. I dont think i was a mr big fan, even in my pickme days. Just red flags all over the place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:29 AM |
| 6 | How to spread the word of FDS & warn other women about TRPThere was this really good influencer with a podcast who has now gone a bit weird and i think was recommending him. All i knew about him was from this site, but i dont know why she would promote him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:13 AM |
| 9 | How far would your ex have gotten with you if you'd been following FDS principles then?Would probably still be a virgin lol, like others have said. Lot of dating history but no one really HV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 04:51 AM |
| 15 | Ads on Reddit targeting poor women and girls for prostitution. Absolutely disgusting.Watched Hot Girls Wanted, speaking of exploitation, and the guy who took 10 per cent of their earnings called himself a talent scout. I think pimp is the more accurate word. The young women were 18-25, most were 18-19 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 07:10 AM |
| 9 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.Same, but it was my bf. He deleted the photo but ive wondered if it was still in deleted files. Scary how so much of the same stuff has happened to other women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Being repeatedly ignored sounds sooo fun! Let's get hitched ASAP! 🤡 Why is this normalized?Its wild! Or like when politicians accused of r*pe will get mental health leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:27 AM |
| 4 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateIm so glad the police are taking it seriously in your update! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:09 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inHi, ive felt like that too. I answered this in another sub but ive found friends from work, family friends and Meetup. Depending on your location there can be a lot of great Meetup groups. Dont give up! We're here for you 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Men are out of their minds desperate for any attentionAfter reading FDS i noticed this a lot, especially like guys revving in cars next to you. I refuse to look at them but its easier in a car rather than public transport | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:55 AM |
| 6 | Have you seen the male-targeted ads on this subreddit?I see testestone patch ads 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:48 AM |
| 9 | Epidemic of LVM in their 20sKnew someone who first met their gf on chat roulette when she was 14 and he was 21...i cant believe i didnt see that at grooming. They lived in different countries too. I met him when they broke up but still lived together, super weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 10:53 PM |
| 15 | Men who say oddly specific things about their exHaha sure, was in my pickme days but knew enough to get out. Met on tinder (havent used it in years) and i think arranged to meet that day. Drove him around, had a walk date, got pizza, i paid for it, went back to his place (huge red flags looking back). While i was eating pizza, she called and he got so angry very fast, he ended the phone call by yelling the c word. I was waiting by the door because i felt conditioned to not just leave. He said its ok to go, i ran to my car. He texted me later … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence*Completely! I didnt get that when i lived in a big city but its spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 01:34 PM |
| 20 | Men who say oddly specific things about their exTrue words, blocked and deleted 😂 crazy how theres so many common red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 46 | Men who say oddly specific things about their exHad that happen on a first date, she called him and he lost it. And they say women are more emotional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:44 PM |
| 2 | What's the WORST COSMO ADVICE you've ever seen on the topic of dating, sex, and relationships?Oh man just the link titles are bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:57 PM |
| 35 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 7 - Where TF are the High Value Men...is Online Dating Dead?!Was waiting for this, topic did not disappoint. 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:46 AM |
| 13 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡Terry Crews said he was a porn addict and cheated on his wife, now theyve got a relationship audiobook out. Vomit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:07 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InDiscovered FDS recently and especially love the podcast. Waiting for my flair 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 5 - Vice Media Comes For The QueensI discovered the subreddit and the podcast this week, love it! Listened to all episodes. Keep it up Queens! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:38 AM |
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