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| -1 | Why do socially awkward men love history, politics and are often dragged into the rabbit holeOr it’s just a safe space ffs | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/26 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the whole “20% of men get 80% of women” line?Tyvm for the additional context. If anyone knows of updated similar information I'd love to see it. Kinda sad that the last publicly available information on this is 16 years old. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/25 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the whole “20% of men get 80% of women” line?Men as rated by women, and women as rated by men - Dataclysm. The above graphic may be a bit old but I'd love to see more recent, more comprehensive data. Either case that right there's the tiny little kernel of truth. With a lot of empathy and compassion, however, we can maybe all have better life experiences. Bit too late for me but maybe not for others. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/25 09:42 AM |
| -2 | Being a black man and why I was black/redpilled about women.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_expendability A little empathy and compassion can go a long way. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/24 11:22 PM |
| 6 | It's weird how all Females are exactly the sameWe need a subreddit to collect the best examples of “all men are…“ and “all women are…” | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/24 11:59 PM |
| 0 | "Men need to be confident to get a relationship. Women do not."Sex drive? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/05/24 06:00 PM |
| 22 | If you think modern women are all about equality, just remember that 10 million women fled Ukraine, leaving behind their 16-year-old sons and 60-year-old fathers to fight against the Russians.Commenting to get banned elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/24 10:50 AM |
| -5 | What do the people here think of evolutionary psychology?Yeah our psychological states and problems and issues totally didn't evolve and this has nothing to say on our current situations or wants and needs and impulses. Nope. Not at all. Just popped into existence. Yep. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/24 04:47 PM |
| -4 | How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women?Eh. There's also some serious fundamental inherent psychological differences, no? But yeah, people are different and different people, both men and women, want and need different things. And that's ok. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/24 02:53 AM |
| 14 | How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women?Women are just people. MIND. BLOWN. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/24 02:23 AM |
| 6 | "You're the type of guy women will only appreciate when you get older"And there's no way out of it other than find better ways to spend your time - gym, reading, work, /r/financialindependence, fitness, and education. Only took me about 35 years of struggle and eventually getting a high-status job. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter.That was my understanding too, after reading about it. Which makes me sad. It’s like humans can’t figure this problem out. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/24 10:39 AM |
| 4 | I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter.Agreed. Not that the whole industry doesn't breed drug, human trafficking and misogyny problems. Legalisation has very serious problems and leads to nasty crap. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/24 01:38 AM |
| -11 | I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter.Beats the f word out of blowing your brains out or sinking deeper into the crap. Gives you a huge boost and may make you able to stomach life for another year or so while you get a chance to maybe improve something or other, or maybe just maybe meet someone with enough empathy to not immediately dismiss your concerns. But people with empathy for those who are not like themselves, are few and far between. As evidenced in this thread. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/24 01:36 AM |
| 11 | Tradwives/ redpill women ruined my worldviewI just told a woman today that I am very impressed with her PhD. I'm very much looking fwd to meeting her. Sandwiches are nice but I can make one myself and it's nice to know it won't be only my salary carrying everything in case we partner up. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Evolutionary psychology is mostly garbage.Tyvm | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/24 10:10 AM |
| 0 | Why the redpill is getting big and biggerIf all you ever do is troll on the internet, are you… Nvfm. Ya numpty. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/21 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Why the redpill is getting big and biggerJob that mostly dudes do. The whole traditional manly man jobs. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/21 01:14 PM |
| -3 | Why the redpill is getting big and biggerCongratulations. EDIT: I'm sorry I hurt someone's feelings. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 07:06 PM |
| -5 | Why the redpill is getting big and biggerIf one doesn’t have a good group of friends, that should be the first order of business. !remindme 15 years Please do let me know how that works out for you after a few decades working your arse off in pursuit of whatever dreams, goals, and ideals. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 05:08 PM |
| -13 | Why the redpill is getting big and biggerYeah good luck with that if you’re a busy professional dude working dude jobs and struggling with your issues and needs and wants. Might work in college or if you’re in a mixed job industry. Or you have mad social skills or a good group of friends. Oh well. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How the treatment of men with mental issues can lead to them taking the red pillWe attribute free will and agency to people we dislike or don’t identify or empathise with. We make excuses and forgive those we sympathise with. If a person is super focused on their own experience and that of others just like them, it’s understandable that they’ll see the other gender as transactional or zero sum actors. Reference women who say “all the good ones are taken.” | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/21 08:44 AM |
| 3 | I'm 21 (M) and I dont have experience with womenIt’s gonna suck. Probably. Real bad. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/20 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Help me not to fall back into red pill thoughts after lies from a love interestPeople are weird, and sometimes change their minds, and often make mistakes. I’m pretty sure you and me have made mistakes too, just like her. Forgive and move on. Focus on how you can do things better, rather than how other people should act better. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Red pill convinced me I might be too ugly for love. is it true?Social skills, body, job, resources, education, leadership roles in group activities can help any man become more attractive, generally. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 8 | What made you spit the pillEven if everything the RP community says is true, I would rather be respectful to people than ‘successful’ and getting laid with lots of beautiful women. Call it a self-handicap. I'd rather be alone-ish and unhappy for the rest of my life than manipulate women and feel like crap for doing it. EDIT: That said, yeah, many (but not most?) women say they want this or that, then respond and are attracted to many of the standard “manly” qualities and character that RP ...jerks (for lack of a better wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/20 04:29 PM |
| 9 | Isnt self-improvement in the hopes of attracting a female in itself adhering to toxic masculine gender norms. What if that bald fat nerd drinks Mountain Dew and eats Cheetos all day completely happy with his lifestyle?Yep, and people are very different in what they want/are willing to settle for, both men and women. There’s women who are willing to settle for a dude that just has a paycheque and aren’t arses. Trying to make overly broad generalisations is part of where any red pill or proscriptive dating advice goes wrong. Then again, if you want highly sought after people, best be ready to be someone they’d be interested in. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/09/19 11:21 PM |
| 3 | a noticeable trend between history of abuse and red pill acceptance/indoctrinationhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zero-sum_thinking Easy to get stuck in a mindset if that’s all you know. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I hold my hands up. I am another hopeless nice guy who has spent all of his twenties with background depression and unfulfilment because I can't get laid. Help?Probably not. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I hold my hands up. I am another hopeless nice guy who has spent all of his twenties with background depression and unfulfilment because I can't get laid. Help?Sometimes I wonder if the same applies to me. I want smoking hot crazy sexy smart and outdoorsy nerd. I wonder if I just need someone to keep me in line. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | I hold my hands up. I am another hopeless nice guy who has spent all of his twenties with background depression and unfulfilment because I can't get laid. Help?"Stop looking" might work for some dudes in some situations. But generally in the US dudes are expected and required to make moves, and that only gets worse the older you get and the more strict you are with requiring a certain level of good looks in a woman you're interested in. The vast majority of good looking women have no need to pursue dudes or initiate anything at all. They show up and do what they normally do. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/19 12:14 PM |
| 2 | I hold my hands up. I am another hopeless nice guy who has spent all of his twenties with background depression and unfulfilment because I can't get laid. Help?They also do want to fuck someone with stereotypically masculine characteristics. Plus most women are different from each other, and care about different things to a greater or lesser degree. Then there's the whole "I want X & Y, and need Z!" ...but respond very positively to "A, B, and C" but let's not get into that. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/19 12:12 PM |
| 3 | I hold my hands up. I am another hopeless nice guy who has spent all of his twenties with background depression and unfulfilment because I can't get laid. Help?Ever gone on job interviews and not gotten the job and realized that yeah, that sucked, but at least I'm better prepared for the next job interview? Took me about 10-15 job interviews before I got lucky and got my current rather kickarse job. Congratulations from a 40-something somewhat bitter, injured and unhappy ex-military guy. You have probably now realized that every single date that fails to get you to whatever next stage that you want to go to - is one more step toward getting better at t… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/19 02:26 AM |
| 5 | What type of people are attracted to Red Pill ideologies?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zero-sum_thinking Add to that lack of long term positive exposure to other people’s way of life and experiences. They may change if they fall in love and start empathising with others, or have a daughter and watch her grow up. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/19 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Is Toxic For Relationships Becuase It's A Wrong Interpretation of Game Theory (defections are the norm instead of exceptions)They only care about the culture they are a part of, or cherrypicking from other sources. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | BahahahaHi /r/TwoXChromosomes can I get banned, too? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/09/18 02:58 AM |
| 6 | If I don’t want the red pill, how can I stop myself from growing into a pussy?Military. Fire/rescue. Investigations. SWAT. Martial arts. Team sports. Meditation. Travel. Helping others even when you can't help yourself. Medicins Sans Frontiers. Be a man amongst men. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/18 12:19 AM |
| 5 | Male Redditor plans suicide after losing custody of his child and having to pay child support set at $200 short of his monthly wage. Was told that most support available to the poor are "more for women".Scroll down a bit for indications that he may be lying. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Male Redditor plans suicide after losing custody of his child and having to pay child support set at $200 short of his monthly wage. Was told that most support available to the poor are "more for women".Scroll down a bit for indications that he may be lying. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/18 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Male Redditor plans suicide after losing custody of his child and having to pay child support set at $200 short of his monthly wage. Was told that most support available to the poor are "more for women".Scroll down a bit for indications that he may be lying. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/18 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Male Redditor plans suicide after losing custody of his child and having to pay child support set at $200 short of his monthly wage. Was told that most support available to the poor are "more for women".Scroll down a bit for indications that he may be lying. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Playboy Model Dani Mathers Loses Bid to Dismiss Charges in Body-Shaming Case: will stand trial for secretly photographing an elderly woman in the shower at the gym and posting it on Snap.No not special rules. She just assumes that everyone gets treated like she does, because that's the only way she's ever been treated. And fat people are "funny and ugly of course." | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/05/17 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Woman Hires Undercover Cop To Kill Husband (Cops Decide To Have Some Fun)It's just a self defence mechanism. Reality is just too awful to be true, so something else has to have happened. "I'm a good person, I wouldn't have done something as bad as THEY said I did. Or they tricked me into it. It's their fault. Why is everyone always picking on me?" | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/05/17 06:24 PM |
| 2 | How to get banned from r/Feminismhttps://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/5ixalg/one_day_all_of_us_should_be_safe_regardless_of/dbcpr31/?context=3 Heh. It does work. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/16 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Spotted in a UK University men's bathroomSave | /r/MensRights | 26/04/16 08:17 PM |
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