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And yet, because the differences of undergraduates is higher in STEM related fields for men than women, men on average make more than women by around 25%. This is why it’s important to equalize the playing field as much as possible in the STEM realm. https://www.cnbc.com/2019/06/05/here-are-the-jobs-where-the-gender-wage-gap-is-the-widest.html
/r/MensRights23/08/19 02:31 AM
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Here is one direct example: "Giving our children messages such as "girls are nurturing" and "boys are science-orientated" can affect career choices too, adds Dr Malcolm Cross, psychologist at City University London." https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/features/the-gender-gap-messages-that-can-affect-the-way-boys-and-girls-grow-up-2111887.html
/r/MensRights23/08/19 12:35 AM
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Women in our society are not socialized the same way men are. Girls are taught to act with deference and modesty while boys are taught to confront an issue head on (generalizing of course as we can find all sort of outliers). As such, it's much easier for men, on average, to not back down to a few assholes compared to women, not to mention the concept of friendly ribbing is more often than not lost on someone socialized as female vs male. Now, I argue that the ideal way to correct such a hypothe…
/r/MensRights22/08/19 10:55 PM
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Ok. This is going to be a controversial post but I hope I can bring some perspective to why a women only STEM program is valuable even in a day and age where discrimination is rightfully condemned. First of all, I work in the engineering world which is objectively a male dominated field. As a trans girl who transitioned while in this field, I have had the opportunity to see behind the curtains as it were in both gender cases. My experience has demonstrated time and again both personally and betw…
/r/MensRights22/08/19 05:47 PM
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Lol
/r/MensRights14/08/19 04:22 AM
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Expound, because at the moment your response sounds like the words of an unhinged madman.
/r/MensRights14/08/19 03:24 AM
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I’m a far lefty. It’s not the left that hates men, it’s the liberal media that is trying to profit off of “man hate”
/r/MensRights14/08/19 03:07 AM
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Pretty much all celebrities are self centered/entitled assholes. No shock from this girl.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 11:26 AM
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I’m pretty sure we can find better representations of the need for the Men’s Rights moment than race realist Stefan Molyneux. Actually, I’ll take it one step further, using a trash person like him to defend this cause hurts the movement.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 10:16 PM
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Yes please! I feel terrible taking up seating space with my purse/handbag but am annoyed by having to keep it in my lap. As someone else mentioned, central location of post is an issue but outside of that, I’d absolutely use this!
/r/MensRights20/07/19 03:50 PM
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Same with Alabama https://www.vox.com/identities/2019/6/11/18661514/alabama-chemical-castration-bill-kay-ivey-effects
/r/MensRights15/07/19 07:03 PM
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The effectiveness of medical transition is well studied and consensually agreed as positive: " The year-long review screened more than 4,000 studies and identified 56 that assessed whether gender transition improves the mental well-being of transgender individuals. The analysis concluded that 93 percent of the studies found positive effects from gender transition, indicating “a robust international consensus in the peer-reviewed literature that gender transition, including medical treatments suc…
/r/MensRights14/07/19 12:34 AM
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As a lefty trans woman, I want to address your concern of “gender smashing” directly. I, and all other trans people I know, are not looking to change anyone else’s personal sense of their gender. For example, I absolutely love that my BF is a strong alpha male type that loves camping, politics, video games, and other male centric activities. Ironically, my experience as a trans woman has provided a bit of an insight into the lived experiential differences between men and women and while I do sup…
/r/MensRights12/07/19 12:58 PM
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Believe it or not, I am able to both be concerned by the fallout of the President's words as well as the vitriol being leveraged against men due to toxic femininity.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 12:03 AM
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I’m here for the liberation men and when the most powerful seat in our country is reinforcing male gender stereotypes, as a way to deflect from rape allegations no less, I think it’s important to call it out.
/r/MensRights10/07/19 06:54 PM
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You mean like how we’re focused on the words in bold that are asking the reader for “voting to reject the federal women’s suffrage amendment”?
/r/MensRights10/07/19 03:34 PM
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I guess we’re promoting anti-women’s suffrage propaganda now? Seems out of line with the purpose of this sub 😕
/r/MensRights10/07/19 03:05 PM
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Oh. Ok cool! Sounds like you both acted like reasonable consenting adults :)
/r/MensRights08/07/19 03:59 AM
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Wait, why?
/r/MensRights07/07/19 07:43 PM
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Sounds like a successful date! Why only the one?
/r/MensRights07/07/19 04:55 PM
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K
/r/MensRights28/06/19 10:08 PM
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This is demonstrably false: ​ "Results suggest that watching even 30 min of TV programming and advertising can alter a woman's perception of the shape of her body." https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1993-07752-001 ​ " Exposure to thin-ideal magazine images increased body dissatisfaction, negative mood states, and eating disorder symptoms and decreased self-esteem, although it did not cause more internalization of the thin-ideal. " https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/10640260490267751 ​ " Pa…
/r/MensRights28/06/19 07:11 PM
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Three obvious ones, Baked Alaska (with the frosted tips), Brittany Pettibone, and James Allsup (an inarguable white nationalist and neo-nazi). If Tim Pool wasn't a shill, and continues to declare he is a centrist, why is he associating with alt-righters and why, as pointed out in the original video I posted, does he promote and/or defend alt-righter talking points (like the clown meme not being a dogwhistle) while shitting all over dems/lefties constantly? You can bring on the downvotes but I'm …
/r/MensRights25/06/19 09:21 PM
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No, he really is a shill. He claims to be a "centrist" but here he is with a bunch of alt-righters... ​ https://www.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/8yqyns/centrist_journalist_tim_pool_tries_to_hide_as_he/
/r/MensRights25/06/19 08:57 PM
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There are also perfectly rational arguments against Tim Pool in general in the video I posted. Just have a watch and see for yourself :)
/r/MensRights25/06/19 05:57 PM
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Be careful of Tim pool. He has a checkered past and now seems to be a reactionary shill in the vane of Dave Rubin. https://youtu.be/GF6Fv3QYTm4
/r/MensRights25/06/19 05:12 PM
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Yikes, hopefully this person is getting adequate therapy. Sounds like they are dealing with a lot :( On a side note, I can assure you that hatred of men is not what leads most women down the path of transition. My appreciation of men has only grown as I’ve become the woman I am.
/r/MensRights24/06/19 06:16 PM
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Thank you for the compassion! I am wanting to be apart of this community because I have seen what it is like on “both sides” (even though I was pretending to be a guy in my past) and am using my solidifying of knowledge gained from this subreddit to educate my fellow women and feminists alike on the difficulties that men continue to face. I understand the unfortunate difficulty that being a trans woman carries with associating/defending you guys (from both sides honestly) but will continue to do…
/r/MensRights21/06/19 10:21 AM
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For a HUGE simple reason, the medical community has qualified a legal change of sex/gender identifier from male to female for me. You, good bot, are simply woefully misinformed on modern medicine. If you’d like, I can educate you on all of these interesting complexities. Just simply dm me 🤗
/r/MensRights21/06/19 12:59 AM
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Please refer to the last sentence of my comment :)
/r/MensRights21/06/19 12:38 AM
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Fair point. Maybe I don’t mean stoicism because I definitely “show my feelings during hardships.” I guess I’m more referring to the culture of lagom, or more commonly that Scandinavian coldness or indifference that foreigners experience from Swedes. Thanks for the clarification :)
/r/MensRights20/06/19 05:43 PM
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What an odd take. I definitely don’t hate men lol. Look through my post history and you’ll see I’m very positive towards the promotion of Men’s rights and the male character in general. As to why I “refuse to live my life as one”, simple, I’m a female. Or, if you don’t want to be bothered by the medical communities assessment on the topic, i’m at least someone who doesn’t represent the male identity well and I don’t want to bring shame to that which I love.
/r/MensRights20/06/19 05:38 PM
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Hmm interesting. Most of his mental changes are the opposite of what I have experienced (MtF here) with these exceptions: Depression - This has dramatically reduced to the point where my day to day is either neutral or exciting. Essentially every day before my hormonal transition was marked by general ennui. Leadership - Depends. I’ve always been a leader and in some regards I’ve gotten better at leading due to my increase in empathy. That being said, at the moment my confidence, which is necess…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 02:57 PM
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Sorry, not that the unhappiness aligns with who they are, but that their current gender identity actually aligns with who they are. Examples in which people could be confused about their gender identity but not actually be trans could be due to sexual abuse, confusion due to drugs, or experiencing another form of mental disorder. This is why therapy and a psychological letter of approval is a requirement for most medical treatment paths for trans patients, I.e. it’s a statement that the patient …
/r/MensRights20/06/19 12:32 PM
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Gender dysphoria is still a disorder in the DSM but this != trans. You can be trans without having gender dysphoria. Also, you can have gender dysphoria and not be trans. Gender dysphoria is merely the discomfort one has in their assigned gender role. Most of the time this is caused by society/the individual forcing a gender role onto themselves which doesn’t align with who they are (this case being trans) but there are some cases where the person is just merely confused and unhappy with their g…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 02:32 AM
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DSM is the totem for mental disorders. As the socially induced torment is not from the internal (psychological) but from the external (sociological), and psychology has concluded being trans is not a function of the mental state, transgenderism was removed as a mental disorder and placed squarely as a biological/medical disorder, just as homosexuality was done in the 1970’s. Science doesn’t care about what aught to be, but what is. As to better mental health, of course we need to encourage menta…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 01:51 AM
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Are you apart of the LGBT? From a personal perspective, the difference in the way people treated me by default pre and post “coming out” is VASTLY different (in a negative way). Speaking to the trans experience, this is almost unequivocally the reason why suicide is such a part of trans people’s existence (also substantiated but almost all psychological studies, hence why “transgenderism” was removed from the DSM-V). Disownment of family and friends is also a part of the gay/bi experience and li…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 12:53 AM
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From the article: He attributes the high rate of suicides in the LGBTQ community to “minority stressors” that can include being forced to hide one’s sexuality, suffering bullying, beatings and name-calling, or being forced to avoid places or conversations. Mental health support is not a panacea but a salve to the issue. Social change promoting positive attitudes towards the LGBTQ community would mitigate the necessity for extra mental health support to those currently disenfranchised.
/r/MensRights19/06/19 09:36 PM
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This is axiomatically sexist. Qualifications for president should not include race, gender,religion, etc...
/r/MensRights15/06/19 10:59 PM
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Thank you for posting this! Reminds me that my boyfriend needs his time to express his inner emotions just as much as I do! Excuse me while I go hug him and remind him I care for him and not just his stoicism and sexy body 😝🥰
/r/MensRights15/06/19 05:44 PM
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How about these? https://wallstreetinsanity.com/25-qualities-the-woman-you-marry-should-have/ https://www.zoosk.com/date-mix/dating-advice/qualities-of-a-good-women/ https://www.lovepanky.com/men/understanding-women/qualities-of-a-good-woman ​ I don't necessarily see an issue with these but I do find it sad some people need a guide to figure out what they require from a partner.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 04:50 PM
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If you’d like to donate to an organization helping out with assistance for these brave first responders: https://www.charitynavigator.org/index.cfm?bay=search.summary&orgid=9345&utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ios_share_flow_optimization&utm_term=control_1#.VBCHd_ldWao
/r/MensRights14/06/19 12:15 AM
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Ugh. That’s soo sad to hear. I think I’ll look into local veteran volunteer services to help out where I can and become more knowledgeable about their plight. Thanks for the idea :)
/r/MensRights13/06/19 01:58 PM
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The ignoring of our war impacted soldiers, regardless of gender, boils my blood. Veterans of war need more attention as it would lead to the electorate demanding that any required service person being put in harms way is done so for just means. We need to stop all of these knee jerk military actions to protect our heroes.
/r/MensRights13/06/19 05:21 AM
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Sick fucks. What’s even worse is that they couldn’t possibly have succeeded in “turning him into a girl.” Forced transition like this would have just resulted in gender dysphoria which would have likely ended with him taking his own life. That poor little boy 😢
/r/MensRights12/06/19 06:12 PM
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What a shit hole state :(
/r/MensRights12/06/19 05:44 AM
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So out of curiosity I did a bit of digging into a random stat there. I decided to look into the homicide rates and verified that yes, men account for >70% (actually was 78.4%) of homicide victims. An unfortunate stat that does come out of that data further analyzed is that spousal homicide actually results in a staggering 5x times occurrence of wives being killed by their husbands than the other way around. I figured it's good to keep that in mind for posterity purposes :( ​ https://ucr.fbi.gov/…
/r/MensRights12/06/19 02:53 AM
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Ugh. That poor little boy. These psychos were subjecting him to a life of gender dysphoria :(
/r/MensRights11/06/19 06:01 PM
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I’d argue this is egalitarian seeking as individuals desired status is particular to themselves. For example, I’m an egalitarian but desire a relationship of traditional gender roles in which my partner has the assumed ultimate trump card being the male partner. Sure I’ll push some limits but I expect any boundaries I cross to be ultimately policed by him. As long as this is consensual between both partners, it is promoting an egalitarian end. In the same way, your desire for voluntary social hi…
/r/MensRights11/06/19 05:26 PM
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Interesting. Do you not promote egalitarianism? If not, how do you think people/groups should be organized and treated within a society?
/r/MensRights11/06/19 05:07 PM
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I.e. partners would prefer to spend time with friends due to fundamental disagreements in relationship power dynamics spurred on by the advancement of female empowerment at the neglect of men. True egalitarian goals would be to also take into account resolving this neglect on male empowerment so that we strive to have both partners satiated by equal empowerment. This approach to egalitarian resolution would then result in better partnerships (monogamous relationships or otherwise). This is not d…
/r/MensRights11/06/19 04:01 PM
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Double down on egalitarianism? Can you please expound on: How I’ve done so Why that’s wrong (if not obvious from 1 above)
/r/MensRights11/06/19 02:25 PM
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Oh. I’m not arguing against monogamy! I’m suggesting that the cultural power dynamics assumed in it might need to be updated. For example, the sexist view that women can abuse their male partner because they are weak to the point of being an inconvenience instead of abusive. Also, as women are moving to parity in what they offer financially, the associated chivalrous elements of how money is spent (clothes shopping, pampering, etc...) need to be updated so that both parties are agreeing on finan…
/r/MensRights11/06/19 01:59 PM
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I think most people are just really bad at finding their life partner (see gender swapped link below) and/or our cultural practice of monogamy needs to be upgraded. Honestly, I think the issues men experience lead to foundational fractures in relationships and the advancement to our practice of monogamy will come from egalitarian resolutions to these issues. Also, it's one of the reasons why I personally benefit from hanging out with you guys as it allows me to gain a peak into the subconscious …
/r/MensRights11/06/19 12:49 PM
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No because: Egalitarianism is a personal ethical axiom that I will defend as long as I’m conscious. I selfishly enjoy the changes in expressions on my feminist friends and acquaintances faces when I bring this topic up for the first time. That being: confusion -> humor -> slight disgust -> frustration -> confusion -> intrigue. Granted, being a woman gives me some shielding to talk about the topic as women don’t assume there to be ulterior motives for my benefit from a patriarchy. In fact, this s…
/r/MensRights11/06/19 12:12 PM
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Wait, MRA's have a worldview? I thought it was just about resolving wrong doings that men specifically encounter due to the cultural/legal denomination of being a male. As to your critique of left wing policies resulting in the destruction of the black community, please point to the left wing policies that resulted in the destruction of unions and wage protection, the war on drugs, and the disproportionate incarceration rates of the black community. I can easily point to multiple right wing poli…
/r/MensRights11/06/19 06:53 AM
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Your first paragraph of concern could easily be gender swapped to the vitriolic concern I’ve seen from some men’s rights advocates towards feminists. Your second paragraph is also easily gender swapped when men’s rights groups are collectivist by definition in order to achieve common goals, a lot of which require legislation changes or social programs: prostate cancer research, suicide reduction research, child support changes, etc... These changes are all best addressed through socially minded …
/r/MensRights11/06/19 04:24 AM
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This is heartwarming :)
/r/MensRights11/06/19 02:12 AM
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Good luck hun. Don’t discredit studies just because you can’t tell the difference between a conclusion and individual data points.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 05:20 PM
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You highlighted “gain” as your primary concern. The military “gains” abled body soldiers.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 05:18 PM
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“Given this, true usage rates from civilian case studies imply only 30 treatments in the AC, suggesting that the total number of individu- als seeking treatment may be substantially smaller than 0.1 percent of the total force. Thus, we estimate the impact on readiness to be negligible.” Right there. The military is looking for people to add to their ranks to support its readiness. Negligible readiness impact means that in general, trans people are still adequate bodies to support the goal of the…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 05:12 PM
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To be fair, I’ve seen a lot of vitriol on this “side” too that makes me think the same would be done by MRAs on feminist graves. Vitriol begets more vitriol and we (the sane ones on either side) all need to work together to stop it.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 04:55 PM
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There is a substantial agreement for the sociological and economic benefit of child support to society and that its non-existence would be a detriment to society. That being said, I can also agree that forced carrying through with a birth and thus forced fatherhood is also a negative thing. Maybe then we need to regulate agreement between both parties for the birth to be carried to completion. If one party agrees to the birth but the other doesn’t, then the dissenting party can receive an uncont…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 04:52 PM
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Awesome! This is a great example of a valuable intersectional goal :)
/r/MensRights10/06/19 04:33 PM
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While I agree that some or even most feminists are not marketing the issues they are trying to resolve in the most civil of manners, maybe try to be the bigger person and try to bring civility back to the discussion?
/r/MensRights10/06/19 04:25 PM
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How is “but men are women” not inherently transphobic and “drag queens are beautiful” not inherently belittling of drag queens?
/r/MensRights10/06/19 04:21 PM
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So in the same way you support men’s rights and don’t constantly discuss politics at the table, why not ask them for the same respect and civility. Maybe common ground can be gained through promoting friendly vibes and enjoying some D&D together??
/r/MensRights10/06/19 04:00 PM
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Maybe those tables are a way to find common ground and maturely discuss concerns they might raise?
/r/MensRights10/06/19 03:48 PM
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Well, to be fair, I don’t think the “Gamer Girl” phenomenon is really a feminist outcome
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:59 PM
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Yes, this is the tricky aspect of legislation and a fundamentally significant observation when weighing the value of laws and cultural norms. An unfortunate characteristic of humanity is that societies don’t necessarily pursue the most morally just acts because they are axiomatically morally just. Further, axiomatic moral justs can exist on both side that are difficult to reconcile. For example: The Union argued that slavery is an immoral absolute. One can’t really argue against this. The Confed…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:56 PM
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Hey now, let’s keep the female Fox pundits out of this 😝
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:33 PM
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Good.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:30 PM
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Of course I hope so but that’s not why I’m on this subreddit, I’m here to support Men’s Rights. That being said, if I see posts that are attacking a minority group for no good reason other than yucks, I’m going to call this out as an issue. A healthy community is not one that blindly supports all of its members but one that looks to build the moral good of its people. As such, unbecoming acts like the OP post need to be called out as such.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:26 PM
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Trust is that pesky destroyer of relationships that both parties need to work on. This is not inherent to heterosexual relationships nor the gender of the partner. I agree that men typically need to be worried about that trust being broken due to financial reasons but women also are concerned with this topic due to sexual reasons. I’m confused about your last couple of sentences. You approach a MGTOW-esque stance but then backtrack and say you’ll actually wait to find a good female companion. In…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:16 PM
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I care about my society as a whole and when I see people suffering I want to help. Now that I am at a point of essentially self actualization from the help of feminism, I’d like to provide assistance in another area, that as a trans woman, I have some ties with and conceivably can assist. Profit to be gained from my lived experiences: Backroom knowledge on why MensRights isn’t taken as seriously as it should. Potential tools to market these issues better. Operant differences between male and fem…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:05 PM
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They can work through physical/emotional difficulties together, they can both work towards rewarding careers to financially support a family, they can both be leaders in their community, etc. etc. etc.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 01:56 PM
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I’m reaching out to this community and all you are trying to do is brand me as the same you were branded by feminists. Vitriol only begets more vitriol so let’s try to make common ground and see where we as people can work together.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 01:51 PM
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That’s totally fair and I’ll redact my comment regarding ED meds. Thank you for the reply! :) Still, the RAND institutes analysis helped determine the Pentagons stance until our reactionary president decided to have a hot take of a twitter rant. The idea that it is valueless to have trans people serve in our military is not backed up by facts and data. Edit - Thank you for the silver stranger!
/r/MensRights10/06/19 01:42 PM
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You’re essentially discounting training/wisdom wholesale. If life was absolutely quantifiable, I would agree with you but as there are much grey area to it, qualitative knowledge is still incredibly necessary and when paired with patience and resolution, we can achieve good results. As such, my lived experience of “having seen things from both sides”, think of it as what a spy behind enemy lines provides, can help bring an understanding on why some issues are being blocked by the other side and …
/r/MensRights10/06/19 01:37 PM
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to you. Unless you can show evidence how is that going to change legal discrimination of men, for example - otherwise its something that has no value. What you think/feel something is, is often not what it really is.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 01:30 PM
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It sure as fuck does 😝
/r/MensRights10/06/19 06:31 AM
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What does this have to do with men’s rights!? This is just a below the belt kick to a minority groups that is already at high risk of suicide due to “””jokes””” and vitriol like this.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 06:24 AM
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The president’s orders were opposed to the pentagons research conducted and the conclusions it drew in 2016 from the RAND institute. This would be why when Trump first announced his hot take on trans service members the Pentagon was completely caught off guard. https://www.rand.org/pubs/research_reports/RR1530.html Edit - Thank you /u/plainwalk for correcting my knee jerk reaction on the moral necessity of ED medicine for our troops as any harms caused to them by their service needs to be addres…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 06:19 AM
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Hey guys! I wanted to post something a little different to the board. Part II of this video is honestly what drove me to seek out this community and see where I could fit in. I think if you give this video, and others in his catalog, a chance, you can see where feminism and other pro minority groups can overlap to also support progress in Men's Rights. Let's discuss :)
/r/MensRights09/06/19 10:27 PM
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So, maybe they should get a divorce and marry their best friend...?
/r/MensRights08/06/19 10:57 PM
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This is not helpful to anyone. Vitriol only begets more vitriol. There are particular issues men face that has arisen due to the sexism that has plagued our society for centuries. It is valuable for us all to understand the differences and similarities between all walks of life so that we can all work together on maximizing freedom and equality for everyone. This WONT be achieved by throwing rocks at each other.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 04:02 PM
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Someone tried to open discussion with you about a potential contradiction inherent to your stance on sodomy and it’s relation to men and you tried to dance around the topic instead of directly responding to it. Bad faith responses like that are corrosive to discourse and need to be pointed out and held accountable to.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 03:44 PM
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So then just say “I don’t condemn homosexual sodomy as a matter of a practical risk calculation inherent to homosexual intercourse that is not inherent to heterosexual intercourse.” Easy peasy
/r/MensRights08/06/19 03:27 PM
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You were so eager to condemn heterosexual sodomy but stopped short of homosexual sodomy. Why?
/r/MensRights08/06/19 03:18 PM
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So, by extension, homosexual sodomy also needs to be abstained from?
/r/MensRights08/06/19 03:03 PM
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I agree. I didn’t take into account the life long habit aspect. Also, while I agree that a male therapist will typically be more neutral, I also think that if OP were to find a female therapist understanding his concerns, his wife would be more prone to her advise by the mere element of gender alignment.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 03:01 PM
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OMG. This is soo cute :)
/r/MensRights08/06/19 02:41 PM
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Is female sodomy also something to be abstained from?
/r/MensRights08/06/19 02:39 PM
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Thank you! I think good quality people come from good quality parents and having both the feminine and masculine energies are necessary for good citizens in this country.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 02:34 PM
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It’s possible this post was just too close to home and I’m reading it the wrong way. I find that not likely given the vast amount of anti-trans comics out there that share similar formatting. Regardless, I could only think about how my dad felt when I first discussed with him the aspect that he really had a daughter. One of the first things he said to me is that he felt he had failed as a father to teach me the necessary things it meant to be a man. I told him it was actually the contrary, “you …
/r/MensRights08/06/19 02:31 PM
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Came here to also suggest therapy. I think a neutral third party who is trained in conflict resolution and relationship strengthening is beneficial to almost all relationships. She probably recognizes that she is taking advantage of the situation but will probably quickly change her ways of a therapist were to point this out to her, especially if the therapist is a female.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 10:57 AM
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Yeah, it sounds like this is more of a coordination issue than anything. There’s a reason why his and hers vanities with double mirrors exist...
/r/MensRights08/06/19 10:41 AM
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This woman is a smooth brained bitch. In the same breath she expects her man to be dashing/dapper and not see the inherent contradiction of the necessity to invest time for him to do so. Ugh.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 10:39 AM
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I disagree. I am a lefty and out here trying to learn from you guys and support y’all where I can. In fact, I have been talking with a bunch of libtards (who are the real target for WaPo) about the issues this community have raised and how the left should also focus on including these topics as a focus for making society better. The hand waving you are doing here can be disadvantageous to your cause if/when other lefties like myself were to feel as thrown in with the same scum as centralist libe…
/r/MensRights08/06/19 10:11 AM
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WaPo is centrist liberal trash. Of course they will publish clickbaity garbage like this now that their golden ticket with the Russian bs has gone stale. Maybe instead of sensationalism they could have practiced proper journalism and reported on the real concerns that this community is trying to resolve.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 10:04 AM
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My father is one of the most important figures in my life and central to my moral code which guides my life choices. In fact, him teaching me the merits/practice of self control and stoicism is what gave me the strength to transition safely and successfully. Seeing posts like this that suggest I’m trans because my father wasn’t a good man and role model is disheartening and infuriating.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 09:55 AM
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I find this stance to be contrary to the call for men’s rights. Male liberation includes the ability for a heterosexual relationship to have atypical power dynamics between the genders. Calling such a role reversal a fetish is belittling your fellow brethren that share differing relationship necessities than yourself.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 09:42 AM
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The power dynamics between dominants and submissives can be challenging to master from an emotional perspective and this woman clearly didn't put in enough thought to begin down that avenue. Unfortunately, culture and media have exacerbated these complexities with garbage like 50 Shades of Grey which essentially romanticizes non-consensual domination, i.e. rape. This role play can be very valuable to a relationship when exercised properly and outcomes as presented by the OP need to be responded …
/r/MensRights07/06/19 08:38 PM
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I disagree that feminism can't help men in any way. First of all, having emotionally/intellectually strong women (a goal of feminism) leads to deeper and rewarding relationships and a more robust and stronger work force. Secondly, as feminism has been the leading field of gender studies over the past 50 years, there is a wide breadth of academic study that has also been conducted on men's rights as to how to maximize both without harming either. For a more detailed analysis on this assertion, ch…
/r/MensRights07/06/19 07:01 PM
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Ok. Here’s a simple example for you: There is no official body that has declared quantum mechanics to be the functional representation of the subatomic world but the consensus among physicists is that quantum mechanics is the best model of the subatomic world. I’m confident you understand this concept and are just being obstinate so please stop acting childish so good faith discussions can be had.
/r/MensRights07/06/19 12:58 PM
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Of course science doesn’t work by consensus but that doesn’t preclude the existence of consensus among scientists. You’re just being obstinate to derail any potential need for learning on your end. If it’s of any support, I truly empathize with you. I wish life could be simpler and I wouldn’t have to be bothered to learn about all of the different cultures and lived experiences out there but I’ve finally grown up enough to realize that a functional and healthy society requires a well learned and…
/r/MensRights07/06/19 11:46 AM
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This is an incredibly stupid and smooth brained post. Please do yourself a favor and research the medically/scientifically agreed upon consensus on transgender or non-binary topics. To start, let me provide the Nature article on the complexity of sex: https://www.nature.com/news/sex-redefined-1.16943 That being said, if you’d prefer to discuss these sensitive and complicated topics with someone that can handle this level of bullshit, feel free to pm me :)
/r/MensRights07/06/19 03:26 AM
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Close. Some adjustments for medical accuracy. He was assigned female at birth (AFAB) but realized that he is a man after a difficult internal analysis that most of society fought him on and continues to do so. If you’d like to know more about trans topics, feel free to pm me as I don’t see it appropriate to use the Men’s rights subreddit to do so.
/r/MensRights07/06/19 01:27 AM
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Well as a trans girl perusing this subreddit, I'd say it would be hypocritical for this subreddit to not support you but thankfully the reaction I have gotten from these guys has been positive so I'm predicting it will be with open arms.
/r/MensRights07/06/19 12:59 AM
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So... what happens when the moral rules set by one individual disagree with the moral rules of this individual. How do we determine which rules are superior and resolve the inevitable conflict that will come from this disagreement? Is it possible, this guy is a bit of an extremist? Also, what does this have to do with men’s rights? This just seems more about setting autocracy as the rule of government for a family.
/r/MensRights07/06/19 12:27 AM
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I’m posting to a board labeled “MensRights” and understand that I can bring a particular set of knowledge and experience by being a woman that has passed as a male in the past. I announced this characteristic to reach out and find how that might be of assistance.
/r/MensRights06/06/19 02:55 PM
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Oh fun! This is where my lived experience of being a woman but having passed as a man for multiple years in the past comes into play! Ok anecdotal experiences of systemic and cultural disadvantages as a woman: I’m a manager of engineers in a male dominated field. I can’t count the amount of times I have been suggested to overlook a resume for the mere fact that the applicant is a woman. When I’m alone with another engineer and a coworker who hasn’t met either of us starts to talk it is ALWAYS as…
/r/MensRights05/06/19 10:16 PM
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I actually do so already IRL
/r/MensRights05/06/19 08:07 PM
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I’m not talking about rights because I believe technically speaking there are no differences. That being said, in the same way there are systemic and cultural disadvantages that men experience relative to women, similar things exist for women relative to men.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 07:15 PM
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Thank you! I’ll take a look into Foregen. I agree, circumcision should be banned as it is a form of genital mutilation. I have always considered it extremely hypocritical for people to cry out against female genital mutilation (which is of course unquestionably wrong) while at the same time turning a blind eye towards circumcision. On a side note, I’m so sorry to hear that those bastards did that to you. Even though a vagina is in my future, I still can’t help but imagine what the sensitivity di…
/r/MensRights05/06/19 07:10 PM
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I’ll grant you that I have encountered female toxicity in feminist circles. That being said, the large majority of feminists approach the field as an advocacy for equality between the genders. Remember that it’s literally only been 100 years as of yesterday that it was passed in Congress for women to have the right to vote in the USA. As such, there is still a huge amount of systemic and cultural disadvantages that women face compared to men and as such still require advocacy to equalize those d…
/r/MensRights05/06/19 06:26 PM
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I agree these are concerning topics and things I will look into. On a side note, feminism is not my beloved ideology, that would actually be humanism coming from an existentialist approach. I merely approach feminism as a tool/framework to better rights for woman and the different minority groups that feminism is currently intersecting with. I’m just looking for a way for feminism to also assist with the issues and topics that MRAs also deal with. If feminism is unable to do so, then I will do w…
/r/MensRights05/06/19 06:10 PM
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All of those examples of female empowerment are reasons why I hate most attempts at empowering women in movies. These attempts turn women into invincible caricatures usually acting as men instead of just women in that particular situation. A great example of this is Wonder Woman. She is essentially invincible (producers seem to be afraid of showing a female character in duress which is sexist in its own regard) and runs into the situation like some roided up action hero. As an example of great f…
/r/MensRights05/06/19 06:04 PM
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Thank you for the welcoming! I was under the assumption I might run into some hostility before posting here but I also run into it in feminist circles so it’s nothing I’m new too :) Anyway, I’ll provide rational reporting when necessary but mostly I try to view hostile remarks as just initial knee jerk reactions to an unknown “weird” lived experience.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 05:52 PM
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Lived experience is important when approaching subjective topics and as such I wanted to provide my background so as to offer up an idea of what experience/knowledge I can offer to the discussion.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 05:44 PM
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Wait, what is the point of men’s rights then? I thought it was to promote/resolve issues related to male inequality in the same vane feminism is attempting to do so for women’s rights. Regarding humanism, already there. That’s my fundamental approach to topics but I also realize it’s appropriate to quantize things so we can simplify and resolve things from bite sized approaches. Similar to how one can argue that chemistry is contained by physics laws but we still find value in focusing on chemis…
/r/MensRights05/06/19 03:34 PM
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