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| 2 | Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers".Why do women get to dodge the label and responsibility, whereas men don’t have any say in the matter and are automatically a bad person. Because men haven’t done a good enough job of standing up for themselves, nothing more. People aren’t going to recognize your rights unless you do a good enough job of standing up for them. That has always been true historically. Men shouldn’t automatically have parental rights and therefore responsibilities in an accidental pregnancy outside of marriage. Sitti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Why are people okay with the government being involved when child support is an issue, but want the government to stay out of it when it comes to the issue of mandatory paternity tests?Oh so you don't care that men gets discriminated against and have their while life ruined...typical sexist bias You’re completely incapable of thinking and having a civil discussion. The fact that I’m not sure whether paternity fraud, whatever that means exactly to you, should be illegal doesn’t mean I’m sexist at all. I’m for men not being legally responsible for child support unless they opt in. Or, in other words, if they don’t opt in to being responsible for the child, even if it’s their own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 12:05 AM |
| -1 | Why are people okay with the government being involved when child support is an issue, but want the government to stay out of it when it comes to the issue of mandatory paternity tests?The fact that you’re at risk of an injustice, a crime or what might be rightly a crime against you by some scumbag doesn’t give you the right to force me and a potential partner of mine to get a paternity test. I’m not sure if paternity fraud should be a crime, but it’s definitely immoral. And yes, men shouldn’t be forced to pay child support for children that aren’t their own if they didn’t know. Edit: The test isn’t what’s best. What’s best is following egoism, what’s best for your life which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Why are people okay with the government being involved when child support is an issue, but want the government to stay out of it when it comes to the issue of mandatory paternity tests?Mandatory paternity tests force individuals to act against the choice they think is best for themselves. The government forcing you to pay child support is just forcing you to abide by your prior choice to raise the child like when enforcing contracts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 08:47 PM |
| 18 | CMV: What goes on in the bedrooms of consenting adults should be none of your businessYes, consenting adults should have the right to do whatever they want with each other in their bedroom. But that doesn’t mean that absolutely everything that consenting adults do together is helpful for their life and not harmful. Like, it’s perfectly legal to pay someone to “be” your “friend”, analogous to paying for sex, but you should condemn people who should know better and the practice itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?I never said “there are many obvious upsides for high-earning men”. I didn’t even say the upsides were obvious for men in general. And I did name some upsides for the legal aspects, see my original post. Then there’s the upsides to formally committing to each other. And a prenup negates the risk of a divorce. Who knows why the case is ongoing? Maybe she has a legitimate case. How long do cases like these take in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Why Should Men Get Married?especially when there’s no upside So it’s absolutely certain there’s no upside to marriage, like it’s absolutely certain the earth is round? Be reasonable. And your example of a problem with marriage in the court system isn’t a good example. You keep on saying his wife could be potentially be paid that, but you almost certainly have no evidence to support the claim that she potentially could win. Like, maybe it’s 100% certain that she’s going to lose, and a Californian divorce lawyer with knowle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Why Should Men Get Married?Because part of how you judge the risk of a proper prenup being overturned is how often that actually happens. You look at the prenups used successfully, the prenups that were held up in court when challenged, not just challenges that make the headlines and not just anecdotal examples of proper prenups being successfully overturned. What percentage of proper prenups are successfully overturned? Do you have any examples of it actually happening? That’s part of how you know how trustworthy the cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Why Should Men Get Married?u/the_fozzy_one Anything can be challenged. So what? How many properly done prenups are challenged? How many properly done prenups are successfully challenged? And what’s happened to that case? All the articles on it seem to be over a year old. I blocked the other guy, so I can’t respond directly to your reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?Anything can be challenged. So what? How many properly done prenups are challenged? How many properly done prenups are successfully challenged? And what’s happened to that case? All the articles on it seem to be over a year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Why Should Men Get Married?So you mean prenups can be done improperly. That’s entirely different to saying that all or most prenups can easily be thrown out as a woman can just say she was under duress no matter whether she was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 07:10 PM |
| 8 | Why Should Men Get Married?Why get married? You love your girlfriend, you want to spend the rest of your life with her and you want the legal closeness that comes with marriage. Same last name, next of kin, shared property, spousal privilege. Women initiate 80% of divorces, and with no-fault divorce, a woman can cheat on you and still take half your stuff and get alimony. Women initiating 80% of divorces doesn’t mean women are morally responsible for 80% of divorces, for ruining the relationship or whatever. I think most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns?People falsely view religion and altruism as noble. Nuns are women who sacrifice themselves for god instead of for family and children. That might have something to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 03:12 AM |
| 2 | What is more important than sex, relationships, and family?What is more important? For you, your life. And for your life, thinking and productive work. That’s how you live basically. Sex and love is extremely important, but it’s not the most important for living. It’s better for living to develop a passion for some sort of productive work, for your means of living. https://courses.aynrand.org/works/the-objectivist-ethics/ Also, sex with whom? A romantic relationship with whom? If there’s nothing more important to you, then with anyone who will have you?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentMen and women should be able to have sex for pleasure without becoming parents or giving up their ability to become parents in the future. It’s their life, their choice and they should do what they think is best for their lives. They should use birth control, but birth control isn’t 100% effective. Women should have the right to abortion until birth. Men should have the right to opt into parental rights and responsibilities until birth. Since men and women are very different with regards to proc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.For your life and happiness, instead of having sex with strangers for money, you’re better off having choosing to have sex with someone because they have your highest values, who chose to have sex with you because you have their highest values. It’s similar to how you’re better off being friends with someone who shares your values rather than paying someone to be your “friend” or being paid to be someone’s “friend”. So men and women are harming themselves in prostitution, so individuals should b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:36 AM |
| 2 | What are the benefits of marriage for women?Good thing that disagreement is irrelevant to the truth, otherwise the earth would be flat and round at the same time. He might be older, but his words are irrational here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:58 PM |
| 4 | What are the benefits of marriage for women?Your important values, like finding and committing to the love of your life, deserve your explicit recognition, like by marrying your love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:01 PM |
| 4 | What are the benefits of marriage for women?Woman gets to consciously commit to living the rest of her life with the man she loves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:17 PM |
| -1 | Women dislike passport bros because they have no equivalent option themselvesWomen dislike passport bros because some of them take advantage of women. Also, some of them have sexist attitudes to women, so they look for women in countries where those attitudes are more accepted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:14 AM |
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