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| 1 | Why don't women and men compete in sport? | TraxUK1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:29 AM |
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| 1 | What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating?It's always true. You've said you're smart, I bet you even recognised the mangled quote I gave. When you go out you still make an effort to look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 06:00 PM |
| 0 | What would you need to see/get from a woman in a relationship to feel certain that you were not being settled for, or used for resources or companionship?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:51 PM |
| 2 | What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating?You'd be amazed how often it does work. A very wise man once said when I meet a man I see not one man but three - the man he is, the man he was and the man he wants to be. Same applies to women. Focus on the last part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 10:55 AM |
| -1 | What would you need to see/get from a woman in a relationship to feel certain that you were not being settled for, or used for resources or companionship?This has clearly been downvoted. Would anyone who downvoted be brave enough to come out of the woodwork and say what they disagree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 10:48 AM |
| -7 | What would you need to see/get from a woman in a relationship to feel certain that you were not being settled for, or used for resources or companionship?I'd expect her to initiate sex about 7 times out of 10. Out of the other 3 times I'd accept 1 time her saying not in the mood, that's fair enough. You make valid points which boils down to - as a man - how do you know she's not just lonely/wanting compaionship etc. To be crude it does all come down to sex - which I think is what you were implying in your post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 10:44 PM |
| 1 | What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating?This is true. But smart people know they're smart, stupid people don't know they're stupid. Point is if you're doing cold approach (bar etc) you have to (very) quickly get engagement. Telling a beautiful woman she's beaufitul isn't going to do that. She already knows. Ask for her opinion/advice on something and say you really appreciate it. Lady thinks wow he didn't say anything about my looks and he looked at my eyes rather than my tits when he talked to me. That might get you in the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating?Of course there are no guarantees. The point is to play the odds start the 1st converation and some gain interest. Don't tell a woman something she's heard 50 times before. Tell her something different. I'm guessing from your reply you're too smart to fall for this :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:28 PM |
| 1 | What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating?In case it isn't clear, you can't follow a formula for dating success. To an extent. Best bit of advice I got years ago was figure out what the woman is mosr proud of about herself. Is she beautiful or is she smart. If she's neither obviously you're not interested. Don't compliment a beatiful woman on her looks, she's heard that a million times. Tell her she's smart. Likewise tell a smart woman she's beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill ideology give terrible advice for menPresumably some people would act the part to get a relationship and then "be themselves" when the relationship is settled. That could clearly backfire but it might work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:18 PM |
| – | From here on, the only occasion men should be giving women money is when they're availing of a hooker's service.Fair enough. So like the movie Pretty Woman. I'd assumed GFE was just an online "service" that some women would offer to lonely men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 02:56 PM |
| – | From here on, the only occasion men should be giving women money is when they're availing of a hooker's service.Girlfriend experience is a physical encounter (with a romantic element added). Not sure what you think its. I'm not sure what it is. Assuming you do this kind of work do you meet the guy in person or is it all online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 11:31 AM |
| 0 | BP is sex work positive yet fails to reconcile the fact that sex work is inherently misogynistic and literally objectifies womenYou said many men believe Trump is a genius. That's unproven - I'd assume they just voted for him because they preferred him to the alternative. That's reasonable. Did Trump get votes from women - if so why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 09:20 PM |
| 1 | "Men desire women, women desire men's desire". Thoughts?Regretting after is bad sex, no? Yes but different for a man than a woman. As a man I'd say why did I put it in her. Hence the expression coyote girl - you'd bite your arm off to get away in the morning. The sex wasn't bad, she felt nice and it ended well. A woman would say the sex was crap on a physical level but that's OK - it was bad because he dumped me after. Two different defintions of bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 09:13 PM |
| 1 | "Men desire women, women desire men's desire". Thoughts?Bad sex for the man or the woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 07:27 PM |
| 0 | "Men desire women, women desire men's desire". Thoughts?I've never used a sex worker and see it as unpleasant/unattractive. Hopefully I'll never need to. But I'd bet every man here over the age of about 25 has put it inside a woman (apologies for being crude) then regretted it after. It's not the desire for validation that causes that irrational behaviour it's the desire for the physical feeling. Likewise if a man pays a sex worker he's not paying for validation he's paying for that feeling. Understand this might be difficult for a woman to understan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 06:54 PM |
| 1 | BP is sex work positive yet fails to reconcile the fact that sex work is inherently misogynistic and literally objectifies womenMany people believe that many men believe Trump is a genius. He's clearly had a long life with some wins and some losses. The buildings with his name on didn't fall out the sky and being elected POTUS twice is an achievement. But I've never heard anyone say they think he's a genius. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | BP is sex work positive yet fails to reconcile the fact that sex work is inherently misogynistic and literally objectifies womenNow you got 20 guys - including me - wondering how men give massages and if there's any jobs going :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 05:22 PM |
| 2 | BP is sex work positive yet fails to reconcile the fact that sex work is inherently misogynistic and literally objectifies womenHence my saying I'm guessing. If you wanted to share details..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 04:36 PM |
| 2 | BP is sex work positive yet fails to reconcile the fact that sex work is inherently misogynistic and literally objectifies womenAgree with that. We each make our living however we can. That said I'm guessing your male massage is rather different to what a man would expect from a female masseure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 01:51 PM |
| 7 | If men shouldn't listen to women, then why women should listen to men?I think you've raised a wider issue of stupidity. Some people listen to advice from people who can help them get where they want to be, talking to women for dating/relationships in your example. Some people listen to advice from people who will them help rationalise not being where they want to be. It must be somebody else's fault. For example, I'm on a forum for owners of a certain car. You'd need to have had some success in your life to be able to afford the car. Few weeks back kid joined the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 01:05 PM |
| 1 | "Men desire women, women desire men's desire". Thoughts?Haha. I'm glad you thought that's what I did :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 11:50 AM |
| 4 | If men shouldn't listen to women, then why women should listen to men?That would be a bit silly on the part of the men. Last week caught a taxi back from the airport. Should be 30 minute drive but there was a nasty accident so we were stuck in traffic for 90 minutes. Stuck in the car together we started talking. I described a relationship issue I was having to the female driver. She said she'd been through the same in reverse and came out with some brilliant advice which clarified the issue in my mind. Would have been very stupid to ignore her clearly good advice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 11:48 AM |
| 3 | If men shouldn't listen to women, then why women should listen to men?n light of my recent post, where many men argued that men should listen only to male advice, I want to ask why you think those same reasons don't apply to women, and why women should listen to you at all. I'm happy to listen to anyone who I think can offer value on whatever subject. Regardless of gender Why do you think listening is gender based rather than value based? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 11:26 AM |
| 2 | "Men desire women, women desire men's desire". Thoughts?Wrong way around. Men have sex because it feels nice - even if the woman isn't attractive her pussy is. There's scale of sex but no such thing as bad sex for the man. It always ends well. There is bad sex for a woman. She accepts that because it validates her - I must be desirable because this man wanted me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Women are more sexual than menDon't know. If we have any lesbians here would be interested in hearing. I remember George Michael saying he was in a stable relationship with a man after he'd come out as gay but they both allowed each other to have casual sex, obviously with other men. I wonder if lesbians do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 03:25 PM |
| – | Women are more sexual than menAre you saying women wouldn't do the same if men would put up with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Does a woman's cheating past matter if you are the Alpha at the finish line?I have a deal breaker that I don't date ppl who have cheated or been cheated on. Understand the cheated bit why people who have been cheated on? Maybe they'd be bitter/keep moaning about their ex etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 12:55 PM |
| 0 | Do you think the number of women who preffer Big/above average genitalia (all things being equal) is propotional to the number of men with said atributes?Insecurities run both ways. My partner and I used to tease each other about getting a toy. She always said no way. One day she said OK lets try, show me what's available. Went online and not knowing any better I went to Amazon thinking they sell everything. Sure enough nice page showing various toys. She looked at the page pointed and said that one. OK, ordered. When it turned up she lifted her skirt pulled her knickers down and said let's try it right now. We tried it. After she said throw that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof.It's double standards. Women lie about rape/paternity/assualt to get back at the man. Police won't do anything, women are allowed to lie so of course they take advantage. Then women say trust all women. Having been on the wrong side of this I'd say don't trust women, but I'd probably be arrested for saying that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 02:56 PM |
| – | Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof.What opposite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 11:18 AM |
| – | Paternity fraud should have criminal liability and reverse burden of proof.Why not? Women are not angels. Couple of years back I split with my then girlfriend. She didn't take this well. 2 police officers arrived next day and said we're arresting you on suspicion of rape. The allegation she made was that I'd raped her at my house day before yesterday. I said she wasn't at my house, assume she was at her home. She has CCTV at her building so check that to verify. I was released, presumably the police found my explanation credible but needed to check for themselves. 2 da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 11:10 AM |
| -3 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?Even men tend to shame other men for that. Understand that. But what if the man wants something "unusual" that he can't do with his wife? No idea what unusual means as I'm boring sex wise - but better a guy with those desires pays a woman in a consensual commercial transaction rather than forces a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Most Women are not capable off discussing Dating, and there is only a few Women that i have met, that can objectively, rationally, and logically contribute to a Dating Discussion, but if u meet them its very refreshing.I see this in the Sub all the time, a guy makes a Post with logical, and rational arguments and Data points. Problem is women don't sleep with men for logical/rational reasons. You can never persuade a woman to sleep with you by coming out with logical reasons why she should. There's an old joke. Guy was dating 2 women trying to decide which to marry. Unfortunately they found out about each other and forced him to choose. Forced to make a decision he thought lets approach this logically. Who's t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 04:18 PM |
| 1 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?There's a video of Elon when he first made money. He said 5 years ago I was sleeping on a friends floor - now I've bought the most expensive car in the world. Rationalising is fine but he didn't go from being skint to the richest man in the world because of his parents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 12:26 PM |
| 5 | We live in the most competetive Dating Market off all time, and it isnt even close.True. But you wouldn't want a guy who's a financial idiot. He's going to steal your money and trash your credit rating. I take your point but I'd still say financial stability is important for a sensible woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 09:06 AM |
| -4 | Most men who are struggling with dating have not exhausted all options> There are moments/times in life when you can do everything right or try everything and still fail. No there aren't. If you think you've done everything right and tried everything you go back to the drawing board and figure out what you did wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:57 PM |
| 1 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?> Like asking Elon about how to become rich. Step one - have rich parents. This is going off topic but do you honestly believe Elon is only rich because of his parents? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?OK. Apologies for responding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:06 PM |
| 1 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?> why is male advice supposed to be so much more valuable than female advice? Is it? If I was struggling with dating I'd want advice from a woman. Very last thing I'd want is advice from a man who's going to say women are all hypergamey. Then we'd sit around crying into our beers bemoaning the fact we can't get dates. Then we go home satisfied but we're still sleeping alone. If a man you were friends with asked you for dating advice would you tell him something sensible he could use? I bet you w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:02 PM |
| 9 | Most men who are struggling with dating have not exhausted all optionsBest example there's TV program called Dragons Den in the UK/Shark Tank in the USA. People pitch for investment in their business from wealthy individuals. One guy came in pitching a dating app. He said it's like Tinder but better. One of the investors said what's Tinder? Guy said it's an online dating app have you never heard of it? Investor said never needed online dating - amazing the difference money makes in your life. Savage comment but very true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 08:45 PM |
| – | Why don’t men have a body positivity movement?Fair play to him. My dad's shorter than my mum by about the same amount, mum's 6'. He never lets it effect him. Weirdest thing with height a (female) friend of mine is 5'. Her man is about 5'4" over a few drinks we started discussing height. I said your man is perfect for you - obviously she's short for a woman he's short for a man. So good match. She said oh no I'd far rather have a man your height - I'm 6' 1" Didn't understand that thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 12:13 PM |
| – | Why don’t men have a body positivity movement?Being nosey is he taller or shorter than you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:55 AM |
| – | Why don’t men have a body positivity movement?> This is why men don't have a body positivity movement. Because we don't need one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:42 AM |
| – | Why don’t men have a body positivity movement?OK but that's a woman saying society says I may not be attractive but I think I am. Doesn't matter about positivity if she's not attractive she's not attractive. A movement can't make somebody attractive A man will say society doesn't find me attractive but I can do something positive to get past that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:24 AM |
| – | Why don’t men have a body positivity movement?So what is it focused on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:17 AM |
| – | Why don’t men have a body positivity movement?Probably a bit more subtle than that. Women are attracted to men based on some combination of looks/social status/money. But women won't admit that because it sounds shallow. You can't force a woman to date a man that doesn't have at least 1 of those 3 attributes. Men date women based on looks. An ugly woman is an ugly woman. An ugly man may well have other appealing attributes. Exhibit 1 https://static.independent.co.uk/s3fs-public/thumbnails/image/2020/04/03/07/bernie-ecclestone-fabiana-flosi.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:10 AM |
| 0 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindFeminism fought for many thing, womens vote, women education/career, sexual liberation, reproductive rights, etc. Yet while it gave women the right to choose, it did not account for how men would adapt to the new normal Why would you expect a feminist to consider the interests of men? That would be like expecting an employer to consider the interests of their workforce. Obviously he wouldn't. Opposing interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:36 AM |
| -2 | Women dont need to complain about prostitutionProgressive by definition means changing things. Prostitution is legal in most places. So if a progressive had a view on the issue they would say this must be changed. Where I live prostitution is (mostly) legal, so progressives will say that must change. If a progressive did not have a view they would keep quiet. You can't be a progressive and advocate to maintain the status quo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:32 AM |
| 0 | Women dont need to complain about prostitutionI find it so funny that prostitution is sold as a way for lonely virgin guys to have sex when statistically, it’s mostly older, married, well-off men that buy them. Such men would be the best clients for a prostitute, they can afford to pay and won't hurt her. Every so often you'll hear a woman (usually identifying as a feminist) say prostitution should be illegal. Make it illegal and the woman loses these good clients. Obviously he can't afford a conviction - his wife, his employer mates down t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 08:14 AM |
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