Treehugger4422 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarray Hi, I’m a woman and I want to say that I’m genuinely sorry for what you’ve gone through. I agree with most of what you’ve said and blame it on culture as well as on some people just being evil. There are many bad women and men in the world and they tend to target kind people from the opposite gender. It shouldn’t happen to anyone but it does all the time. To me the issue isn’t “all women” or “all men” but some people just being terrible. I should know, I was abused by a man just as people in the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 04:10 AM
1	Is it wrong for men to only love based on the condition of celibacy? Also, I think you asked about girls making fun of you for being romantic. I think that (at least based on my preferences and friendships with other women) most of us are on guard around guys initially. I think what I would say is that if you aren’t dating a girl to keep romantic advancements at a minimum, up it a bit for dating, and then once you both have a stronger established connection begin ramping it up. The goal is mostly to not seem like a simp or make the girl super uncomfortable. That …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 11:37 AM
1	Debate: Men are forced to support women other than the ones that love them; the opposite is not true. Strongly disagree. Women care for narcissist men all the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 04:10 AM
2	Why women, gals don't approach guys? Lol. You don’t know my husband in real life at all and it’s not logical to ask a question and then use ad hominem to bash me. You just want to vent (which is fine) but don’t put it under the guise of “trying to learn.” You aren’t so noble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 03:32 AM
1	Why women, gals don't approach guys? Because they are told not to. My mother taught me that it was a woman’s role to be submissive, to wait on men and be a proper evangelical Christian wife who “let’s the man lead.” I didn’t listen. Nowadays I think some women are struggling against what they are taught and what they believe in. Our pasts can be very difficult to unlearn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 03:27 AM
1	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. No it’s not. I have never had this experience and I am a very strong supporter of feminism. I actually have an amazing husband whom I’ve been with for about seven years now. I never had any previous relationships or series romantic interests before him. This simply isn’t true (and it also isn’t for every feminist in my life half of which are male).	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 09:18 AM
1	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Almost as much as men? I don’t understand how that is possible. We died in other ways, not on the battlefield but at the hands of people who should have loved us, doctors who should have cared for us, and in brothels, and for masters, in factories, in mines, in labor camps, and as prisoners of war. Women were the main loot in war btw. They were who soldier’s harmed once the enemy had been defeated. Also there are things much worse than death and losing one’s humanity, being raped and sexually ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 09:14 AM
1	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Why do you all believe that men are struggling so much with loneliness and suicidal behaviors? I have researched this btw, but I want to know it from real people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 09:07 AM
1	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Hi I’m a young woman and I would consider myself to be a feminist. I think that there are still various issues that need to be fixed. For example, women tend to be believed less in health care, they are often paid less, at least in my state women get the short end of the stick in divorce, many young girls still grow up believing that they are less valuable than men (I know because until very recently I was one of those girls), we still get raped, we still get murdered more, we still feel unsafe,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 09:05 AM
–	Dating is easier for women and it's men's fault Hey as a woman I want to say that yes women are picky but it’s about things that most men can change. We want supportive partners, friendship, respect, help with life (even the little things), emotional maturity, loyalty, honesty, wisdom, stability, etc. The single girls I know don’t date many guys because they are creeps or do something rude like ghost them after a few dates. They are worried that they won’t ever find a spouse too and are so afraid that they won’t get married soon enough to hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 08:53 AM
1	Why do people bring politics into the pill spectrum when women like alpha males no matter what their politics? Ummmm, I’m a woman here so I think I’m qualified to tell you that I actually steer clear from “alphas” in every situation that I have a choice in. They make me super anxious and I hate being around them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 08:38 AM
–	Most people don't understand how SMV works because they don't understand how markets work As a straight female in a wonderful long term relationship with a man, I respectfully disagree with you. Romance isn’t a numbers game like this. It’s effort, and care, and love, and respect. It’s every day trying to imagine how someone else feels so I can help him and then showing up. Love is more fluid and always evolving. Also, I grew up with an abusive father and I would rather die than be in a relationship like the one my mom had. You’d have to force me some how by holding something over my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 08:35 AM
–	The vulnerability paradox. Also, we still have a lot to do as far as empowering women is concerned. It’s not over because there are so many women and girls in the world who still don’t feel like they are as valuable or deserve to be heard and given the same opportunities as men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 08:07 AM
–	The vulnerability paradox. I think that we need to empower men to be more emotional. However, seeing as some men don’t have much emotional intelligence, this should be taught too as there are some things that shouldn’t get as much recognition. Also, just so we’re clear I have a very emotional husband and I love it when he cries on my shoulder and we can talk about the situation. I think it’s very sweet and feel amazing that he trusts me with that. I don’t think men are whiny or irritating at all when they are sad unless t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 08:06 AM
1	Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guy I disagree strongly. My husband isn’t tall and isn’t a model. He’s also not rich and not charismatic. Most people would say he’s average looking and just a regular guy. I think he’s perfect though even as he’s gaining weight, getting white hair, and aging in general. When I see him he almost glows, his eyes are so loving and he gives the most wonderful hugs. I truly truly chose him for his personality and kindness and it’s lasted me seven years so far. Don’t believe it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 06:34 AM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Hi, I’m personally not around women like what you are describing but I have some context for why women date losers. My mom wanted commitment and marriage but confused confidence for competence. My dad was (and still is) a malignant narcissist who is extremely good at lying and because my parents married young and my mom is religious she felt really stuck. I learned from her though and got an amazing boyfriend (whom I met in middle school. I know… 😂) and we have been married for almost two years …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 06:28 AM
1	It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prize Hi, I’m a young women and I definitely agree that many men are also wonderful. I think a good partner is the “prize” no matter the gender. I absolutely adore my husband and spent a year trying to woo him before we dated (he’s very shy). It was so worth it though! He’s amazing and he’s the best part of my life 🥰	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 06:22 AM
1	Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something more Hi I’m a young women who I think most people would consider attractive in the cute sense and have some thoughts on this. First of all I think that many women find men in general unnerving because of trauma that many of us have experienced (or the trauma of our female friends and family members). They feel uncomfortable with men flirting with them in the beginning because they don’t know you and then keep you on as a friend if you stick around to not hurt your feelings even if they dislike you ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 06:15 AM