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14

if she mirrors you she likes you. If you smile and she smiles, offs are shes into you. Go up and talk to her.
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:59 PM
1

As much as you need
/r/seduction18/04/26 04:18 AM
1

You have to be friends with the guy first.
/r/seduction20/03/26 07:38 PM
2

get with the easy one and maybe she will join in
/r/seduction07/01/26 06:45 PM
34

shes laying hints left and right that shes not interested. Stop pursuing.
/r/seduction23/12/25 09:48 PM
1

Say Hi, hug them with hand around waist, if you kissed them on the first date you end the greeting with a kiss.
/r/seduction20/11/25 09:10 PM
0

if you dont make plans by the end of the first date then there is no second date usually
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:03 PM
3

Be direct and dont beat around the bush.
/r/seduction28/08/25 12:45 PM
1

I commend your reflection and effort to get rid of your hate. It mostly stems from patriarchal views of women ie most women in your life (mother, sisters) cooked and cleaned and probably didnt attend school with boys attending school and working. The best way to get rid of your hatred is two fold: 1. befriend women and 2. abstain from sex. Your viewpoint as it seems looks as though women are sex objects to you. You need to cleanse your mind and sever the connection that women are only useful for…
/r/seduction22/07/25 04:10 PM
3

you are right to leave the situation. No one wins in a fight. Id say you use your skills if people are getting hurt. Like if he laid his hands on her that would he cause for me to use force (but dont shoot up the place). all in all girls arent worthy dying for if you just met them.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:05 PM
6

I mean youve gotten through the tough part which is breaking through the physical barrier. Im not sure how Id start the convo. Entirely depends on how you portrayed yourself. Since you just met, Id call her and ask her out formally.
/r/seduction09/07/25 08:15 PM
18

Take her out on a proper date
/r/seduction09/07/25 08:08 PM
9

there are nice guys who can still create tension and “bad boy” characteristics and there are nice guys who make nice their whole personality. I was the latter for a good majority of my life. I’ve recently started doing the former and it’s been going quite well.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:55 PM
1

You said your piece now move on peacefully. If you can hit her from another angle then you can double down on the friendship, but Ill tell you now it doesnt always work in our favor
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:43 AM
2

phone sex and nudes
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:35 PM
2

regardless, cheating is cheating
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:28 PM
4

Hes the catcher not the husband.
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:26 PM
1

It depends on the woman and why she cheated inthe first place imo. I would give an ultimatum if I was the one who caught her, saying she has a week to tell him or I would.
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:25 PM
2

tldr; start producing, less consuming. start hobbies to develop practical skills, writing, have an artistic outlet (this coming from an engineer), build. stop consuming porn, media. Cook your food, dont order out. stop watching fitness motivation and literally go outside.
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:09 PM
5

Thank you this is exactly what your mindset should be OP
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:07 AM
14

jesus dark psychology > just be a friend and be the best version of yourself?
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:26 AM
5

depends on the nature. if OP acted awkward probably not but if you act aloof, maybe out your hand over her a bit more then its okay.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:16 PM
7

Nice
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:14 PM
3

for sure. Was this before the intimate stuff? Seems like bad timing to me. Youll get to the fun in no time
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:35 AM
9

Women tend to do 180s when they see potential. Take it as a compliment. Do you actually see something long term with her? In the future, if a woman tells you she wants to fuck, its your duty to wine, dine, and 69 her into a coma. You both deserve it :D PS: These commenters dont seem to understand perspective and the ones that do are a bit crude.
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:25 AM
9

she caught feelings most likely. She served herself up and you not only asked for consent to kiss, but you held hands, and then had an intimate long kiss goodbye. Shes probably thinking about marriage already. but who knows i wasnt there.
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:45 AM
2

hmm nah i beg to differ. As long as you have a more altruistic approach to sex I think learning from sex is okay. just use common sense
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:54 AM
6

Move. On. How tf does she love you if youve never been more than coworkers. She sounds too immature. How old are you two?
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:37 PM
1

what is happening right now
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:28 AM
74

Stopped reading as soon as you said you get bored. stop being a pussy and eat that shit. selfish ass
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:34 PM
1

social media, cutting hang out time and saying i got a date and such, asking her suggestions where to take your date, etc
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:45 PM
8

temporarily move on to other girls. Youll know the exact moment she figures out she fucked up.
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:40 PM
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my friend and i were really shy. we honestly got really drunk. sang and danced. spooned for abit. she got up to use the bathroom and when she got back to the bed she covered my face with her cold and wrinkly hands edit: i forgot wht the question was
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:58 AM
2

drink until tipsy and not over that point
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:14 PM
1

im a stud in college, averaging maybe 10 matches a week (im kinda picky). When im in DC, I literally get zero matches. Very demoralizing
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:52 PM
0

no it means shes married edit: wait how old is she?
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:15 AM
0

I say create the fantasy to test out her motives. For example, stay late at work when both of you are working. maybe accidentally spill something big where it needs two people to clean up but not really the third employee (send him on his way home).
/r/seduction11/12/21 08:06 AM
1

i think grabbing a drinkand heading to the show would be a great first date but make sure your friend doesnt swipe her if he hasa good performance 💀
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:24 AM
2

tldr she found someone better.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:47 AM
26

she is probably giving you space since you said you were extremely busy. confirm the date wednesday night.
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:40 AM
1

then you force yourself to lose interest. keep her on the backburner, train your game, then make a second appearance.
/r/seduction09/11/21 05:06 AM
1

two ways to go about this: test the waters by talking about sex in general, not sex between you two, movies with sex in it, etc. if she has a good attitude around it throw out the idea of a FWB. Be straightforward with your intentions and ask directly.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:22 PM
1

Fair enough I guess it only works for tailgates and college bars then.
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:16 PM
1

one thing that i want to do next time i go alone is find a group of strangers i might mesh well with and buy them all a drink to break the ice
/r/seduction21/09/21 12:00 AM
22

you’re asking for them to stake out the house if that isn’t your normal behavior lol. you should at least treat them to one date night asap see their reaction and then do it again when you do the deed
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:05 AM
2

by any chance are you talking to a 19 year old girl
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:44 PM
2

if she does reach out reject out of self respect imo
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:18 PM
1

hold your head high and go ape mode. she shouldn’t even be in your mind. the next move need to be hers.
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:17 PM
1

bruv ditch the friends immediately. can’t really control moms behavior but you can definitely call her out on it.
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:02 AM
149

if someone had told me that i would’ve 100% thought i’d be part of a trafficking ring by morning
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:44 AM
3

Perfect answer.
/r/seduction21/08/20 09:33 AM
0

This is the first solid advice I’ve heard in awhile from this sub. Nice!
/r/seduction14/08/20 04:09 AM
1

Scarcity mindset only happens if his whole world revolves around the girl. It seems OP sees potential and that’s the reason he’s talking to her in abundance. What do you suggest he do since he stated they BOTH are into texting constantly? It seems as though both of them are over investing.
/r/seduction31/03/20 04:45 PM
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Why are you spouting out bullshit. You make it sound like there’s a fucking assembly line of cocks that run through her living room. She’s obviously vibing with him. No offense to OP, but if you can convince someone to email you conversations, you’re golden (in the sense she likes you).
/r/seduction31/03/20 04:29 PM
8

Bruh if she’s emailing you she’s hardcore INTO you.
/r/seduction31/03/20 04:23 PM
0

Girls and boys are attracted to certain people at certain times. Men and women know what they want and look for exactly that.
/r/seduction17/03/20 07:16 PM
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I’m not sure how this helps anyone? Can you explain the story behind the quote? This*
/r/seduction02/03/20 03:47 AM
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