Trenned_out Archive

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2	You don't care enough: why your life sucks and how to change it. Can confirm about dating apps. I've got a 90 n-count and the majority of that is all from apps. I will say to be careful though, because over reliance on the apps can make you hesitate IRL because you're not as used to gaming girls it's almost like your brain is totally out of that mode. At least something I've noticed in myself. Apps are an amazing tool and should be utilized for efficiency IMO, just make sure you can still take opportunities as they arise.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 05:10 AM
2	You don't care enough: why your life sucks and how to change it. This might seem like I'm saying 2 opposing things but here me out, I both agree with you but also think it's too black or white of a statement. The way "friends" is often used, yes I do think you should avoiding have female friends. Even in the rare case where it's not a guy who got friendzoned and is trying to bang her yet, women will suck up your time and use you for validation and it's easy to fall into this trap. However, if you're completely aware of this, female "friends" can be beneficial…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 05:05 AM
1	You don't care enough: why your life sucks and how to change it. While I can't say the cost/benefit will be the same for everyone. I can honestly say that using gear was one of the best choices I've made, as ridiculous as that may sound to some. Now I just cruise on test only, maybe 1 blast a year or so, but for a few years I pushed it more. I really loved lifting weights (still do, just isn't as all consuming of a thing to me as it once was) and I wanted to see the gains I could get. I'll be on TRT for life and I have absolutely no problems with it. Even if …	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 04:57 AM
2	Things I've learned about women. Yep, the guys who get mad that a shorter/fatter/less muscular guy pulled a girl annoy me. It's almost the flip side of the "nice guy" who thinks they "earn" women by being soooo nice etc. The guy who thinks because he's more jacked means he earned or deserves pussy over another guy is victim of the same faulty logic and misunderstanding of the whole Sexual Market Place and how women think.	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/20 10:36 PM
9	Things I've learned about women. Yep, and just to elaborate a bit, like you said they lie so they "wont" hurt others, or this is the solipsistic hamstering they tell themselves. But the layer beyond that I wanted to mention (as this is something I put alot of thought into in/in the aftermath of a previous LTR) is that ultimately it's a refusal to accept responsibility for their actions. They don't see their action and accepting the fall out as connected. If they do something hurtful to you, they truly do not understand that the…	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/20 10:29 PM
1	I recently signed up as a sugar daddy, I learnt some things. You honestly think those girls are getting paid?? Dude... Many of them use being tagged in his posts to get tons of followers and cash in on BS instagram marketing stuff selling skinny bunny tea or whatever. On top of that they get to party on yachts/travel whatever. He's doing whatever the fuck he wants and flys some girls out and provides the party and the social media clout they so desperately want.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/19 10:29 PM
1	Tale of two brothers: firsthand proof that Red Pill ideas work and Tradcons are peddling a costly lie. Honestly I've never been off. All health markers are great on cruise dose test and I had poor natty test levels prior anyway (documented over years with may blood tests). I'm on forever lol. Quality of life thing for me.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/19 10:08 PM
1	Tale of two brothers: firsthand proof that Red Pill ideas work and Tradcons are peddling a costly lie. never stop blasting I guess is the answer to all the red pills problems. Lol funny thing is i'm basically perma-cruising for the last year and a half focusing on health. TFW name doesn't even apply anymore	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/19 08:27 PM
2	Tale of two brothers: firsthand proof that Red Pill ideas work and Tradcons are peddling a costly lie. The red pill is no armor against the fact relationships (especially marriage and cohabitation) are literally set up to fail, everything is against you being able to maintain the level of attraction for her to be a good wife/gf. Enjoy LTR's but getting the government involved and allowing her to have a guillotine over your head she can drop whenever she wants while setting the whole game up against yourself... doesn't matter how red pilled you are.	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/19 12:06 AM
1	Tale of two brothers: firsthand proof that Red Pill ideas work and Tradcons are peddling a costly lie. I agree man. I see alot wrong with today, but by NO MEANS would I EVER want to live in a ultra-conservative controlling 50s esque society. Unless I can go full Don Draper/Roger Sterling lol. There has to be a balance between that and the degeneracy we have today...	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/19 12:04 AM
3	Tale of two brothers: firsthand proof that Red Pill ideas work and Tradcons are peddling a costly lie. Yea bro martyr yourself by trying to make "the old books" work today. I on the other hand will look out for myself in a world already rigged against men. TBH in reality I think enough men being red pilled and not playing by the tradcon rules will actually benefit society more in the long run as women will be forced to actually earn a man's commitment again. If you keep "manning up and marrying these sluts" they are going to continue to act in the same manner.	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/19 12:03 AM
3	Tale of two brothers: firsthand proof that Red Pill ideas work and Tradcons are peddling a costly lie. Yep I agree. I see LTR's as temorary. Whether its a year or 3 it's time will come. Going into an LTR with a true red pill lense will mean you can push the eject button when you want or at leas realize when things are going south and leave before she begins to treat you like total shit or blindside you like blue pills would be. I think LTR's can be a beautiful thing, but the idea that has been forced down our throats that for them to be a success they must be forever... This is what fucks the who…	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/19 12:00 AM
4	Tale of two brothers: firsthand proof that Red Pill ideas work and Tradcons are peddling a costly lie. They are so delusional (especially today) she doesn't realize she is post wall. Female hamstering and solipsism combined with a society indoctrinating them that they are perfect goddesses and denying evolutionary biology (50 is the new 25!) is quite a recipe for delusional thinking and detachment from the reality.	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/19 11:58 PM
1	Are you half-assing The Red Pill? Right and part of the no LTR approach is accepting that they are gonna fall off after some time (I know, basic plate theory). For example right now I'm not in a place where I want an LTR, so I am casually dating I guess I'd say. Some girls are just sex, some I enjoy their company and we do some things that may be a bit more like what a couple does. But I know I'm not committing, you can game her good for awhile and avoid commitment but at a certain point as you said, the smart ones will walk awa…	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/19 10:35 PM
2	Are you half-assing The Red Pill? Yes women put guys into the category of hot but not relationship material too. However don't take this as an insult. I remember pre-redpill I was actually decent at getting laid quickly, but then was so confused why I couldn't keep a girl around. I was going beta and treating a girl "special" once we fucked because society told me too, lol cringe. I'm not sitting here saying I'm a male model or anything, but I'm tall, well above average amount of muscle, and am outgoing and funny. I've had many …	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/19 12:25 AM
4	Are you half-assing The Red Pill? Exactly. And I think for alot of guys they can grasp this theoretically but until you go through at least one relationship where you were red pill aware then the experience really makes you understand it. Whether it's you did most everything right but you see that relationships are essentially set up to fail because women lose attraction to you over time (or if not fail she will eventually start treating you worse) or if you slipped into too much beta over time (being too available for example) …	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/19 12:20 AM
1	Sleep is important, here are some great tips on getting sleep sleep mask and ear plugs were a big help for me too.	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/19 04:43 PM
1	Men face no wall (or do we?) There is no inherent value in life, sure. So you can have the angsty teenager version of nihilism and just say nothing fucking matters what's the point OR you can realize that this is entirely freeing, YOU assign the value to things in life. I'm in 100% agreement with you that the "good little boy, follow the rules, work hard" model is total blue pilled, plugged in bullshit. I guess the tone of your post just came off to me personally as concluding so therefore who fucking cares about striving t…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/19 04:42 PM
4	If it seems like you're getting less attention from women when you start practicing TRP - don't stop, it's working Maybe less so than some places on the internet have you believe. But self improvement in any form is going to help you attract more women. A better you is a more confident you, a more confident you is going to do better with more women and higher quality women. It is not black or white, I've gained 85lbs of mostly muscle over my near decade of lifting (and yes 5 years of that using gear). I can sure say I get alot more women now than when I started, but no being big doesn't mean girls just come …	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/19 06:32 AM
1	If it seems like you're getting less attention from women when you start practicing TRP - don't stop, it's working It's a fine line isnt it? The only relationship I had that I actually committed enough it was a true LTR, was similar. Except she didn't shut down the first time. I remember her attitude when we first started dating was summed up as "OMG I can't believe this guy likes me!" She also said one of the first things she liked about me was how funny I was and that I was seemed like a caring guy, contrasted with the first night we fucked her saying "It's like you just knew you were gonna take me home an…	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/19 06:27 AM
0	If it seems like you're getting less attention from women when you start practicing TRP - don't stop, it's working ahh the reverse gangbang, one of the more obscure porn genres. But definitely worth searching lol.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/19 06:15 AM
8	If it seems like you're getting less attention from women when you start practicing TRP - don't stop, it's working Dude I shoot myself in the foot with this so much lol. I have a female friend (inb4 can never be friends with women) who made a comment once "I figured you'd be shallow and only sleep with super attractive girls because you're such a handsome guy." No this is not a humble brag, I'm actually disappointed in myself because on one hand, nice compliment lol, but on the other hand, she was basically saying I'm always dipping down in SMV with the girls I "see." Need to get out of my own head and stop …	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/19 06:09 AM
1	False Positives I see your point but I disagree because over the long term I do not believe that to be in an individual's interest. The idea of rational self interest in capitalism is that we all interact with eachother for our best interest, yes. But to think that this applies to crony capitalism isn't taking future consequences into consideration. The idea of a free market is that I am free to make a product or provide a service, the rates people will pay (obviously along with other things) dictates the price…	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/19 05:32 PM
1	False Positives I'd argue that this is more a feature of the misguided blend of capitalism with socialist programs we have today. A more purely capitalist system wouldn't have government interfering in the economy to the extent it has with student loans. I was going to bring up crony capitalism but I don't believe that really affects the student loan crisis. I suppose unless lenders who wanted the government backed loans were the ones lobbying for the increase in federal student loans? Quite possible, although …	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/19 06:40 PM
1	Science study on low female libido hits Reddit front page. Typical advice get top comments. You just know none of these guys has ever seen "the look" from a woman. That pure unadulterated, animalistic desire to the point she's almost on sensory overload. I get down time to time that it's been a bit since I found a girl I had that level of sexual attraction and chemistry with, but fuck I can't imagine never even knowing it's real. Truly a good example of the matrix analogy.	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/19 03:46 PM
7	The Invisible War Pt3.- As Above, So Below: Brain, Frame and the Social Game This last line perfectly hits home. The past 1.5-2 years has seen my life take MAJOR hits in all "big areas" career, family/friendships and finally the lagging indicator, relationships with women. One thing I have found useful about talking to a counselor/therapist as opposed to trying to family or friends is that they at least are detached enough to give validity to my claim that I think it's rational I feel the way I do and in addition to looking inward to fix issues that have arisen during …	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/19 03:41 PM
1	I finally fucked my first 9 Yea we should all get skinny fat, broke and ugly, because a nice body, good looks and the status that money brings are just crutches. Run ugly hobo game or you're not really red pilled bro!	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/19 08:32 PM
2	Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden. Somehow, with emotional labour. This is a big issue facing men today. I know as I've moved around the country chasing new career opportunities and new adventures (meeting new ppl etc.) I have come to realize how much I miss the close knit group of male friends I once had. But the thing is even if you stay near those friends you often end up sacrificing many opportunities yet not seeing them much anyway. They get busy with work, relationships, families etc... It's a sad part of modern culture. And LOL, yes poor women. Wha…	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/19 08:05 PM
2	The Three Phases of the Seducer \| Hans Comyn I disagree on the blue pill goals. Sure he uses some language that is common with blue pills, love for example. But if I think about some of my "Best seductions" the most memorable, pleasant experiences I had with women, there was definitely something deeper there than just the bang and her being submissive/feminine. It's almost like the author uses this BP/poetic language to describe when the perfect balance of comfort vs dread is achieved with a girl. Or what Rollo calls "deep conversion" (I…	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/19 06:05 PM
1	Anyone remembers Bonecrker? Exactly. To me reading something and trying to find reasons within it to dismiss the entire argument is an extremely negative way to go through life. Not only are you only harming yourself (as you are the one losing out on valuable information) but it seems reflective of a very insecure mindset as if the person is trying to prop themselves up by putting others or their arguments down. Information should be consumed in a positive light. Not believing everything you read of course, but instead t…	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/19 08:18 PM
1	LURK MORE - or Why Some People Will Never "Get" TRP I think here you have to ask yourself if it's worth your time and mental energy to engage this fool? I know it is only human to get upset at times when we see what we perceive as faulty logic or falsehoods being stated as truth. But I think detaching and being able to laugh to yourself at his stupidity is best.	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/19 08:12 PM
4	How To Exude Sexual Magnetism I've went through this recently too. I realized it's because none of the women I was going on dates with really inspired that desire in me. Sure the burden of performance is on us as men, but we too often put the entire experience on our shoulders. If a woman isn't turning you on, helping create that desire and sexual energy you use to seduce her, don't entirely blame yourself.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/19 06:32 PM
1	Agree and amplify: why it is such an important tool "unwarranted jab" honest question do you know how to flirt? Because even for non-RP guys most of them get this... You are so concerned with looking like a pussy or validating her that you miss the entire concept. Have fun with it, TEASE HER, stop being stuck in the anger phase dude, it's bringing me down just reading these comments. She is hanging out with you, the medium is the message with women, first off she's with you second i bet these things are said in a teasing, fun, flirty tone... …	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/19 05:51 PM
3	Agree and amplify: why it is such an important tool I'm sorry but the autism in your comments here is staggering. You reek of insecurity because you're scared of "conforming to her reality" and instead you think you're supposed to come down aggressively and put her in per place. I feel like this shows a complete lack of RP concepts. Sure bro you can "win" by getting angry and telling her she's wrong. In reality you are just unable to overcome your own emotions to manipulate the situation to the outcome you want.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/19 05:46 PM
2	30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do? Had two different lawyers tell me I'd win on appeal but the thing is all that does is send it back to the school so they redo the process and correct the ways in which they violated your rights. I don't fucking trust those cucks enough to spend 20k (when I already was 8500 in the hole) on it in addition to possibly extending my "suspension." Since temporary restraining orders are issued to allow guys to continue attending classes while the courts sort these things out, that doesn't help me. Sinc…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/19 08:25 PM
2	30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do? Yea it's fucked man. They "suspended" me for 2 years once I finished school, essentially I have to jump through hoops (writing about these shit show youtube videos about women being harassed, some feminist book, and get evaluated by a psychiatrist) for them to give me the degree I already earned. In a profession where there wasn't a licensing exam after graduation, this probably wouldn't hurt me much because I could just apply for the same jobs and hope no one finds out. However I can't take the…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/19 09:39 PM
1	30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do? Lol wut. Yea man with my n-count approaching 100 and having gone out to bars/clubs at least once a week for years I clearly have never left the basement... The fact that I literally make a choice to go out in groups of friends and actually drink and relax, for once turn off the "I should be working towards something" part of my brain and just enjoy myself, that doesn't mean I don't know how to go out.	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/19 09:36 PM
2	30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do? Or if they feel it protects their current status, maybe they don't gain but they "aren't a slut" then.	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 06:10 PM
7	30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do? Yep, this shit almost destroyed my life too. Lowest point I ever had, times suicide seemed the rational choice. But, willed myself to go on and here I am, climbing back up out of the gutter. Consensual sex with another law student in 2017. It "got around" the school 8 weeks later. Suddenly she doesn't remember it.... What almost makes it more fucked up is I finished school but they are holding my degree until 2020 (2 year "suspension"). I drop little bits of red pill knowledge to every guy I'm…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 06:05 PM
4	30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do? I have no idea why but this just made me think of It's Always Sunny when Dennis says "Well cut up a couple rails buddy lets blast off." Entirely useless comment I am aware	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 06:00 PM
6	30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do? As opposed to spending time in real life to meet women? Come on man, sure tinder can be a time waste but if you want to meet new women it has an infinitely better cost/benefit ratio than just trying to meet women all the time by going out. In addition after 8 hours of work and 2 hours of the gym, in addition to errands and cooking, I honestly don't always have the mental energy to go out and start convos wiht random people. However I can swipe here or there at work, while I take a shit, while …	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 05:57 PM
31	Simulating the Dark Triad been "raped" HUGE RED FLAG. GTFO DUDE. Even if she really was raped and it's not some me too bullshit, she's likely very psychologically damaged by it and the risk to reward ratio for you is not good. inb4 i'm a piece of shit, but it's true.	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 05:50 PM
27	Weak men will screw feminism up. - The Sexbots Are Coming This would lead to women having to actually provide value and act feminine, earning commitment from a man and his time. The negative would be if everyone checks out and it's all sex bots forever. The positive is this really will alter the sexual marketplace towards equality. Woman no longer rule the marketplace. I personally find great delight imagining all these women getting what they deserve. Can you imagine the massive wave of depression hitting them as they no longer get validation from m…	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/19 06:06 PM
7	Sexual Selection and Existential Fear Sounds like an Atlas Shrugged style checking out of society by men. Imagine how the world would crumble if women were left in charge? Then we could return and reconstruct society as it should be.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/19 05:58 PM
3	Reminder to not assume that being alpha is not showing any signs of interest And they want plausible deniability so it's easier for them to rationalize that they weren't rejected	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/19 06:29 PM
2	When girls shift from pure party mode to preferring guys with resources Entirely agree. It's a girls past short term flings and slut moments that bother me when I'm considering her for more than just plate. I don't care about past LTR's. I mean maybe if she dated a 6'6" millionare in the past or something I would lol. But ex-LTR's aren't what bother most guys here IMO	/r/TheRedPill	25/03/19 06:15 PM
7	Enter the BDSM: How to make your first steps towards becoming her darkest sexual chapter. Also a set of under the bed restraints is the most hassle free way to get into bondage. Just leave em under their and pull the cuffs up when it's play time. Actually got me laid once in law school, a female friend brought me some food when I was hungover, she noticed the bed restraints peaking out from under the bed. The next weekend she drunkenly began talking about noticing that... Within earshot of many other girls, all of whom immediately began talking to me. Took one home that night. If…	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/19 07:38 PM
4	There Is More Than One Blue Pill Yep spot on. What makes me laugh is when purple pills argue against this with righteous indignation, "no she loves me bro!" "I picked a good one!" "I'm alpha enough It wont' happen to me!" and what they don't realize is they aren't even arguing against what your point is. Those things may all be true, you may have selected a top tier woman, you may have your relationship set up in a way where you are alpha (as alpha as one can be in a relationship) and maybe it won't happen to you... However, Th…	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/19 07:31 PM
7	That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward. This is a good point. The Chaddiest Chad (and so dark triad its scary at times lol) guy I ever met recently fell in love, got engaged, they were fighting, she left. This illustrates a point, what makes a chad is not nothing going wrong but how you react when it does. He immediately moved his side piece up to main bitch and upped the rotation of "sluts" as he puts it to include a few new ones. The ex-fiance came back around wanted him back. He fucked her a few times. Then he happened to catch h…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/19 07:17 PM
1	That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward. Great advice. I had a plate that I could tell was getting a bit distant because I had only been giving her alpha alpha alpha, drunk sex, or tell her to comeover at 9pm when i was home from the gym and ate already etc. I needed to buy some new shirts, I asked her if she wanted to come along. She LIT up and was so happy for the opportunity. Grabbed some burgers after (split the check) and things have been running smoothly again. It's awesome when you just get that gut feeling it's time to thro…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/19 07:11 PM
1	That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward. Thanks for linking to that. It really sums up how I feel after some years in the game. The thing is though all the RP knowledge along with the life experience of seeing women as they are in this current world, I wonder if I even could ever commit to a "good girl" if society did swing back to enforced monogamy.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/19 06:36 PM
4	That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward. Imagine how #WOKE girl would instantly get after Alex Jones busts inside her. hahaha	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/19 06:23 PM
2	Be her Darkest Sexual Chapter Fucked a latina girl while I had my "trump train get on board or get runover shirt on" Also post 2016 election had just begun seeing a a girl (that turned into a 2 year ltr actually) and we had a bet on the election. If Trump won I was going to fuck her doggy with my MAGA hat on her head and take a snapchat of it. lol did and many a lols were had by me and my Trump supporting friends. It's funny what they'll do when they are attracted enough to you. And if you built just the right level of c…	/r/TheRedPill	11/03/19 06:09 PM
1	Strange experience with a super hot girl last night Wow I can feel my estrogen increase just reading this post.	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/19 06:36 PM
1	Company VP Disproves Gender Pay Gap, Feminist Employees Go Crazy Didn't you know the difference in performance and thus bonus and commission is because women are held down by society and TOLD that men are better than them? Obviously OP is a bigot who isn't aware of the depths the Patriarchy has gone to to keep women down!!	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/19 06:34 PM
2	All this shit just feels pointless Lol funny you say that. I have a really good gay friend as well (conservative guy big Trump supporter actually, not flaming). And he says the same thing. Seeing his dating life it does seem much simpler. Whether it's easier hookups or more rational equal relationships with a lot less solipsism.	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/19 06:26 PM
4	All this shit just feels pointless See I'm even worse off in a way (no self pity, let me explain). I had a LTR, during it I was varying degrees of red pill aware, but definitely aware. I was truly in love at one point, however that all came and went, the thing was, the girl had her flaws and did some shitty things, but wasn't a total hoe, didnt cheat etc. I think my current detachment is because it really drove home the point that even with a "good" girl, they are gonna put you through some BS and it'll come and go. I'm not sayin…	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/19 06:22 PM
3	All this shit just feels pointless TMRL bro. This is exactly how I feel lately. High 70's n count. At this point I basically game just because. The return on investment (enjoyment I get from a lay or whatever) is really waning and I'm less motivated than ever. Also just saw your edit. I also take test (among other things) and that does influence things for sure. I think now though my enjoyment of women is separate from my sex drive even. I feel as if something deeper is going on with me and being disillusioned	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/19 06:18 PM
2	Inquiring With Intent: Engineering the Conversation to Get Laid [FR & TRP Theory] Glad to see the comments already calling this BS out. HB 9 as a tutor.... Yea that's realistic. Also I have to laugh looking at the false bravado of a kid in the first few kids of college who assume their life plans are exactly how things will go.	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/19 06:39 PM
4	You should NEVER ignore any signs of infidelity Yes agreed. A guy I now consider a good friend I had actually cucked over 4 years ago. I eventually told him but my biggest regret was not doing so earlier. He had "heard rumors" and I wanted to fess up yet let the BPD nurse cunt gf manipulate me into not doing it. I was only 22 at the time and was manipulated by a strongly BPD hot figure-competitor slut. Needless to say, today I would act much differently. I learned so much from this though. Side note: I did save screenshots from the start of h…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/19 06:13 PM
2	You should NEVER ignore any signs of infidelity This gives me hope for men finding and looking out for each other even in fucked up situations women put us in, makes me feel like there is a brotherhood. Sure you could hate him, but that's not a productive (or accurate) thought process. This Chad is nothing more than a representation and any number of guys could have filled that.	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/19 06:06 PM
4	You should NEVER ignore any signs of infidelity I've been giving this a lot of thought lately. I'm still in my 20's but I honestly do not feel capable of loving a woman anymore either. I can enjoy a woman's company outside of sex, even shit like cuddling on occasion, but I'd never be too stressed out if any girl I've fucked since the one "loving" LTR I had ended went out of my life. Even though ultimately I ended it. It is odd. On one hand it feels good to be fully rational and calculating, on the other hand I do miss that connection with a…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/19 06:03 PM
1	Wanted to share my thoughts after reading No More Mr Nice Guy The male friends thing really spoke to me. I'm 26 and lived in 3 different states in my "adult" life. I have friends who are truly some alpha, red pilled, intelligent, self aware and caring guys who I can confide in. We have helped each other talk through and process a lot of big life events. However, I don't live anywhere near them and see them roughly 2 times a year. Now in my own life journey, moving back to the area where most live, wouldn't make me happy and would stifle my personal and pro…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/19 04:48 PM
5	Wanted to share my thoughts after reading No More Mr Nice Guy We all have certain red pill concepts we can theoretically understand and grasp, but they never really "click" in the sense of truly changing our thought patterns until a real life experience hammers it home with some emotion tied to it. In regards to your "the one" thing, I never believed there was just one person out there but I did get a similar feeling of that intense connection once can have in an LTR. I didn't think she was the only person in the world who could make me fall in love, yet t…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/19 04:43 PM
2	How to delay a plate breaking Yep, buy into that book's brain washing and you end up like Aubrey Marcus. Constantly rationalizing all the emotional pain of your fiance railing other dudes and going on vacation with a boyfriend as you just "letting go of your ego" and being so #woke bro. No surprise he cites that book as the genesis of his non-monogamy journey. The book is blue pill AF.	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/19 06:33 PM
3	Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobs I understand that. I'd just say it's indicative of much bigger problems under the surface with how she views you. But check out the married red pill subforum and start implementing some of that stuff.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/19 07:47 PM
2	Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobs Start taking steps to protect your assets now. I'd consult a divorce attorney, maybe you don't yet want to totally sever ties but they can tell you how to plan ahead to mitigate damage if and when that time comes. On top of that I'd say start banging other women. You have absolutely no reason not too. Yes it probably hurts that she cares so little she is unaffected by it, but it is what it is. All you can do now is move forward.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/19 07:32 PM
2	Cues of upper body strength account for most of the variance in men’s bodily attractiveness Yea it's definitely not the physique, it's the autism that often goes with it lol. I definitely stand out, I'm 6'3 255 and have lifted for 8-9 years but I don't look freaky. Most of my best friends back from college were giant guys, talking near 500lb benches some 800lb squats and deads etc. All stupidly cartoon level jacked and lean. Despite what girls may say, they're into it, if it comes with game.... Particularly girls get a few drinks and start to listen to their instincts instead of societ…	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/19 07:08 PM
3	Some notes about how I get consistently laid when out on the town As far as pulling them home, my highest success rate is when there is a pretext of doing something not sexual, even if you both know what it is it allows her hamster to spin. I usually have some beer at my place that is only made and sold in my home state, I'll bring it up and ask if they want to try it later on if things have went well. Another one that I've used a million times is watching It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. This is my favorite comedy ever and I usually tease a girl and get her…	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/19 03:41 PM
1	Women will prove AWALT out of nowhere. Good bro! This means you are standing strong and not crumbling like the beta she took you for. Even if on the inside you do feel like shit about this, maintain the front you are putting up now. Venting on a forum like this and getting feedback from other posters can be helpful. But in day to day life don't dwell on the negative, it will make it harder to move on.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/19 08:05 PM
2	Women will prove AWALT out of nowhere. "She always loved to travel and I've been fortunate enough to provide her with it." Lol bro the blue pill provider dynamic is deeply ingrained in you bro. Why are you fortunate to give your resources away to a woman? Not putting you down, just trying to get you to reflect on little things in the writing that I found to be insightful into your mindset. I know you're hurting right now and that's ok, even red pill guys have feelings. But the test of a man is if we let our feelings control us or…	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/19 05:36 PM
5	Life is a competition Exactly this. Almost everyone giving the "don't do that routine" advice actually don't know what they are talking about either. Keep it up OP good job.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/19 05:21 PM
2	Inner game: Put in the work to become a man that feels entitled It is not advisable or necessary for most but it is entirely possible to lift twice a day in a productive manner. For example breaking your sessions up into 2 where your compound movements are done in one and isolation in another. Allowing you to use more intensity for the isolation exercises. Once again I personally have never lifted twice a day and never will, so it's interesting that you are projecting your own emotional self-identification with your "argument" onto me. Unlike you I have no f…	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/19 05:00 PM
1	You beautiful bastards Oh yea definitely a quality in a GF to brag about that shed hit her ex.... Jesus fucking christ	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 08:35 PM
2	Just another AWALT story for your reading pleasure Good luck man. It may not seem like it now but you have nothing but opportunity ahead of you right now.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 08:24 PM
0	Just don't, it doesn't work, they won't change. You are incredibly naive. Also why would you not protect yourself against a potentially life ruining outcome when all you give up is arguing on facebook? I'd say you're not giving anything up at all tbh.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 08:17 PM
26	Erectile Dysfunction Boner Party 2019: Sexual encounters in the big apple Well I now know the answer to "where do you see yourself at 40" hahaha. Just hopefully minus the erectile dysfunction.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 07:05 PM
1	Be Excellent, Then Be Gone You only have a surface level understanding of the mechanism by which side bitches benefit a relationship then. Its not overtly telling your main girl about it, that is not a good strategy. However, by having options and your needs being taken care of elsewhere, you will not become dependent on your woman. This prevents the need to force yourself to be aloof and expend all the mental energy so many here do to "stay alpha in the ltr bro" instead your ltr is set up naturally to stave off the negat…	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 06:05 PM
2	Be Excellent, Then Be Gone Yes the inherent nature of marriage and cohabitation reduces your attractiveness to a woman, its in their biology. In the past there were social constructs to reign her impulses in so women could not destroy families because their feels. However today not only are those social constructs gone, inf act society ENCOURAGES women to do this as if it will fufill their life goals.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 06:00 PM
1	Be Excellent, Then Be Gone Yep, those seeking marriage today are trying to use red pill knowledge to achieve blue pill goals. I'm not anti LTR, i think they can be beautiful things that add alot of value to your life. But there is literally no incentive to get married in this day and age. Choosing to do so is "feels over reals"	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 05:57 PM
3	Inner game: Put in the work to become a man that feels entitled no bro you're wrong! I read an article on stronglifts or bodybuilding.com and think that I know everything when I actually have no concept of periodization or the interaction between frequency, volume and intensity!! ^^ everyone else replying to your comments. lol	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 05:05 PM
1	Inner game: Put in the work to become a man that feels entitled See my above comment. Missing the forest through the trees.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 05:04 PM
3	Inner game: Put in the work to become a man that feels entitled Also don't make blanket statements when you really don't know what you're talking about. It's not black or white. There is no best rep range, there is no best split, there is no best anything. Everything is simply a tool in the toolbox to be used. All these tools interact with each other to construct what you're building (yourself). No most people don't need to lift twice a day and sure it can be very counterproductive. It can also be done intelligently. Now personally I'd never do this because …	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 05:04 PM
2	Just another AWALT story for your reading pleasure 24 banking 6 figures, about to introduce her to family and get serious. Look I get you're hurting after that long of a relationship, red pill or not we all have motions. But honestly, bro in a few years you'll want to write this bitch a thank you note. She just made your life so much better in the long term. Opened up SO many doors to you. Think of all the experiences you'll now have that you never would have otherwise. Also I'd do some self reflection, sounds like the typical sheep life path …	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 04:56 PM
1	"I found out my gf slept around a lot before we met but she told me she wasn't like other girls and made me wait months before sex, and I'm thinking of breaking up with her." End it. this is just going to eat at you, waste your mental energy and tear down your confidence as a man. Because implicitly you'll reason: -she clearly has no problem fucking guys quickly she viewed as high value -she didn't fuck you that quickly -therefore your own value of yourself depreciates ESPECIALLY by being monogamous with her when whatever Euro-chad could rail her out in an hour. If this was a plate then I'd say keep smashing because who fucking cares. But you've already opened up y…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	12/02/19 05:16 PM
1	Why do guys get into relationships with women who spent their youth fucking around? how did someone so brainwashed by feminine primary society, someone so deeeeeply blue pilled, wander into this sub when it's quarantined?	/r/askTRP	12/02/19 05:06 PM
1	Why do guys get into relationships with women who spent their youth fucking around? A real man can teach a girl how to fuck. Kinkiest sex I've ever had was in a relationship where the girl had very vanilla sex with relatively few partners. Over the course of that relationship I had some of the most wonderous kinky sex I've ever had. Enjoy committing to your used up cumdumpster because she "knows how to fuck bro" idk how you can be on this sub and buy so fully into the feminine imperative yet.	/r/askTRP	12/02/19 05:04 PM
1	How do you handle plates going on dates with other guys? Strong this. If you're asking this question you're still investing too much into these women, at least emotionally, for them to be considered a plate. Re-evaluate your thought process. I understand as a man this can be hard but eventually you get to the point you truly don't give a shit what a girl is doing when you aren't there because you are so focused on yourself (and have abundance) that it's not even a thought that crosses your mind.	/r/askTRP	12/02/19 04:54 PM
1	As a Woman the Wall is Inevitable, As a Man your Wall is a Choice Thats encouraging to hear that you still pull younger women from tinder. I'd read some things about guys saying the dating apps dried up in regards to younger women because alot set their age range to younger.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/19 04:10 PM
8	Behavioral Loops Good stuff OP. Gone through some similar things myself and really the gradual incorporation of better habits is HUGE. People burn themselves out going balls to the wall instantly, attempting perfection can be the enemy of progress. Also like the emphasis on "loops." I've thought about this often in terms of positive and negative feedback loops we fall into. That's why it's so important to get that one positive thing to break you out of a slump, it makes the next easier, and soon you are firing…	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/19 04:05 PM
2	As a Woman the Wall is Inevitable, As a Man your Wall is a Choice Just curious how you usually meet college aged girls at 30? I'm doing well right now but realized I'm pretty much always getting the 23-25 year olds, not that this is inherently a negative but would like to up my 18-22 numbers as well.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/19 10:35 PM
1	Creating competition anxiety is a huge asset to Game/pulling The female orbiter is the girl who just comes over to fuck and you invest nothing else. Beta males and sluts are the same things. A slut gives away her value (sex) too easily and a beta male gives away his value (commitment) too easily.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/19 04:30 PM
3	A story about the beta orbiter and the alpha widow I agree with this. Keeping it at 1-2 drinks and picking up the tab gives you all the positives that picking up the tab is (no not beta bux, but there are positives in a girls mind), plus you barely spend any money. Plus drinks are casual and don't give off the blue pill "omg let me take you out to dinner youre so hawt plz talk to me vibe" that a dinner date early on gives. Although in the past I usually pulled off the "I'll grab the first round you get the second" thing. You basically end up…	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/19 03:56 PM
2	Polygamy Endgame Please elaborate on this scenario. Like how did it start?	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/19 03:50 PM
2	Polygamy Endgame To be fair though OP is talking about something very different than just racking up lays. I mean I've had 22 in the past year alone which averages 2 new ones a month. But thats far from open polygamy with multiple women ya know?	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/19 03:49 PM
1	Polygamy Endgame Logically you are correct, however we all know women don't operate logically. In today's societal structure it's going to take an extreme extreme outlier to pull this off (Dan Bilzerian and the models that live with him and say they are "sister wives" for example. the thing is "the feels" will be pretty overwhelming for a girl if you are openly having 2 women live with you in a 3 way LTR. The feminist societal judgement and pressures from her friends and family will eventually be too much for …	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/19 03:37 PM
1	Polygamy Endgame Agree. I've had an open LTR (on my end) and the main girl plus a rotation of 1-2 "side bitches" with randoms thrown in on occasion was best. The side bitches were basically low level investment plates, I only put them above randoms because we'd see each other a bit more often or I'd grab a drink with them in public on occasion. This was during the last 2 years of law school which overall (besides finals) I had alot more time than I do now working full time. I had alot more fucks to give about …	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/19 03:35 PM
10	Why You Cannot be Alpha in a Monogamous LTR I know this feeling exactly. It's alpha to do what you want. However what ends up happening eventually in an LTR despite how red pilled we may be... Is we slide into betadom. Part of this is inherent in an LTR and not necessarily bad. Some betaness comforts the girl and is necessary in an LTR. Think comfort tests vs the shit tests you faced early on. But eventually odds are you slide to too beta. The LTR that was the only time I ever fell in love, looked at me like I was fucking 12/10 Chad. Like…	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/19 01:28 AM
3	Don't do this when talking to women (and how to fix it) Yep. I think the real end goal for those who want LTR's should be a "mini" LTR. Do it until it goes bad and move on. Having 6month-few year relationships and when it sours know when to pull the plug and move on. Your get the best parts of the LTR and can appreciate that genuine connection for what it is, but know it won't last. Yea it sucks when it ends, but you know it's all part of the cycle. I know for me being entirely emotionally disconnected just banging girls isn't nearly as fufilling. Bu…	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/19 01:09 AM
1	Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning) What type of location do you live in? I find in big metropolitan areas there is more "normal" girls on tinder too. Now I'm not saying the ratio is better, but there is still a good amount fuckable girls on there.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/19 12:36 AM
2	Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning) Ahh I gotcha bro. Wasn't trying to be negative, "that's nothing" just referenced the amount of time lifting is all. I think 185-200lbs you'd still easily hit those numbers and be bulked up a bit. But hey we all have different goals so whatever fufills you is what you should do.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/19 12:35 AM
1	Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning) "that time" as in when people noticed, referenced 2 years. I started 170lbs skinnyfat. Takes alot of time to fix that physique lol. I've now been lifting 8 years, definitely didn't take this long for it to be noticeable since I'm 85lbs heavier than when I started and deadlift mid 600s. But thanks for the insult bro. ;)	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/19 12:33 AM
1	Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning) Why are you getting so defensive bro? Lol. I didn't put him down but encouraged him to continue to gain. Also there is a loooooong way between 6'4 165 and "buffed up gym bro" 200lbs would allow him to fill his frame out a bit and still have that "pretty boy" type of look that hes going for. But on a different note, saying chicks don't dig jacked guys, I think that is alot more nuanced than you think. Some girls don't like it, you're right, alot can go either way depending on what they think of t…	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/19 12:31 AM
12	Beware - Oneitis Can Hit the Hardest for Alpha Men - Mindsets to Avoid It I don't think you comprehended his comment at all. Virgin model with family values is infact hyperbole to illustrate his point about qualities that are scarce and thus produce the desire in a man to invest more in that woman.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/18 06:32 AM
2	Beware - Oneitis Can Hit the Hardest for Alpha Men - Mindsets to Avoid It Bro this really hits home. I think it's alot more nuanced version of scarcity mindset. I know I'm over 70 n-count, fucked 4 different girls in a week multiple times, 2 in a day etc. It's rare I get a real emotional connection with a girl though. So when the a girl with the potential for that comes along, I have to REALLY watch myself that I don't slip back undoing years of progrses.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/18 06:31 AM
1	Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning) I'd disagree. Today almost EVERYONE has these apps. I think you're right tinder probably has a higher percentage of slutty girls but these days bumble is no better. I'd say check out Hinge, it's new enough it's more geared towards "quality" (lol) girls. I still tend to meet the best girls off tinder it's just 1 out of 100 lol. Worse ratio maybe but the talent is still there.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/18 06:25 AM
8	Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning) I'm hoping this is satire.... 7 months bro? That's nothing. Now I'm not putting down the accomplishment that putting 7 months of effort into lifting is. That's awesome keep it up. But in terms of altering your appearance to the point where your muscle raises SMV a good amount.... try 2 years minimum IMO. I've been lifting 8 years now and I think it was about that time before anyone noticed shit.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/18 06:22 AM
7	Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning) Bruh I second this. I'm 6'3 and I know once I got over 220-225 (and yes started using gear lol) I started getting objectifed by women alot more. And that meant alot more easy lays. Also helps the quality of girl you get for relationships.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/18 06:20 AM
2	Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning) Well this was a nice ego boost about my physical appearance since dating apps are my main source of my 72 notches lol. But in all seriousness it does help put things in perspective that what I consider a slump or when I start doubting myself, I need to realize how far I've come to get to this point and to appreciate my SMV instead of only focusing on how it can improve. Definitely too hard on myself at times.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/18 06:17 AM
1	Hypergamy is Monogamy Well you don't need to report to her specific times you fuck other girls. This is a recipe for disaster. If this is a girl you genuinely have feelings for, as you transition her from plate to LTR, she is going to ask questions about other girls. There's some good stuff online about how to respond to this (I'm sure in this forum) of how to answer the question without being explicit. Remember women and men communicate differently. She doesn't want to hear the information straight out. My specific …	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/18 06:04 AM
1	Hypergamy is Monogamy Sorry for the late reply, holidays have had me allover the place. Honestly I don't know, I'm torn too. I think if a girl is really giving me what I need from a relationship I wouldn't seek anything else out. As far as the girls on the side, part of me thinks that if that occurs here and there over the years even in the "cheating" context (she thinks you're monogamous) that may be less drama long term than it being open for me. But there are some potential ethical issues there, although everyone …	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/18 05:53 AM
3	How Pre-selection Affects Online Dating "online dating reeks of desperation" Lol you keep being pretentious and thinking that, I'll keep slaying tons of girls from tinder, bumble and hinge with a HUGE return on my minimal investment spent to meet them.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/18 01:53 AM
2	Hypergamy is Monogamy Yea mine really did seem to get off on it for awhile, but then here or there would bring it up in a negative way. In reality I don't think she cared but would use it to as "one in the chamber" for arguments about others things. It is really eye opening when you achieve what feels like the highest level of relationship a RP man could strive for, and are treated like a king basically in every sense of the word... Only to eventually be treated like trash. But good on both of us for ending it and no…	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/18 01:43 AM
1	Pareto and Male Attractiveness Pt.2 I agree age is not all. It is an important factor and you seemed like you could offer perspective on it given your situation. Thanks for the insight though, interesting you basically had 3 women each at the different phase in the lifecycle of modern women. Peak years, the wall, post wall	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/18 05:46 AM
6	Hypergamy is Monogamy This was in an LTR. Eventually the girl who doesn't care if you fuck other's as long as shes the main bitch will end up seeing you as beta too if you provide too much comfort or lose confidence due to other life factors. I had lost my over the top confident jerkboy game due to other area's of my life imploding. At least I took my self respect back by ending the relationship, not standing for her poor treatment anymore. In retrospect, coming out of it on the other side, I'm off to an entirely new…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/18 05:43 AM
1	Pareto and Male Attractiveness Pt.2 Gotta go with, you give me hope for when I'm 40 trying to smash 20 somethings lol. Just have come to the conclusion by (nearly) 26, that LTR's do have some great benefits in the right scenario... But in the true long term, it's never worth it how almost ALL women today treat you after a certain amount of time. Example my 51 year old player uncle sometimes thinks he should have married a girl that was 19 when he was 25 he dated for a few years... On one hadn I see that, girl was a true smokeshow …	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/18 07:14 AM
1	Pareto and Male Attractiveness Pt.2 Very interesting, and tbh fairly hopeful for my future based on the age range. I have a 51 year old uncle who regularly smashes 22-30 year old girls. Wasn't sure how realistic it was because he is an anomoly in many ways. I mean I have good game but fuck he makes me look introverted haha. If you wouldnt mind, I'm also very curious for a brief description of how you met these girls?	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/18 06:22 AM
2	Hypergamy is Monogamy This is the kind of thing that is gold but so many guys will read as being bitter or angry. Sure if you hate women that statement could be made in an "anger phase" mindset. But I can see from your comment you are truly redpilled, meaning you accept things for what they are. And honestly I've come to the same solution, I will never ever feel bad about having side bitches or constantly playing the field (of course with varying efford depending on the relationship I'm in). I mean the best LTR I eve…	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/18 06:19 AM
3	Hypergamy is Monogamy Yep. Every guy I know who has what I would consider a good RP LTR fucks other girls frequently. \ This comment may seem anger phase to the newly initiated to RP philsophy. But there is a much deeper understanding. Ultimately all relationships operate with the same parameters, from one night stand to LTR its never black or white, never different categories but a gray scale. And if they dont see you as alpha enough based on to their investment (shoutout Chateau for the rule on how much beta backsl…	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/18 06:01 AM
1	Pareto and Male Attractiveness Pt.2 "girls" now I'm not trying to be a dick but my first question here is, are 20 something girls finding you attractive or are we talked used up old bitches? Because I think alot of times the whole "peak SMV" thing gets touted as an automatic light at the end of the tunnel. Of course your SMV is much higher than women within, say roughly 5 years of your age, but what about the actual desirable women? I mean I suppose its not black or white, that if your smv at 40 is higher than at 30, it will be ea…	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/18 10:37 PM
21	Different Types of Flirting and How They Are Done (With Examples!) Bro the point isnt his specific examples but the concepts themselves. Sure some of what OP posted is shit I'd never say myself, but reading this I see many techniques I've had great success with. I say good post OP	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/18 06:36 AM
2	"Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it" more like in relation to what she percieves your SMV at and what she percieves hers at. AS I posted above. Currently with a girl whose SMV is as fucking close to a 10 as I've ever seen let alone fucked. And she has legit said she thinks I'm too good for her. Now I want to be very clear, this is not said to brag AT ALL. The ridiculousness of this is stated to illustrate how much perception plays into percieved SMV. I'd be happy to elaborate on this scenario as I sit back and finally start to enjo…	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/18 06:40 AM
1	"Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it" Whats kind of fucked is once you have a relationship like that. Liek where she will eat your ass and let you piss on her if you say if its your fetish.... Then subsequent relatioships are less than fufilling... Lol I am currently with a 20 year old girl that I classify with "fucking drool on myself hot" and I think about my ex who is now old for me lol 26, but I molded into my own dirty cumdumpster (her words lol) in bed. I guess I have alot of time to mold the new one into what I want sexually.…	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/18 06:37 AM
1	"Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it" Lol I am failing to see the point of this friend.... Shocker a girl almost hooked up with you but wasn't quite tempted enough to go full whore and cheat... If you are in the game long enough OP you're likely to be all on all sides of this equation. Do enough psychadelics and it truly helps you see the full picture.... We can all be in each part of the hypergamous equation at any different time. Just improve your SMV and game as much as possible, and detach from all women as much as possible. Cho…	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/18 06:34 AM
13	A simple way of finding out the power dynamics of your relationships, and your position in them. OP i find the fact that you applied this to family dynamics very interesting and a bit unique for TRP but very helpful. Made me analyze my relationship with my own family. Basically my Grandpa, who is the fucking definition of alpha male, my mom, who stands by me as her son no matter what, and then my one uncle who is a textbook natual with an n count in the 100s are the only family members who want anything to do with me. (would also include my grandmother but she has passed on recently, she wa…	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/18 06:30 AM
1	Women want you to win the game I think that this is true if the woman is on the fence about you, you are just a source of validation. But if she sees you as higher SMV... She wants you to fuck her until her legs shake, choke on your dick til tears come out of her eyes... and then cuddle up on your chest after and get some validation that she was a good girl. So I guess I agree with your post on the "fuck yea" point, but just wanted to say I think actually most women are capable of not just being about the chase, for the right…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/18 07:25 AM
0	Women want you to win the game I think you're being somewhat solipsistic here. "If they wanted us to win, they'd be honest about the game, its rules and how to play it." This is how a man would act, rational and direct, if he wanted another man to win the (a) game. We communicate to exchange information, women communicate for the feelings that come from that communication. ^ That is both applicable to the post I was referencing and one of the best things to think of during an interaction with a woman to shape your responses t…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/18 07:20 AM
1	Women want you to win the game Yes. This is so key, so many new guys seem to be wanting to get hobbies just to attract women. No, you do the hobby you want to do, what adds value to your life and increases your own personal happiness. Then women who enjoy the same thing will come along and look up to you. I no longer competitively powerlift but am very knowledgeable about the sport, and despite being smaller and softer than I've been in the past (tfw just TRT test levels these days), I'm still am a big guy (6'3 245ish). I ver…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/18 06:32 AM
1	When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW. "Good, then we can cuddle up at my place and watch a movie. ;)" Simple AF brah. She's hanging curve balls across the plate. Now I could be wrong, but sayign something along the lines of what I suggested would make it more clear because she's either going to eat that up and play along, or clearly show disinterest.	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/18 06:03 AM
12	Attempting to revive a relationship from the grave YES. Just put "right now I feel" in front of everything she says. And then when she feels differently (gets you back and gets comfortable) she will treat you differently. I've watched this myself and it truly will hammer home how women are entirely governed by their moment to moment emotions. I even had an ex who after being literally perfect for months when I took her back, could (occasionally) objectively realize when she had begun to not treat me as good as she had when she was trying to earn…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/18 04:09 AM
2	Passing Shit Tests: Beyond the Clever Responses This is what I'll eventually have to do. However I would like to put it off as long as possible and get a hair transplant around 30 if I made it there with anything left to salvage.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 05:52 PM
0	Passing Shit Tests: Beyond the Clever Responses I think either I chose the wrong words or you're misunderstanding. I worded it oddly with the double negative but I'm saying I will always smash other women on the side. And what I mean by governed wasn't her controlling me. I meant that I genuinely had less desire to bang side chicks when the main one was adequately fufilling my needs. The side chicks were a built in help to the main relationship actually. Because when she wasn't behaving, my attention withdrew and I didn't become needy. But yo…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 05:50 PM
1	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD Oh so (insert her drink here) is only for pretentious douches? Or AA, yea just came from my box down the street... Yea of course I'm clearly the biggest frat boy ever... (depends on your look, can make sense if you are clearly not a frat boy)	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 07:17 AM
2	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD I completely agree but also find it odd that girls actually ask this shit, in regard to the gym. Maybe it's because the only LTR's I've had I was already clearly a gym rat. So if I upped the dose or bulked etc.... It was just "omg babe you look even bigger than usual" guess my thing may be situation dependent. But I would personally not be into a woman for a relatioship if she ever questioned why I was a the gym in a way implicitly reasoning that's a negative. ' For me that is a solid next.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 07:14 AM
2	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD Had a scenario in a "never have I ever" game where a beta though he was calling me out. SAying never have I ever slept with more than 3 girls... I said "Umm do you mean in a night??? Because that's my average weekend" He was pissed but all the women present had that look of "omg he's dangerous and bad but I like it" and I ended up hooking up with one later on that night.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 07:05 AM
1	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD If you don't understand that you're autistic and just looking on this forum for copy pastes to say IRL instead of truly trying to internalize the concepts	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 07:02 AM
5	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD Dude this means you're doing everything right. Usually I tease teh girl about being sassy first. It works if either A. they are kind of being bitchy and you call them out in a fun way or preferably B. The girl is actually a fun flirty girl who can go back and forth teasing eachother. For me personally this is the perfect scenario to get plate locked in to be super into me. I am a conversationalist and that's always been my "game." I've honed that over the years to the point I tell my buddies tha…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:56 AM
5	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD This is great. I almost always "pressure flip" as well. I say, well I think it's disingenuous to know what you "want" from anyone before you get to know them.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:53 AM
3	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD " A girl who can finally appreciate me for more than my handsome face and broad shoulders."	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:51 AM
9	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD go over the top. Male stripper or something of the like.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:51 AM
1	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD I often tell girls I'm a male stripper. base teh second response off what they say. It helps if you look the part clearly lol. But for me I have a law degree so I can contrast the douchey confidence about my physical appearance with the education.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:50 AM
10	SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD Exactly. Build the attraction through AA and a bit of aloofness. It becomes very obvious if she's into you or not at that point. From there it's just a matter of experience. ' Gradually increase teh touching and if she's not into it enough to smash that night... Then go for the second or third date. Personally I have the highest long term retention rate of plates if I wait til the 2nd or 3rd meetup to have sex. It bypasses the anti-slut defense so they feel like you are a witty charming hot guy …	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:48 AM
2	Passing Shit Tests: Beyond the Clever Responses It's funny because even alot of fairly red pilled guys would disagree with this. But I will never not fuck other women on the side EVER again. However my motivation to do so will be governed by my main girl's behavior. The better she is the less likely I would be to do so. I had a one sided open LTR for a few years. And there was other stretches where I didnt' even consider fucking other women. Becasue my main girl was treating me so welll. however then when she was neglectful.... I was smashing…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:41 AM
3	Passing Shit Tests: Beyond the Clever Responses This doesn't just apply to height but any "flaw" For example, I'm 6'3 250 pounds and lean. The Redpill forum members would laugh at me having any phsyical SMV issues. however I have a receeding hairline. I'm so tall that at this point no women have ever noticed (somehow I still get compliments on my hair at a bad NW3), but I already have a comeback prepared for when my hair passes the tipping point. "I'm a 6'3 lawyer.... If I had great hair it just wouldnt be fair" douchey? sure. but that doesnt…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:38 AM
6	Passing Shit Tests: Beyond the Clever Responses EXACTLY. if you don't want to play games then you should just fuck dudes. Lol because with women that shit is ALWAYS in the subtext of a conversation. If you don't believe it is that is just because you aren't aware of what's actually going on.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:36 AM
1	Passing Shit Tests: Beyond the Clever Responses exactly. Agree and amplify is my personal favorite here. Because you don't come off as aggressive or confrontational no matter what. Better odds than any of the other typical red pill responses. of course depends on your personality. But I pull the agree and amplify off with a very high success rate.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:35 AM
4	Passing Shit Tests: Beyond the Clever Responses This is very important. I've had friends who make comments that I either say "asshole things" or just "dumb shit" and somehow girls eat it up. Well it's all about how it's said. If you say an "asshole thing"with loose relaxed body language and a smile.... Well she's gonna eat that up vs if you have a nervous tone of voice and tense body language.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/18 06:32 AM
2	Broke up with my LTR: My findings and observations. Although I don't think we are arguing complete opposite points, I think we'll have to agree to disagree. Even in a red pill aware context, I believe that men can benefit from the feminine nature of a woman being around at times. The part about not needing women when you have your close circle of friends is something I agree with after some introspection. I've moved around a few times in the past 5 years and looking back, when I had a tight circle of good male friends, all I desired from women wa…	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/18 06:26 PM
1	Broke up with my LTR: My findings and observations. I agree with your overall point. However I want to make a distinction, or perhaps just play devils advocate, about one part. When you refer to the guys who pump and dump an ex as "getting what you paid for, but for free." I think this is an overly simplistic view. Sure if you are the typical modern beta, you don't get much more from a woman than the guy who is pump and dumping (and sexually might get less). But I'm sure there are red pillers who have had LTR's who have gotten so much more out of…	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/18 05:25 AM
3	Always Assume The Worst. Protect Yourself From Getting ‘Metooed’. Happened to me too. And I see it only becoming more prevelant as mainstream society convinces women that acts they performed consensually were "actually rape."	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/18 05:07 AM
8	Always Assume The Worst. Protect Yourself From Getting ‘Metooed’. Can confirm. Was metoo'd in law school. Currently have completed all academic requirements but won't recieve my degree for two years because I'm suspended for consensual sex the girl later regretted when it got around the law school (which is an especially judgemental, gossipy tight knit environment). Didn't help that there is absolutely no due process or burden of proof in these campus kangaroo courts. A big one I'd add besides the obvious like getting an "I had fun" text making sure she got ho…	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/18 04:53 AM
5	You Don't Need a Wife, Just a Blowjob. For my personal experience this is spot on. n count nearing 100 and each 10 of those being progressively hotter HBB's than the past 10. I find myself not caring anymore about the girls I can fuck. The happiest I've been is the "good times" I had with a 7/10 LTR. truly some experiences that fufilled me on a level I hadn't imagined before experiencing them. The irony of that is that is what finally made me get the fact how "love" comes and goes. Since those feeligns eventually dissipated due to a …	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/18 06:39 AM
9	You Don't Need a Wife, Just a Blowjob. This is the best comment i've seen that expresses the "enjoy the decline" sentiment yet still doenst crossover into nihilism. I try to walk the line between the two and this was some good insight into that balance.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/18 06:35 AM
4	You Don't Need a Wife, Just a Blowjob. exactly m9-1. if there truly is a hope for things to be "fixed" on a whole societal level it will be long after i'm able to benefit from it. Same goes for most of the red pillers commenting here. And I'm only currently 25. The world has broken any optimisim I have a guess. I got #metood and it's rendered my doctarte worthless. It has forever changed my perspective on life.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/18 06:24 AM
4	You Don't Need a Wife, Just a Blowjob. hopefully if there is collapse it goes full throttle and I can live in a Mad Max type of world where i just rek all the fucking cucks and liberals doing blow drinking vodka blasting tren the whole way. If the ship is going down regardless, I want to fucking have a blast on the way donw.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/18 06:16 AM
0	Branch jumping, it happens fast. Exactly. And your post made me think of something I've been considering posting about for some time (not the situation in OP's post but related to what you said about what the husband should have been doing). What happens in an LTR after some time when you are better than any other options she has so she isnt' treating you poorly or talking to other men, but her desire to please and attentiveness has dropped off. Kind of like a step downward in relationship quality but she isn't thinking of leav…	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/18 03:35 AM
3	Jock Theory (Discussion) read the first paragraph. stopped reading then just to say the best players and also the biggest dudes i know were never good athletes in highschool	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/18 07:58 AM
1	Every man must face a huge crash to learn and strive for a better future - a lesson on AWALT, family law, and the hamster. Facing something similar after having the career I went through 7 years of schooling to build being postponed due to campus false sexual assault allegations. BRB finish entire grad program but won't get degree for 2 years because of campus kangaroo court suspending me... even though I finished school. Oh on top of that voluntarily took a lie detector test and passed every single question yet that didn't matter. Title IX needs to be repealed.	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/18 01:39 AM
-1	A Beginners Guide To Using Steroids Safely Lol at coming on and off. Death is my PCT. cruising is also less of hormonal roller coaster than yo-yoing through pct. That being said if you only plan on dabbling I think one or 2 cycles and coming off is worth while. I've been on 4 years straight and will never be completely off exogenous hormones. I have completely perfect bloodwork as well. and my quality of life is greatly improved	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/18 03:11 AM
1	Checking her phone, an alternative view on protecting your investment This is an extremely black or white assesment. Clearly you understand the red pill beyond the "beta vs alpha" guys. But at the same time fall to the same line of thinking that it's either or. I agree with you that ideally you're so alpha you never have to check and don't care. But no matter how alpha you are, if you chose to have an LTR you WILL care what she does to some extent. I have been in a one sided (my side duh) open LTR and still on (admittently rare) occasion checked her phone. Never s…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/18 04:50 AM
3	Checking her phone, an alternative view on protecting your investment Yes exactly. When it comes to an LTR this stuff makes more sense. If it's a plate... well then son you arent close to swallowing the pill. Unfortunately LTR's can do the same shit plates can no matter how hard you screen. I just mean that this level of caring or investment isn't warranted outside of an LTR	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/18 03:03 AM
1	Checking her phone, an alternative view on protecting your investment You're completely right. But on the flip side, if this is happening you want to know so you cease investing in a woman who is cheating on you. Yes she can always do it if she wants, but personally I want to know so I don't make a fool of myself and lose valuable time and resources. I will add the caveat that this shouldn't be taken to the extreme, like checking her phone constantly or something equally beta or time consuming.	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/18 02:59 AM
1	The Most Important Part Is Just Not Giving Up On Yourself Damn does this ring true lol. Some of the saddest times of my life has been when I've been getting laid like crazy. Obviously that isn't what made me sad, but it's almost like self medicating. I remember when I was mentally a wreck form the one serious LTR of my life and I smashed 4 girls in a week. I was really sad but basically staying busy to block those emotions off.	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/18 02:09 AM
5	The Most Important Part Is Just Not Giving Up On Yourself This. As someone who loves to party hard and also has put up some decent lifting numbers (400 bench 640 deadlift), no way you're getting solid gains at a decent level in either physique or strength like that. Personally I'd never be partying all the time to where it detracts from my other goals year round. But I'll be honest there are periods now and then where I let my training drop back to a maintenance amount and party a more. There's also been periods where I let training to that maintenance…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/18 01:54 AM
1	The ultimate proof you need on lifting - The 59 year old man I met at the gym. you will absolutely not be in danger of overtraining going 4 days a week. Volume, frequency and intensity all must be managed. Three sides to a triangle. Sure it's possible to over train going 4 days a week (over reach is the better term, true overtraining won't be hit by anything 99% of people do), but it's definitely not certain.	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/18 02:13 AM
2	Hamster pushed for divorce, then became jealous when ex-husband got in shape and found a younger, prettier SO Mad Men is one of my all time favorite shows as well. It has so many red pill truths yet still portrays the characters realistically, Don is alpha as fuck, yet you see his insecurities and inner turmoil. I'm sure a bunch of keyboard warriors will say thats "beta" but I think the beauty of the show is you see the reality of alpha, having your issues and insecurities, sometimes faltering, but ultimately overcoming them.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 01:04 AM
13	Know When Your Turn Is Up *no woman has any idea what they want.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 12:43 AM
2	Know When Your Turn Is Up I'm almost certain you could still fuck her but I've found myself falling into essentially saying "meh" lately too. I just don't give enough of a fuck about playing the game sometimes to really put in all that extra effort. Maybe it's because I have had girls I've found genuinely beautiful who were pleasant to be around and very into me, it makes some 7 testing me make me just walk... On one hand that level of detachment can help you but on the other hand it runs the risk of turning into being a…	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 12:39 AM
1	If you don't like being even more Inferior to Women regarding opportunities then stop watching Porn! So I've heard all of this "porn gives an unrealistic portrayal of sex" stuff... and overall I agree. But with one LTR I legitimately remember having quite a few moments where I felt like the the sex was better than porn. And I mean right down to her facial expressions and the dirty talk that I taught her... This LTR and I even made a drunken sex tape one night switching POV... To this day I have it saved and although obviously production quality isnt as good as porn.... The sex looks as good as …	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/18 12:57 AM
1	FR: Never underestimate the power of not giving her attention WTF is up with that scar. Did this bitch have a C-section before 21? lmao. Edit: Not hating on you OP, good job.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/18 12:38 AM
2	FR: Never underestimate the power of not giving her attention oh yea I agree with that man. I've dealt with that first hand. Always had decent natural game but I raised my looks SMV so high with lifting, "supps" etc, and I was frustrated why I was only pulling girls like 2-3 points below me in SMV with the occassional hottie thrown in. The past year I've immersed myself in the red pill and finally am pulling the caliber of girl I felt like I should be.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/18 12:31 AM
3	FR: Never underestimate the power of not giving her attention Bro good on you for dropping that much weight already and for the TRT. It's a long road for us tall guys to actually fill out our frames (with muscle) but trust me girls go wild over it when you do. Keep dieting and lifting man, good job.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 02:38 PM
3	FR: Never underestimate the power of not giving her attention Yes frame is huge (IMO especially for keeping girls around and managing them vs a quick pick up, although it's important in both). But it seems to me guys saying body doesn't matter have never truly stood out in a crowd or seen a friend who is actually jacked (not 170lbs soaking wet) get attention from women. I'm sure people will come back with an example of a tall jacked guy who had no frame and doesn't get pussy... Well that's a strawman argument, it's not either or. Strive to have game and ma…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 02:27 PM
2	Hitting on girls at the gym Finally made a reddit account just to post in this thread. This is something I struggled with for a long time, I lift very seriously and have never really considered hitting on girls at the gym. I definitely don't play the same game as OP directly approaching randoms at the gym, but I realized I was cutting myself off from opportunities with hot girls in an environment where I situationally had high status. This isn't some e-brag but to give context to what I mean above. I'm 6'3 255 12% bf, 4 pl…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/18 03:34 PM