TrentP1403 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	She says she is no longer attracted to me and we have never been sexually compatible, um, what? Women are like that. We had headboard banging sex the night before my ex said she wanted a divorce. I mean I legitimately worried the neighbors heard her through an open window and then 24hrs later surprised me with its just over. Go figure.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/24 09:31 PM
1	Dating Before Divorce Final I started dating right away before divorce was final. I hadn't been in the dating world for close to 20 years. I was surprised how quick it was for sex to be an option with these dates.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/24 12:40 AM
3	I (40+m) sucked in the bedroom according to my soon to be ex wife (40+F) our marriage was 20 years. I still love her we have been many decades together. How do I stop torturing myself by imagining another man pleasing her and making love to her the way I didn't? I didn't even consider myself as that great in the bedroom but I started dating and had a couple women have mind blowing orgasms and said I was the best they had in years. Every woman is different.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/24 12:03 PM
3	Ex keeping last name My ex kept my name and hyphenated it with her new husband's name too	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/24 10:42 PM
11	How do you feel about your wife keeping your surname after the divorce? Mine kept my name and hyphenated with her new husband's name. I'm glad she recognized the years together by keeping it but I also wonder what her new husband thinks always seeing my name.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 01:12 PM
2	Dating and living at home… I wouldn't think twice about it. Dating my ex back in college we both lived at home. We fucked regularly. We'd do it later at night when parents were sleeping. Many times right in the living room where no one would think we'd dare fuck. Back then only really needed a 10 minute window. Lol	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/24 01:01 AM
5	Friends with your ex wife I'm about 14 years past my divorce. We are still friends. The first few years we were kinda cold to each other but were coparenting so we made due. Every year has gotten better. We don't get together or anything but still get message from her on holidays and important dates. We were together almost 18 years if you count dating. I'm glad she's still in my life and hope to remain friends until the end. It can work if you both want to.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/23 10:35 PM
1	Sexual Frustration Some things were better some not. Was just different with someone else	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/23 06:51 PM
4	Sexual Frustration Couple months. I had been with my ex about 18 years. Was so different with someone else.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/23 02:41 PM
7	Sex while separated, do you consider it cheating? If you are just waiting for the divorce to be finalized, no I wouldn't call it cheating	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/23 01:13 PM
2	Men in your 40s dating younger women, what are you guys doing? It's amazing who will connect with you on a dating app if they think you have money. I played around with my profile once and just changed my bio to having land, going to build a house on it, and semi retired and the ages dropped by 15 years easily. I was 40 at the time.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/23 01:33 PM
2	How much time between “Let’s get divorced” and “Let’s both go fuck other people asap?” If you're in the separation phase, go get fucked but be prepared that she will too and she won't care if you find out. Now if you're both still living together and having sex once in a great while, wait.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 07:41 PM
1	If you were to remarry, who would you look for? She should be adventurous, good looking, willing to have sex a couple times a week for starters. Already has kids so doesn't want to start a family.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/23 12:06 PM
1	Did you ever feel like getting back together with ur ex? Yea, I had to do this too.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/23 06:53 PM
7	Ex Wife acting strange I think she's horney and you're her best option.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/23 06:51 PM
2	I did what you should not Lol, let them.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/23 04:12 PM
2	I did what you should not Those 2 friends kinda came to me. I didn't go chase them. I never would have thought either would have been open to it anyway. I know the ex knows about the one but not sure about the other.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/23 01:44 PM
1	I did what you should not I felt like I was cheating too the first few times even though I knew my ex was getting fucked way more than I was.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/23 11:48 AM
1	I did what you should not That's exactly the truth. Anything less and you are imagining fucking your ex.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/23 11:46 AM
2	I did what you should not Just wait until the opportunity comes to fuck one of your exs friends. That happened to me twice. Those were a couple fun ones. I made sure both of them had more than one orgasm. Didn't want them to go to my ex and say bad shit about sex with me.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/23 11:44 AM
1	I’m All Over The Place Yea it just takes some time to let go of those feelings	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/23 01:16 AM
3	STBX Wife is not telling mutual friends about her affair partner - correct record or no comment? They will eventually figure it out anyway.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/23 11:20 AM